What you will learn in this episode: - The most common communication challenges men experience in their marriages. - The impact that communication challenges have on your relationship with your partner and how your partner is feeling. - Strategies for identifying the personal communication challenges you are struggling with. - Choosing which communication habits resonated with you the most and how to implement them. - Integrating these exercises into your daily life to improve your communication...
Jun 05, 2023•57 min
What you will learn in this episode: Strategies for rebuilding physical trust by creating a safe and supportive environment Tips for rebuilding financial trust by being transparent and honest about financial matters Techniques for establishing clear boundaries and expectations around financial matters Setting clear boundaries & Expectations around physical & financial goals. How to ommunicate effectively about what you want from your partner physically. Addressing past traumas & trig...
May 29, 2023•1 hr 1 min
What you will learn in this episode as well as questions to ask yourself and your partner to gain clarity & traction quickly! Ways to rebuild competence trust by improving decision-making and follow-through skills What specific decision-making or follow-through skills do you need to work on to rebuild trust in your relationship? What specific actions can you take to improve your decision-making and follow-through skills? How can you hold yourself accountable to follow through on commitments ...
May 22, 2023•1 hr 6 min
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May 15, 2023•1 hr 3 min
What you will learn in this episode: - The 6 Trust Types - How they are broken - How they can be repaired - Why you are breaking trust and How to stop repeating the cycle - Our story of how we broke and repaired each one of these - An exercise you can use to start doing the work now! - Much More! 12-Step Guide To Becoming An Irreplaceable Husband: http://www.Irreplaceableman.com Book a Free Strategy Call with Ian: https://calendly.com/ianlobas/group-coaching-strategy-call Sign Up for The Irrepla...
May 08, 2023•1 hr 6 min
What you will learn in this episode: The hidden ways trust is broken What your wife is thinking and how she feels How the little things add up to be a big deal What causes trust issues in a relationship What you can do to start to course correct Examples from our marriage on how we rebuilt Systems & Strategies you can use now. Your value outside of provider and protector The Replaceable Man Avatars CONNECT WITH US: EMAIL: support@thelobasgroup.com WEBSITE: https://irreplaceableman.com/apply/...
May 03, 2023•54 min
Episode 306 dives deep into the journey of personal growth and development in both individuals and as a couple. We discuss how being a work in progress and how taking ownership of your own growth can benefit not only yourself but also your partner. One common theme that we explore is the idea of men feeling like they have no other value in the world besides money. We challenge this notion and talk about how bad behavior can become a reflection of fear, and how showing up as the man your partner ...
Mar 20, 2023•1 hr 1 min
Episode 305 examines the choice between victimhood and taking ownership of your life, and how it impacts your success. In this episode, Raylen Davis from the Elevated Coaches Academy joins us to discuss the power of leaning into discomfort to achieve success. We explore the importance of focusing on the emotional and inner self, and how mentorship can be a powerful tool for growth. We also discuss the detrimental effects of creating meaning around things and the steps to take in turning your lif...
Mar 14, 2023•1 hr 9 min
In this episode, we explore the transformative power of affirmations and how they can help us create the life we desire. Our guest, Garrain Jones — shares his personal journey of overcoming adversity and how he used affirmations to change his mindset and manifest his dreams. He emphasizes the importance of creating a personal formula and blueprint for our lives, and how this can help us become irreplaceable individuals as a whole. We delve into the role of energy transmutation in turning negativ...
Mar 06, 2023•1 hr 20 min
As men, we have a natural desire to provide for our families and achieve success in our careers. Frankly, this is how most men avoid dealing with their problems. And the problem with that is it hurts the people we say we are working hard for. I remember Meredith saying to me, “You say you're running the race for us, however every time you get a chance to celebrate with your family, you run right by us.” That hurt and hit deep. She was right. I was saying one thing and doing another. I was acting...
Feb 27, 2023•1 hr 12 min
Marriage is not just about two people living together. When you’re married, you don’t have a housemate, you have a partner that you have made a commitment to. Not just to provide for or take care of, your commitment also has to do with who you are and who you become. Constant personal evolution and growth is a must. For the first couple years of our marriage, I wasnt following those rules. In my mind, because I was providing financially at a high level and we were living a great life, thats all ...
