It’s always a pleasure for me to be joined on the podcast by my brother, Mr. Mocha. The conversations we have always force me to think and it’s even better when I get to let my listeners be the fly on the wall for one of our thought provoking discussions. On this episode we discuss how couples can tell the difference between a quality Bull and a Manicorn ( a term that the Mocha’s introduced me to). We also shed some light on how couples can avoid missteps when dealing with a quality Bull. ...
Mar 13, 2023•1 hr 14 min•Ep. 126
One of the things that I’ve set out to accomplish since I launched this podcast was to empower women to claim their own sexual identity. So whenever I have the pleasure of encountering one of these women, I jump at the opportunity to bring her story to you all.In this episode I had the pleasure of talking to C. She is a woman who I feel has an important story to share about her journey to becoming a sexually empowered woman and one who is doing it at an age that is not very common to see. For an...
Feb 26, 2023•1 hr 7 min•Ep. 125
One topic that comes up often when I talk to couples is the idea of a wife having a deep, emotional connection with her Bull. Some couples may find this idea unthinkable whereas others may be drawn to it. When it works, it can be beautiful, but when it doesn’t, it can have devastating consequences. My purpose with this episode is just to get people to have open and honest conversations with their partners if they are thinking about going in this direction....
Feb 12, 2023•31 min•Ep. 124
I’ve interviewed a lot of couples over the years and I don’t think I’ve met anyone who is so visibly having as much fun with this lifestyle as Sayler and her husband. You can’t really put them in the cuckold lane or the hotwife lane because they’re just out here exploring and enjoying the ride. They are a testament to what I say about finding your own lane and making this lifestyle work for you and your partner. This is an episode that will definitely make you laugh....
Jan 30, 2023•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 123
In my time doing this podcast I’ve been very fortunate to meet some truly wonderful couples. With that being said, the ones that really warm my heart are the couples who have been through the grinder that is life before finding each other. I’m speaking about the couples who had been in prior marriages/relationships that didn’t work out. Couples who had all but given up on finding what they truly need to be happy so they’re just “making due”. The magic that happens when these couples find e...
Jan 16, 2023•1 hr 9 min•Ep. 122
Mea culpa , which means "through my fault" in Latin, comes from a prayer of confession in the Catholic Church. Said by itself, it's an exclamation of apology or remorse that is used to mean "It was my fault" or "I apologize." This episode is MY Mea culpa. Thank you for listening.
Jan 02, 2023•5 min
You’ve heard me say it before but it bears repeating, one of the things that I truly enjoy about doing this podcast is all the fascinating people I get to meet and talk to. Nessa and D are another in the long line of captivating people that I’ve encountered. What struck me the most about them is just how well adjusted they are to being in the lifestyle. They’re one of those couples who seem to have everything in its proper perspective. You can hear it in the way they talk. This lifestyle just fi...
Dec 19, 2022•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 121
After several years in development, the launch of Compersionclub.com is finally here. My initial plan was to do this launch as a live Twitter spaces event but due to some technical difficulties this was unable to happen. We were still able to record the session and I am making it available for anyone to listen to who would like to. This was a momentous occasion as I was joined by many friends and contributors and team members at Splash Mocha in Houston. There was a small gathering in my suite as...
Dec 05, 2022•1 hr 4 min•Ep. 120
From the very first time I did a Bull Roundtable with my brothers Pagan, Demitri and Mr. Mocha, my dream was to get us all in the same place and record an episode live with all of us in the same place. Not an easy task with each of us spread all over the country. Thankfully Splash Mocha in Florida provided us with the opportunity. Sit back and listen to my brothers and I just shooting the breeze and enjoying each other’s company. Be prepared to laugh and learn a little more about what we truly t...
Nov 28, 2022•1 hr 27 min•Ep. 119
I will never Cease to be amazed at all of the incredible stories I get to hear of the journeys that these couples travel to find their way into this lifestyle. JJ and C are no different. Theirs is a story of a life built together that didn’t have the smoothest beginning. It was a journey of breaking the chains of social norms and self reflection and discovery. It’s a story of patience and love and the willingness to try a different approach when what they were doing wasn’t working. I had so much...
