Sam and Paddy dive into such an important and serious topic with their guest today. How our perception of love can be shaped by things that aren't positive and how that affects how we view it as adults. Carolyn Colleen is a fierce mother of three children, author, international speaker, entrepreneur, and business strategist focused on helping others achieve their goals. Carolyn is the founder of the FIERCE Academy, an online program that helps women create life strategies that enables them to ha...
Aug 24, 2020•43 min
This week the Not So Perfect Couple talk with Elliott Davis about the things you need to do so you can truly sink into that perfect relationship. Yup, there's work that needs to be done. Elliott Davis knows that love is hard. He knows that it hurts sometimes, frustrates sometimes, and disappoints sometimes. Through a dizzying amount of trial and error, epic failures, and exciting triumphs, he also knows how overwhelmingly and ridiculously amazing love can be. He's finally found what it takes to ...
Aug 17, 2020•1 hr 17 min
In this weeks episode the Not So Perfect Couple break down a fascinating thing we can do to shift the collective consciousness and better the world. Paddy is truly enamored by this and is really intrigued by the idea that your basic action of setting good intentions creates massive impact in your neighborhood and everyone around you.
Aug 10, 2020•20 min
This week Sam and Paddy sit-down with an incredible guest who brings to light how porn may be affecting humans and our interaction. They do deep dives on whether or not there are levels to watching porn. Is being a casual watcher a problem? This episode has become a Top 10 for Paddy because it's packed with so much good content. Gonzalo Salinas is a Men’s coach, author, podcaster, and a workshop facilitator. He was born in Lima and moved to the U.S. in 2003. After overcoming an addiction to porn...
Aug 03, 2020•59 min
The Not So Perfect Couple sit down with Reformed Stripper Rob Kowalski to discuss whether waiting to have sex is important for the health of a relationship. Rob Kowalski is a self professed "reformed bad boy" with a riveting personal testimony from living as the biggest male stripper in his home state of Maryland to running the nightlife in Baltimore, the city he grew up in. He gave up the fast life life of casual sex and partying and is now the founder of the thriving non-profit, CityFam whose ...
Jul 27, 2020•1 hr 8 min
The Not So Perfect Couple are back...and this week, they sit down with one of their favorite authors, Joseph Grenny. If you guys have listened to any of the other episodes, you know Sam and Paddy often talk about Joseph and his books, and how much they are great teachers for relationships and parenting...even though they are meant to be business books. Well, in this conversation, you'll see why! Joseph Grenny is a four-time New York Times bestselling author, dynamic keynote speaker, and leading ...
Jul 20, 2020•58 min
This week the NSPC sit down and talk about creating a relationships manifesto for you and your partner. Are you in alignment? Do you want the same things for you and your family? How can you work together to design this and make sure it's followed through.
Jun 29, 2020•22 min
This episode is deep! You'll actually notice Sam getting emotional a couple of times, as they navigate the conversation of opening up and being your true self at all times. Shawn Cheadle has worked in the aerospace and defense industry since 1989, and as in-house counsel since 1997. In his current role as Operations general counsel, he serves launch operations, supply chain, production, quality, facilities, security and special initiatives. Previously, he supported government and international c...
Jun 22, 2020•1 hr 13 min
This is a juicy episode. This week, the Not So Perfect Couple sit down with Eva Clay and they were so impressed, that Sam actually ended up hiring her! Eva holds certificates and specializes in so many different things, including Couples Therapy Training (with Esther Perel), Embodied Relationship Sex Therapy, Sexual Tantra, Trauma treatment and more. You're going to love this deep dive on so many different topics. Sit down, relax, and learn!
Jun 15, 2020•53 min
This week, the Not So Perfect Couple have a treat for you. They sit down with "power couple" Dov & Ren Baron. In this episode, they dive into communication, setting boundaries, and making sure the other is happy, plus SO much more. Dov Baron is “The Dragonist”, Inc. Magazine Top 100 Leadership Speaker, #1 Fortune 500 Podcast Host, Entrepreneur Magazine contributor, Loyalty Authority. Guiding us in how to recognize and nurture dragons (the top talent) hidden in our organizations. A Dragon Lea...
