S5 CH10 | How to Make Comparison Your Teacher | The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | 10 Mins Books

This text presents the "Let Them Theory," a method for reframing the negative impact of social comparison. It argues that instead of viewing others' successes as personal failures, individuals should use such observations as inspiration and a blueprint for their own growth. The author illustrates this concept with personal anecdotes and examples, emphasising the importance of consistent effort and action over dwelling on perceived shortcomings. The core message promotes self-responsibility and a shift from competitive to collaborative mindsets. Ultimately, the theory aims to help readers transform jealousy into motivation, achieving their goals by learning from others' experiences.