Feb 20, 2023•1 hr 8 min
Episode 301 is about putting yourself first and making sure you are working on your fullest potential, because what you have financially and materially is not always the truest form of happiness. The truth is, all the money and material possessions in the world may not make you happy. In fact, if you don't feel complete you will probably never let yourself enjoy what you have. Put yourself first and work on your self-depreciation issues, so that you can get out of your own way and achieve real h...
Feb 13, 2023•1 hr 2 min
Episode 300 is about why even great marriages could still be at the brink of divorce, and how going through self-transformation could remedy such a situation. There is a common misconception that if you are married, your marriage is guaranteed. This is not the case, and anyone who says otherwise is either unaware of or in denial of the issues concerning the reality of marriage. According to The National Center for Health Statistics in the United States, at least 50% of marriages will end in divo...
Feb 06, 2023•57 min
Episode 299 is about generational traumas and experiences, and how we cope with it differently in our varying paces as individuals. As we grow older, we may not even realize that we are living with the effects of generational traumas. Our coping skills are programmed into us by our parents, siblings and other environmental factors — even if it doesn’t seem like we’re hearing it directly from them. Each generation has nuances, but the bottom line is that we must break these patterns if we want to...
Jan 30, 2023•1 hr 18 min
Episode 298 is about acknowledging and accepting your core, including loving who you are with the help of discovering new realms. At some point in our lives, we all go through the deep and dark hole of self-discovery. We fear that what we are or who we are could be deemed as unacceptable by society — that we think we need to achieve so many things and become so powerful just to be praised by others. We often fail to realize that this acceptance, respect and praise that we crave are highly rooted...
Jan 23, 2023•1 hr 20 min
Episode 297 is about embracing the mystery of death, our spiritual connections with others and how it can transform us. Most of us fear the idea of death, because we all fear what we do not know. We fear that we might no longer be able to do what we could have done when we still had the chance. Indeed, we regret more the things we did not do than those we did, and this is what makes today’s episode very special — as it teaches us how we could possibly handle the concept of dying and how it invol...
Jan 16, 2023•1 hr 12 min
Episode 296 is about personal development and being purposeful in your life journey. When opportunities arise in your life, do you realize how often you discredit yourself? Because our episode for today tells us straight up that discrediting yourself is not only negative for you; it also insults those who believe in the value that you bring. Discrediting yourself is a dangerous thing to do. When you start believing that you are not good enough, that belief can spread to other areas of your life,...
Jan 09, 2023•1 hr 11 min
Episode 295 is about surviving the dark hole in pursuit of our true purpose and happiness. Sometimes when things are going so perfectly in our life, that’s the exact moment we feel lost. We get consumed by fame, power and money, thinking all of it should be enough, that it is all that we need — that we forget what it truly feels to LIVE. We start asking ourselves, is this all life has to offer? Today, a former MLB baseball player and MLB all star, Shea Hillenbrand gets to share with us his journ...
Jan 02, 2023•1 hr 3 min
Episode 294 is about diving deep into the human experience. When we deal with our emotions, especially when it comes to love, it’s helpful to identify our patterns. This could resolve a lot of issues when it comes to intimacy, traumas, and even grief. After all, the opposite of love is grief. You love somebody you can lose. That’s an unforgettable line we got from Dr. Thomas Jordan — whose clinical specialty is treating adults who are depressed and anxious about past or present unhealthy relatio...
Dec 26, 2022•1 hr 5 min
Episode 293 is about the diamond in the rough. When we work, we don't just make more. We become more. That's advice from the Pope himself. I got to hang out with Andreas Widmer, who used to work for the Pope and now works for you. For years and years, through his stories and experience, Andrew has helped men declare value for themselves. He's shared how the answers are within you and that change is never done. He offers a ton of wisdom for entrepreneurs and is interested in getting the word out ...
Dec 19, 2022•1 hr 4 min
Episode 292 is about relationships and leadership: Ever notice that a lot of successful individuals can easily figure out how to win in business - how to be successful in business. But most of 'em down at home are a complete and utter trainwreck. And you may be one of 'em and not even be aware of it---because you're actually a pretty good husband and a pretty good dad, but your finances suck. Or, you're actually a great dad or husband---but your business sucks! Why is that so? And why is it so c...
