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The KYLO Show

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Welcome to The KYLO Show, a weekly podcast hosted by Danny Silk and Brittney Serpell. Join us as we answer your questions and share practical tools for building and protecting healthy relationships. This podcast is your guide for how to Keep Your Love On no matter what and pass on legacy to the next generation. Tune in to discover how whole healthy families are going to save the world!
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Episodes

How to Handle Controlling People and Mom Guilt with Confidence

In this live Q&A from the Albany tour stop, Danny and Brittney answer two deeply relatable questions: how to engage with controlling family members and how to overcome the crushing weight of mom guilt. With humor, honesty, and wisdom, they share practical tools for setting healthy boundaries, taking ownership of your emotions, and remembering your identity in Christ—especially in the high-stakes relationships of family. Whether you’re navigating toxic dynamics or second-guessing your parenti...

Jul 14, 202518 minEp. 195

Navigating Loss, Inheritance, and Joy in Difficult Seasons

Danny and Brittney tackle some of the most vulnerable and meaningful questions yet—from handling painful family inheritance situations to leading a business with integrity and learning to hold on to joy in the midst of grief. This episode offers wisdom, encouragement, and practical tools for staying powerful and connected during life’s hardest seasons. If you’re in a challenging time or walking alongside someone who is, this one will speak straight to your heart. What You’ll Learn in This Episod...

Jun 30, 202521 minEp. 194

Confidence, Compatibility, and Choosing the Right Relationship

In this candid Q&A from the Bethesda tour stop, Danny and Brittney respond to questions on dating, identity, and how to build relationships that are both healthy and lasting. From practical wisdom on staying true to yourself in dating to the importance of aligning your life mission with your partner’s, this episode unpacks how to keep your love on from the very start. Whether you’re single, dating, or mentoring someone who is, you’ll gain insight on what it means to pursue connection with cl...

Jun 16, 202525 minEp. 193

Learning to Listen, Love, and Lead in Relationship

In this powerful continuation from Bethesda, Danny and Brittney tackle real-life questions from a live audience about conflict, connection, and covenant. Through raw and insightful stories—from car ride disconnection to navigating orphan mindsets and newlywed advice—they highlight the courage and humility it takes to lead in relationships. Whether you’re married, mentoring others, or healing from disconnection yourself, this episode will challenge you to protect connection, prioritize self-aware...

Jun 02, 202523 minEp. 192

Navigating Family Dynamics with Courage and Clarity

This week on The KYLO Show , Danny and Brittney take us to Vancouver, Washington, where they respond to powerful audience questions about family disconnection, political disagreements, and parenting through transition. Whether it's a daughter using "boundaries" to cut off relationship, a seventeen-year-old disrupting family game night, or a holiday skipped because of political differences, the heart of this episode is about restoring connection without compromising your values. With wisdom, laug...

May 19, 202527 minEp. 191

Building Boundaries and Belonging

Whether you’re single, parenting adult children, or recovering from relational pain, this episode is packed with wisdom for staying powerful in the face of disconnection. Recorded live at Eden Church in Newcastle, Washington, Danny and Brittney answer real audience questions about singleness, narcissism, motherhood, boundaries, and healing from toxic relationships. They share stories, scriptures, and practical tools for cultivating healthy identity, confronting manipulation with courage, and pro...

May 05, 202522 minEp. 190

When Feedback Fails: How to Stay Powerful with Defensive People

What do you do when your feedback is met with stonewalling, shutdowns, or accusations? In this episode of The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney return with more live Q&A from their tour stop in Newcastle, Washington, tackling tough questions about feedback, conflict, narcissism, and relational disconnect. Through personal stories and real-life coaching moments, they offer wisdom for navigating relationships where feedback feels impossible and disconnection seems inevitable. If you’ve ever felt s...

Apr 21, 202518 minEp. 189

Live from New Castle: How to Stay Connected Even When Emotions Run High

When fear, anger, and disconnection enter a relationship, it’s easy to slip into control, self-protection, or power struggles. In this episode of The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney answer live audience questions from the KYLO Show Tour and talk about the battle to stay connected even when emotions run high. They share personal stories about rebuilding trust in marriage, navigating conflict with respect, and overcoming deception in relationships. If you want to create a culture of love, accountabi...

Apr 07, 202525 minEp. 188

Live from Coeur d’Alene Pt. 2: Connection vs Control in Parenting

We’re back with part two of The KYLO Show live from our tour stop in Coeur d’Alene, Idaho ! While Brittney was still down for the count with the flu (we missed her!), our good friend and Resolute Church pastor Katie Ann Browning returns to co-host alongside Danny. This episode goes deep into the heart of parenting teens without power struggles, shame, or fear. If you've ever felt overwhelmed, powerless, or unsure how to parent in a way that cultivates connection without losing authority—this one...

