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High performers are often great at building businesses, serving clients, supporting families, and chasing big goals. But there’s one thing they tend to neglect: friendship. In this episode, Jay shares the story of a lonely night in a Nashville hotel room that became a wake-up call. He realized he had been leaning on too few people and needed to intentionally rebuild his support system. With the help of his coach, Jay began “re-engineering his village” by identifying the qualities he wanted in cl...
Have you ever walked away from a conversation wishing you could go back and say it differently? According to Phil Jones, that doesn’t mean you have a communication problem. You may have a moment problem. Phil, author of the bestselling book Exactly What to Say, joins Jay to talk about the word choices, principles, and preparation that help people show up better in high-stakes conversations. He shares how a simple body of work grew into a global brand, why so many people give up on their greatest...
This episode explores the art and science of building consistent habits for success in business and life. Kim Zuroff explains the habit loop (cue, craving, response, reward) and why habits are often a design problem, not a discipline problem. Key discussions include overcoming digital distractions, designing effective evening routines, and understanding the 66-day journey to ingrained habits, along with the power of habit stacking.
Donald Miller, author of StoryBrand, provides a practical guide for entrepreneurs on building a magnetic brand. He emphasizes that businesses should position themselves as the guide, not the hero, in their customer's story, showcasing empathy and competence. The discussion covers the three phases of brand building
curiosity, enlightenment, and commitment
stressing the importance of clear, problem-focused messaging and abundant content for building familiarity and trust. Finally, Miller challenges listeners to "own a specific problem" to stand out and attract clients.
Before The ONE Thing became the bestselling book readers know today, it was a much bigger manuscript, more than 400 pages long. In this episode, Jay Papasan goes back to the final stretch before publication to unpack the hard decisions that shaped the book and made it stronger. Jay shares the lessons behind what got cut, including the idea that low hanging fruit can be a distraction and how maintenance can quietly steal time from the work that matters most. Then he turns to what 13 years of teac...
When the world feels heavy, hope can feel fragile, or even out of reach. In this episode, Jay sits down with award-winning behavioral psychologist Dr. Robyne Hanley-Dafoe to unpack what hope really is and why it matters so much in difficult seasons. Dr. Robyne explains that hope is not the same as optimism. Optimism is often tied to a specific outcome, while hope is the steady belief that no matter what happens, we will find a way through. Together, they explore the psychology of hope, the role ...
When something bad happens in the world, every business leader has a difficult decision to make - the decision to speak up, or to stay silent. In the past, silence was the safest option - today, that’s no longer the case. In such a chaotic world full of conflict, inequality, and political polarization, it’s never been more important to get this question right. In this episode of The ONE Thing Podcast, Jay Papasan tackles the modern leader's biggest dilemma: The choice to speak up. Whether it's a...
A lot of talented people assume that if they work hard enough, they’ll eventually get noticed. Courtney Johnson says that’s simply not how careers work. In this episode, Jay sits down with Courtney, author of Career Cheat Codes , to unpack the unwritten rules that often separate people who get promoted, hired, and remembered from those who get overlooked. They explore how visibility, relationship-building, and personal branding shape career growth, whether you’re applying for a job, growing a bu...
Jay Papasan and Chris Dixon unpack the 411, explaining why traditional to-do lists and project management tools often fall short. They detail how this simple, one-page system aligns annual, monthly, and weekly goals, guiding listeners from vague aspirations to concrete actions. The episode also covers building consistent rhythms for daily review and weekly reflection, sharing common mistakes to avoid for effective goal achievement.
What if the biggest thing holding you back isn’t your skills, your resources, or even your discipline—but your beliefs? In this conversation, Jay sits down with Nir Eyal to unpack the hidden force behind motivation and persistence. While most people think success comes from knowing what to do, Nir makes a compelling case that the real driver is belief. If you don’t believe the effort will pay off—or that you’re capable of sustaining it—you’ll quit long before results show up. They break down the...
