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The New Man

Advice for Men to Align Career, Sex, Relationships, and Money

Episodes

Is Marriage Killing Your Aliveness? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Is marriage a death sentence for the part of you that is wild? Alyson and I dive into the topic of domestication. We explore how responsibilities and structure are necessary, but they don’t have to kill what makes us feel alive and free. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/04/marriage-domestication COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with...

Apr 16, 202438 minEp. 359

Is it Cheating to Watch Porn? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Is watching porn the same as cheating on your partner? Alyson and I try to help someone who is at odds with his partner about porn. Instead of debating who is right or wrong, what if we understood what’s driving us to seek porn in the first place? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/04/porn-cheating What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. ...

Apr 02, 202432 minEp. 358

Is Healing for the Weak? – Jeff Boss (fmr Navy SEAL turned therapist)

Navy SEAL Jeff Boss struggled to find his way as a civilian. Self-medicating with booze and women, he believed healing was for the weak -- until he couldn’t take it anymore. Today he helps those who struggle with the demons that plague us all. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/03/jeff-boss-healing-warriors What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for m...

Mar 19, 202448 min

How to Tell if You’re Soul Mates — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Do you believe in soul mates or is that just some rom com BS? And what relationship advice would have helped your younger self avoid a huge headache? Tripp and Alyson discuss past relationship failures and what it may really mean to have a soul mate. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/03/soul-mate What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. T...

Mar 05, 202454 minEp. 356

Going to War with Yourself — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Alyson and Tripp discuss trying to improve ourselves by going to war with ourselves. What really helps us attain the emotional peace we hope that victory will bring? Plus, embarrassing stories about Tripp's many blind spots. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/02/at-war-with-yourself What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will M...

Feb 13, 202444 minEp. 355

Less Information. More Taking Action. — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Do you have an amazing collection of books but suck at taking action? Today’s call is with a personal growth junkie. He can easily spend hours pouring through books and podcasts, but when it comes to taking action it’s like pulling teeth. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/01/taking-action What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book...

Jan 31, 202449 minEp. 354

Commitment Issues: What Would Make You Excited to Commit? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Commitment Issues: What would make you excited to commit to a relationship? In today’s coffee date, Alyson and Tripp Lanier talk about radical honesty early on and why being out of alignment on the big stuff dooms us to struggle with the small stuff. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/01/commitment-issues-2 What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for m...

Jan 17, 202450 minEp. 353

Getting Your Partner to Change — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Do you wish you could change something about your partner? Alyson and I flounder through a conversation about commitment, refusing to be the bad guy, and why it’s so important to keep your side of the street clean. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/01/changing-your-partner What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You D...

Jan 02, 202448 minEp. 352

What’s Wrong with Meditation? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Is meditation just a way to escape the discomfort and uncertainty of life? Today my wife Alyson talk about what drew me into decades of spiritual practice. There’s the good and the not so good. So why do I keep doing it after all these years? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/12/meditation-2 What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This B...

Dec 19, 202338 minEp. 351

Making Sense of Science and Spirituality — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

Alyson and Tripp Lanier share a coffee and discuss Tripp’s spiritual path, making sense of science and spirituality, and white guys with dreadlocks. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/12/science-spirituality What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out lo...

Dec 05, 202352 minEp. 350

Needing the Approval of Others — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

What truly motivates us to be more successful? An emotional call with a guy who has a checkered past plus damage to repair with his family. We start off talking about making money but quickly reveal what’s driving his need for success. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/11/approval-of-others What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Bo...

Nov 21, 202349 minEp. 349

Are You Playing the Wrong Game? — Brian Johnson Areté

Ever feel like you’re playing the wrong game in life? Heroic CEO Brian Johnson on his new book Areté: Activate Your Heroic Potential plus a challenge that nearly sank his business — and millions of dollars — days before the product launch. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/11/brian-johnson-arete What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. Th...

Nov 07, 202357 minEp. 348

How to Beat Procrastination — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

How to Beat Procrastination. Today’s call is with a guy who’s sick of allowing procrastination to get the best of him. He sets tons of goals but doesn’t follow through. We look at his mindset, his excuses, and punch through his resistance. Immediately. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/10/procrastination-action What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not ...

Oct 24, 202337 minEp. 347

The Workaholic Curse — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Do you feel like everything will fall apart if you don’t bust your ass everyday? A workaholic with no life beyond the office and home is tired of the never-ending grind. We challenge his fears so he can free up his time and live more purposefully. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/10/workaholic What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. Thi...

Oct 10, 202347 minEp. 346

Stop Running Away from Your Problems — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

When today's caller feels challenged he numbs himself with weed or food. This may provide temporary relief but it's making his anxiety and marital problems worse. We discuss his self-sabotage and lay out steps to live with more integrity and peace. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/09/running-away-from-problems What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not ...

