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Aug 25, 2021•15 min•Season 1Ep. 301
The Joshua Sigafus Podcast
This is the Joshua Sigafus Podcast - The podcast where men learn how to increase their attraction, level up their dating game, and embrace the alpha mentality.
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#300 Don’t Be A Desperate Beta Male
In this episode, I talk about how a lot of men these days are living with emotional, reactive ‘beta’ energy, and are just plain desperate for female attention. In this episode, I try to set the record straight, talking about how we need to embody alpha mentality energy instead, to become purpose-driven, strong, masculine men who live with intentionality. You won’t want to miss this one. Join my Mastermind Tribe: http://joshuasigafus.com/MastermindTribe My Website: https://joshuasigafus.com/ YouT...
Aug 21, 2021•11 min•Season 1Ep. 300
#299 Ghosting Trains You To Be A Conflict Avoidant Beta
In this episode, I talk about an article I found on the topic of Ghosting, and how science is beginning to understand that it’s having a negative impact on everyone (as if that’s a surprising thing to learn). You can read the article here. It’s a very good piece, and shout-out to the publisher and writer, both of whom did a great job on it: Ghosting Article By The Hartford Courant, written by ISABELLA CHAN: https://www.courant.com/news/connecticut/hc-news-wesleyan-ghosting-study-dating-20210808-...
Aug 18, 2021•28 min•Season 1Ep. 299
#298 5 Things I’ve Learned About My Dating Philosophy Since My Breakup
In this episode, I talk candidly about some of the things I’ve learned about my own philosophy since the end of my last long term relationship. This is real stuff, recorded while I was out on a walk… so you know it’s good! You won’t want to miss this one. Join my Mastermind Tribe: http://joshuasigafus.com/MastermindTribe My Website: https://joshuasigafus.com/ YouTube: http://joshuasigafus.com/YouTube Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JoshSigafusauthor Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joshua...
Aug 18, 2021•34 min•Season 1Ep. 298
#297 Why Being A ‘Nice Guy’ Is Unattractive To Women
In this episode, I talk about why being a nice guy just isn’t attractive to women. I also answer a few other questions, like: Are nice guys attractive? What does a woman like most in a man? Do women like ‘jerks’ more than nice guys? Did men evolve to be ‘liked,’ or not? You won’t want to miss this one. Join my Mastermind Tribe: http://joshuasigafus.com/MastermindTribe My Website: https://joshuasigafus.com/ YouTube: http://joshuasigafus.com/YouTube Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JoshSigafusau...
Aug 16, 2021•17 min•Season 1Ep. 297
#296 Horrible Toxic Twin Flame Relationship Story
In this episode, I tell a story about this weird dude I met at a bar, and how he told me about his horrible toxic relationship with his 'twin flame' girlfriend. It was pretty shocking, and led to me doing some thinking about how we should all probably try to do better in our dating lives. You won’t want to miss this one. Join my Mastermind Tribe: http://joshuasigafus.com/MastermindTribe My Website: https://joshuasigafus.com/ YouTube: http://joshuasigafus.com/YouTube Facebook: https://www.faceboo...
Aug 14, 2021•13 min•Season 1Ep. 296
#295 Are Alphas Narcissists?
In this episode, I talk about why people sometimes equate the alpha mentality with narcissism. I talk about narcissistic personality disorder, compare/contrast it with my own alpha code, the oath of kings and queens, and basically just break it all down and shed light on the truth. I also talk a bit about my own experiences grappling with the concept of self-prioritization, and whether or not it’s inherently selfish. You won’t want to miss this one. Mayo Clinic post about Narcissistic Personalit...
Aug 12, 2021•33 min•Season 1Ep. 295
#294 What’s The Point Of Dating?
In this episode, I get a little bit philosophical, and talk about the 3 core reasons for why humans date, mate, love, and seek to be desirable to begin with. This one gets a little bit deep! You won’t want to miss this one! Join my Mastermind Tribe: http://joshuasigafus.com/MastermindTribe My Website: https://joshuasigafus.com/ YouTube: http://joshuasigafus.com/YouTube Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JoshSigafusauthor Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joshua_sigafus/ Twitter: https://twitt...
