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The Narcissists' Code

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Welcome to my podcast. I am Lee Hammock a self aware narcissist and I'm known as Mental Healness all over social media. I have NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) and I've been dealing with this personality disorder for as long as I can remember. I have been in psychotherapy for the last 4 years and Therapy has helped me to figure out exactly why I do what I do and it has allowed me to get to this point where I can offer you the perspective inside the head of a person battling this personality disorder. You might get triggered, but you'll get validated. @mentalhealness everywhere
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Why do narcissists always seem to want revenge??

Do narcissists always have to seek vengeance on people? Do they ever let go of things and just move on without seeking the need for revenge? Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos ...

Jan 27, 202412 minSeason 1Ep. 990

Why some narcissists will do "whatever it takes" to win you back

Why some narcissists will do "whatever it takes" to win you back Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spe...

Jan 26, 202413 minSeason 1Ep. 989

Why some narcissists will never grow up

Why some narcissists will never grow up. Arrested development is a thing that happens to a lot of narcissistic people in their childhood where they are traumatized and get stuck at a certain emotional age. They physically grow up but emotionally they get stuck at a very young age. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my perso...

Jan 25, 202411 minSeason 1Ep. 988

The Narcissist's EX could be the NEW SUPPLY

The narcissist EX could also be the NEW SUPPLY. Times change and so do people sometimes. When enough time has went by people change and grow. Survivors change and grow and thrive when they get out of the relationship. The narcissist might pick up on that and then want to come back into their life and treat it like a new relationship. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality ...

Jan 24, 202411 minSeason 1Ep. 987

How do Narcissists handle ultimatums?

Should you give a narcissist an ultimatum? Before you do that ask your what would be the goal of giving them the ultimatum? Narcissistic people hate being told what to do and whether they give into the ultimatum or not it's not something that they actually want to do. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disord...

Jan 23, 202411 minSeason 1Ep. 986

Why do Narcissists want to have kids?

If a narcissist can't love their kids, then why do they have them at all? Before you jump on me realize this is not me saying that narcissists shouldn't have kids or that they can't love their kids at all. This video is just me giving my perspective on why some narcissists may decide to have children. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in...

Jan 22, 202412 minSeason 1Ep. 985

Why do narcissists want to remain friends after the relationship ends

Why do narcissists want to remain friends after the relationship ends? Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *bu...

Jan 21, 202412 minSeason 1Ep. 984

When a narcissist says "I miss the old you"

What do narcissists mean when they say "I miss the old you" or "you're not the person you used to be". Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the ot...

Jan 20, 202412 minSeason 1Ep. 983

When you see a narcissist for who they really are

What happens when you see a narcissist for who they really are? This is a 2 parter (all in one episode) that goes into detail about what happens in a relationship when you see a narcissist for who they really are. The other part goes into when the narcissist knows you know who they are and how they could react and treat you once they know, that you know Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narci...

Jan 19, 202412 minSeason 1Ep. 982

The "Dark Place" that some narcissists take you to

The "Dark Place" that some narcissists take you to. You know what i mean when i say that "dark place". some toxic narcissistic people can/will drive you to the point of possibly not wanting to be here anymore. This vid is meant to empower you to leave that dark place and to keep on thriving. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy f...

Jan 18, 202415 minSeason 1Ep. 981

Do narcissists love their children?

Do narcissists love their children? As a self aware narcissist I have a very unique perspective about narcissists and their ability (or lack there of) to love their children. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost ever...

Jan 17, 202413 minSeason 1Ep. 980

How does a narcissist ARGUE?

How does a narcissist ARGUE? What is a narcissists favorite technique they use to argue? Have you ever heard the term Gish Gallop? It's a technique that narcissists use to start multiple arguments in order to exhaust you and distract you from the main point or argument. This technique is also referred to as "The Starting Small Fires" Technique Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic pe...

Jan 16, 202413 minSeason 1Ep. 979

How do narcissists react when you are expressing your emotions?