Nov 14, 2022•1 hr 16 min•Ep. 118
One of the things that I enjoy about this lifestyle is that I get to meet some truly fascinating people. Lady Anaconda is no exception. This is a woman who I have had the pleasure of knowing for several years now and we have had many thought provoking conversations. This episode has been long overdue and I’m happy that I finally get to bring it to you. She is a woman who knows exactly who she is and what she wants. If you enjoy hearing from empowered women then you will certainly enjoy hearing w...
Oct 31, 2022•1 hr 12 min•Ep. 117
One of the things that I enjoy about doing these China Shop episodes is that I get to have in depth conversations with some of my fellow Bulls and hear all about their journey. Joining me in this episode is a gentleman I’ve had the pleasure of getting to know these past few months. Jodie is a cool dude who was introduced to the lifestyle far earlier than I was and I think you will find his story to be a most interesting one. He is a true testament that your age is definitely not a hindrance in t...
Oct 17, 2022•1 hr 9 min•Ep. 116
Once again another splash event is in the books, my 6th. For those of you who don’t know, Splash Mocha is a 3 day hotel takeover event for couples and women who enjoy the company of men of color. Here I share my thoughts on what this fantastic event was like for me. Sit back and enjoy and maybe I’ll see you there someday.
Oct 03, 2022•21 min•Ep. 115
Rejection is one of those things that affects each and every person in the lifestyle. You’re either rejecting someone’s advances or having someone reject yours. It’s simply a regular part of the lifestyle yet many people struggle with it. I attempt to shed some much needed light on this issue and help people understand both sides and hopefully talk about it more openly.
Sep 12, 2022•30 min•Ep. 113
For a long time I’ve been wanting to have a couple on my podcast who straddles that line between hotwifing and swinging. A couple who enjoys both playing with other couples as well as him sitting back and watching her be the star of the show. I’ve always been intrigued by these types of couples and I was very happy when I met one recently at splash mocha and even happier when they decided to be guests of mine. So sit back and enjoy as they talk about how much fun it is to play both sides of the ...
Aug 29, 2022•2 hr 30 min•Ep. 112
One of the things that I enjoy doing is catching up with former guests to see how they’ve progressed in their lifestyle journey. One in particular that I’ve kept my eye on was Jewels from Episode 57. She has been a very busy woman, expanding on her dynamic with her husband, writing a book and appearing in a UK documentary just to name a few. She has become an inspiration to women around the world and I am thrilled to have the chance to talk to her again and find out what else she has been up to....
Aug 15, 2022•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 111
So it’s been 4 years since I first launched the Keys and Anklets Podcast and to help me commemorate this milestone I had a conversation with my good friend Mr. Mocha from the Ofacez Podcast. We thought it would be a cool idea to have him interview me on my own podcast so here you go. Me sitting in the guest chair for a change and having all sorts of questions thrown at me. We had a blast doing it and hopefully you’ll enjoy it as well and you may even learn some new and interesting things about y...
Aug 01, 2022•2 hr 5 min•Ep. 110
A and Liana have the type of story that makes you believe in the power to heal that this lifestyle offers. These two both come from a past filled with failed relationships and got into this looking for something quick and easy and instead found something everlasting. If you enjoy hearing stories of true love and acceptance winning in the end then I know you will enjoy hearing theirs.
Jul 18, 2022•2 hr 31 min•Ep. 109
In March of this year I attended Splash Mocha in Atlanta and when I arrived, my brother Mr. Mocha invited me to stay at his home before the event started. We sat up one night and had a discussion about what couples can do to identify and attract good Bulls. Please listen to hear what we had to say. I think you will find this discussion very enlightening.
Jun 10, 2022•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 108
Every once in a while I encounter a couple who I find utterly fascinating and C and L are one of those couples. Theirs is a story of long term love and discovery. What started out as a high school romance has evolved into long term committed marriage, raising of children and making their cuckold/FLR dynamic a fixture in their lives. I’m happy that they were willing to come on the show and let me be nosey. Enjoy.
