An unapologetic archive of lesbian, sapphic, and dyke life curated by author, ghostwriter, and Midwestern lesbian Erin Brown. Part cultural critique, part personal canon—exploring queer history, media dissection, identity formation, body politics, and the relationships that shape us. Less rainbow-washed pride, more lesbian praxis.
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The most downloaded episode of all time. *This is a solo episode where I talk more about my own story, answer listener questions and am generally elated to be queer. Happy pride! XOXO Mentioned: Red Hare Leather & Lava Dreams You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscription: € 19.99 annual subscription: € 9....
We talk about how The Lesbian Bar Project came about, the cultural significance of lesbian bars, and the importance of irl community for learning and relationships. But also tear up about queer friendship, mentors and finding a home in queerness. The Lesbian Bar Project Substack The Lesbian Bar Project Website You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or ...
Yen Tan is the founder of Cherry Letter Club, an innovative approach to creating and distributing sapphic fiction through handwritten letters. They share their passion for queer history, tactile storytelling and independent art. We also spend some time in the downside of presenting all of this online and why do it anyway. You can find Cherry Letter Club here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can ...
A conversation about why queer representation is never “just a TV show.” Erin sits down with Amy Rosa Hough, the organizer behind the viral petition to save I Kissed a Girl , to talk about lesbian visibility, media erasure, queer culture, and what it means to finally see yourself reflected on screen. From The L Word to reality dating shows, they unpack why representation shapes identity, community, and the ability to imagine a future for yourself. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syll...
We talk about Lori's experience being a part of the US women's national team and all 3 women's pro soccer leagues, her relationships on the teams and the ways they championed one another on and off the field. As well as the progress in women's sports since Lori's career began and where things are headed next. Also, just like, being gay. You can find Lori here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can...
We talk about masculinity, softness, and what gets lost when people try to read each other too quickly. It’s part gender theory, part dyke banter, part designer testosterone? You can find JASPER here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscription: € 19.99 annual subscription: € 9.90 per month...
I was asked to create a class around the Queer Identity Development Theory I created for a University sexology course and I'm sharing that with you as well! The teacher loved it, I hope you do too! Much of the queer identity models that exist were created by straight people and involve assimilation. This-- isn't that. This is community driven, non-linear and based on lived experience. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Det...
Natalie Kelly shares her journey of discovering her lesbian identity, the boy crazy to lesbian pipeline, and navigating relationships, gender expression, and societal expectations. You can find Natalie here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscription: € 19.99 annual subscription: € 9.90 per month...
We talk about second adolescence pertaining to coming out as LGBTQ+, divorce and/or leaving a high control religion. What it can entail, feel like and why it often serves as an important part of identity development. You can find Erica here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscription: € 19.99 annual subscr...
We talk about the politics of identity and experience, metaphors for pleasure, and somehow land in our favorite conspiracy theories. Shout out Gerald the dolphin. You can find Cindy Lee here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscription: € 19.99 annual subscription: € 9.90 per month...
I start this episode reflecting on the profound impact queer friendships have had on my life and how they’ve shaped the way I see myself and move through the world. Our relationships hold culture, understanding, and a kind of recognition that can be hard to find anywhere else. I also invited a few of my friends to weigh in with voice notes about what queer friendship means to them and it's probably my favorite thing I've ever made, tbh. This week's question is "How have queer friendships impacte...
Erin Brown delves into heteronormative dating patterns seen on "Love is Blind," questioning if preferences like hair color are genuine attraction or societal performance. She contrasts this with her own journey of discovering true attraction, free from conditioned checklists. The episode concludes with her sharing the essential qualities she seeks in a culturally queer partner, emphasizing autonomy, emotional safety, and shared values over superficial traits.
Erin and Cindy Lee talk queer/lesbian sex lore such as the controversy around the validity of scissoring/tribbing (what's the difference?), lesbian bed death, what "counts" as sex and more! You can find them @cindyleealves You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscription: € 19.99 annual subscription: € 9.90 per ...
Erin Brown shares her personal journey of coming out as a lesbian after divorce, reflecting on the profound difference in relationships and challenging heteronormative indoctrination. She offers affirmations for "late bloomers," critiques the term itself, and discusses navigating sexual identity, trauma, communication in queer sex, and dealing with external judgments. The episode ultimately celebrates the freedom and groundedness found in authentic self-discovery.
