#69 are you my Mother?
I never wanted to be a mom and mothering didn’t come naturally to me. I had to discipline myself to be a good mom. So what does that mean?
Jun 09, 2022•41 min•Ep. 69
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#68 On Mothering
I never wanted to be a mother, but there I was pregnant living in a van.
May 11, 2022•28 min•Ep. 68
#67 “Lamenting the Theology of Silence”
How could the message carry so much weight? The font read, “The beginning of wisdom is silence.” https://leadbold.ticketspice.com/inspired-to-lead www.themarcellaproject.com FB Group page https://www.facebook.com/groups/506760903334015
Apr 27, 2022•39 min•Ep. 67
#66 Listening to Your Body the Interview
Faith should be embodied and we experience spirituality in our bodies. Join our conversation with Kylie.
Apr 13, 2022
#65 A Word, A Warning & A Wow
Recently I had the privilege of answering three questions for the attendees at the Inspired To Lead conference. Here is what I had to say. www.leadingbold.org/events www.themarcellaproject.com
Mar 29, 2022•38 min•Ep. 65
#64 Listening to the Wisdom My Body is Whispering
It occurred to me that I could benefit from listening to the wisdom my body is whispering . See I believe the body speaks a word about ME, about others, and about God. http://spiritualpractice.ca/welcome/how-can-my-ageing-become-a-spiritual-practice/the-second-half-of-life/
Mar 16, 2022•22 min•Ep. 64
#63 Man Enough? w/Nate Pyle
One of the things I learned studying masculinity in America is that there are moments when the question, what does it mean to be a man, rises. It usually coincides with seismic shifts like the Industrial Revolution. Our discussion with Nate Pyles about his Book Man Enough and knew we needed to hear his thinking on manhood right away. Enjoy!
Mar 02, 2022•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 63
#62 The Men We Long To Be w/Author Stephen Boyd
Stephen Boyd , Professor of Religion and Public Engagement at Wake Forest, specializes in the history of Christianity and Christian thought, gender studies, and religion and public life. He’s authored multiple books on masculinity and what it means to be a man, and today we’ll be digging into his best-selling Christian book, The Men We Long To Be . In this book, Stephen argues that our patriarchal system socializes and conditions our men to become, what he calls, lonely warriors and desperate lo...
Feb 16, 2022•53 min•Ep. 62
#61 What Does It Mean To Be A Real Man?
I have spent years studying the issue of masculinity in America . I have concluded that much of what we are taught is cultural, not biblical. Today let's go back to Jesus and ask him what it means to be a man who follows after you. How does your life help us understand what it means to be a real man? Join me as we discuss these issues with Carolyn Custis James.
Feb 02, 2022•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 61
#60 When Everything Is On Fire A Discussion With Brian Zahnd
I’ve been on a spiritual journey of unlearning and relearning my Christian faith. So much of what Brian Zahnd writes gives words and comfort to me. I appreciate how he normalizes what many of us are going through. For those raised in the conservative evangelical world, unlearning and relearning can be scary. We’ve been taught not to question or shift our theology, or as it’s said, you’ll end up on the slippery slope to liberalism or, worse, have no faith at all. Listen today as Brian normalizes ...
Jan 19, 2022•1 hr 9 min•Ep. 60
#59 Sheila Gregorie and The Great Sex Rescue Discussion
Sex is such a complicated topic because it's so personal and vulnerable. Most of our parents didn't talk about it; culture is hypersexualized, our parents were quiet, and porn's the go-to for learning how to. And sadly, our faith communities aren't doing much better. Many of the messages we received in the conservative faith community, were well, just wrong .
Jan 06, 2022•56 min•Ep. 59
#58 God Is Love: A Christmas Gift For You.
