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The Luella Jonk Show

Dr. Luella Jonk, PhDredcircle.com

From the therapy room of a registered psychotherapist, dating coach and solopreneur who has tirelessly attempted a 'healthy' work-life balance for 25 years, it rarely existed for me and likely does not for most business owners, entrepreneurs and executives. The truth is relationships can really suffer. I will be interviewing expert guests who are doing things right so we can all learn to mix business with pleasure. Topics will range from building better relationships, connection, dating, and how to spread more kindness and compassion towards others while doing so. Listeners, you have the right to have passion surrounding your work while maintaining passionate relationships. You can have your cake and eat it too. New episodes premiere every Tuesday.

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Episodes

Episode #33: Parenting in Crisis: Dr. Leonard Sax on Why Authority Matters More Than Friendship

In this thought-provoking episode, I sit down with Dr. Leonard Sax, renowned family physician, psychologist, and author of The Collapse of Parenting, to delve into the pressing challenges modern parents face. We explore how the shift from authoritative parenting to prioritizing friendship with our children has led to widespread uncertainty and a societal crisis. Dr. Sax shares compelling stories from his practice, including a mother hesitant to take away her daughter's phone, misdiagnosed ADHD c...

Jan 21, 20251 hr 23 min

Episode #32: How Lisa’s One-Way Ticket Sparked a Life-Changing Creative Journey

In this episode, I sit down with Lisa Brancatisano as she shares her transformative journey from a high-stress career to embracing creativity as a form of therapy. We explore how reconnecting with her love for watercolors helped her rediscover joy and balance, even in the midst of life's pressures. Lisa opens up about the emotional toll of trying to juggle work, motherhood, and personal well-being, and how it led to moments of burnout and anxiety. She reflects on the profound shift she made when...

Jan 14, 20251 hr 4 min

Episode #31: Who Are You Without the Roles You Play?

In this solo episode, I’m exploring one of the most fundamental questions we can ask ourselves: Who are you, really? It’s a simple question, yet so many of us struggle to answer it. I reflect on moments in my own life—like sitting on the edge of the bathtub, feeling like I was about to break down—and how these emotional turning points led me to reconsider my identity beyond roles, routines, and expectations. I’ll share why our value isn’t tied to our productivity or achievements and how we can s...

Jan 07, 202551 min

Episode #30: What We Lose When We Ignore Gender Roles in Modern Families

In this solo episode, I share my thoughts on a topic that feels more relevant than ever: the impact of burnout and the societal pressure to erase gender differences. Drawing from my decades of experience as a coach and therapist, I open up about how this push for sameness is leaving many women — and families -- emotionally drained and disconnected. I reflect on the pressures women face to excel in every aspect of life, from thriving in their careers to being the perfect parent, and how this rele...

Dec 31, 202455 min

Episode #29: Why Boundaries Aren't Walls: Jennifer's Key to Stronger Connections

In this episode, I sit down with Jennifer Febel, an emotional resilience coach and author of How to Set Boundaries Without Feeling Like a Dick. Jennifer shares her transformative journey, from struggling with emotional pain to becoming a boundary-building expert. We dive into the misconceptions about boundaries—why they’re not about shutting people out but inviting healthier, deeper connections. Jennifer explains how boundaries can bridge the gap between independence and interdependence, giving ...

Dec 24, 20241 hr 6 min

Episode #28: Tiffany's Hard Truth About Burnout, Boundaries, and Business Growth

In this episode, I sit down with Tiffany a dynamic entrepreneur and CEO of TGR Management Consulting, to uncover her journey from corporate burnout to building a thriving consulting business. Tiffany opens up about a pivotal moment—sitting on the edge of her bathtub, overwhelmed and unsure of how to move forward—that sparked her decision to leave behind the traditional career path and redefine success on her own terms. We explore the emotional and practical challenges of starting over, including...

Dec 17, 202452 min

Episode #27: Jessica on Breaking Money Myths and Toxic Financial Narratives

In this episode, I sit down with Jessica Moorhouse, a sought-after money expert, accredited financial counselor, and author of Everything But Money: The Hidden Barriers Between You and Financial Freedom. Together, we explore how our relationship with money goes beyond numbers and delves into deeper emotional and psychological patterns. Jessica shares her personal journey of self-discovery, from overcoming negative self-talk to unlearning toxic financial habits rooted in societal expectations and...