Sep 26, 202349 minEp. 345

Putting Yourself Out There — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Are you stuck professionally because you’re afraid to put yourself out there? Today we talk with someone who’s limiting his opportunities because he’s afraid of criticism. We put fear in perspective, find courage, and even have fun taking action. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/09/putting-yourself-out-there What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not fo...

Sep 14, 202338 minEp. 344

Feeling Like You’re Not Enough — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

A retired entrepreneur feels like sh*t because he thinks he hasn’t accomplished enough. We explore a future where he’s no longer bullied into proving he’s enough, and he’s finally allowed to create what brings deep satisfaction. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/08/feeling-like-youre-not-enough What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. Thi...

Aug 29, 202346 minEp. 343

Fighting Resistance and Laziness — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Is it okay for someone to do whatever they want with your partner, your kids or home? Today’s coaching call is with a man being pushed around by laziness. I challenge him to fight for his life force the same way he would fight for his family. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/08/fighting-resistance-laziness What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for ...

Aug 16, 202354 minEp. 342

Rat Racer Mentality: When the Best isn’t Enough — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Do you spend more time worrying about the future vs enjoying the present? Do you fear that your success could be snatched away at any moment? This rat racer biz owner never feels like he's done enough. We clarify a success he can actually enjoy. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/07/rat-racer-mentality What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most m...

Aug 01, 20231 hr 7 minEp. 341

Moving from Anxiety to Confidence — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Are you wasting time on the wrong path? An ER surgeon wants to change careers. We identify the limiting beliefs killing his confidence and learn how clarity and integrity provide satisfaction — even if he hasn’t crossed the finish line yet. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/07/anxiety-confidence What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. Th...

Jul 19, 202342 minEp. 340

The Need to Be Legit — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

On this coaching call, a former client with too many options but not enough time. Luckily, we identify the mindset that’s draining her energy and provide a new way of approaching work so that it doesn’t devour her life or peace of mind. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/07/need-to-be-legit What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Boo...

Jul 05, 202346 min

The Pressure to Succeed — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

How do you deal with the pressure to succeed? In this call, I talk with a father who feels an immense fear of failure. We take a look at what drives his perfectionism, and find a more playful way to provide. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/06/pressure-to-succeed What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous ...

Jun 21, 202346 minEp. 338

From Rumination to Mental Strength – Anson Whitmer (Calm/Mental App)

Is Huberman's approach over the top? Why should we never go "full Goggins"? And is there a better way to train our minds than the macho-achiever-bro-approach? Neuroscientist/Founder Anson Whitmer (Calm, Mental apps) walks us through Mental. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/06/mental-app-anson-whitmer What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most m...

Jun 06, 20231 hr 2 minEp. 337

Imposter Syndrome and Proving Your Value — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Is imposter syndrome driving you nuts? In this conversation, we talk with a guy who’s convinced his success will come crashing down if he doesn’t constantly prove he’s legit. We reveal what’s truly driving his exhaustion and an unlikely solution. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/05/imposter-syndrome-2 What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most ...

May 23, 20231 hr 7 minEp. 336

Why Goals Are Exhausting You — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Is the pursuit of your goals exhausting you? Are you unwilling to relax because something bad will happen? I talk with a high achiever who’s uncertain about where to go next in his business and life. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/05/goals-lack-motivation What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a s...

May 09, 20231 hr 3 minEp. 335

Dealing with Burnout — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Are you dealing with burnout? Stuck in a "same sh*t different day" routine? In this coaching call, we see how one man reclaims his fire when he sees through his own BS. Plus, what life lesson can we learn from a six-year-old girl? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/04/dealing-with-burnout What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book ...

Apr 25, 202349 minEp. 334

“I’m Stuck and I Don’t Know Where to Go Next” — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

In this coaching call I talk with a high achiever who doesn’t understand why success isn’t as satisfying as expected. Instead of helping him pursue a life on “easy street”, we visit the place he’s been fighting like hell to avoid. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/04/face-your-fear What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will M...

Apr 11, 20231 hr 7 minEp. 333

Dealing with Marriage Money Drama — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Dealing with Marriage Money Drama -- I coach a married guy facing financial challenges. We discover there's something far more toxic poisoning their relationship. We discuss ways to shut down the drama so that both partners can have what they want. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/03/finances-marriage What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most ...

Mar 28, 20231 hr 1 minEp. 332

Fear of Failure | Why Is It So Hard to Commit? — Coaching Call with Tripp Lanier

Does the fear of failure keep you from making a commitment? And what can the honey badger teach us about getting over ourselves? In today’s coaching call, we explore a strange way to overcome the fear of failure and truly commit to our work. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/03/fear-of-failure-4 What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. Th...

Mar 14, 20231 hrEp. 331

Old is Just a Mindset – Steven Kotler

Is getting old just a mindset? Steven Kotler (Gnar Country, The Art of Impossible, Flow Research Collective) discusses the new science of peak performance aging, why flow is critical for aging well, and ways to deal with fear and self-doubt. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2023/02/steven-kotler-gnar-country What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for mos...

Feb 27, 202358 minEp. 330
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