S7 CH14 | People Only Change When They Feel Like It | The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | 10 Mins Books

The text argues that attempting to motivate others to change is ineffective and often counterproductive. It emphasizes that genuine change stems from internal desire, not external pressure. The author introduces the "Let Them Theory," advocating acceptance and understanding of others' choices, rather than coercion. This approach, grounded in neuroscience and psychology research, aims to inspire change through influence rather than force. Ultimately, the focus shifts to controlling one's own behavior and using compassionate influence to positively impact others.