Dec 10, 202455 min

Episode #26: Why Life's Challenges Are the Wake-up Calls We All Need

In this solo episode, I reflect on life’s simple joys, challenges, and the lessons we often discover in unexpected moments. Recorded from a stunning beach in Mexico, I share my thoughts on breaking free from routines, finding gratitude in dark seasons, and the balance between striving for more and appreciating the present. I dive into personal experiences — how travel reminds me of home, why following gut instincts matters, and the value of connecting with ourselves and others. This episode touc...

Dec 03, 202435 min

Episode #25: Taking Charge, Letting Go: How Verna Rebuilt Her Life After Tragedy and Inspired Others

In this episode, I sit down with Verna Kakowchyk, a woman whose story of loss, transformation, and resilience inspires us to embrace life’s challenges with courage. Verna opens up about navigating grief after the loss of her husband, the power of seeking therapy, and how she rebuilt her life through community and self-care. We explore Verna’s journey of taking charge during her husband’s illness, managing overwhelming responsibilities, and setting healthy boundaries to protect her peace. From jo...

Nov 26, 20241 hr 10 min

Episode #24: Why Consumerism is Stealing Your Joy and How to Take It Back with Luella Jonk

In this solo episode, I reflect on the pressures we face in a world of endless expectations and over-consumption. From navigating the overwhelming influence of consumerism to rediscovering joy in life’s simple moments, I share personal insights on why it’s essential to focus on what truly matters. This episode delves into the challenges of balancing personal and professional lives, the traps of comparison, and the yearning for authentic connections in a filtered world. I also explore the emotion...

Nov 19, 20241 hr

Episode #23: Breaking the Stigma: Embracing Sensitivity and Emotional Growth with Alissa Boyer

In this episode, I’m joined by Alissa Boyer, a mentor for highly sensitive people (HSPs), to discuss the often-overlooked reality of men as HSPs and the unique challenges they face in embracing their sensitivity. And that 20% of the population—men and women alike—are highly sensitive? Yet, due to societal conditioning, men are frequently encouraged to hide their sensitivity, seeing it as a weakness rather than a strength. Alissa and I dive into the impact of these expectations on men’s emotional...

Nov 12, 202450 min

Episode #22: Why Financial Confidence Matters: Judith on Preparing for Life's Uncertainties

In this episode, I sit down with Judith Chambers, a seasoned financial advisor with over 25 years of experience, to uncover the often-overlooked connection between financial independence and personal empowerment—especially for women. We explore Judith’s unique journey, from her early start in the workforce to balancing career, education, and family, all while pursuing a nontraditional path in wealth management. Judith opens up about the importance of financial literacy, and I shares my belief th...

Nov 05, 202451 min

Episode #21: Don’t Hide Your Heart: Stephanie’s Story of Connection

In this episode, I sit down with Stephanie Mahoney to explore the impact of vulnerability on our personal and professional lives. We dive into the challenges of building authentic connections and how fear can hold us back from being truly ourselves. Stephanie shares her journey of embracing her emotions and the role therapy has played in helping her foster deeper relationships. We discuss the importance of being open and honest about our feelings, even when it feels uncomfortable. This episode i...

Oct 29, 202455 min

Episode #20: How Luella Found Strength in Vulnerability

In this episode, I share my thoughts on trust—how it affects our families and work relationships. I talk about the struggles we face when trying to build trust, especially when balancing family life and work demands. I also discuss my journey with therapy and how it’s helped me understand the importance of being open about our feelings. Therapy isn’t just about healing; it teaches us how to connect with our emotions and be vulnerable, even when it’s hard. This episode offers real insights on the...

Oct 22, 202458 min

Episode #19: You Are Not Alone: Quinton’s Journey to Embracing Emotions for Deeper Bonds

In this episode, I engage in a heartfelt conversation with Quinton, delving into the intricate dynamics of family relationships and the vital role of emotional openness in fostering deeper connections. Quinton shares his journey of embracing vulnerability, highlighting how expressing emotions can transform relationships with loved ones and enhance trust in personal and professional settings. We explore the challenges of balancing emotional depth with everyday responsibilities, discussing the sig...

