In a world where social media is literally at our fingertips, what do we do about social media and our children during or after divorce? This week on the Moving On Method® Michelle Dempsey-Multack and Lucy Price discuss the complexities of navigating social media during and after divorce. They emphasize that it's crucial to prioritize your children's well-being and avoid posting anything that could potentially harm them. In this episode they will cover: What is okay to post and what is not okay ...
Oct 21, 2024•32 min
Welcome to the Moving On Method®, formerly known as The Moms Moving On Divorce and Co-Parenting Podcast. Navigating divorce as a parent can be tough. Navigating co-parenting as a divorced parent can be tougher. Welcome to the Moving On Method® podcast, a place where the realities of divorce and single parenting meet educated and informed insight, hosted by me, Michelle Dempsey-Multack, educator, co-parenting and divorce specialist, bestselling author, the founder of the Moving On Method®; a meth...
Sep 23, 2024•19 min
While divorce can flip the world that we know it upside down, it can also completely change your perspective on life and give you a second chance. This week, Michelle Dempsey-Multack is joined by the incredible Nikki Spoelstra. In this episode Nikki opens up and get vulnerable sharing her personal divorce story while also sharing the light at the end of the tunnel. Michelle and Nikki get real and honest as they cover: Taking the time to discover the "why" behind decisions you made Working throug...
Sep 09, 2024•41 min
Divorce is not "one size fits all" and what works for one family may not work for another. This week, Michelle Dempsey-Multack is joined by holistic divorce attorney Morgan Foster who is a divorced mother herself and can provide her clients with empathy and understanding during the divorce process. Michelle and Morgan will dig deep into Knowing how long to try and "fix" a problem in your marriage Paying attention to the mental toll this is taking on you and your children Focusing on being the be...
Sep 02, 2024•32 min
When going through divorce you often focus on what to do with the house and how to put together a child-centered parenting plan....but what about the ring? Do you sell it? Keep it? This week Michelle Dempsey-Multack is joined by Kendall Vanamburg of Worthy to help listeners decide what the heck to do with their ring after divorce. In this episode Michelle and Kendall will cover: Asking yourself why you are holding onto the wedding ring Remembering that at times letting go of the ring can be heal...
Aug 26, 2024•25 min
After divorce, you may look forward to finding that new partner who gives you what you need. When starting a new relationship, how do you even think of blending your family with the potential family of a new partner? This week, Michelle Dempsey-Multack is joined by Moving On Method Certified Coach Ashley Presti, who is well versed in all things blended families. Ashley shares her incredible knowledge in blending families and the two of them will cover: Navigating co-parenting with your new partn...
Aug 19, 2024•29 min
Infidelity can be one of the hardest things to overcome, especially when children are involved. This week Michelle Dempsey-Multack is joined by Moving On Method Certified Coach Caitlin Nugent. Caitlin personally went through a very public divorce that involved infidelity. Despite being blindsided by this affair, Caitlin was focused on protecting her children and trying to co-parent them to the best of her ability. Michelle and Caitlin will cover: Working through the emotions of infidelity while ...
Aug 12, 2024•31 min
Divorce can induce anxiety in everyone, including our children. As parents we can be the safe place for our children to help them work through anxious feelings. This week Michelle Dempsey-Multack is joined by Moving On Method Certified Coach Lucy Dimmitt to take a deep dive into helping anxious children in divorce. Lucy is a co-parenting mom of one, who understands the emotional needs of children during and after divorce. This informative episode will cover: How to talk to anxious children about...
Aug 05, 2024•33 min
There is no way to sugar coat that divorce is stressful, but how you manage that stress can either help or hurt you along the way. This week, Michelle Dempsey-Multack is joined by Moving On Method Certified Coach, Lauren Dolan to discuss ways to manage stress in divorce and co-parenting. Together Michelle and Lauren will educate listeners on: Making small positive choices daily to improve stress Sitting with your thoughts and process what is going on Managing stress through physical movement Mir...
Jul 30, 2024•34 min
There is no way around it, divorce sucks, but what you choose to do after divorce matters. This week, best-selling author, Wendy Sterling joins Michelle Dempsey-Multack on Moms Moving On to jump into how you can find yourself after divorce. Wendy shares her very personal divorce story and what she learned about herself in the process. Michelle and Wendy take a deep dive into: Taking responsibility for the role you may have played in divorce Learning to stop people pleasing Loving and accepting a...