Aug 11, 2021•14 min•Season 1Ep. 294
#293 Never Date A Victim - This Is Why
In this episode, I go deep on the topic of why you should never date someone with a victim mentality. It may seem harmless enough at first, but it’ll always leads to bad things, chaos, and ruin in your dating life. You won’t want to miss this one! Join my Mastermind Tribe: http://joshuasigafus.com/MastermindTribe My Website: https://joshuasigafus.com/ YouTube: http://joshuasigafus.com/YouTube Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JoshSigafusauthor Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joshua_sigafus...
Aug 10, 2021•16 min•Season 1Ep. 293
#292 Is It Wrong To Break Up With Someone?
In this episode, I go deep on the topic of choosing to end a relationship, vs remaining committed regardless of what happens. This is an emotional one, where I lay out a lot of the more personal thoughts and discussions I’ve been having with myself over the past few weeks. I hope you find it valuable. Join my Mastermind Tribe: http://joshuasigafus.com/MastermindTribe My Website: https://joshuasigafus.com/ YouTube: http://joshuasigafus.com/YouTube Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JoshSigafusaut...
Aug 06, 2021•22 min•Season 1Ep. 292
#291 How To Deal With Post Breakup Doubt
In this episode, I talk about post breakup doubt, also known as ‘dumper’s regret.’ I talk about what it is, why it happens, and why it’s important to stay rationally grounded in the aftermath of a relationship. Join my Mastermind Tribe: http://joshuasigafus.com/MastermindTribe My Website: https://joshuasigafus.com/ YouTube: http://joshuasigafus.com/YouTube Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JoshSigafusauthor Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joshua_sigafus/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/JoshSi...
Aug 05, 2021•17 min•Season 1Ep. 291
#290 I Went Out To Expand My Social Circles - Here's What Happened
In this episode, I (in a state of relative intoxication) talk about an effort made on my part to go out and expand my social circles. Here’s what happened. Join my Mastermind Tribe: http://joshuasigafus.com/MastermindTribe My Website: https://joshuasigafus.com/ YouTube: http://joshuasigafus.com/YouTube Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JoshSigafusauthor Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joshua_sigafus/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/JoshSigafus LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joshua-siga...
Aug 04, 2021•7 min•Season 1Ep. 290
#289 How To Command Respect For Yourself In Your Life
In this episode, I talk frankly about how to cultivate and command true alpha-level respect for yourself in life. This is important not only for your own well-being, but also for your attraction levels. It’s also important for men and for women. You won’t want to miss this one. Join my Mastermind Tribe: http://joshuasigafus.com/MastermindTribe My Website: https://joshuasigafus.com/ YouTube: http://joshuasigafus.com/YouTube Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JoshSigafusauthor Instagram: https://w...
Aug 03, 2021•22 min•Season 1Ep. 289
#288 What To Do After A Breakup...
In this episode, I talk frankly about the first important steps to take after a breakup, if you’re trying to become a more attractive, high value man or woman on the dating marketplace. If you’re asking questions like: What should I do immediately after a breakup? This episode answers that question. I talk about these specific things a lot in other pieces of content, but in this episode, I really distill it down to the basics and briefly explain what you need to know to level up and move forward...
Aug 02, 2021•12 min•Season 1Ep. 288
#287 Expanding Your Social Circles For Dating Success
Do you often ask yourself questions like: How do you meet dating partners? HOw do you meet someone who is not online dating? How do I meet a new partner? What is the best way to meet someone to date? How do most couples meet in this modern age? Well, this video is for you. Expanding your social circles is incredibly important. And in this video, I talk about what you need to be focused on to do it correctly. Join my Mastermind Tribe: http://joshuasigafus.com/MastermindTribe My Website: https://j...