Erin Brown (40s) and Sydney King (20s) delve into their intergenerational queer friendship, sharing "lore" specific to their generations, from childhood TV characters like Sam on "Who's the Boss?" to early YouTube lesbian dramas like Domo and Chrissy. They explore the nuances of queer community, the concept of "baby gays," the importance of genuine representation versus performative allyship, and critique the sanitization of queer identity. The conversation highlights the value of diverse experiences and connections across the queer age spectrum.
We talk about intersections of identity in the queer community online and off, the geographical differences in our cluster culture, but also fisting and an awesome movie they made. You can find DJ here . You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscription: € 19.99 annual subscription: € 9.90 per month...
This episode features Erin Brown and burlesque performer Rosé BuTaè exploring their shared experiences navigating queer identity, moving from bisexual to lesbian labels despite societal assumptions. They delve into the world of burlesque, highlighting its role in personal empowerment, body autonomy, and challenging beauty standards. Rosé also discusses her work in producing burlesque shows specifically for Black and marginalized artists, emphasizing community and support within the entertainment industry.
In this solo episode Erin answers listener questions about identity, relationships and her experience. Other topics include: the new series "Members Only," the importance of d/ke spaces and straight women representation in queer community. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscription: € 19.99 annual subscrip...
Jill Louise Busby is the author of Unfollow me: Essays on Complicity. We talk about the experience of "microfame," reality television, being a new mother and lesbian bed death. You can find Jill's substack here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscription: € 19.99 annual subscription: € 9.90 per month...
In this episode, Devon Day Moretti shares her experiences with early body shame and being labeled "slutty" from a young age. She delves into her journey of embracing bisexuality, confronting internalized homophobia and biphobia, and navigating bi-erasure in relationships with men. Devon also highlights the healing power of queer sex and the importance of expressing one's queer identity through fashion, challenging the male gaze and fostering community.
We talk about divorce. Starting over. Life scripts handed to women that are mostly about adjusting to disappointment. And being the type of b*tch that keeps it pushing. You can find Rachel here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscription: € 19.99 annual subscription: € 9.90 per month...
We talk about being queer and going home for the holidays (or not!) and different ways you might think about your wants, needs and boundaries. You can find Dani here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscription: € 19.99 annual subscription: € 9.90 per month...
Revisiting my first chat with Whitni Miller. We talk about intimacy, the ways binary gender dynamics can play out in queer relationships, types of desire, orgasm cheat codes and communication. Enjoy. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscription: € 19.99 annual subscription: € 9.90 per month...
In this episode, I talk with Richelle Gordon about coming out as a trans lesbian later in life and finding home in queer community. We explore how music, identity, and authenticity shaped her transition and the unexpected joy of becoming an extrovert at 60. She shares reflections on love, belonging, the current political climate and building chosen family. You can find Richelle here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Deta...
This episode dives into the world of lesbian matchmaking, queer dating, and the emotional reality of seeking love in the digital age. Erin chats with luxury matchmaker Sophia Spallino to explore attraction types, intentional dating, communication in relationships, and her dating platform Queer Country Club. You can find Sophia here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time cho...
Katie is a geologist and musician who is documenting queer history through song. We talk about her favorite queer history moments, the importance of knowing our histories and their project Our Queer Elders. You can find Katie here. You can find Our Queer Elders here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscript...
Halie discusses her journey as a lesbian artist, the significance of the female and sapphic gaze in her work, and the importance of representation in media. They delve into the impact of shows like The Hunting Wives on queer visibility, the power of sensuality in art, and the need for older lesbian representation. You can find Halie here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any ti...
Mads is a Kansas City based community staple, organizer and entrepreneur. We talk about their company Grief Cards, their community initiative Gender Affirming Closet and Stonewall sports. You can find Madison here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscription: € 19.99 annual subscription: € 9.90 per month...
We talk about her DJ career (she recently DJed at one of the 3 Chappell Roan tour stops!!), being a Black lesbian in the midwest, food, politics and media. And her new girlfriend (we love new girlfriend energy). You can find Dez here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly subscription: € 19.99 annual subscription:...
Alena and I talk about our shared experiences with being in decade long heteronormative relationships before coming out and ultimately divorcing our entire lives to create our joyful, queer futures. Spoiler: it was hard and sad and so very worth it. You can find Alena here. You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast * CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price: monthly su...
