We got hitched this weekend and it was perfect. I'll have to do a whole episode on just that. But first, a revisit of our love story and how we stay so damned content. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscription: € 19.99 annual subscription: € 9.90 per month...
Sep 23, 2025•1 hr 10 min
We talk about their coming out experience, instagram dating, uhauling, how to spot a lesbian in different parts of the country, jorts and more. You can find Pure XTC here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscription: € 19.99 annual subscription: € 9.90 per month...
Sep 16, 2025•47 min
We talk about style, sex, community and cultural differences that come up when people begin to come into their queer identities. Eva is a queer sex educator and coach whose work mostly focuses on later in life queer and trans people. You can find Eva here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscription: € 19.9...
Sep 08, 2025•38 min
We talk about how Izzy got into fitness, why she trains queer women specifically and what fitness does for both of us in and out of the gym. Also we both love muscle cars, it's a bit of a bro out, lol. You can find Izzy here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscription: € 19.99 annual subscription: € 9.90 p...
Aug 31, 2025•45 min
This episode was one of those “we could go on forever” conversations. We talk about lesbian representation, being dykes, not being into love is love, our different experiences with gender, a little on perimenopause. Something for everyone. You can find Cat here. And the Rebellious Podcast here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscript...
Aug 25, 2025•1 hr 12 min
We talk about femme identity, policing of queerness, trad wives, LGBTQ+ history and the lack of inclusion in queer spaces. That's honestly reductive, this is a great conversation and that's just the tip of the iceberg. If you don't know Doctress Kaila, you're welcome. You can find her here. You can find her book here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between mon...
Aug 18, 2025•1 hr 26 min
Marita and I talk about her experience on and off The Ultimatum: Queer Love, what it was like behind the scenes and what she looks forward to as she moves on with the story that is all her own now. (Spoiler: a new show and other creative projects are in the works!) You can find Marita here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription ...
Aug 13, 2025•46 min
In one of the most popular episodes to date, we talk about our shared history in fitness, the politics of bodies and understanding desire outside of cultural expectations. You can find Kelly here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscription: € 19.99 annual subscription: € 9.90 per month...
Aug 04, 2025•1 hr 5 min
We talk about Kelsey's journey from a long term heteronormative relationship and marriage to her queer awakening and Uhaul scenario. As well as her work in abortion advocacy and recent initiatives around guiding community conversations on self managed abortions. All the links: bit.ly/abortionpillinfoshare https://www.plancpills.org https://mahotline.org https://reprolegalhelpline.org https://kelseyrhodes.com https://www.instagram.com/kelsey_dot_org/ https://kelseyrhodes.substack.com You can find...
Jul 28, 2025•54 min
Sydney King and I discuss what it means to be a part of a community. Why they believe so strongly that you should inconvenience your friends. Thoughts on un-friending with integrity and the importance of offline connection. You can find Sydney here. And their powerpoint presentation here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription pr...
Jul 22, 2025•1 hr 6 min
Talking with founders of Chapstick Magazine about the lesbian culture, the importance of lesbian spaces and their growing project. You can find Chapstick Magazine here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscription: € 19.99 annual subscription: € 9.90 per month...
Jul 13, 2025•29 min
Tamara is back and we talk through a vampire book we read together as well as several other sapphic books we recommend. We do our best to not give anything away and give solid recs from across genres. You can find Tamara here. Books we mention: The Gilda Stories -Jewelle Gomez Women -Chloe Caldwell Acts of Service -Lillian Fishman Bury Our Bones in the Midnight Soil -V. E. Schwab Mistakes Were Made -Meryl Wilsner Wow, No Thank You -Samantha Irby This is How You Lose the Time War -Amal El-Mohtar ...
Jul 07, 2025•1 hr 2 min
Emory Parker (known widely for her power bottom take on Chappell Roan's The Giver) and I talk about making queer art, the representation she grew up with, the creative process and the freedom inside of being queer. You can find Emory here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscription: € 19.99 annual subscrip...
Jun 29, 2025•42 min
We talk about the on and offline lesbian discourse that irks us, ways we maybe stand to communicate with each other better and an assortment of intracultural hot takes. You can find Nelly here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscription: € 19.99 annual subscription: € 9.90 per month...
Jun 23, 2025•1 hr 1 min
Jess and I talk about her experiences in the early 2000s at Autostraddle, my Roman Empire of celesbian gossip and her recent deep dive into the Cult of SoulCycle. You can find Jess and all her projects here. The Golden Ticket Syllabus for Hot Takes and Deep Dives: Interviews with: Jamie Babbit Ilene Chaiken Marja Lewis Ryan The L Word gossip one Lesbian Bar Project Rosie O’Donnell Sandra Bernhard Guinevere Turner!!!! Major All 3 Jackie Warner You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus ...