Jul 30, 2021•9 min•Season 1Ep. 287
#286 My Girlfriend And I Broke Up
This is a highly personal video and podcast episode. My long term relationship has ended. My girlfriend and I, who were together for 4 years, have called it quits. This is a pretty raw episode where I talk about why it happened, some thoughts I have about it that I think may be relevant to the alpha mentality and the subject of human mating behavior, and also an inside look at some of my own personal feelings, emotions, and thoughts on what happened, why it happened, and how I’m going to move fo...
Jul 29, 2021•24 min•Season 1Ep. 286
#285 What To Do When Your Life Feels ‘Bleh’
In this video, I talk about feeling ‘bleh’ in life, and what you can do to overcome it. This problem tends to come up when we’re hustling and grinding to accomplish our goals. But it can make life feel dull and colorless. How do you fix it? The key is to engage your passion, and to try to take responsibility for creating some excitement in your life, so that you can try to live life to the greatest, happiest extent possible. You won’t want to miss this one. Join my Mastermind Tribe: http://joshu...
Jul 28, 2021•16 min•Season 1Ep. 285
#284 Angry At Women?
In this episode, I talk about my own journey of being angry with women, and why it’s so important to overcome this negativity in our lives as men. We must learn to overcome the shadows and demons from our past, and be happy, self-fulfilled, self-actualized men in the present. You won’t want to miss this one. Join my Mastermind Tribe: http://joshuasigafus.com/MastermindTribe My Website: https://joshuasigafus.com/ YouTube: http://joshuasigafus.com/YouTube Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JoshSig...
Jul 27, 2021•8 min•Season 3Ep. 284
#283 How To Stop Failing At Dating - Alpha Mentality Rant
This is a rant, straight up. I talk about taking ownership, overcoming failure, quitting the victim mentality, and what it takes to be a WINNER, in all areas of life, including dating. Why do people fail at dating? There’s only one reason. Because they make excuses and don’t take responsibility for it. You won’t want to miss this one. Jon Taffer video: https://youtu.be/1BW6CTGOpCg Join my Mastermind Tribe: http://joshuasigafus.com/MastermindTribe My Website: https://joshuasigafus.com/ YouTube: h...
Jul 26, 2021•18 min•Season 1Ep. 283
#282 Game Matters. But THIS Matters More...
In this livestream episode, I talk about how, while game DOES matter, there's actually something that matters a lot more. Can you guess what it is? Find out by listening to this episode. You won’t want to miss this one. Join my Mastermind Tribe: http://joshuasigafus.com/MastermindTribe My Website: https://joshuasigafus.com/ YouTube: http://joshuasigafus.com/YouTube Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JoshSigafusauthor Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joshua_sigafus/ Twitter: https://twitter.c...
Jul 23, 2021•23 min•Season 1Ep. 282
#281 Do Adult Films Cause Erectile Dysfunction In Men?
In this livestream episode, I talk about a recently discovered link between adult films and ED in men. I've talked about this often in various different articles I've written. But this recent study paints an even more clear picture. You won’t want to miss this one. Article about the study: https://neurosciencenews.com/porn-erectile-function-16664/ Join my Mastermind Tribe: http://joshuasigafus.com/MastermindTribe My Website: https://joshuasigafus.com/ YouTube: http://joshuasigafus.com/YouTube Fa...
Jul 22, 2021•34 min•Season 1Ep. 281
#280 Should You Search For A Purpose In Life?
In this livestream episode, I talk about the importance of searching for a purpose in life. This is important for the alpha mentality, and for finding success. But it's also vitally important for your attraction. You won’t want to miss this one. Arnold Schwarzenegger: Life Changing Motivational Speech: https://youtu.be/Zh6lZ5mTSAI Article about trying to find your purpose: https://www.rewire.org/finding-lifes-purpose-stressing-us-out/ Join my Mastermind Tribe: http://joshuasigafus.com/Mastermind...
Jul 21, 2021•40 min•Season 1Ep. 280
#279 Is Polyamory A Good Idea?
