118: The Final Marriage
Should we even get married if we don't have the final marriage in mind? Chronological Bible Plan: https://open.spotify.com/show/0zibJ95fDWFj3PsYqbkWKm?si=7oIcFeqPT-ym64-Yxgqkng&preview=none
Jun 18, 2024•32 min
The Parallel
Safe spaces to talk about sexuality within the church building and in the community have been scarce for a long time. In this show we will speak about a wide range of topics having to do with Christian Sexuality, from a biblical perspective, that does not condemn you but inspires you to want to love Jesus well with the way you live out your sexuality.
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117: Should Friends Have Input In The Dating Process? |w. Jo
I think, yes! The Bible is very clear about the importance of seeking wise counsel and that does not stop short at dating. But who is wise counsel? Should we voice our opinions on our friends relationships? Let's talk about it.
Jun 04, 2024•44 min
116: A Beautiful Burden
Your single season is not just for finding your spouse, there is also something just as important to find and it will be a waste of a single season to miss it, your God given purpose. Often times he burdens us with our purpose in the wait as well.
May 21, 2024•20 min
115: Sexual Compatibility While Abstaining
Is it possible to know someones sexual compatibility while abstaining? Luke shares 5 cues that might give you a glimpse into your future sex life. Luke's Socials : @Narrowwayman
May 07, 2024•42 min
114: Content Yet Hopeful
Finding the balance between being content but also remaining hopeful is not easy work but is so central to the life of a Christian.
Apr 23, 2024•18 min
Pausing Indefinitely In July
Yes, read that right. I wanted to give you guys some time to digest this and I explain more in this episode.
Apr 16, 2024•7 min
112: Coming Out of the LGBTQ Community
Sam speaks about his testimony and shares his hopes for other same sex attracted people and the churches role in creating safe spaces.
Apr 09, 2024•1 hr 11 min
111: Christian Dating Questions (2)
As Christian dating takes more intentionality that just judging good character. There isn't a lot of guidance on the kinds of questions to ask so I wanted to provide some!
Mar 26, 2024•20 min
110: The Sex Talk | w. Kristen Miele - Sex Ed Reclaimed
Does the sex talk even make a difference? Why is it so uncommon for parents to have "the talk"? These questions and more will be answering in the is interview with the creator of Sex Ed reclaimed, Kristen Miele! Socials: @sexedreclaimed
Mar 12, 2024•43 min
109: How Painful Will It Be
We want to please the Lord but we also wonder how painful obedience will be. The Lord leaves room for a submitted hard and also a weary soul, for grief in the growth. Socials: @theparallelpod
Feb 27, 2024•20 min
108: Setting Good Foundation | w. Keon & Destiny
Keon & Destiny talk about the positive effects waiting had on their marriage, how withholding can effect the relationship poorly, handling disagreements in marriage, and what it looks like to court a woman well! Socials: @journey2thehills Youtube/Insta/Tiktok Visual: https://youtu.be/OwvSlFMf-6w
Feb 13, 2024•57 min
107: Sex Isn't Worth It
If you marry to have sex you are setting yourself up for failure and lackluster love. Socials: @theparallelpod Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvphOgFC60T4kBS-lNNDXiA
Jan 30, 2024•17 min
106: Building Intimacy God's Way | w. CD&Melody Fabien
Saving a first kiss until marriage GASP! CD&Melody talk about how they built intimacy, built a beatiful marriage, and learned how to navigate the storms in marriage! Socials: Insta: CD Fabien / Melody Fabien / Hanging With The Fabiens Video: https://youtu.be/QElJbphj-bQ?si=-d7wBHTzT95Hb0Ig
Jan 16, 2024•1 hr 13 min
105: The Distraction Of A Promise
Sometimes we can be so focused on the arrival of a promise that we forget the intentionality and relationship with the creator.
Jan 02, 2024•18 min
104: Sappy Holidays
Here come the questions and here comes cuffing season. Lets' talk about how to enter this season with a helpful mindset!