Dec 14, 2022•1 hr 11 min
Episode 291 is about manifesting your future. You can manifest your future today. Nick Devlin was an Army Ranger veteran and has been through the toughest situations for a man to ever be in, literally things he cannot speak about to anybody. He took the life lessons that came with this experience and has used that to help men today become a better version of themselves. There are no pseudo-spiritual manifestations required, just pure and genuine commitment to change. And it’s not easy, no. Today...
Dec 05, 2022•1 hr 18 min
Episode 290 is about transforming your pain. Turn your pain into something powerful. Gabriel Keczan is a visionary writer, speaker, mythologist entrepreneur, and executive men's coach. He's the author of a bestselling international book Alive on Purpose, UNC Clenched From Fear and Step Into Your Power with Backbone Heart and Balls. When he was 18 he had a dark night of the soul. He spent 30 days in a psych ward battling his inner demons. Now he is a brand new man helping others get out of their ...
Nov 28, 2022•57 min
Episode 289 is about finding your life mission. What's your mission in life? Lane Belone, former Special Forces Green Beret and now an elite entrepreneur coach, co-author of Unleash Your Humble Alpha, host of Exactly What The Moment Called For and creator of the Joyful Sovereignty Experience. As a special forces soldier he built strength, discipline and healthy habits - but when his service was over he felt like there were parts missing from him; something to live for once out of the military. L...
Nov 21, 2022•1 hr 12 min
Episode 288 is about changing your life. Find the needle that truly moves you in your life. Brian Pannuzzo is a men’s health and corporate wellness coach, founder of the Success Lift and host of the Success LIft podcast. He started as a Wall Street trader for 20 years before becoming frustrated with his lack of success outside his job (despite being successful at it). It was then that he discovered something about himself through an epiphany – and found his way back to pursuing what made him hap...
Nov 14, 2022•1 hr 11 min
Episode 287 is about learning to assess yourself. You are your own number-one cheerleader. Dr. Anthony Balduzzi is a naturopathic doctor, national champion bodybuilder, and founder of the Fit Father Project and Fit Mother Project- online communities for empowering busy parents to get healthy, lose weight, and build muscle through practical nutrition and exercise plans. He advocates for having a healthy well-being; he believes in mental, physical, and spiritual health. We all make mistakes but co...
Nov 07, 2022•1 hr 5 min
Episode 286 is about making innovations. Innovation is the key to evolution. Costa Michailidis, an athlete and coach, created Innovation Bound- a full service innovation consultancy focused on teaching individuals how they can solve their own problems. And while as an athlete he learned early on what it meant to have discipline and built habits that would transition across parts of his life, his focus has been to teach others how they can use those lessons in order to create something great for ...
Nov 01, 2022•1 hr 9 min
Episode 285 is about making your dream come true. Set your goals up high and dare to dream bigger than ever before. Dane Espegard is an entrepreneur and coach; he grew up in a loving home with parents and siblings. One day he noticed himself wondering what kind of business culture would set the tone for his company—something centered around people pursuing their dreams? Then, before long, it had morphed from just being about him to also including his own family - as they created lists together t...
Oct 24, 2022•1 hr 5 min
Episode 284 is about finding your way. Being comfortable with the uncomfortable. Dr. Calvin Sun has been working as an Emergency Physician and Clinical Assistant Professor in Emergency Medicine for most of his career, but he always knew that there was something else for him out there; one day he got it! His love for travel came after losing a bet to explore Egypt, where his curiosity took hold and never let go since then. Fast forward now, Monsoon Diaries was born – it is an organization founded...
Oct 17, 2022•1 hr
Episode 283 is about being irreplaceable. How do you find your purpose and become irreplaceable? Branch Isole is an author, poet, and story-teller. After spending 15 years in the corporate world, he became disillusioned with who he had grown into - so he quit his job to pursue a new venture. In doing so, he discovered himself again by studying different spiritual belief systems. One fateful day at the age of 45 when he decided to go back to school for his Masters degree in Theology, he wrote a b...
Oct 10, 2022•1 hr 3 min
