Hello everyone and thank you for your patience as I have been working hard to bring you something new! Have you ever imagined a weekend without sexual constraints or boundaries? A weekend where no one expects you to fit into a mold? A weekend where you can be sexually free? Keys and anklets, in conjunction with my friend Blondeonthebay, is proud to present Utopia. Unique, curated small group takeovers catering to the cuckold lifestyle, we bring to you all inclusive, immersive events where ...
Jan 18, 2025•36 min
When I first launched my podcast one of my earliest episodes was me talking about the differences between the different dynamics. That was 6 years ago and in that time things have evolved. So here is my attempt to update these descriptions. Please keep in mind that in the grand scheme of things, labels do not matter AT ALL. What matters is that each couple finds what works best for them. Some couples are firmly in one lane or the other while others flow freely between them. That is the beauty of...
May 05, 2024•26 min•Ep. 158
I have known Ms. Coco for several years now and I count her as a dear friend. She navigates this lifestyle as a single woman and she is the type of person who drips authenticity. What you see is what you get. She has an inspiring story that I am thankful I get to share with my listeners because I know there will be many women out there who will identify with her journey. Hers is a story of self discovery, self empowerment and self fulfillment. This is a woman who knows what she likes, what she w...
Apr 21, 2024•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 157
I don’t know how many women and couples are familiar with this but among guys there is this concept of bringing your A game when you play with a woman for the first time. In other words, you want to “hit a home run” to ensure that you get a 2nd shot. I have been hearing about this when I was vanilla long before I entered the lifestyle. In this episode I was joined by Mr. Mocha and his younger brother who was visiting him at the time and who is also in the lifestyle. The question we are discussin...
Apr 07, 2024•1 hr 20 min•Ep. 156
A few weeks ago I attended a lifestyle party and while there I encountered this woman and she and I struck up a conversation. I found her to be a delightful and engaging woman who had such a captivating journey. I am always fascinated when I meet single women in this lifestyle, especially those who entered the lifestyle as a single. Being that this lifestyle primarily focuses on couples and Bulls, you rarely hear from single women but they do play a prominent role so I like to share their perspe...
Mar 24, 2024•1 hr 12 min•Ep. 155
*Please note - this episode was recorded by Mr. Mocha and the very last minute of the call got cut off. The only thing you are missing is both of us signing off so you didn’t miss much By now many of you know that I have 3 very close friends in this lifestyle who I refer to as my brothers. One of those brothers is Mr. Mocha. He and I talk often and many times the conversation will turn to the lifestyle and we will go into detail and will sometimes have differing viewpoints. What usually happens ...
Mar 10, 2024•1 hr 4 min•Ep. 154
The China Shop episodes are my attempt to shine a light on gentlemen who I feel truly understand what being a Bull in the wife centric lifestyle is all about. Drew Marston is no exception. I have known him for a while and he always represents himself in the best way possible. I enjoyed talking to him and hearing all about his journey and his particular outlook. As you listen you will learn that Drew is a man who is living his authentic life and remaining true to who he is and what he is about. W...
Feb 25, 2024•1 hr 29 min•Ep. 153
Any Splash Mocha event is always a whirlwind of activity. There is always something going on and the event always feels like it just flies by. With that in mind, one of the things I enjoy doing is these recap episodes with one of my brothers. In this episode I am joined by Mr. Mocha and we touched on various topics that came up while we were at the event. As usual, we go off on tangents however, we still keep lifestyle topics first and foremost....
Feb 11, 2024•2 hr 31 min•Ep. 152
Whenever I attend a Splash Mocha event, one of the highlights for me is being able to sit with my 3 brothers (Pagan, Demitri and Mr. Mocha) and chop it up live and in person. I never set up any type of script with these guys because the conversation just flows so naturally and for me, is far more entertaining and engaging. To set the setting, we were sitting in my room in the company of several other ladies who were attending the event. (I always enjoy having female energy present for these Roun...
Jan 28, 2024•2 hr 42 min•Ep. 151
On this installment of The China Shop I want to introduce a gentleman who has become a good friend over the years, Mr ChiBlkStud, a fellow Black Bull out of Chicago. I met him several years ago and have been impressed with the time and attention that he puts into each couple he interacts with and really wanted to shine a light on this classy gentleman. I’m always fascinated by the many interesting paths that people take to getting involved in this lifestyle as well as hearing how they evolve onc...