Mar 24, 202523 minEp. 187

Live from Coeur d'Alene: Protecting, Loving, and Growing in Marriage

We’re taking The KYLO Show on the road! This special episode is the first in our KYLO Show Live tour, recorded in front of a live audience in Coeur d'Alene, Idaho. While Brittney was unable to make the first stop due to illness, our incredible friend Katie Ann Browning , pastor of Resolute Church, stepped in to join Danny on stage. This episode is packed with raw and powerful conversations about what it truly means to protect and love your spouse. Danny shares personal stories of learning how to...

Mar 10, 202525 minEp. 186

The Power of Feedback: How Truth Builds Stronger Relationships

Feedback—it’s one of the most powerful tools for personal and relational growth, yet it can also feel uncomfortable, intimidating, and even scary. In this episode of The KYLO Show , Danny and Brittney dive deep into the importance of feedback, why it’s essential for building trust, and how both giving and receiving it can transform relationships. They share personal experiences, discuss the fears that often hold people back, and offer practical wisdom on how to cultivate a culture of honest, lov...

Feb 24, 202522 minEp. 185

Keeping the Flame Alive: How to Build a Lasting Marriage

What does it take to keep the flame alive in marriage? In this episode of The KYLO Show , Danny and Brittney dive into the key ingredients for maintaining connection, intimacy, and joy in your relationship. They explore the small habits that prevent disconnection from creeping in, the importance of prioritizing your spouse, and how to navigate the inevitable challenges that come with different seasons of marriage. If you want a thriving, passionate, and enduring relationship, this episode is pac...

Feb 10, 202520 minEp. 184

Boundaries: Protecting What Matters Most

Boundaries are one of the most challenging, yet essential, tools in relationships. In this episode of The KYLO Show , Danny and Brittney explore the concept of boundaries and how they protect what is valuable in our lives. From setting boundaries with strangers to navigating difficult situations in close relationships, they share practical wisdom and personal stories that illustrate why boundaries are vital for connection, growth, and thriving. If you’ve ever asked, “What do I do with mean peopl...

Jan 21, 202521 minEp. 183

The KYLO Show is Back: A New Chapter Begins!

Episode Overview The KYLO Show is back! In this highly anticipated relaunch episode, Danny and Brittney Silk share the story behind their recent break, offering a candid look at the reflections, lessons, and renewed energy that have fueled their return. Together, they dive into what’s next for the show, their commitment to strengthening connections, and how this fresh start aligns with their mission to cultivate thriving families and communities. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why Danny and ...

Jan 06, 202521 minEp. 182

Navigating Power Struggles and Family Dynamics

In this episode of The KYLO Show, we dive into practical ways to handle power struggles with children and discuss the fine line between discipline and punishment. We answer a listener's question about managing expectations and responsibilities in the home, offering insights on empowering kids to make better choices without resorting to control. Later, we tackle the challenges of maintaining healthy connections in the face of family conflicts. Learn how to keep your love on, protect your peace, a...

Aug 27, 202437 minEp. 181

The Power of Testimony: Sharing Your Journey with Your Family

In this episode of The KYLO Show, we address a listener's concern about guiding her 11-year-old grandson who struggles with expressing empathy and connection. We dive into practical advice on how to instill respect and self-control in children, particularly when dealing with challenging behaviors. Later, we explore the delicate process of sharing personal testimonies, such as overcoming addiction or infidelity, with your children before taking those stories public. Tune in for insightful discuss...

Aug 20, 202441 minEp. 180

Building a Strong Team Culture: Embracing Change and Maintaining Momentum

How do you keep a team connected and engaged, especially when new members bring different experiences and expectations? In this episode of The KYLO Show, we dive into the challenges of maintaining a powerful team culture. Drawing on real-life examples and practical insights, we discuss strategies for ensuring every team member feels valued and connected while upholding the core principles that make your team strong. Whether you're leading a team or simply part of one, this episode is packed with...

Aug 13, 202438 minEp. 179

Cultivating Faith and Self-Esteem in Pre-Teens

In this episode of The Kylo Show, we delve into the unique challenges of nurturing faith and self-esteem in pre-teens. Learn how to navigate the complexities of raising children in a mixed-belief household, foster genuine connections, and provide the emotional support they need. Join us for practical advice on building empathy, asking the right questions, and creating a loving environment that helps your pre-teens thrive.

Aug 06, 202436 min

The Power of Listening: Uncovering Emotions Behind Words and Learning to Ask Great Questions

Are you truly hearing what's being said in your conversations? In this episode of The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney delve into the art of "listening beyond words," teaching you how to tune into the emotions and needs behind the words spoken and ask really great questions to get to the need. Learn how to better understand and connect with others by recognizing the underlying feelings in your interactions. Join us for practical tips on enhancing your communication skills and building deeper, more ...

