May Q&A: Is There a Way Back After Losing Desire?

Heather has been married to her husband for eight years, but they’re rarely intimate. Following a hidden ED diagnosis and an affair, her husband is finally initiating sex… but she’s no longer interested. 

Now Heather wants to know, “Is there a way back to each other… after I’ve lost desire?”

In this episode, we’ll get into some sensitive topics, including - what to do when sex feels like an obligation, how to face the reality of your relationship’s problems, and what it means that you BOTH have a say in the future of your marriage (plus the fact that there’s no ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ decisions here).

Listen in as I answer Heather’s question, and see what you might apply to your own situation.

What You’ll Learn In This Episode:

0:31 - She’s been married for 8 years, but intimacy has always been limited
4:16 - Can you start by giving yourself grace?
5:06 - The question of having a child… or getting divorced
7:35 - You need to tell yourself the truth
10:04 - He gets to choose for his life… and you get to choose for yours
13:17 - Is there a way back to each other… after all this? 
16:57 - Is he on ‘good behavior’ right now? 
19:10 - There’s no ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ decision here. But the decision is yours

Mentioned In This Episode

COURSE: Disconnection to Desire

Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

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