Is it possible to be having the best sex of your life when you're having a whole lot less of it? Find all our Links : www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us : www.SapioTours.com Oct 2025 Women's Retreat : https://sapiotours.com/womens-fall-retreat Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/ Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-bad Podcast-a-Palooza -- https://libertineevents.com/ Room 77 -- https://room77life.com/events77...
Jun 20, 2025•59 min•Season 4Ep. 8
In this episode, Kate describes the sexy times that transpired at her women's retreat in April 2025. Find all our Links : www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us : www.SapioTours.com Oct 2025 Women's Retreat : https://sapiotours.com/womens-fall-retreat Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/ Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-bad Podcast-a-Palooza -- https://libertineevents.com/ Room 77 -- https://room77life.com/even...
May 09, 2025•1 hr 9 min•Ep. 7
In this episode, Kate & Liam tell the crazy story of their recent content creation weekend in Florida. Find all our Links : www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us : www.SapioTours.com Oct 2025 Women's Retreat : https://sapiotours.com/womens-fall-retreat Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/ Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-bad Podcast-a-Palooza -- https://libertineevents.com/ Room 77 -- https://room77life.co...
Mar 20, 2025•1 hr 5 min•Season 4Ep. 6
In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss where they fit in two different personality typing frameworks -- the Enneagram and the Erotic Blueprint. Find out more about both of these at https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/ and https://www. https://missjaiya.com/ Find all our Links : www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us : www.SapioTours.com Women's Retreat : https://sapiotours.com/womens-retreat Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/ Naughty G...
Feb 14, 2025•1 hr 9 min•Season 4Ep. 5
In this episode, Kate talks about her night at a Women's Only Party. Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.com Women's Retreat: https://sapiotours.com/womens-retreat Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/ Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-bad Podcast-a-Palooza -- https://libertineevents.com/ Room 77 -- https://room77life.com/events77-mexico-feb-2023/ Support the show...
Jan 02, 2025•56 min
In this episode, Kate & Liam finally get around to discussing their backyard get-together from the summer of 2024! To hear a separate discussion of the same event as seen through different eyes, check out Loq and Tryst's fascinating discussion on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/live/4k6bOHWeT5k?si=j6aiRMj8tLyhg8Tn Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.com Women's Retreat: https://sapiotours.com/womens-retreat Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Sw...
Dec 05, 2024•1 hr 6 min
In this episode, part of Kate's occasional series called "Bad Ass Women of the Lifestyle," she interviews Lauren Hayes, non-monogamous relationship coach and host of the podcast "The Examined Lives of Mormon Wives," and her friend Bri, a former LDS church member. Together, Lauren and Bri founded the women's support group "Sacred Sluts" to help women break free from shame and reconnect with their sexuality. Find them at SwingingLifestyleCoach.com, and under the same name on Instagram & Facebo...
Nov 13, 2024•1 hr 1 min•Season 4Ep. 2
In this episode, Kate and Liam discuss the highlights (and occasional lowlights) of their summer lifestyle travel adventures. Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.com Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/ Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-bad Podcast-a-Palooza -- https://libertineevents.com/ Room 77 -- https://room77life.com/events77-mexico-feb-2023/ Support the show...
Oct 16, 2024•1 hr 23 min•Season 4Ep. 1
In this episode, Kate and Liam question what often seems like the ultimate swinger taboo. Find our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.com Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/ Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-bad Podcast-a-Palooza -- https://libertineevents.com/ Room 77 -- https://room77life.com/events77-mexico-feb-2023/ Support the show...
Jul 25, 2024•50 min•Season 3Ep. 9
In this episode, Kate and Liam discuss the ups and downs of desiring -- and being desired -- in the Lifestyle. Find our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.com Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/ Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-bad Podcast-a-Palooza -- https://libertineevents.com/ Room 77 -- https://room77life.com/events77-mexico-feb-2023/ Support the show...
Apr 30, 2024•53 min•Season 3Ep. 8
In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss the impact of intoxicants on the lifestyle, and in their own lives. Travel with us: www.SapioTours.com Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/ Room 77 -- https://room77life.com/events77-mexico-feb-2023/ Podcast-a-Palooza -- https://libertineevents.com/ Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-bad Support the show...