It's been three years since we've gone home for Christmas to be with my extended family, Covid. You know. And I anticipate warm wood-burning fires and fabulous food. Cause we are all foodies. My younger siblings have young kids --- you know it's the kiddos that make Christmas; their excitement and wonder are contagious. So I'm excited to be with them. But I'd be remiss if I left you with this Norman Rockwell image of my family. Because well, like most of you, my family’s got stuff and it can blo...
Dec 23, 2021•24 min•Ep. 58
#57 Rob Dixon and The Ten Attributes That Cultivate Flourishing Relationships
Today I’m talking with Rob Dixon about ten attributes that create flourishing relationships between men and women. Rob’s work speaks specifically to mixed-gender relationships in ministry and the workplace, but I have to tell you, I highlighted some things for Steve and me to discuss when he gets home from Africa.
Dec 10, 2021•1 hr 37 min•Ep. 57
#56 Advice For The Holidays From My Friend John's Funeral
The holiday season is upon us. And many of you have shared your angst about what could happen around the table; there’s potential for explosive conversations that could harm the relationships. Or maybe for some of you, the time around the table is just, well, boring. No one ever really says anything, just a lot of small talk, and you usually leave feeling like it was a waste of time. So I thought, what if this year we got intentional about our time around the table. What is this year we showed u...
Nov 24, 2021•16 min•Ep. 57
#55 Submission & Abuse, Oh My!
Abraham and Sarah and Hagar is a crazy story from the Bible that pastors often use as biblical support for telling women to go back and submit to their abusive husbands. Does this familiar passage ask women to submit to their abusive husband’s authority? Hmm, well, perhaps it doesn’t. Are we really seeing what our Bible says?
Nov 10, 2021•40 min•Ep. 55
#54 Look For The Women
I’m learning a new skill when reading the bible; it’s a skill teaching me to look for women. For example, I’ll ask my students to turn to a familiar passage like Luke 10, the story of Mary and Martha. And I ask them what they learned about this passage. Usually, they tell me it has something to do with having a quiet time with Jesus. I say, let’s take another look.
Oct 27, 2021•40 min•Ep. 54
#53 Be More Condescending, Please
Today I want to talk about God’s people being condescending. Yes, condescending, not in the way we’ve come to understand that word, to be patronizing or act superior. No, not that but rather what the term used to mean.
Oct 13, 2021•39 min•Ep. 53
#52 You Have Not Disappointed Jesus
Many of you out there have to go against the grain, transgress gendered boundaries, and in doing so, you've disappointed your parents, partner, or faith community. What I want you to know is you have not disappointed Jesus.
Sep 29, 2021•38 min•Ep. 52
#51 A Word From The Divine
It has been a year. A loooong year. More like two years. We might need to step away from all the madness and get a word from God. Just a word. Something God might want to say to you personally. So on today's podcast, I've asked my daughter to read to you, and through that reading, I pray the Spirit speaks. A word. A word for you.
Sep 15, 2021•17 min•Ep. 51
#50 My Wrinkled Faith Is Beautiful!
I have to be honest with you my faith looks different for me now. Some of the things I used to believe I don’t any longer, and I’m trying to figure out the complexities of how to love a mentally ill family member or hold on to hope when sexism continues to rain, not only in the culture but in our churches. Issues have gotten more complex and more nuanced, so what we’re gonna do is we’re going to look back on these issues faith hope & love with a whole lot of wrinkles.
Sep 01, 2021•26 min•Ep. 50
#49 Escalator Faith Redo
I’m older, and I’m looking back in my rearview mirror, where I see a more wrinkled faith. What I thought in my younger years, you know this escalator theology that would always go onward and upward, well we’re throwing stinking thinking out the window. Let’s revisit this topic, it’s that important.
Aug 18, 2021•28 min•Ep. 49
#48 Hey You’re Physically Beautiful: Desire & Ableism
I've sat with many married women who have this ache to be desired by their husbands, not just sexually but in all kinds of ways. And I've heard it from my single friends and my aging friends, who worry that they will become invisible and in my kid'’ lives and my own life and marriage. And we've all experienced it in our friendships, this wanting to be wanted. The longing to be chosen, to belong. PLUS I have some thoughts about ableism. If you don't know what that is, welcome to the club. I didn'...