Jun 16, 2025•53 min
So a sapphic pop singer started dating a man and launched it during pride and the internet around her fandom erupted with a multitude of reactions and we're talking about that. I also read a comment about the whiteness of it all that mentions the following people. Here is more about them. More about Sakia Gunn Recent article on Jonathan Joss Action items for Miashah Moses Sponsors: Perifit Kegel exercise trainer discount link (I love, seriously) You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllab...
Jun 09, 2025•48 min
This is a solo episode where I talk more about my own story, answer listener questions and am generally elated to be queer. Happy pride! XOXO Mentioned: Red Hare Leather & Lava Dreams You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscription: € 19.99 annual subscription: € 9.90 per month...
Jun 02, 2025•48 min
Kat and I discuss recent lesbian celebrity gossip. You can find Kat here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscription: € 19.99 annual subscription: € 9.90 per month...
May 22, 2025•1 hr 4 min
Send us a text Womontown sought to establish a community where queer women could find financial security, support, and acceptance. Womontown attracted women from across the US, offering support systems for new arrivals. You can watch the documentary here. * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscription: € 19.99 annual subscription: € 9.90 per month You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The S...
May 15, 2025•53 min
Body changes, better sex, clearer boundaries, and mostly the joys of being older. You can find Whitni here. *The movie I was trying to remember was Go Fish and Guinevere Turner-- icon. * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscription: € 19.99 annual subscription: € 9.90 per month You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN...
May 11, 2025•1 hr 4 min
Liney and I talk about the inspiration behind their new music, astrology and play a light and fun round of “smash or pass” featuring lesbian stereotypes. You can find Liney here. You can find Liney’s music here. * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscription: € 19.99 annual subscription: € 9.90 per month You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHE...
Apr 30, 2025•51 min
We talk about the importance of restorative queer history and some of public historian Amanda's favorite stories from her research. You can find Amanda here. * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscription: € 19.99 annual subscription: € 9.90 per month) You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term ...
Apr 28, 2025•53 min
We talk about the impact of being labeled sluts, discovering her sexuality, dressing for the queer gaze and biphobia. You can find Devon here. * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscription: € 19.99 annual subscription: € 9.90 per month) You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled...
Apr 16, 2025•53 min
We answer questions from listeners about how to flag as femme, how to "get out there" and relational skills for building community. You can find Christabel here. You can find her workshop here. And her substack here. * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscription: € 19.99 annual subscription: € 9.90 per month) You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast...
Apr 14, 2025•1 hr 4 min
We talk about the diversity within the trans experience, trans masc people in lesbian spaces, where to find bi girls in LA, sharing dyke culture and making art for queer people. You can find Jasper here. Safe & Holy on Spotify * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscription: € 19.99 annual subscription: € 9.90 per month) You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More abo...
Apr 07, 2025•54 min
We covered a lot of ground : identity development, family, creating space for ourselves, lesbian style, de-centering men and Fi's slow, sustainable, anime inspired fashion brand. You can find Fi here. * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscription: € 19.99 annual subscription: € 9.90 per month) You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER L...
Mar 26, 2025•1 hr 11 min
We talk about our shared history in fitness, the politics of bodies and understanding desire outside of cultural expectations. You can find Kelly here. * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscription: € 19.99 annual subscription: € 9.90 per month) You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be...
Mar 23, 2025•1 hr 4 min
Lo is the host and co-founder of Where to Find Us. We talked about her religious upbringing, her first relationship experiences, coming out and the importance of creating spaces where queer people are centered and safe. You can find Lo here. Where to find us here. And her co-founder Tiffany Watts here. * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscription: € 19.99 annual subscription: € 9.90...
Mar 17, 2025•51 min
In spite of just meeting, this episode really feels like old friends. We talk about being from places that are gayer than people realize, queer awakenings, sapphic media and (NYT best selling author!) Kristen's newest book, "Stop Me If You've Heard This One." You can find Kristen here. * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscription: € 19.99 annual subscription: € 9.90 per month) You c...
Mar 10, 2025•53 min
We talk about Lori's experience being a part of the US women's national team and all 3 women's pro soccer leagues, her relationships on the teams and the ways they championed one another on and off the field. As well as the progress in women's sports since Lori's career began and where things are headed next. Also, just like, being gay. You can find Lori here. * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price...
Mar 03, 2025•51 min