Do you ever get burned out striving for more, more, more? Do you ever find yourself comparing yourself or your accomplishments to others? And what can we learn from the GOAT of professional surfing — Kelly Slater — about motivation and healthy competition? In this short video, we explore the shadow side of our competitive nature plus the 3 steps to using our competitive drive in a healthy way. In this video: - Kelly Slater and the 2022 Pipeline Masters - Burnout from competitive mindset - Why lo...
Mar 01, 2022•14 min•Ep. 317
Do some people seem to have magical powers? Or do they just have a skill you may not have yet? And what does this have to do with a mysterious object found in a toilet? Today we discuss how magical thinking keeps us playing small and what we can do to build confidence and skill. In this video: - Putting people on a pedestal - How magical thinking keeps us in a victim mentality - Hiding under our mother’s skirt - Shifting our mindset to build confidence and skill - One of my disgusting pranks htt...
Feb 15, 2022•11 min•Ep. 316
Do you have a gnawing feeling that you’re not “on track”? In this short video, I discuss the 3 step process that helps me and my coaching clients find clarity, alignment, and peace of mind. In this audio: - Why so many folks feel lost - Why I was terrified after selling my first company - Why waiting for the perfect plan is a trap - How does money impact a purposeful life? - Why procrastination isn’t always laziness https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/01/finding-clarity
Feb 01, 2022•17 min•Ep. 315
Have you ever wondered why some folks call me ‘cat squeeze’? Probably not, but we’re doing to talk about it anyway. Today we discuss outgrowing old identities, finding our aliveness, and why our need to be more productive might be more about who we are vs how much we can do. In this short video: - My cat’s constipation and my role in relieving him - Constantly busy but never feeling like you’ve done enough - Striving for more, more, more - Leading your own life vs stuck in expectations - 3 steps...
Jan 18, 2022•17 min•Ep. 314
Are you and your main squeeze lovers or just roommates? Is being lovers a priority or an afterthought? And what puts the brakes on your sex life? Today Alyson and I talk about the roles we play in our relationships — being roommates, business partners, co-parents, buddies — and how these roles kill our sex life. We also discuss ways to put our relationship problems into perspective so that we can identify what is truly a dealbreaker. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/12/sex-life...
Dec 14, 2021•57 min•Ep. 313
My Wife Challenges Me to Go Big Do fears of going broke keep you playing small? Alyson and Tripp Lanier discuss how fear holds us back from what we truly want, why self leadership matters, and the difference between coaching and therapy. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/11/self-leadership-ifs
Nov 30, 2021•39 min•Ep. 312
Do you fear your ambition? What's the opposite of imposter syndrome? Optimize/Heroic founder, Brian Johnson discusses ambition, assessing risk, and leading from our inner wisdom instead of our inner Johnny Knoxville (no offense Johnny). https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/11/brian-johnson-ambition
Nov 16, 2021•1 hr•Ep. 311
Sebastian Junger ("Freedom", "Tribe", "The Perfect Storm") discusses the benefits of danger, why we need to be willing to die for our group, and what he saw right before he died. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/10/sebastian-junger-freedom
Oct 28, 2021•1 hr 14 min•Ep. 310
What if avoiding conflict was the thing killing your relationship and sex life? Are you being fake with your partner because you’re afraid to tell the truth? And is it possible to end a relationship with peace of mind? Relationship School founder Jayson Gaddis returns to discuss his new book Getting to Zero. Today he and I explore how conflict — especially avoiding conflict — is killing the relationships, trust, and sexual experiences we’re trying to protect. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/202...
Oct 12, 2021•50 min•Ep. 309
Richard Schwartz ("No Bad Parts") IFS founder discusses inner critics, our addiction to achievement, and why we don’t need to strive for an awakened life. #internalfamilysystems https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/09/richard-schwartz-no-bad-parts You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanp...
Sep 28, 2021•50 min•Ep. 308
Fighting with your wife — When you tell her she’s being ‘hormonal’ why does it typically erupt in flames? Why do heated conversations tend to spiral into infernos? And is it more important to win the fight or find a solution? How to put out fires w/your partner. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/09/fighting-with-your-wife
Sep 14, 2021•46 min•Ep. 307
Adrian Grenier (Vincent Chase, HBO’s Entourage). Compared to Chase’s fantasy life, Adrian’s life had its share of ups and downs: his insatiable need to prove himself, the event that kicked his ass, and how he’s redefined himself since. @adriangrenier @ducontra2021 https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/08/adrian-grenier-investing You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrep...
Aug 31, 2021•43 min•Ep. 306
Rickson Gracie (Breathe: A Life in Flow). Brazilian Jiu Jitsu legend opens up about becoming a spiritual warrior, the loss of his son, and finding comfort in hell. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/08/rickson-gracie-breathe-interview You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com ...
Aug 14, 2021•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 305
If you speak the truth could you lose your career? Is there more to life than striving for something we don’t already have? Dr. Zubin Damania aka ZDogg MD aka Doc Vader on breaking the mold, playfulness, and waking up. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/08/zdoggmd-zubin-damania-interview You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available...
Aug 03, 2021•42 min•Ep. 304
Does imposter syndrome make you feel like it’s all gonna come crashing down? Ever feel like it’s you against the world? We discuss pressure, perfectionism, and why we need to tune into our bigger selves to pull us out of hell. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/07/imposter-syndrome
Jul 21, 2021•17 min•Ep. 303
How to Develop Anti-Fragile Confidence: Are you focused on what’s important or putting out fires? What does it mean to be ruthless with your focus? Optimize/Heroic CEO Brian Johnson on dealing with pressure, distractions, and developing anti-fragile confidence. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/07/brian-johnson-antifragile-confidence You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, a...
