The Next Man Up

Next Man Up explores the contradictions of modern masculinity, where success and self-optimization still leave many men unfulfilled. Through candid conversations, the podcast examines the tension between freedom and connection, power and purpose, fear and fulfillment. It bridges the growing gap between men and women, fostering empathy and deeper relationships. Featuring diverse guests—including authors, comedians, and even host Coral’s personal connections—the show creates a judgment-free space for men to explore vulnerability, identity, and the evolving male experience.

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Episodes

09 - Dr. Chris Donaghue: Sexual Healing, Therapy, and Personal Growth

Dr. Chris Donaghue, a clinical therapist specializing in human sexuality, discusses managing conflicts and needs in relationships, the complexities of sex addiction, and the normalization of diverse sexual practices. He emphasizes the emotional components of men's sexuality, the therapeutic use of porn, and integrating lived experiences into sexual education. EPISODE THEMES📝 📌 Journey into Sex Therapy 📌 Challenges in Sexology Education 📌 Men's Sexuality and Erectile Disappointment 📌 Clinica...

Dec 04, 2025•55 min•Season 1Ep. 9

08 - Shaun Galanos: Embodiment, Polarity & The Hero’s Journey

Shaun Galanos, a seasoned love coach, delves into the intricate dynamics of modern relationships, intimacy, and vulnerability in this insightful conversation. He shares his journey from driving a taxi in San Francisco to becoming a renowned love coach, including his experiences as an erotic masseur. EPISODE THEMES📝 📌 Challenges in Modern Dating Dynamics 📌 Understanding Human Connection and Rejection 📌 Shaun’s Experience as an Erotic Masseuse 📌 Relationship Equanimity & Who Pays for the ...

Nov 13, 2025•1 hr 27 min•Season 1Ep. 6

07 - Adrian Grenier: From Hollywood to Healing and Family

In this heartfelt episode, Adrian opens up about his struggles with family ideals, personal identity, and emotional repression during his early years. He reflects on his tumultuous relationship with his father and the impact of his feminist mother's influence. Adrian recounts the making of his documentary 'Shot in the Dark,' a raw exploration of fatherhood. The conversation shifts to his period of personal transformation, exploring the significance of grounding through nature and meaningful men'...

Oct 30, 2025•1 hr 20 min•Season 1Ep. 7

06 - Stirling Cooper: The Psychology of Attraction

In this candid conversation, former high-class male companion and adult film performer Stirling Cooper discusses the intricacies of sexual dynamics, seduction, and the importance of psychological insight in sexual relationships. Sterling shares his journey from being a male escort to becoming a YouTuber and sex advisor, offering valuable advice on customer satisfaction, intimacy, and the differences between sex work and real-world relationships. EPISODE THEMES📝 📌 Techniques and Tips for Better...

Oct 16, 2025•1 hr 20 min•Season 1Ep. 6

05 - Nicholas Velotta: Exploring The Dynamics of Modern Masculinity

In this episode, the host speaks with Nicholas Velotta, a relationship scientist and sexologist, about the complexities of modern masculinity. They discuss the stereotypical ideas of strength and leadership associated with masculinity, the lack of evolution compared to femininity, the impact of feminist movements, and the possibility of a non-toxic men's movement. EPISODE THEMES📝 📌 Changing Trends in Monogamy 📌 Understanding Men's Struggles 📌 Gender Roles and Attachment Styles 📌 Misogyny vs...

Oct 02, 2025•59 min•Season 1Ep. 5

04 - Luke Cook: The Intersection of Acting and Relationships

In this episode, Coral Osborne and actor/comedian Luke Cook dive deep into the complexities of modern relationships, intimacy, and personal growth. They discuss the challenges men and women face in dating, the impacts of social media on relationships, and the societal expectations placed on each gender. Luke shares his concept of how self-expansion is on the other side of “cringe”. EPISODE THEMES📝 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📌 Vasectomy and Recovery 📌 Relationship Dynamics and Intimacy 📌 Introverted Me...

Sep 18, 2025•1 hr 17 min•Season 1Ep. 8

03 - Rollo Tomassi: Red Pill Philosophies and The Manosphere

In this episode, Rollo Tomassi, the author of the Rational Male series, delves deep into his journey, starting from his days on pickup artist forums to becoming a key figure in the manosphere. Joined by host Coral Osborne, they explore Tomassi's concepts about relationships, attraction, and human behavior. EPISODE THEMES📝 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📌 Red Pill and Manosphere Explained 📌 Sexual Chemistry in Relationships 📌 The Concept of Frame in Relationships 📌 Education on Arousing Women 📌 Digital M...

Sep 04, 2025•2 hr 35 min•Season 1Ep. 3

02 - Aaron Thompson: From Preacher’s Son to Adult Star and Musician

In this episode of The Next Man Up, Coral interviews Aaron Thompson, also known as Small Hands, an adult performer, musician, producer, and DJ. They discuss the differences and synergies between love and sex, exploring how connection and authenticity play significant roles in both his professional and personal life. EPISODE THEMES📝 📌 Redefining Masculinity ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📌 Sex Education and Religious Upbringing 📌 Transforming Pain into Art 📌 Power Dynamics in Sexual Experiences 📌 Burnout in Hedo...

Aug 21, 2025•51 min•Season 1Ep. 2

01 - Nic Warner: Embodiment, Polarity & The Hero’s Journey

In this premiere episode of The Next Man Up, Nic Warner, a teacher of intimacy and masculine embodiment, shares his transformative journey from being an architect to founding a men's circle and teaching men to tap into their deepest selves. After a painful divorce and a period of depression, Nic embarked on a three-year odyssey, which included practices such as extended periods of sensory deprivation, silent retreats, psychedelic journeys, tantric exploration and extensive travel. His experience...

Aug 07, 2025•1 hr 16 min•Season 1Ep. 1

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