In this livestream episode, I talk about polyamory, non monogamy, and discuss whether or not polyamory, or being 'poly' is a good idea. You won’t want to miss this one. Join my Mastermind Tribe: http://joshuasigafus.com/MastermindTribe My Website: https://joshuasigafus.com/ YouTube: http://joshuasigafus.com/YouTube Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JoshSigafusauthor Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joshua_sigafus/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/JoshSigafus LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/i...
Jul 19, 2021•34 min•Season 1Ep. 279
#278 Are Men And Women Delusional When It Comes To Dating?
In this livestream episode, I talk about how men and women tend to display straight-up delusional tendencies in their dating lives. They're blaming other people, getting stuck in the victim mentality, failing to take responsibility for themselves... and it's sad, because we all deserve a chance at a dating life that's meaningful and fulfilling. You won’t want to miss this one. Join my Mastermind Tribe: http://joshuasigafus.com/MastermindTribe My Website: https://joshuasigafus.com/ YouTube: http:...
Jul 16, 2021•23 min•Season 1Ep. 278
#277 Men Are Getting More Desperate, Women More Entitled
In this livestream episode, I talk about how men seem to be getting more desperate, and why women seem to be getting more entitled. I discuss why I think this is happening, and also discuss what I believe the solutions are. Here were my video notes: Men are getting more desperate because of greater competition Women are getting more entitled because people are always giving them free attention I also think that more and more people have lost their way, and don’t know how to create real value for...
Jul 14, 2021•38 min•Season 1Ep. 277
#276 It's Too Risky To NOT Be Alpha
In this livestream episode, I talk about why it's so incredibly risky, both in theory and in practice, to not live with an alpha mentality. Taking responsibility isn't always easy. But it's so, so important that we do it. You won’t want to miss this one. Join my Mastermind Tribe: http://joshuasigafus.com/MastermindTribe My Website: https://joshuasigafus.com/ YouTube: http://joshuasigafus.com/YouTube Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JoshSigafusauthor Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joshua_...
Jul 14, 2021•24 min•Season 1Ep. 276
#275 Why A Man Should NEVER Move Into A Woman’s House
In this livestream episode, I talk about why men should never move into a woman's domain. The woman should ALWAYS be required to move-in with the man if the two are going to cohabitate. This is the only way that the man can maintain leadership of the frame of the relationship. And in this video, I'm going to explain why. You won’t want to miss this one. Join my Mastermind Tribe: http://joshuasigafus.com/MastermindTribe My Website: https://joshuasigafus.com/ YouTube: http://joshuasigafus.com/YouT...
Jul 12, 2021•37 min•Season 1Ep. 275
#274 Why Do Men Pull Away After Sex?
In this episode, I’m going to answer a question (and many related questions) that I get a lot from women regarding men. Why do men pull away after sex? This topic also branches out into many other topics and questions that I’ll also discuss, such as male short term and long term mating strategies. I’m going to be real with you. The answer to this question isn’t always a pleasant one. But if you want the no-nonsense truth from the guy who’s not afraid to tell you how it really is, this is what yo...
Jul 10, 2021•19 min
#273 Dating Coaching Success Story - Interview With A Private Community Member
In this episode, I interview a coaching client who is also a member of my private community, the Joshua Sigafus Mastermind Tribe. In this episode, you’ll get to hear the ‘scoop’ about dating coaching from someone who’s actually been through it. You’ll get to hear how well it worked, whether or not she would recommend it for others, and also learn a bit about her own life story and experiences. You won’t want to miss this one. Join my Mastermind Tribe: http://joshuasigafus.com/MastermindTribe My ...
Jul 09, 2021•32 min•Season 2Ep. 273
#272 How To Get Women To Text You
In this episode, I talk frankly about how I get women to message me/text me on a regular basis. If you want to get women to text you, there’s only one thing you need to be focused on… increasing your dating marketplace value and attraction levels. In this video, I explain it all. You won’t want to miss it. Join my Mastermind Tribe: http://joshuasigafus.com/MastermindTribe My Website: https://joshuasigafus.com/ YouTube: http://joshuasigafus.com/YouTube Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JoshSigaf...
Jul 08, 2021•14 min•Season 2Ep. 272
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