May 27, 2022•58 min•Ep. 107
I am happy to bring you another installment of my China Shop series. In this installment I am joined by Ron, a longtime friend from Boston. I ran into Ron at Splash Mocha in Atlanta and we decided to jump on and talk all about his journey into the lifestyle. A journey that I learned had a very interesting start. Ron is a cool guy who is big on manners and pleasing whichever lady he is with. There’s nothing like shining light on the guys who I feel truly exemplify what being a Bull is all about.&...
May 13, 2022•1 hr•Ep. 106
For anyone who is either thinking about getting involved with OnlyFans or currently doing so, this is a must listen. I connected with my good friend Lupe (husband of the sexy and incredible Micha from Ep. 48) at Splash Mocha in Atlanta and he came on and dropped so much knowledge about what it takes to have a successful OnlyFans.
Apr 29, 2022•49 min•Ep. 106
It is common knowledge that women involved in the lifestyle often have their own insecurities to overcome. What is talked about less often are the insecurities that the male partners often face once a couple enters this lifestyle. This is a very thought provoking episode that I encourage couples to listen to together if possible. My hope is that this will spark some healthy dialog between husbands and wives.
Apr 15, 2022•27 min•Ep. 104
I had such a good time talking to Taylor and Chris who are a Stag/Vixen couple. Theirs is a story of high school sweethearts who got started in this lifestyle in a most unusual way. I wanted to have them on because their dynamic illustrates something that I’ve been saying for sometime, it’s best not to try to identify hotwife vs cuckold couples based on the acts they enjoy. As you listen you will have a better idea of what I am talking about. (Episode 103 is an After Party Episode featuring Tayl...
Apr 01, 2022•1 hr 25 min•Ep. 102
In the short time I have known Mr. Mocha, he has become a dear and trusted friend. He and I talk often and we will have some seriously deep conversations on the lifestyle. We often said to each other, “you know, we really should record these conversations”. We decided to take it a step further and make it a live event which we host on Twitter spaces. This is how Bull Shit was born. Just 2 Bulls in the lifestyle talking about the shit that Bulls talk about. In our first attempt we discuss who is ...
Mar 18, 2022•1 hr 28 min•Ep. 101
I couldn’t think of a better way to commemorate my 100th episode than by having a conversation with my longtime friend and fellow Bull, Boneslinger2003. He and I go way back and I’ve always enjoyed the conversations we’ve had about the lifestyle. I was long overdue in bringing him into the China Shop and now he is here. Listen and learn as he details his journey into the lifestyle and shares his hard earned wisdom with guys who are looking to separate themselves from the herd by reaching that ne...
Mar 04, 2022•57 min•Ep. 100
Let’s be honest, we’ve all dealt with some form of insecurity in our lives and it’s not something that many of us are willing to talk about. In this episode I am joined by a wonderful couple who were willing to take that walk and share their deepest feelings on how their insecurities impacted their journey and how they each learned to love themselves. The beauty of their journey is hearing the confidence that they now both possess which you will clearly hear the moment you hear their energy. Thi...
Feb 18, 2022•1 hr 13 min•Ep. 99
A cuckold relationship usually comprises 3 different dynamics, 2 of which are discussed a lot, the wife and her husband and the wife and her Bull. The 3rd one, the dynamic between the cuckold and his wife’s Bull, is seldom discussed. Well in this episode Michael C. sits down and talks with 4 cuckold husbands and goes into detail about what this dynamic means to them and why it is so important. This is a truly thought-provoking episode and one that will hopefully get people to pay more attention ...
Feb 04, 2022•2 hr 32 min•Ep. 98
This is an episode that I’ve been wanting to do for quite some time. I’m happy to finally be able to bring you my conversation with a black couple who are enjoying the stag/vixen lifestyle. Listen as they detail their unique journey into the lifestyle and how it has enriched their marriage.
Jan 21, 2022•1 hr 16 min•Ep. 97