Jul 29, 2024•30 min
Are you dealing with acts of coercive control while coparenting and wanting to avoid it affecting your children? This week on Moms Moving On, Jan and Jill Yuhas join Michelle Dempsey-Multack to break down the best way to navigate coercive co-parenting. Jan and Jill lay the groundwork for: Recognizing the signs of coercive control Setting firm boundaries Protecting the children and helping them process their emotions Using your parenting plan to put your children first And much more! Jan Yuhas an...
Jul 22, 2024•26 min
Co-parenting with a high-conflict ex is not easy, but it can be done. We know that one reasonable co-parent can make a positive difference in the lives of the children who are being co-parented by one high-conflict parent, but that doesn't make dealing with it any easier. High-conflict co-parenting can make life incredibly stressful and full of unnecessary tension, which in-turn, rubs off on the kids. "The key is realizing we have to take a different approach. The secret to managing a high-confl...
Jul 15, 2024•43 min
As parents, we want to do everything we can to protect our children and keep them safe. This week Elle Barr returns to Moms Moving On to discuss with Michelle Dempsey-Multack how to prevent childhood trauma in divorce. Elle and Michelle educate listeners on: Understanding trauma ACE's (adverse childhood experiences) and how to prevent them How to mitigate and repair trauma Keeping children out of the middle in divorce AND MUCH MORE Elle Barr is an experienced family law attorney with a deep comm...
Jul 08, 2024•28 min
When you think bullies, you may think about school aged children, but what happens when you are an adult dealing with adult bullies? This week Michelle Dempsey-Multack welcomes back Bill Eddy to discuss managing bullies as an adult. Bill Eddy is an expert in dealing with high-conflict individuals and is sure to leave you feeling empowered after this episode. Together Michelle and Bill will cover: Learning to talk about how you are feeling when being bullied Leading with empathy to understand the...
Jul 01, 2024•40 min
You may often hear the term "breaking the marital cycle of codependency" but what does that mean and how do you do it? This week, Michelle Dempsey-Multack is joined by Codependency Counselor Erika Wright to educate listeners on how to recover from co-dependency. Erika turned her own codependency into her passion, and we know you will love what she has to say. Together, Michelle and Erika will cover: Letting go of feeling the need to please everyone in order to not ruffle feathers Breaking genera...
Jun 25, 2024•31 min
We often focus on what you should do during divorce and co-parenting, but this week we are going to focus on what NOT to do. Michelle Dempsey-Multack is joined by Divorce Attorney Seth Nelson, to have a candid conversation about things to avoid when going through a divorce and starting your co-parenting journey. Michelle and Seth will take a behind the scenes look at: How to respond when your ex meets someone new Picking and choosing your battles on physical items Putting emotions aside when dec...
Jun 17, 2024•32 min
We understand that after divorce you may be eager to jump into the dating scene but may be feeling apprehensive about what to expect. This week, Michelle Dempsey-Multack is joined by relationship expert Rachel DeAlto to discuss common mistakes people make when using dating apps and what to avoid. In this information packed episode, they will cover: How to let go of the pressure and enjoy the process Find someone who meets you where you are What to include and not to include in your dating profil...
Jun 10, 2024•25 min
Co-Parenting does not end when the school year does, but what happens in summer? As parents, we know how important it is to give your children consistency year-round. This week on Unfiltered, Michelle and Jess give their breakdown on how to handle summer break while letting your kids be kids. Tune into this information packed episode where together they will cover: Important details to include in your parenting plan surrounding summer Why it can be helpful to keep the schedule the same when the ...
Jun 03, 2024•24 min
Women are often taught to put the needs of others first, especially in marriage and motherhood. Divorce can give you a chance to really put yourself at the forefront and let go of any guilt associated with it. This week Amy Green Smith joins Michelle Dempsey-Multack to empower women on their journey of self-care and self-love. Michelle and Amy take a deep dive into: Putting yourself first Letting go of what society deems as "normal" Pushing back against that inner critic so you can shine Underst...
May 14, 2024•31 min
I'm sure if you're on social media you've seen the buzzword that has been going around....narcissist. Sure, your ex may be high-conflict, a terrible partner or complete jerk, but what do you do if your co-parent really is a narcissist? This week Michelle Dempsey-Multack is joined by Jacquelyn Tenaglia, LMHC to talk about how to manage your relationship with your co-parent if they are in fact a narcissist. Together Michelle and Jacquelyn will cover: Protecting yourself from narcissistic behavior ...