Dec 31, 2023•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 149
In concluding my series on exploring Black Love in the lifestyle I was saving the best for last. In part four I have a conversation with the ladies, the wives, the Vixens. I so enjoyed talking to these ladies as they shared their most personal thoughts and feelings as it pertains to being a hotwife. It’s always a pleasure to hear how women evolve and grow as they move through this lifestyle and their stories do not disappoint. If you enjoy hearing from women who have embraced their sexual power,...
Dec 17, 2023•1 hr 14 min•Ep. 148
For part 3 of my series I talked to the husbands and got their perspective on being Stags in this lifestyle. It was cool talking to Chad and Dee and hearing that while sharing some similarities, they are both different in their approach and perspective. I enjoyed hearing their response when posed with the question “how do you handle your wife having real feelings for another man?” Some really interesting insights there. And please make sure you listen for Dee’s views on setting rules vs. buildin...
Dec 03, 2023•2 hr 41 min•Ep. 147
I’m happy to bring you Pt.2 in my ongoing series where I shine the light on couples of color within the lifestyle. This episode introduces you to Chad and Vee, a couple who have been together since college. I have a great time talking to this couple and they are hilarious. This is an episode that will definitely have you laughing. Chad is a husband who is the true epitome of what it means to experience compersion. If you want to hear from a man who truly wants to see his wife living her best lif...
Nov 19, 2023•1 hr 26 min•Ep. 146
We all know that black men are very well represented in this lifestyle but I’ve always been struck at how underrepresented women and couples of color are. With this in mind I have been wanting to shine more light on these couples. I recently had the pleasure of meeting 2 couples who were kind enough to join me on the podcast. I decided to present these conversations in four parts: Pt 1 - D and Kee Pt 2 - Chad and Vee Pt 3 - The Stags, Chad and D Pt 4 - The Wives, Kee and Vee For this episode I’m...
Nov 05, 2023•2 hr 39 min•Ep. 144
I chose Raw and Exposed as the name of this episode because when you listen to it, that is exactly what R and L are…Raw and Exposed. Their emotions, pain and past traumas are on full display in this riveting conversation. I’ve talked to dozens of couples over the years on my podcast and I don’t think I can recall 2 people who were so willing to bear it all quite the way that these 2 did. Theirs is a journey of acceptance, self discovery, healing and an enduring love for one another. When people ...
Oct 22, 2023•2 hr 31 min•Ep. 143
It’s no secret how much I am fascinated by cuckolding dynamics and the level of mind fucking that is often at play within them. I wanted to dive deeper into one of these aspects, the idea that husbands are (basically) pussy free within their own marriages. For those of you who may not be aware, pussy free is exactly what it sounds like. Husbands who are cuckolds who rarely, if ever, have sexual intercourse with their wives. This is a fascinating subject that I wanted to explore and share with my...
Oct 08, 2023•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 141
The China Shop episodes are some of my favorite segments because I’m given the opportunity to have these deep conversations with other Bulls in the lifestyle to learn more about their journey as well as their approach to the lifestyle. Goliath is a brother who I have been trying to have on the program for some time now. He is a fixture at Splash Mocha and is never without that ever present smile of his. During this conversation he goes into detail about how he was first introduced to the lifesty...
Sep 24, 2023•1 hr 21 min•Ep. 140
Whenever I get a chance to talk to couples in this lifestyle, one of the things that I enjoy hearing about is how they first met. Over the years I have heard a wide variety of scenarios but none quite like how Cindy and her husband Pat got together.It’s like something out of an 80s romantic comedy (you will see what I mean when you hear it). Theirs is a dynamic that has burned pretty hot since the beginning and it was no surprise that they found themselves in the hotwife space. That’s not to say...
Sep 10, 2023•2 hr 47 min•Ep. 139
In this episode I discuss a forum post I came across on Fetlife. The OP asked if other couples had dealt with guys who had little understanding of the cuckold dynamic. I just wanted to bring my point of view and give people something to think about. If you are a cuckold couple or a Bull wanting to learn more then you will find this episode highly informative.
Aug 27, 2023•18 min•Ep. 138
Abigail and Dustin have the type of story that I hope to hear more often as this lifestyle continues to grow. One person knowing that this lifestyle was what they wanted and the other person not even knowing that this lifestyle was a thing. Listen as she talks about the doubt that she felt about him being serious about wanting to be in this lifestyle with her and how she finally came around to understanding that he was indeed serious. The thing that I really enjoyed about talking to her is her o...