Jul 30, 202440 minEp. 177

Overcoming Defensiveness and Rebuilding Communication in Challenging Relationships

Struggling to break through defensive barriers in your relationships? In this episode of The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney tackle real-life questions on improving communication with defensive partners and navigating emotionally challenging situations. Discover practical strategies for fostering empathy, maintaining boundaries, and creating safe spaces for honest dialogue. Tune in, follow, and subscribe for advice and tools to transform your connections and build a whole, healthy family!

Jul 23, 202439 minEp. 176

Navigating Church Leadership Challenges and Parenting Determined Kids

Welcome to The KYLO Show with your hosts Danny Silk and Brittney Serpell! This week we answer questions on navigating church leadership and parenting determined children. We are sponsored by Pro- Life Coffee Roasters. Get 15% off by going to www.prolifecoffeeroasters.com/KYLO Make sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or the Loving on Purpose Youtube channel to make sure you never miss an episode!

Jul 16, 202447 minEp. 175

You Are Not A Victim You Are A Volunteer

Welcome to The KYLO Show with your hosts Danny Silk and Brittney Serpell! This week we answer questions on being a victim or volunteer in your relationships and what is the goal God has in the waiting season. We are sponsored by Pro- Life Coffee Roasters. Get 15% off by going to www.prolifecoffeeroasters.com/KYLO Make sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or the Loving on Purpose Youtube channel to make sure you never miss an episode!

Jul 09, 202439 minEp. 174

Our Top Tools For Raising Strong-Willed Children

Welcome to The KYLO Show with your hosts Danny Silk and Brittney Serpell! This week we answer questions and give our top tools for parenting strong-willed children! We are sponsored by Pro- Life Coffee Roasters. Get 15% off by going to www.prolifecoffeeroasters.com/KYLO Make sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or the Loving on Purpose Youtube channel to make sure you never miss an episode!

Jul 02, 202440 minEp. 173

Learning to Ask the Crucial Question: How Are You Experiencing Me?

Welcome to The KYLO Show with your hosts Danny Silk and Brittney Serpell! This week we answer questions about church leadership, judgment, and learning why the question, "how are you experiencing me?" is so crucial for healthy relationships. We are sponsored by Pro- Life Coffee Roasters. Get 15% off by going to www.prolifecoffeeroasters.com/KYLO Make sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or the Loving on Purpose Youtube channel to make sure you never miss an episode!

Jun 25, 202444 minEp. 172

Strategic Conversations: Crafting Your Confrontation Game Plan

Welcome to The KYLO Show with your hosts Danny Silk and Brittney Serpell! This week we answer your questions and tackle an important topic: how to create a game plan for a confrontation conversation! This week's episode is sponsored by Pro- Life Coffee Roasters. Get 15% off by going to www.prolifecoffeeroasters.com/KYLO Make sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or the Loving on Purpose Youtube channel to make sure you never miss an episode!

Jun 18, 202435 minEp. 171

How To "Control Your Freakin' Self"

Welcome to The KYLO Show with your hosts Danny Silk and Brittney Serpell! This week we are diving into questions about how to control your freakin' self! This week's episode is sponsored by Pro- Life Coffee Roasters. Get 15% off by going to www.prolifecoffeeroasters.com/KYLO Make sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or the Loving on Purpose Youtube channel to make sure you never miss an episode!

Jun 11, 202441 minEp. 170

Relationship Real Talk: Marriage Advice and Toddler Discipline

Welcome to The KYLO Show with your hosts Danny Silk and Brittney Serpell! This week we are diving into questions about marriage and parenting! This week's episode is sponsored by Pro- Life Coffee Roasters. Get 15% off by going to www.prolifecoffeeroasters.com/KYLO Make sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or the Loving on Purpose Youtube channel to make sure you never miss an episode!

Jun 04, 202442 minEp. 169

3 Ways to Become a Better Communicator

Welcome to The KYLO Show with your hosts Danny Silk and Brittney Serpell! We all want to be better communicators. However, when you have been accustomed to communicating in a specific way, it can seem hard to change that pattern. Changing your communication style is possible, though, if you can learn to ask yourself three simple questions. Find out what they are by listening to today's episode now! Make sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or the Loving on Purpose Youtube channel to mak...

May 28, 202430 minEp. 168

Boundaries: Did Jesus Set Them?

Welcome to The KYLO Show! Today, Danny and Brittney talk about BOUNDARIES! Did Jesus set them? ---- Make sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or the Loving on Purpose Youtube channel to make sure you never miss an episode!

May 20, 202447 minEp. 167

5 Reasons Why Confrontation Makes Us Better and Our Relationships Stronger

Welcome to The KYLO Show! Today, Danny and Brittney talk about why leaning into hard conversations can make our relationships stronger. Get ready to hear the 5 reasons why and the answers to your relationship questions! ---- Do you like the show? Make sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or the Loving on Purpose Youtube channel to make sure you never miss an episode!

May 14, 202441 minEp. 166
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