In this powerful episode, Julia Lashay Israel opens up about overcoming life's hardest lessons, including losing everything in the Great Recession and the profound grief of losing her son. She shares practical tools like the 411 to navigate immense pain by setting small, achievable goals. Julia emphasizes the evolving nature of purpose, the necessity of embracing failure as a learning lesson, and the critical role of surrounding oneself with a supportive community to foster unshakable resilience.
When the world feels heavy, many of us fall into the same cycle: doom scrolling, numbing out, or waiting for things to improve In this episode, Jay shares a powerful perspective shift inspired by a lesson from Mr. Rogers: instead of just looking for the helpers, as Mr. Rogers suggests - become one. Rather than waiting for change, we must act. Jay breaks down the science behind action and emotions, including the surprising research of Brené Brown, and outlines his 11 "infinite resources" - 11 way...
Jay sits down with research scientist-turned-entrepreneur David Priemer to do a deep dive into the proven science and psychology of sales. In this conversation, David shares how curiosity - not charisma - became his competitive advantage, and the foundation of his newest business, Cerebral Selling. He breaks down the psychology behind buying decisions and explains why the best sales conversations don’t start with your product. They start with the problem. You’ll hear how David used The ONE Thing...
Jay Papasan explains the science behind feeling overwhelmed, discussing the Zeigarnik effect and additive bias which cause unfinished tasks to drain mental bandwidth and our instinct to add more to problems. He advocates for sequential focus over multitasking, illustrating with examples of successful businesses and individuals who achieved exponential growth through strategic subtraction. Practical steps include downloading open loops, applying extreme Pareto thinking, and redefining "finished" to close loops and free up mental space, ultimately fostering effectiveness over mere efficiency.
Many high performers mistakenly chase productivity, but this episode argues they have a purpose problem. Jay Papasan uses the iceberg metaphor to explain that beneath productivity lies priority, and at the foundation is purpose. He shares stories from Stu McLaren and Pat Flynn to illustrate how aligning work with your "why" and defining your purpose for each "season" of life is the true path to extraordinary results and fulfillment, moving beyond just being busy.
At 19 years old, Amy Purdy went to work feeling a little run down. Within 24 hours, she was fighting for her life in the hospital. She beat the odds, and survived a life-threatening infection - but she would ultimately lose both legs below the knee as a result. What followed wasn’t a comeback story built on motivation posters. It was a masterclass in agency. In this conversation, Amy walks Jay through the moment she asked a life-altering question from her hospital bed: If your life were a book, ...
This episode explores why most people abandon their goals by February and introduces a framework for building a lasting relationship with them. It covers techniques like the "Someday Letter" for long-term vision, backward planning into 5-year and 1-year milestones, and using the "411" to break goals into weekly, time-blockable actions. Jay Papasan emphasizes the power of 30-minute weekly goal dates and daily 5-minute check-ins to stay focused, reduce overwhelm, and achieve consistent progress.
Most people don’t plan for a pivot that changes everything. For Alex Hopes, it started with a moment that stopped his life cold and rerouted it completely. What followed was a decade-long journey of saying yes to what was in front of him, even when it didn’t match the original plan. In this episode, Jay Papasan talks with Alex, founder of Zilker Bark, about how a simple dog photography project grew into massive dog events attracting thousands of people in the Austin area. They unpack the power o...
Elite athletes don’t just train harder. They recover better. Between points, plays, and games, they use small, intentional rituals to reset their bodies and minds so they can perform again at a high level. In this episode, Jay Papasan makes the case that business owners and leaders need the same approach. Inspired by a classic Harvard Business Review article, Jay breaks down the difference between habits, systems, routines, and rituals—and why rituals stand apart. Habits and systems automate out...
Public speaking consistently ranks as one of our biggest fears, but what if the real issue isn’t technique at all? In this episode, Jay sits down with Tristan de Montebello, co-founder of Ultraspeaking, to explore why confidence breaks down when we communicate and how to rebuild it from the inside out. Tristan shares his rapid journey from beginner to finalist in the World Championship of Public Speaking and the lessons that reshaped how he thinks about mastery, coaching, and performance. Togeth...
