Exploring "PolyFamily" as a Polyamorous Person...
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Aug 21, 2025•36 min
The Introspective and Hot Podcast w/ Kat Blaque
Kat Blaque is a veteran Youtuber who has been uploading content to Youtube since 2005. Today, she predominantly makes content about the various things she embodies. Her work covers gender, sex positivity, polyamory, BDSM, and race. She uses her perspective as a black transgender woman to inform many of her reflections on trending stories, films and more. This podcast is a collection of audio versions of the many things she publishes on Youtube and elsewhere.
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Another Problematic Poly Content Creator (Decolonizing Love)
Decolonizing Love has become a central platform for the polycurious, but some of its content feels as if it's doing anything but.... If you enjoy the podcast, help support it by joining my Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/katblaque
Aug 12, 2025•1 hr 7 min
TS Madison, Nene Leaks and The Straight Men Who Love Them
My perspective as a trans woman who doesn't prefer heterosexual men. My Website 🩸 http://www.blaqueinthecity.com 🩸 Patreon 🩸 http://www.patreon.com/katblaque 🩸 Become a member for exclusive content 🩸 https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxFWzKZa74SyAqpJyVlG5Ew/join 🩸 Merch 📌 https://the-blaque-shop-2.creator-spring.com 📌 Socials ♥️ http://www.patreon.com/katblaque ♠️ http://www.instagram.com/kat_blaque ♦️ http//www.tiktok.com/katblaque ♣️ https://bsky.app/profile/katblaque.bsky.social Bookin...
Aug 11, 2025•38 min
Sabrina Carpenter’s Album Cover….
Sabrina Carpenters newest album cover is certainly causing a bit of controversy, which is the point of course! My Website 🩸 http://www.blaqueinthecity.com 🩸 Patreon 🩸 / katblaque 🩸 Become a member for exclusive content 🩸 / @katblaque 🩸 Merch 📌 https://the-blaque-shop-2.creator-spr... 📌 Socials ♥️ / katblaque ♠️ / kat_blaque ♦️ http//www.tiktok.com/katblaque ♣️ https://bsky.app/profile/katblaque.bs... Booking: ben@gotham-artists.com Collaboration: katblaque@standard.tv Support the show If...
Jul 06, 2025•42 min
Understanding Kanye West and Sneako's Favorite Fetish (Cuckoldry)
Kanye West and Sneako "accidentally' revealed that they are both into a very controversial fetish and I'm here to explain why so many men are into cuckoldry. My Website 🩸 http://www.blaqueinthecity.com 🩸 Patreon 🩸 http://www.patreon.com/katblaque 🩸 Become a member for exclusive content 🩸 https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxFWzKZa74SyAqpJyVlG5Ew/join 🩸 Merch 📌 https://the-blaque-shop-2.creator-spring.com 📌 Socials ♥️ http://www.patreon.com/katblaque ♠️ http://www.instagram.com/kat_blaque ♦...
Jun 19, 2025•20 min
Parenthood when You're Transgender
Based on a previous discussion we had, I thought I'd speak about my desires to have or not have children and how it relates to my transness or doesn't. As an adoptee, I have some pretty strong feelings about adoption and being ready when you have children. I thought I'd share my thoughts on having children and open the question up to my audience. Support the show If you enjoy the podcast, help support it by joining my Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/katblaque...
Mar 29, 2023•20 min
[Call-in Show] Polyamorous Folks Discuss Discrimination and Queer Identity
This month I asked if being polyamorous makes someone part of the queer commuity and I got a lot of very surprising answers to this question on this month's show. A grad student working on his thesis tells me a few stories of the discrimination his cis heterosexual subjects experienced while being openly polyamorous. A person from Utah shares some surprising insight into the Church of Latter Day Saints and their condemnation of polyamorous relationships. Two callers question my framing of the to...
Mar 10, 2023•36 min
Does Being Polyamorous Make You Queer?
As a polyamorous person who some see as queer, I figured I'd share my thoughts about whether or not being polyamorous on its own defines you as queer. I have...complex and honestly conflicting feelings about this. Support the show If you enjoy the podcast, help support it by joining my Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/katblaque
Mar 01, 2023•14 min
[Call-in Show] How do you feel about the word Queer?