Oct 15, 20241 hr 2 min

Episode #18: Finding Balance: David’s Journey Through Parenthood and Sustainable Entrepreneurship

In this episode, I dive into an enlightening conversation with David Murray, exploring the challenges of modern-day parenting and how empathy and support play pivotal roles in both family life and sustainable business growth. David reflects on his personal experiences as a parent, sharing valuable insights into the balance of nurturing children while maintaining a strong foundation in his professional life. We discuss the importance of creating a supportive community, both in family dynamics and...

Oct 08, 20241 hr 1 min

Episode #17: Luella's Path to Self-Awareness and Embracing Neurodivergence for Personal Growth

In this episode, I discussed on how to explore the significance of self-awareness and how it plays a crucial role in personal growth and healing. I shared my profound journey into therapy, reflecting on the impact of childhood programming, the power of imagination, and the importance of challenging one's subconscious beliefs. I delve into my experiences working with neurodivergent individuals and how embracing one's unique cognitive traits can foster self-acceptance and transformation. I also sh...

Oct 01, 202451 min

Episode #16: Amie’s Journey in Building Allia Health and Revolutionizing Mental Health Care

In this episode, I sit down with Amie, the inspiring 21-year-old founder of Allia Health, to discuss her groundbreaking approach to mental health care through precision psychiatry. Amie shares her deeply personal journey, from battling anorexia as a teenager to founding a data-driven health startup that aims to revolutionize mental health treatment. We dive into the challenges she faced along the way, including accessing the right treatment, her experience with ADHD diagnosis, and how her recove...

Sep 24, 202457 min

Episode #15: The Power of Polarity: John Gray on Sexual Chemistry and Long-Term Love

In this episode, I welcome back John Gray, the renowned author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus, to dive deep into the dynamics of attraction and relationships. John shares his decades of expertise on the biological and emotional differences between men and women, focusing on the concept of sexual polarity and how it fuels long-term attraction. We explore the importance of balancing testosterone and estrogen in maintaining intimacy, the role of enlightened sexuality, and practical ways...

Sep 17, 20241 hr 1 min

Episode #14: From Startup to Fractional CMO - Building a Brand and Finding Balance with Sonia Baschez

In this episode, I sit down with Sonia Baschez, a marketing expert who made the bold leap from working as a key player in a fast-growing startup to establishing her own fractional CMO business. Sonia opens up about the challenges and rewards of making the shift from a secure corporate role to becoming her own boss. Explore the process of building a personal brand, the importance of having a clear mission, and how Sonia overcame the fear of marketing herself. Whether you're an entrepreneur lookin...

Sep 10, 20241 hr 10 minSeason 1Ep. 14

Episode #13: Breaking Boundaries in Venture Capital with Amber Illig

In this episode, we are joined by Amber Illig, a pioneering general partner at The Council Fund, who’s reshaping the landscape of early-stage venture capital. In this episode, she shares her experiences of transitioning from mechanical engineering to venture capital, highlighting the value of cross-industry expertise. We also get an inside look at The Council Angels, a thriving community Amber created for female leaders in tech and beyond, who are passionate about angel investing. Amber discusse...

Sep 03, 20241 hr 3 minSeason 1Ep. 13

Episode #12: Madeline Armitage’s Transformative Journey from Fashion Runways to Sustainable Pathways

In this episode, I sit down with Madeline Armitage, a former fashion industry professional who transitioned from the bustling streets of New York to the realm of sustainable business practices. Madeline shares her winding journey, from managing millions in inventory for Nordstrom to pursuing an MBA focused on sustainability. Explore Madeline’s inspiring journey, filled with lessons on resilience, reinvention, and the power of aligning one’s career with personal values. If you’re in the fashion i...

Aug 27, 20241 hr 12 minSeason 1Ep. 12

Episode #11: A Psychotherapist's Perspective on Men's Emotional Health

In this solo episode, I explore the nuances of male emotion, drawing on my personal experiences as well as the insights I've gleaned from my professional practice. I examine the biological and cultural factors that shape the male psyche, and why respecting each individual's unique emotional needs is crucial for fostering healthy, fulfilling relationships. As a psychotherapist who's spent over two decades working with male clients, I've witnessed firsthand the growing confusion and pressure that ...