Mar 22, 2024•1 hr 24 min•Season 3Ep. 7
Kate talks to coach Cara Turnquist about the challenges people with bigger bodies face to feel fully embraced in the Lifestyle. Links Cara's Website https://www.thepushfitness.com/ Kate's Women's Retreat webpage https://sapiotours.com/womens-retreat All Kate's Links https://katemonogamish.com/my-links The Monogamish Marriage Blog https://themonogamishmarriage.com/ Support the show...
Feb 20, 2024•43 min•Season 3Ep. 6
In this episode, Kate & Liam talk about their recent orgy experiences...and consider the real possibility that they've gone a little overboard. Show Links Email us: The MonogamishMarriage@gmail.com Support us: www.patreon.com/Kate_and_Liam Travel with us: www.SapioTours.com Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/ Room 77 -- https://room77life.com/events77-mexico-feb-2023/ Podcast-a-Palooza -- https://libertineevents.com/ Naughty Gym -- ...
Jan 29, 2024•1 hr 11 min•Season 3Ep. 5
Kate talks to non-monogamous relationship coach Catherine from Expansive Connection Coaching about inner parts work. She explains The Adult Chair approach to recognizing and having compassion for our inner child and adolescent, especially when faced with the triggers the lifestyle can bring. Want to dig deeper with Kate and Catherine? Consider joining us for our Women of the Lifestyle wellness retreat this April. Go to www.sapiotours.com for more information. Resources Mentioned Expansive Connec...
Dec 19, 2023•1 hr 6 min•Season 3Ep. 4
Three months into their online dating experiment, Kate and Liam wrap up their long separate dating saga (spoiler, it doesn't end the way you might think!). Kate dishes about her sexy -- and not so sexy -- dates with both men and women, including one that goes very wrong (trigger: SA). Liam reports back on the dates with women he met on two additional dating sites, and lets us know how all his hard-won freedom and confidence paid off at PCAP Miami last month. Events mentioned in this show: Libert...
Nov 13, 2023•1 hr 18 min•Season 3Ep. 3
In response to Liam's continued interest in separate dating, Kate proposed that they both try to find people to go out with online. The plan was that they would post their profiles at the same time, and ideally go on dates with other people on the same evenings. Equality was the goal. It was a fine idea that brought about all kinds of unforeseen complications. Links: Sapio Tours Small Group European travel for non-monogamous couples hosted by Kate & Liam: https://sapiotours.com Libertine Eve...
Oct 10, 2023•1 hr 11 min•Season 3Ep. 2
Kate & Liam start this episode by describing their experiences at the various lifestyle vacations they took earlier this year, culminating in the launch of their very own travel brand. In the second half, they offer a full report on their first Sapio Tours trip, which was to Crete in June of 2023. Information on all future Sapio Tours trips can be found at https://SapioTours.com If you're interested in any of the other excellent trips mentioned, please see the following websites for further ...
Sep 07, 2023•56 min•Season 3Ep. 1
In this episode, Kate & Liam speak with Dedeker, Emily & Jase of the Multiamory Podcast. They share information about creating healthy boundaries and avoiding common relationship pitfalls. To find out more about them, go to their website,,, https://www.multiamory.com/ Support the show
Jul 28, 2023•50 min•Season 2Ep. 8
In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss their experiments with the idea of the 'Three Hour Sex Date' -- an idea they picked up from se & relationship coach Kim Anami. https://open.spotify.com/episode/5QRhLdb7aV7fIlHscBugXf?si=R1wqLreLQD2sbei-ffqpew Never have Kate & Liam shared so explicitly about their practices between the sheets as they do here! Support the show...
May 11, 2023•1 hr•Season 2Ep. 7
This episode discusses the discovery by Kate of secret messages that Liam had been sending to another woman. A blow-up ensues, which sends Kate into research mode, where she discovers the EPIC communication model from author Kate Loree. Focusing on the Emotional, Physical, Intellectual and Compassionate dimensions of conflict, they work through this issue and reach a deeper level of mutual understanding. OPEN DEEPLY Podcast (on Spotify) https://open.spotify.com/episode/4xGf0sYeaQIjv2HDX67Lrq?si=...