Aug 13, 2023•1 hr 19 min•Ep. 137
May 2018 is when I first launched the Keys and Anklets Podcast and it’s been quite a journey. Normally I’ve done something more celebratory, like have a Q and A with a guest host. This time I wanted to do something different. I wanted to just have a conversation with my listeners about what these past 5 years have been like for me. It’s not hyperbole to say that hosting the podcast has changed my life. Thank you all for the past 5 years and I look forward to bringing you more in the future....
Jul 30, 2023•30 min•Ep. 136
Wendy and Judd are a very unique couple within this lifestyle. What makes them unique is that EVERYONE they know knows that they are in the lifestyle (except their kids). This made for some very interesting conversations between us. Take a listen and see how being so forthcoming about their situation has affected their relationships with family and friends. I believe that there are people out there who will be inspired to make a similar change in their own lives just as I’m sure there are some o...
Jul 16, 2023•1 hr 18 min•Ep. 135
Suzanne and Dirk are a stag/vixen couple that I’ve been wanting to have on for quite some time. I was finally able to set something up during my last splash event and they were definitely worth the wait. I love talking to husbands who are able to articulate exactly what they were feeling and struggling with during their journey. I know that there are many husbands out there with similar struggles and hearing how someone is able to process his thoughts and feelings is something that can truly hel...
Jul 02, 2023•1 hr 21 min•Ep. 134
I was recently at splash mocha in Atlanta and I got to do something that I haven’t done before. I did a China Shop episode with 2 fellas at the same time, Mike and Craig. These are 2 guys that I have known for some time and it was really cool to hear their different responses to the questions I posed to them simultaneously. It was definitely a nice change of pace from the way I normally conduct my China Shop episodes.. There are moments of laughter as well as being introspective. This was a lot ...
Jun 18, 2023•1 hr 28 min•Ep. 133
This is a topic that I’ve been wanting to discuss but for some reason it has always remained on the back burner. Thanks to a recent conversation I had with a cuckoldress, it was finally brought to the forefront. I’ve had 100’s of conversations over the years with husbands who struggle with the idea of being a cuckold and how these struggles affect their wives. My hope is that this episode sparks a discussion between couples and provides them with the tools to work through and overcome these stru...
Jun 04, 2023•17 min•Ep. 132
My brother Mr. Mocha of Ofacez Podcast invited me on to discuss the topic of how guys and couples can get out of their own way and get together. Sometimes it can be a little difficult for people to go from the small talk phase to actually getting physical with one another. With this in mind Mr. Mocha and I have tried to offer some real world advice that can be helpful to both couples and single men.
May 21, 2023•2 hr 36 min•Ep. 131
As many of you know, Demitri is one of my closest friends and it’s always a pleasure having him sit down at the mic with me. It’s rare that he and I get to kick it solo on the podcast so when he told me that he wanted to come back and speak on a few things I was more than happy to have him. So in this episode we just catch up as I bring my listeners up to speed on what makes my brother tick, what Splash Mocha means to him and what types of ladies catch his attention. So sit back, listen and enjo...
May 07, 2023•1 hr 6 min•Ep. 130
I never take for granted the opportunities that I get to chill with all 3 of my brothers in person. Doing these Bull Roundtable episodes with the 3 of them is always the highlight of my splash weekend. When you listen you can hear just how much fun we’re all having together. The topics really don’t matter, I just like to get them to talk.This time was special because in addition to the 3 of us, we also had several women sitting in with us and they were able to bring something special to the conv...
Apr 24, 2023•42 min•Ep. 129
I will never cease to be fascinated by the dynamic that exists in a cuckold dynamic. Listening to Annabell and C talk about their journey from HS sweethearts to married couple to cuckold couple is a study in what this lifestyle is all about. From their awkward beginning, to his struggles with accepting himself and his desires, to her growing confidence in herself and his unrelenting desire to do anything to make his Queen happy. If you enjoy hearing stories of what couples go through to make it ...
Apr 10, 2023•1 hr 11 min•Ep. 128
This is an episode I’ve been waiting a long time to do. 2 People who were already in the lifestyle when they met each other. Jason wanted a hotwife and found her. Casey wanted to be a hotwife and found her man. Theirs is a story of patience, perseverance, love, and learning to get out of one’s way. It will make you laugh, it’ll make you think. And mostly it will make you happy that these 2 people found each other when they did. Especially when you hear how close Casy was to just throwing in the ...
Mar 26, 2023•2 hr 44 min•Ep. 127