May 06, 2024•34 min
Often times women come of divorce feeling bitter, resentful, and angry toward their ex, but what about men? This week Michelle Dempsey-Multack is joined by Rob Roseman of WTF divorce to discuss how men feel after divorce. His answers might surprise you. Michelle and Rob have an in-depth conversation on: How men adjust to their role as a single parent The grieving process for men Dating after divorce-from a man's point of view Modifying expectations regarding your co-parenting relationships AND S...
Apr 30, 2024•36 min
One of the main things we often hear is that people going through divorce want to do what they can to protect their children. Hello Divorce is here to help with that. This week Michelle Dempsey-Multack is joined by founder and CEO Erin Levine, to educate listeners on the divorce process and what we can do to ensure our children's wellbeing is front and center. Together Michelle and Erin will cover: How to set your children up for resiliency in the divorce process The emotional and financial bene...
Apr 22, 2024•36 min
There are often times we have to hear some truths about relationships that we may not want to hear, but that are important in order to learn, grow and heal. This week, Michelle Dempsey-Multack is joined by the renowned relationship specialist Mark Groves to really dig deep into relationships and unpack some difficult topics. Together Michelle and Mark will cover: Choosing what you need vs what society tells you that you need Knowing what is not right for you One person can never be doing the wor...
Apr 15, 2024•54 min
We're sure you've heard the term "Disneyland Parent" from friends, family or maybe even your lawyer. What exactly is a Disneyland parent, and is it really a terrible thing for your children? This week on Unfiltered, Michelle and Jess share their insight on Disneyland parenting and their experiences both personally and in coaching. Together they will cover: What is a Disneyland parent Letting go of control in co-parenting Shifting your perspective that maybe this could be helpful for your co-pare...
Apr 08, 2024•25 min
While divorce can be emotional and overwhelming, there are positives that come along with it. This week, Michelle Dempsey-Multack is joined by celebrity divorce attorney Marilyn Chinitz to discuss how you can turn your divorce into a positive and live the life you deserve. Together Michelle and Marilyn will cover: Setting the example for your children Shifting your perspective from pity party to positivity Learn how to love yourself and take care of yourself Doing what is best for you based on y...
Apr 03, 2024•30 min
Divorce gives you the physical boundary, but what about the emotional boundaries? Setting boundaries with an ex is a critical component to moving on, and in this episode of Moms Moving On, breakup coach and founder of Master Self Image Matina Singh and I do a deep dive into setting boundaries. We also cover the importance of setting boundaries with a narcissist or other high-conflict personality - a tool that will change your life after divorce. Matina Singh helps women overcome the hardship of ...
Mar 20, 2024•33 min
Divorce can leave us feeling a little jaded, but at the end of the day, we want someone by our side to love us for who we are. This week, Michelle Dempsey-Multack is joined by Bela Gandhi of Smart Dating Academy to give listeners insight on dating after divorce. As an expert in her field, Bela will talk with Michelle about: When to start dating after divorce Communication tips with your new partner Sex after divorce AND MUCH MORE Bela is the founder of the Smart Dating Academy and she’s helped t...
Mar 11, 2024•25 min
FOMO, something we ALL experience, but co-parenting fomo seems to hit even harder. We understand that feeling of missing out on things when your children are with their other parent and are here to help. This week on Unfiltered, Michelle Dempsey-Multack and Jess Evans share their tips and tricks to work through the emotions you feel surrounding missing out on things with your children. Together they will cover: Ensuring that your children the same life experiences they would have if you would ha...
Mar 04, 2024•28 min
Chances are your communication wasn't great with your co-parent when you were married, so it is likely that now you are no longer together, it won't improve overnight. This week on Unfiltered, Michelle Dempsey-Multack and Jess Evans share their communication struggles and what they have learned over the years. Together they will cover: Breaking the martial cycle of co-dependency Not looking to your ex for validation Having a well written parenting plan to avoid needing to communicate often AND S...
Feb 26, 2024•31 min
Just like there is no road map for how to get divorce, there also isn't one for how to blend families. This week on Unfiltered, Michelle Dempsey-Multack and Jess Evans share their personal experiences with blending families and also how to handle their ex blending in a new relationship. It is so important to take things slow and follow your child's lead. In this informational episode, Michelle and Jess will cover: Reminding yourself that although your ex has a new partner, you will always be mom...
Feb 19, 2024•34 min