How do narcissists react when you are expressing your emotions? How would a narcissist react when you decide to try and communicate how you feel. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these vi...

Jan 15, 202412 minSeason 1Ep. 978

Does the relationship with a narcissist ever end?

Does the relationship with a narcissist ever, truly end? Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. A...

Jan 14, 202415 minSeason 1Ep. 977

The longer you stay with a narcissist the more you start to act like them

The longer you stay in a toxic relationship, the more likely you are to pick up "narcissistic fleas" and you start to act like the person that is treating you terribly. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything...

Jan 13, 202413 minSeason 1Ep. 976

One of a narcissist's greatest tricks

One of a narcissist's greatest tricks is convincing you that their behaviors are either to your benefit or your fault. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring aware...

Jan 12, 202413 minSeason 1Ep. 975

2 ways Narcissist handle conflicts

How do narcissists handle conflict? In this podcast I go into detail about how a narcissist could handle conflict. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness...

Jan 11, 202412 minSeason 1Ep. 974

What happens when a Narcissists senses that you are unhappy?

What happens when a Narcissists senses that you are unhappy? Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectru...

Jan 10, 202411 minSeason 1Ep. 973

Why do narcissists spread so many Rumors?

Why do narcissists tend to spread so many rumors about you....EVEN when you are still together? Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other sid...

Jan 09, 202413 minSeason 1Ep. 972

Why do narcissists take you for GRANTED

Why do narcissists take you for granted? Find out here why narcissistic people take you for granted and never treated you the way you deserve to be treated. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point ...

Jan 08, 202413 minSeason 1Ep. 971

Escaping a relationship with a narcissist

Everyone can't just leave a relationship with a narcissist, some of them have to escape because of safety reasons. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness...

Jan 07, 202414 minSeason 1Ep. 970

Narcissist are DRAWN to this type of person

Who attracts the most narcissists? answer- Vulnerable people. Narcissists tned to be seriously attracted and drawn to vulnerable people. Your vulnerability is almost like a pheromone to narcissistic people and could attract them to you. This is why i tell so many people to HEAL first before entering the dating pool. Or if you are just leaving a toxic relationship, find a good support system so that your vulnerability doesn't get you back in a relationship with a narcissist. Welcome my channel! I...

Jan 06, 202412 minSeason 1Ep. 969

Some narcissists want you to CHASE after them

Some narcissists and toxic people want you to pursue them. They want you to be the one that reaches out to them, they want you to be the one that courts them. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The poin...

Jan 05, 202412 minSeason 1Ep. 968

Is it possible for a narcissist to have a healthy relationship?

Is it possible for a narcissist to have a healthy or NORMAL relationship? Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic ...

Jan 04, 202412 minSeason 1Ep. 967

Why it gets worse when you go back to a narcissist

Why does it always seem to get worse the more you go back to a narcissist or toxic relationship? A lot of people talk about how it gets worse, but not a lot of people don't talk about WHY it gets worse. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because withou...

Jan 03, 202412 minSeason 1Ep. 966

What is a narcissist thinking?

What goes on inside the mind of a narcissist or toxic person? Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectr...

Jan 02, 202412 minSeason 1Ep. 965

Can a narcissist ever gain more empathy and become and "empath"?

Is it possible for a narcissist to gain more empathy and end up as an empath? Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissis...

Jan 01, 202412 minSeason 1Ep. 964

What is a COVERT Narcissist

The elusive covert narcissist...the same goals as an overt narcissist, just going about getting those goals in a different way. Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help br...

Dec 31, 202315 minSeason 1Ep. 963

Why are narcissists so SECRETIVE?

"Why So Secretive?" in my Heath Ledger joker voice. Narcissistic people like to keep secrets to protect themselves Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness...

Dec 30, 202311 minSeason 1Ep. 962

Don't become the narcissist's biggest flying monkey in your life

Don't become the narcissist's biggest flying monkey in your life Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spe...

Dec 29, 202316 minSeason 1Ep. 961
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