In this episode, Jay Papasan vulnerably recounts his "season of hard," detailing spinal surgeries, loss of loved ones, and professional challenges. He introduces the concept of "lighthouses," simple frameworks and support systems built from adversity to help others navigate future storms. The discussion covers reframing self-talk, recalibrating standards like "done is good," and the crucial process of re-engineering one's personal and professional support village for sustainable leadership and resilience.
This episode distills insights from a four-month study of over 400 successful entrepreneurs, identifying five repeatable commitments that differentiate those who achieve their goals from those stuck in restart mode. Jay Papasan explains how 'design' rather than just motivation or hard work drives success, emphasizing alignment, simplified focus on the 'first domino,' rigorous time blocking, defending commitments against distractions, and leveraging accountability. By adopting these practices, listeners can build sustainable momentum, avoid burnout, and make significant progress on their most important objectives.
For years, Jen Davis did what high performers are taught to do. Say yes. Move faster. Carry more responsibility. Lead at a high level and keep pushing. From the outside, her career looked like the definition of success. Then she was forced to pause. And that pause completely shifted her thinking. She had been running full speed ahead, without realizing the impact it was having on the things that matter most to her - her family. In this conversation, Jay Papasan sits down with Jen to talk about t...
Jay Papasan reflects on favorite conversations of 2025, offering a highlight reel centered on two core themes: initiating and maintaining action. Experts share diverse strategies, from using fear as a compass and defining success beyond money, to breaking down goals into "Most Important Next Steps" and embracing consistent small actions. The episode also explores the importance of self-care, processing emotions, and fostering community through regular rhythms to sustain long-term achievement and happiness.
So much of life runs on a “default” operating system—school, work, productivity tools, even your phone. But what happens when that default just doesn’t work for you? In this episode, Jay Papasan sits down with BestSelf Co. founder Cathryn Lavery to talk about being diagnosed with ADHD at 31, realizing she was a “Mac forced to run PC software,” and how she began designing systems that actually matched her brain. Cathryn shares the INCUP framework (interest, novelty, challenge, urgency, passion) a...
In this episode, Jay Papasan reveals his "secret shelf" of 10 highly recommended books that have profoundly influenced him as a writer and entrepreneur. He delves into titles like "The War of Art" for battling creative resistance, Peter Drucker's "Managing Oneself" for personal mastery, and Morgan Housel's "The Psychology of Money" for financial clarity. Jay also highlights insights on stoicism, effective marketing, strategic giving, and simple investing, concluding with a challenge to identify the one book needed for your current season of life.
Behavioral psychologist Dr. Robyne Hanley-Dafoe explains why high performers are uniquely vulnerable to burnout, calling it "the curse of the strong." She and Jay Papasan discuss how burnout isn't just about workload but also losing agency, misaligning with values, and ignoring early signs. The episode provides compassionate strategies for prevention, restoration, and regaining control through daily decisions, intentional pauses, and value-based prioritization.
We all want to make a difference — but how do you start giving when life already feels full? In this solo episode, Jay Papasan shares his personal “5 Step Giving Framework,” a simple and strategic way to turn good intentions into consistent action. Drawing from research, experience, and years of purposeful practice with his wife, Wendy, Jay outlines how gratitude, time, money, leadership, and wealth form a natural progression in becoming a generous, fulfilled person. You’ll hear stories of every...
Jay Papasan shares a personal story about the perpetual postponement of adopting a second dog, illustrating the universal struggle of waiting for ideal timing. He delves into two mental pitfalls: the Planning Fallacy, where we underestimate task duration, and the "Yes, Damn" Effect, where we overcommit to future tasks. The episode then unpacks the surprising origin of Nike's "Just Do It" slogan, inspiring listeners to embrace action now and commit to their most important goals.
This 'No-Vember Special' dives into 11 practical techniques for saying no to protect your time, energy, and focus, often without using the word 'no'. Inspired by Steve Jobs' ruthless prioritization at Apple, Jay Papasan explains why safeguarding your 'yeses' leads to extraordinary results. Learn to anticipate requests, set healthy boundaries, delay decisions, and leverage alternate resources, ensuring every 'yes' genuinely counts. The episode also highlights the importance of creating 'bunkers'—physical and digital—to shield your most important work from constant interruptions.