Jun 08, 2020•1 hr 7 min
This week the Not So Perfect Couple go solo and recap their guests the Better Lover May. They talk about their takeaways, what they tried, what they didn't, and how it has I'mproved/impacted their love life. If you haven't tried anything from Better Lover May yet, then now's your time.
Jun 01, 2020•16 min
This week the NSPC sits down with Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt. They dive into what is intimacy, how do you get into your heart to become a better lover? How do you make yourself better FOR your partner. This is a can't miss! Intimacy Expert, Allana Pratt is a global media personality and go-to authority for those who have suffered heartbreak and are ready to live unapologetically, and attract an open-hearted, ideal relationship. Her vulnerability and courage landed her a featured weekly column ...
May 25, 2020•55 min
The NSPC sit down with the author of the best selling book..She Comes First. You can figure out what this episode is all about! It is perfect for the better lover May! This guest and episode, is kind of a big deal! Ian Kerner, PhD, LMFT is a licensed psychotherapist and nationally recognized sexuality counselor who specializes in sex therapy, couples therapy and working with individuals on a range of relational issues. Ian is regularly quoted as an expert in various media, with recent features i...
May 18, 2020•55 min
The Not So Perfect Couple sit down and have a very in depth and detailed conversation about the art of the blowjob. Fascinating tips and tricks are shared by their guest, and fair warning, they talk about butt stuff... Their guest is Patty Contenta she is the owner of the World renowned Arthur Murray Laval Dance Franchise. She began her career in the ballroom dancing community 20 years ago with the Arthur Murray Dance Studio in Montreal. As a Professional Dancer, Choreographer, Judge, Master Exa...
May 11, 2020•1 hr
The Not So Perfect Couple kick of Make Your Sex Life Better Month with the Perfect Guest, Shari James! They dive into things like erectile disfunction, premature ejaculation, and how men can do things to improve all of this. As a holistic health coach Shari works with men who are struggling with erectile dysfunction and do not want to take male enhancement pills, have taken them and did not get results or cannot take them because of side effects. She also helps men with Premature Ejaculation who...
May 04, 2020•58 min
Paddy and Sam have a very timely conversation with their guest this week, Susie Miller. They discuss keeping your relationship together during quarantine, and how COVID-19 is affecting relationships all around the world. Susie Miller is a speaker, author, and coach committed to helping high performers thrive in the relationships that matter most. For over 30 years, she has helped people uncover the deeper issues that keep relationships from thriving, and then develop the skills to win at work, s...
Apr 28, 2020•50 min
In this weeks episode of the Not So Perfect Couple Paddy and Sam go into detail about their own unresolved disagreements. The reality is, there are a number of things you'll always disagree with, with your significant other. The important thing isn't the disagreement, it is how you handle and resolve these disagreements. Paddy and Sam share the steps you need to take to handle such things, and why it's ok.
Apr 20, 2020•22 min
This week the Not So Perfect Couple sits down with their friend Csilla Veress. This conversation couldn't come at a more perfect time, since we are all trying to keep ourselves healthy. You'll love this conversation they have. Csilla Veress ND, LAc, is primary care doctor currently practicing at TrueNorth Health Center, in Santa Rosa, CA. The focus of her practice and outreach is to educate and inspire individuals to reach their highest potential, through helping them achieve optimal health, com...
Apr 13, 2020•53 min
In this weeks episode with the Not So Perfect Couple, they share with you something they've developed for a client of theirs on how to deal during this quarantine. In this episode, they dive into 5 things to keep your relationship alive during the lockdown! Truly game changing information from Sam and Paddy! SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT: The audiobook is LIVE! To celebrate, Sam & Paddy are giving away 2 free copies of it to the first people who reach out to them on Facebook and say they are willing ...
Apr 06, 2020•23 min
The Not So Perfect Couple has returned...why? Because we are all quarantined and Sam and Paddy wanted to get together and discuss what to do to improve your life and relationships with this extra time we've all been gifted. Paddy and Sam have different takes on how to approach this pandemic, how to calm the mind, how to keep yourself out of the negativity, and so much more. If you're struggling through this time, make sure to join the NSPC on this episode to feel a bit more "together" Also, make...
