S4 CH8 | The Right Decision Often Feels Wrong | The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins | 10 Mins Books

The text discusses the difficult decision of a man considering calling off his wedding shortly before the ceremony. The author emphasizes the importance of prioritizing one's own well-being, even if it causes pain to others. It argues that avoiding difficult conversations to spare others' feelings ultimately leads to more significant pain. The author proposes a "Let Them" philosophy—allowing others to experience their emotions without taking responsibility for managing them—to empower individuals to make decisions aligned with their values. This approach encourages self-compassion and the courage to make tough choices despite potential negative reactions.