After sharing my thoughts, I thought I would ask my audience how they felt about the term queer. For some it's a word that's too vague to speak to their experiences, and for other, the vagueness is the appeal. Full Unedited episode: https://www.patreon.com/posts/february-call-in-78430732 Support the show If you enjoy the podcast, help support it by joining my Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/katblaque
Feb 20, 2023•31 min
Why I'd Never Describe Myself as "Queer"
"Queer" is a term I've always had a very complex relationship with. On one hand, I respect that as a transgender woman, I will always be seen by as outside of heterosexist norms by many. Yet it's hard for me to reconcile the reality of my lived experience where people tend to assume I'm a cis woman and by proxy, heterosexual. I've lived most of my life entrenched comfortably in a very heteronormative life, despite my transness; so it's hard for me to feel like "queer" is a truthful term for me, ...
Feb 01, 2023•27 min•Season 2Ep. 5
Artists, Researchers and Art Theorists Discuss AI Art
This month, we discussed AI Art and its ethics. In this call-in show, I spoke to several different people who all offered different perspectives on AI art and its impact. We had a great conversation about how it's impacting upcoming artists and asked the question "how long have artists been able to sustain themselves as they currently do". Are the artists who reject AI art simply elitists? Audio editing by Silvana Alcala Support the show If you enjoy the podcast, help support it by joining my Pa...
Jan 22, 2023•49 min
An Argument Against AI Art
A few days ago, I found an acquaintance of mine trying to sell AI portraits of popular characters in baby form. His only challenge was plugging in specific descriptions of the images he wanted and a computer generated images for him to sell and increase his reach. Since seeing that one post, he's made several more and produced more "art" in a shorter period of time than most artists are able to do by hand. The worst part? His images would exist without stealing from living artists. Artists whose...
Jan 04, 2023•25 min•Season 2Ep. 4
[Call-in Show] Transitioning Young, Detransitioning and The Complexities of Both
This month, we're having a conversation about how young is too young to be transgender. It's a rather rhetorical question because obviously anyone at any age can identify or understand themselves as transgender, but when it comes to trans care, there are some rather complicated realities that are often brushed under the rug in this conversation in order to placate to the false concerns of transphobes. In this episode, I speak to several people who transitioned young or debated transitioning youn...
Sep 14, 2022•46 min
How Young is Too Young To Be Transgender?
With increased antagonism towards transgender children receiving care, I thought it would be a good idea to have an open conversation about the benefits of transitioning young; with a few caveats based on my own experiencing transitioning young. Support the show If you enjoy the podcast, help support it by joining my Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/katblaque
Sep 03, 2022•24 min•Season 2Ep. 3
[Call-In Show] Asexuals Clarify Demisexuality
In this month's podcast episode, I asked the question: Am I demisexual or do I just have standards? In this call-in show, people who identify as demi and ace speak to me about the difference between these two and the complexities of not exactly experiencing sexual attraction the way many of us do. Support the show If you enjoy the podcast, help support it by joining my Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/katblaque
Aug 17, 2022•26 min
Am I "Demisexual" or Do I Just Have Standards?
Despite being overtly sex positive, I'm not really a person who jumps into the bed with people and for that reason, some people have suggested that I may be demisexual. For me, this is strange because I think most people tend not to rush into sex, but maybe hook up culture has made that feeling rare enough that it deserves its own sexual designation? In this episode, I speak about demisexuality as a term and how I feel it does and doesn't apply to me. Support the show If you enjoy the podcast, h...
Aug 06, 2022•11 min•Season 2Ep. 3
[Call-In Show] "Pretty Privilege: Misogyny, Colorism/Featurism and Colonization?
We continue our conversation about "pretty privilege", wether it exists and if the concept can be differentiated from other isms. We hear from a white transgender man who experienced "pretty privilege", a South Asian woman who grew up with a thinner, lighter skin sibling who was always treated better than her and a man from Brazil who speaks about Brazil's unique and not so unique view on who exactly gets to be seen as pretty in a predominately mixed country. Support the show If you enjoy the po...
Jul 08, 2022•34 min
Is it "Pretty Privilege" or Just Racism?