Jul 06, 2021•45 min•Ep. 302
Steven Kotler (The Art of Impossible: A Peak Performance Primer) discusses peak performance, burn out, and goals. Whether you’re trying to change the world or just get through a lousy week — these are the keys to leveling up without burning out. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/06/steven-kotler-art-of-impossible
Jun 23, 2021•42 min•Ep. 301
What if Surrender is the Opposite of Defeat? What if your goals are rooted in lies and wounds? Kute Blackson (The Magic of Surrender) discusses what’s beyond our anxious, fearful need to hustle, force, and control everything. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/06/kute-blackson-surrender
Jun 09, 2021•55 min•Ep. 300
Shana James (Power and Pleasure) discusses what to do if your partner gives you a hard time because you want more sex, why we feel guilty for wanting fun outside of family and work, plus what we can do to avoid becoming grumpy old men. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/05/shana-james-power-pleasure
May 26, 2021•46 min•Ep. 299
What if your perspective on the world — instead of the world itself — was holding you back? Why do psychedelics have such a lasting impact when combined with therapy? Dr. Will Van Derveer on pros and cons of psychedelic-assisted therapy. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/05/psychedelic-assisted-therapy "This Book Will Make You Dangerous" is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton o...
May 11, 2021•54 min•Ep. 298
Is it dangerous to believe in god or something bigger than yourself? What do Mars colonization, cults, and the pursuit of heavenly salvation have in common? And why are so many of us feeling spiritually lost? Jamie Wheal is the co-author of Stealing Fire and the executive director of the Flow Genome Project. He’s returned to discuss his latest book, Recapture the Rapture. Today we talk about the world’s crisis of meaning, why groups sometimes make us dumber, and trying to fill the god-shaped hol...
Apr 26, 2021
Tired of feeling uninspired or “meh?” Tired of hearing yourself bitch and complain? And why do we choose to “cover our ass, kiss ass, or prove we’re not an ass?” In this short video, we explore a simple process to use our mood to our advantage. In this episode: Why do moods matter? What causes our moods? Why are we giving up our power? The 3 step process to shift a lousy mood into empowering action Why do we choose to “cover our ass, kiss ass, or prove we’re not an ass?” https://www.thenewmanpod...
Apr 20, 2021
What if your normal level of stress, anxiety, or depression didn’t have to be normal? Do you feel like you’re using work, alcohol, or something else to outrun the uncomfortable thoughts in your head? And how can we use our stress and darkness to help us live a more full, rewarding life? Before Keith Kurlander became a founder of the Integrative Psychiatry Center, he struggled with serious mental health issues. He ran away from the promise of a highly lucrative life on Wall Street to find relief ...
Apr 06, 2021
Do you struggle to follow through on the stuff you know you need to be doing? Do you get “shiny object syndrome” and change course too often? And do you fall into the trap of comparing yourself to others or putting folks on a pedestal? In this video, I share the story of a coaching client who used his business to transform his mindset and become more confident in the process. In this video: Lacking follow through on the important things Shiny object syndrome — switching strategies Comparing ours...
Mar 24, 2021
Are you following the herd or taking the lead? What’s driving your chronic dissatisfaction and frustration? And how can rubbing people the wrong way be an indicator that you’re on the right track? Heroic Public Benefit Corporation founder, Brian Johnson returns for part 2 in our series. Today we talk about trolls, anger, and using our deep fear of being misunderstood for a greater good. When we see someone do the extraordinary, most of the time we only see the impressive outcomes while the gritt...
Mar 08, 2021
Make the most of your competitive mindset without turning life into a pissing match. Tips for dealing with the fear of missing out, losing, and that time I got diarrhea from the FSU vs Miami football game. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/03/more-to-life-than-winning-losing You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immedia...
Mar 03, 2021
Do you worry that you’re on the wrong path in life? Are you focused on goals and outcomes or doing what you actually enjoy? And what if there’s more to life than chasing money or the need to be important? Before Doc G became a writer and host of the Earn and Invest podcast, he was like many doctors. But after years spent chasing outcomes, money and building an ideal version of himself, he realized he was in a trap. Today we discuss how he reinvented his personal and professional life based on wh...
Feb 16, 2021•1 hr 2 min
Do you have a sense that something is rumbling in your soul, trying to get out? Do you feel confused about who you are professionally? And are you waiting until you feel ready, or are you building the world you want to live in? Philosopher and CEO, Brian Johnson is back. This time he’s set his sights on an ambitious goal to create a company that will change the world. The Heroic Public Benefit Corporation is a platform that will provide the tools for optimal living as well as an online community...
Feb 02, 2021
John Jantsch (The Self-Reliant Entrepreneur) discusses how our deeper values play a role in our success. If you’re tired of the typical, hyper-achievement BS that passes for business advice, then this conversation will be a breath of fresh air. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/01/Self-reliant-entrepreneur-john-jantsch You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneur...
Jan 19, 2021
Neil Strauss (“The Truth”, “The Game”) discusses the gritty truth about his experiences with infidelity, sex rehab, sex clubs, open relationships — you name it. Enjoy this classic interview from The New Man Podcast with Tripp Lanier. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/01/neil-strauss-the-truth You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is ava...
Jan 05, 2021