Nov 21, 2023•19 min
103: I Want A Godly Man
How does a Godly man act? Who should I be to attract a Godly Man? Both good questions that Tamika answers in this episode! All socials: @ tamikathomas Website: tuesdaywithtamika.com Video: https://youtu.be/7mrd1b8jHxw?si=T3tmxIfDOVOdrI5A
Nov 07, 2023•45 min
102: Let Me Down Gently
Ghosting is not the move. In this episode Sonata talks about how and why to let people down gently.
Oct 24, 2023•20 min
101: Unwanted | Jay Stringer
Jay speaks about his book called Unwanted that is informed by his understanding of the gospel and his own clinical work addressing unwanted sexual behavior from a very loving and gracious approach. Jay's Info: https://jay-stringer.com/ Social Media: @Jay_stringer_ The Parallel: @theparallelpod DM "God's Plan" Godly Pleasure Event Pre-Event Call: https://calendly.com/sonata-allison/preevent
Oct 10, 2023•53 min
100: Don't Let Insecurity Decide
When we allow our insecurities to choose our romantic partners it will always leave us disappointed and unsatisfied. Link for Pre-Event Call: https://calendly.com/sonata-allison/preevent Socials: @theparallelpod Hope to chat soon!
Sep 26, 2023•20 min
99: A Single Mother's Story | Shelly
Shelly shared her woe to woman having premarital sex as well as her testimony of how turning back to God can turn a hard situation into a story of God being ever-present and his provision.
Sep 12, 2023•51 min
98: Masturbation & Self Soothing
Have you ever thought that you might be using masturbation as a coping skill? 🤯 When we understand the root of our sexual behavior it is easier to respond in healthy ways.
Aug 29, 2023•26 min
97: Does Money Make Dating Hard? | Lauren Mathues
We've all heard to words "six figures" thrown around a lot. Might there be a better goal in mind to achieve what you are really asking for? In this episode: - We talk about what you might really be saying when you say "He has to make six figures". - What might actually be more of your hearts desire -Having money doesn't always equate to financially wise Socials: @laurenmatheus
Aug 15, 2023•45 min
96: Don't Forsake Your Influence
You NEED to be here. There are many reasons the Lord put you on this earth and when you dont beleive this truth, you miss opportunities to love God, love others, and love yourself.
Aug 01, 2023•25 min
95: There's Life After An Abortion | Destanee
Destanee speaks about her abortion story and the role the Lord played in her life after she made that decision. Destanee's Socials : @powerintheprosepodcast @zestofdes
Jul 18, 2023•1 hr 2 min
94: Jesus Is Better
Than what? Than everything....yes, even sex! When the Holy Spirit reminded me of this one thing, my life became so much more peaceful.
Jul 04, 2023•24 min
93: Abuse in Christian Relationships | Ngina Otiende
In this episode Sonata speaks with Ngina Otiende about what abuse is, red flags to look for, and Ngina shares a lot of helpful resources as well. Resources below: Helpful communities and resources for those in chronically problematic marriages 1. (free) Find out if you’re in an emotionally abusive Christian marriage by taking the free emotional abuse quiz. By Natalie Hoffman, Flying Free www.emotionalabusequiz.com 2. (free) Explore the different categories of mistreatment and danger that are all...
Jun 20, 2023•1 hr 14 min
92: Godly Confidence
Your confidence can be rooted in things that will never change and truths about yourself that you may struggle to believe but will never cease to be true.
Jun 06, 2023•30 min
91: How To Love | Chat w. Nico
Sonata spoke about different skills that go into loving others romantically and platonically.
May 23, 2023•46 min
90: Marriage & Mental Health | Sarah Sorenson
Spoke with Sarah Sorenson about how she handled sharing her mental health while dating , how her now husband responded to it and how it's effected her marriage.
May 09, 2023•1 hr 8 min
89: Honor The Promise
Has God promised you something and its taking so long that you have started to question God or if you even interpreted it correctly in the first place? You're not alone. There are so many people in the bible that have experienced something similar to that and can understand the struggle in the waiting.
Apr 25, 2023•25 min
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