Mar 30, 2020•29 min
This week the Not So Perfect Couple sit down with their long time friends Sean Barberio and Melanie Erwin. If these names sound familiar to you, they are the lovely couple that Sam and Paddy married back in November. In this episode, this couple shares their long journey of blending their families, overcoming loss, infidelity, and so much more. What type of advice would they give their younger selves? How they learned to make it work, and why communication is so important. This episode is a can'...
Mar 02, 2020•45 min
Oh WOW! The Not So Perfect Couple have had some massive changes and revelations in their life. What are they? You'll have to tune in to find out. But, lets just say, it's an unexpected and welcome surprise...it's just Grand.... Tune into the episode to hear the SURPRISING NEWS! Make sure to also go get the NSPC's New Book Out tomorrow!
Feb 24, 2020•15 min
This weeks episode is a continuation from last week, the Not So Perfect Couple dive into the Stages of love. They go over 3 of them, and Sam and Paddy share how they've experienced these and what they made them do. Including Paddy being "love sick" in Eros over Sam, and getting to the airport a day early. The NSPC knows that butterfly feeling, but what about navigating to other phases? They also talk about how you should navigate them in order to know what your emotions are doing during these....
Feb 17, 2020•32 min
This all started with Paddy's frustration during a Super Bowl Commercial when they talk about the "4 Greek words for love" - there are MANY more. So, on this weeks episode the Not So Perfect couple walk you through what they really are and what they may mean to you during the different phases of love that we encounter in life.
Feb 10, 2020•22 min
This week the Not So Perfect Couple sits down with Jeff Delone. Jeff is a highly successful financial advisor and business owner in Philadelphia. He has been practicing the Release Technique since 2008 and has been a teacher since 2016. Since he has been releasing, Jeff has overcome many obstacles in his life and he shares his invaluable wisdom and experience in his work with releasing. He is living proof that there are no limitations in Life. In this episode Sam and Paddy share their experience...
Feb 03, 2020•51 min
This week the Not So Perfect Couple dives into relationship killers. They dive into the studies of Dr. John Gottman who has over 30 years of research on relationships in his relationship labs. This doctor can tell within an hour whether a couple will stay together or not, based on how they interact with each other. Sam and Paddy discuss the Top 4 definite relationship killers. These are the "Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse" - if these things are happening it is the tell tale sign that the end is...
Jan 27, 2020•33 min
Sam and Paddy have a great time with this interview. Patrick in this goes deep into his own self-deprecation, even though he does it in a joking manner, he realizes that his inner "monger" takes hold some times. Don't get us wrong, the not so perfect couple certainly love themselves, but this episode is AWESOME! Nancy has a Masters Degree in Higher Education and in Community Counseling from the University of Dayton. She is a Licensed Professional Counselor with eleven years in private practice a...
Jan 20, 2020•54 min
So, what was it like for the Not So Perfect Couple to venture to a clothing optional resort? If you tuned in last week you knew that Sam and Paddy went for both research and just out of curiosity. In this episode they dive into how they felt going into it. The nerves about not knowing 100% what to expect. If they got naked? What did it feel like when they thought people were judging them on the journey there. We think you'll be surprised hearing about their experience. We'd love to hear if you e...
Jan 13, 2020•37 min
In this weeks episode, Paddy and Sam share what their plans are over the Holiday week. What is it you ask? Well, the Not So Perfect Couple is heading to a nudist resort (clothing optional) so Sam can do some research for her new book about sex. What's their take on this new adventure? What are they worried about? Are they excited? What tips did they find before exploring this new territory? Oh, and how does Paddy pull off a "Sexy Lumberjack" look? Don't forget to check out the episode in 2 weeks...
Jan 06, 2020•26 min
Have you ever thought of diving into "the lifestyle" with your partner? What does that even mean? In this weeks episode, Sam and Paddy sit-down with a couple who identify as a couple who are into the "lifestyle" or more commonly referred to as swingers. This episode is packed full of hilarious and informative content that everyone will enjoy. Horatio and Rita Stema are a muture couple, 2nd marriage for 13yrs. Met on line. For 12 years have been openly monogamous, play with others but always toge...
Dec 30, 2019•1 hr 6 min