Apr 05, 2023•1 hr 3 min•Season 2Ep. 6
In this episode, Kate & Liam explore a paradox: why do non-monogamous people go to such extreme lengths to keep their lifestyle a secret when it enriches their lives so much? Support the show
Mar 02, 2023•59 min•Season 2Ep. 5
In this episode, Liam tells the story of his erection struggles in group sex situations, and how he eventually conquered them. Let's just say that Kate is deeply worried. Important Links: Support us on Patreon... https://Patreon.com/kate_and_liam Hypnotism... https://www.sanfranciscohypnotherapy.com/ Naughty Gym Adventure Travel... https://www.naughtygym.com/naughty-gym-adventure-trips Room 77 Events... https://room77life.com/events77-mexico-feb-2023/ Podcast-A-Palooza Portland... https://podcas...
Jan 20, 2023•1 hr 14 min•Season 2Ep. 4
In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss in their usual frank way the ups and downs of their experience as Only Fans creators. IMPORTANT LINKS Kate's Only Fans https://onlyfans.com/katemonogamish Liam's Only Fans https://onlyfans.com/liam_landon Kate & Liam's New Travel Group https:/ /SapioTours.com Some other excellent Only Fans accounts mentioned in this episode: Andi's Only Fans https://onlyfans.com/onlyandivip Maria's Only Fans https://only fans.com/yesfunme Mr DD's Only Fans https://onl...
Dec 09, 2022•1 hr 6 min•Season 2Ep. 3
Kate interviews Rachel Krantz, journalist and author of Open: An Uncensored Memoir of Love, Liberation, and Non-Monogamy. They discuss the gaslighting, coercion, and jealousy Rachel experienced in her first open relationship, and some of the uncomfortable parallels Kate noticed between Rachel’s story and her own. Get Rachel’s book Open wherever you buy books, and check out her podcast ‘Help Existing’ wherever you listen to podcasts. LINKS Support us on Patreon: https://patreon.com/Kate_and_Liam ...
Nov 03, 2022•51 min•Season 2Ep. 2
In this episode, the first of the second season, Kate & Liam recount their adventures since the end of Season One. In doing so, they notice a pattern: while Liam enjoys solo play, Kate is at her best in group situations. These differences lead to moments of both great pleasure and extreme discomfort, which they explore in the typically 'no holds barred' Monogamish Marriage style. Links: Dragonfly Lee https://pureorgasmiclove.com/ Naughty Gym Adventure Travel https://www.naughtygym.com/ Room ...
Sep 23, 2022•1 hr 12 min•Season 2Ep. 1
This episode starts with face-off between Hedonism in Jamaica and Desire in Mexico, before discussing other possibilities for getting away with like-minded people. To join us at Podcast-A-Palooza in Palm Springs in June 2022, click here . To join us at Room 77's Summer Bang in Antigua, click here . Several other excellent podcasts are referenced in this episode, including : The Black N Kinky Lifestyle: A Swinger's Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/48sHbxqDuECW5AD0U5WHjQ?si=907ca4e19e434205 T...
May 23, 2022•1 hr 4 min•Season 1Ep. 11
Kate & Liam find their way to a shared understanding after weeks of stress over Liam's desire to date separately. Support the show
Apr 15, 2022•57 min•Season 1Ep. 10
In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss his date with Kaitlyn, and dealing with the aftershocks. Links: Polysecure by Jessica Fern https://www.amazon.com/Polysecure-Attachment-Trauma-Consensual-Nonmonogamy/dp/1944934987/ref=sr_1_1?crid=KONFU1LBLUE9&keywords=polysecure&qid=1647317479&sprefix=polysecure%2Caps%2C88&sr=8-1 Coaching in Non-Monogamy https://www.ExpansiveConnection.com Support the show...
Mar 15, 2022•1 hr 10 min
Liam and Kate work through some challenging emotions in advance of Liam's first solo date with another woman. Support the show
Mar 08, 2022•1 hr 10 min•Season 1Ep. 8
In this special episode, Kate talks one-on-one with her girlfriend April about their lifelong struggles with self-acceptance. Links Naughty Gym's Montana Adventure - May 7-11, 2022 https://www.naughtygym.com/adventure-travel Wanderlust Swinger's Podcast-A-Palooza Palm Springs - June 3-6, 2022 https://podcast-a-palooza.com/Monogamish Room 77's Summer Bang in Antigua - July 29-August 5, 2022 https://room77life.com/travel/ Support the show...
Jan 20, 2022•47 min•Season 1Ep. 7