Jul 29, 2021•40 min•Ep. 48
#47 What Exactly Does Your Body, Image?
I’m not against thin, sexy, young, or having babies. But that story isn’t big enough, complex enough to capture what it means to walk around in our bodies. I by no means have all the answers. What I do have are more important questions. Questions that go beyond , “Are my legs long, thin, or tan enough?” Trust me; your body needs to hear this.
Jul 14, 2021•49 min•Ep. 47
#46 A Mother's Heart: Some Things Can't Be Fixed, They Can Only Be Carried.
Today is June 29th. Three years ago today, Steve and I were on the road, somewhere near Nashville, Tenn, when I received a call from Hampton. I will never forget the sound of my son's voice. He wailed, "Mom, Cameron killed himself." I was in shock, and suddenly it felt like I couldn't breathe. I don't even remember what I said; there are no mothering books for this one, but I know we turned around, went straight to the Nashville airport, and back to Texas.
Jun 29, 2021•21 min•Ep. 46
#45 Body Image Part Five: Your Body Tells Me All About God
Think about it for a second your physical body identifies who you come from? Now hold onto that because it sets us up for what God said in our creation story, “Let us make humans in our image, to be like ourselves, male and female.” So basically, God is saying the triune God put a splash of God within her , something that when she sees her reflection, she’ll know who she is, Who God is, where she comes from, and why she’s here.
Jun 16, 2021•37 min•Ep. 45
#44 Body Image Part Four: Men Respond
I reached out to a bunch of guys, white male Christians between the ages of 35- 65, men who have been raised and served in the conservative evangelical church, pastors, preachers, worship leaders, lay leaders in our churches. I hope that this conversation will lead you to have a conversation with the men you know, and together maybe we Christians, through the power of the spirit and name of Jesus Christ, might - reshape the church's view – of men and women....
Jun 09, 2021•34 min•Ep. 44
#43 Body Image Part Three: The G.I. Joe Pastor
I've talked to many women about their bodies, but I've never spoken with men. So today, we are changing that in our conversation with Todd Phillips. Let's see what the culture and the church are teaching about the male body image.
Jun 01, 2021•52 min•Ep. 43
#42 Body Image Part Two: Modest Is The Hottest!
In today's episode of Jackie Always Unplugged, we're diving into w hat the church teaches us about the female body. And As I said, we should expect a better story than we get from Instagram or Tik Toc, or Netflix. Well - let me ask you? Do we? Take a moment and ponder, think back to Sunday school, middle school, youth group, beach camp, summer camp, bible studies, small groups, maybe you attended a Song of Solomon conference, or it was a sermon from the pulpit. What spoken or unspoken messages d...
May 05, 2021•28 sec•Ep. 42
#41 Body Image - Part One: I Don’t Want My Daughter To Hate Her Body.
It's time we discuss our bodies. Yeah, I know a very painful subject. The pandemic hasn't helped. There's been zoom calls and covid pounds and bathing suit weather is around the corner. And no, this isn't a push for you to join some beach body program . What I want us to do is talk about why we hate our bodies and how we might start to live confidently in our skin, yes, even with Zoom chins and covid pounds. Over the next five episodes , we will work our way through 1) how our family and culture...
Apr 20, 2021•42 min•Ep. 41
#40 "The Ideal Biblical Woman" Part Two
In the last podcast, I spoke with Beth Allison Barr about her book, The Making of Biblical Womanhood . The premise behind the book is simple; biblical womanhood isn’t biblical . Beth argues it’s merely a disguise for promoting patriarchy and subjugating. So I want to share how the idea of biblical womanhood tends to show up in our faith communities . Because I think, more often than not, it’s expressed in very subtle ways....
Apr 07, 2021•28 min•Ep. 40
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