Aug 20, 202450 minSeason 1Ep. 11

Episode #10: Lessons From a PhD Biochemist Turned Angel Investor with Rachel Tsui

I loved hearing about Rachel Tsui's decision to trade in her lab coat and flats for a smart blazer and heels, which allowed her to expose her higher self and find her passion. Rachel's evolution from biochemist to a pivotal figure in customer success and angel investing provides a rich tapestry of insights. Join us as she candidly discusses her transformative journey and the profound lessons she's gleaned along the way. Whether you're navigating the early stages of your own venture or seeking to...

Aug 13, 202448 minSeason 1Ep. 10

Episode #9: Embracing Sensitivity - Understanding and Thriving as a Highly Sensitive Person with Alissa Boyer

In this episode, I explore the world of Highly Sensitive People (HSPs) with coach Alissa Boyer. Alissa shares her personal journey, from battling chronic health issues to embracing her sensitivity as a strength. The discussion explores the challenges HSPs face in relationships and workplaces, touching on topics like people-pleasing, overthinking, and feeling misunderstood. She also offers insights into the scientific connection between HSPs and physical ailments, and how accepting one's sensitiv...

Aug 06, 20241 hrSeason 1Ep. 9

Episode #8: Navigating Emotional Wellness and Resilience in 2024

In this episode, I share two recent guest interviews where I was featured. Daniela Wolfe from the Best D Life Podcast and John Brink from the On The Brink Show both had me on their shows. In my discussion with John, I focused on cultivating a positive mindset, resilience, and perseverance in pursuing dreams. We also delved into men's emotional health and the importance of meaningful connections for happiness and success. With Daniela, I explored women’s burnout and emphasized the critical role o...

Jul 30, 202458 minSeason 1Ep. 8

Episode #7: Work-Life Balance Is Unachievable - Here is what you need to do instead

In this episode I discuss how striving to maintain balance between your work and personal life at any given time is essentially impossible. Instead, you need to see these two entities as being in a constant flux, and you need to respect that our world is constantly changing. There will be times where you are required more in one area of your life than another. It becomes easier when you realize there is no such thing as good or bad, right or wrong. Nothing is so black and white regarding individ...

Jul 23, 202444 minSeason 1Ep. 7

Episode #6: The Two Ways Humans Operate: One Gets Results, The Other Gets You A Hug At Best

Not every conversation advocates for problem-solving or open displays of vulnerability. The only conversations that advocate for these behaviors are those in which change needs to happen. It is typical that in business, we have a problem-solving conversation—not one that calls for a lot of emotion or vulnerability. Why is that? Because we are focused on the end goal, we subsequently check our egos at the door into the boardroom. In business, we know we need to work as a team player or are kicked...

Jul 16, 202438 minSeason 1Ep. 6

Episode #5: When Wants, Needs, Expectations, and Negotiations Collide: What a Relationship Therapist Teaches Us About Boundaries with Abby Medcalf

Abby Medcalf is a Relationship Maven, psychologist, author, podcast host and Tedx speaker who has helped thousands of people think differently so they can create connection, ease and joy in their relationships (especially the one with yourself)! With her unique background in both business and counseling, she brings a fresh, effective perspective to life’s struggles using humor, research and her direct, no-nonsense style. With over 35 years of experience, Abby is a recognized authority and sought...

Jul 09, 20241 hr 26 minSeason 1Ep. 5

Episode #4: How A Skilled Raiser of Venture Capital and Founder Harmonizes Work and Life with Alexander Harmsen

Alexander Harmsen is an experienced tech entrepreneur, CEO, board member, and advisor, having founded multiple successful companies and organizations. His work has seen him produce multiple AI-driven products, scale sales globally, hire world-class executives, manage hundreds of employees, raise over $30M in venture capital, and successfully navigate an M&A process. He is focused on hard problems that have a meaningful impact on the world, with 2 kids, and a wife who is equally as ambitious,...

Jul 02, 20241 hr 9 minSeason 1Ep. 4
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