The concept of "pretty privilege" is an interesting one for me. On one hand, I don't doubt it's existence and frankly, I've benefited from it. However, quite frequently. when I unpack what's considered attractive in the United States, it seems hard to differentiate it from other isms like racism, fatphobia and ableism. So I question if it is truly a "privilege" at all, but an embodiment of other isms. Support the show If you enjoy the podcast, help support it by joining my Patreon: http://www.pa...
Jul 06, 2022•14 min•Season 2Ep. 2
[Call-In Show] Queer Folks and Teachers Discuss the Don't Say The Gay Bill
I hosted a call-in show to discuss the complexities around the Don't Say The Gay bill in Florida and the concept of "grooming". Support the show If you enjoy the podcast, help support it by joining my Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/katblaque
Jul 06, 2022•26 min
"Grooming" and Not Saying The Gay
With growing antagonism towards queer kids and educators, there's a risk of alienation and, the subsequent grooming that typically happens when queer kids seek out support and find predators instead. Support the show If you enjoy the podcast, help support it by joining my Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/katblaque
Jun 06, 2022•20 min•Season 2Ep. 1
Is It Transphobic To Sexually/Romantically Reject a Trans Person?
It seems like we can never discuss transgender people's existence without discussing who they're sexually available to. One of the most popular bits of discourse around this issue is whether or not someone is transphobic for not being sexually or romantically interested in a transgender person. For me, the question is an interesting one as a person who's had several relationships with men I'd describe as deeply transphobic. So in this episode, I discuss the deep nuances of my feeling on the issu...
Jan 18, 2022•28 min
[Call-In Show] Formerly Hypersexual Survivors Discuss How They Were Confronted At the Height of Their Hypersexuality
As we've been discussing, hypersexuality is a pretty common reaction to sexual violence and it's also pretty commonly misunderstood. In this episode, I ask my audience the question whether or not they would have been receptive to someone trying to call them out for their hypersexuality at the height of it. In this episode, we speak to people of various genders about their experience with hypersexuality and the different ways people in their life tried to address it and some of the responses and ...
Jan 14, 2022•52 min
How To Help Someone Engaging in Hypersexuality as Self Harm
In the continued discussions we've been having around hypersexuality, one of the things I mentioned was that I would have appreciated someone stopping me or calling me out for what I was doing. However, the reality is I would have been incredibly defensive to the point where I wouldn't at all respond positively to someone who wasn't a parent trying to stop me when I was in a hypersexual phase. So what exactly can someone do when they see their friend engaging in hypersexual self harm. Support th...
Jan 05, 2022•21 min•Season 1Ep. 17
[Call-In Show] New York Lesbians Discuss Whether Trans Women Are Shutting Down Lesbian Bars
In the podcast last week, I spoke about a comment I got from a New Yorker who said that lesbian bars in NY were so full of trans women that cis women who didn't want to date them were forced to go underground in order to meet with each other. As a straight person, this sounded strange, but anything is possible. So I opened up my lines to Lesbians around the world to discuss this topic of the shutting down of Lesbian bars, but ultimately, New York's lesbian scene came through with full force to d...
Dec 29, 2021•38 min
Lesbians, Trans Women and "Transphobia"?
Transphobia and dating are subjects that come up pretty frequently and one of the most intense debates is about whether or not lesbians are transphobic for not wanting to sleep with trans women. I dont personally think so, but im fairly used to women pursuing me romantically. If we listened to this discourse, we'd believe that never happened but I often find myself rejecting cis women despite how these conversations tend to suggest that women who are attracted to women arent attracted to trans w...
Dec 21, 2021•21 min•Season 1Ep. 16
[Call-In Show] Various Genders Discuss Gendered Pricing
In this episode of the call-in, we speak to a few people of various genders and they give their perspective on gendered pricing structures at events. We speak to a trans man who once enjoyed getting freebees for being seen as a woman, a post op trans woman about her own experiences and two cis women about their own experiences in these practices in both vanilla and kink settings. Support the show If you enjoy the podcast, help support it by joining my Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/katblaque...
Dec 15, 2021•38 min
Women Get in Free??
From clubs to kink parties, I discuss the concept of "women get in free" in the midst of a reckoning in the LA area where some of these places are being shut down because of sexual assault allegations. They often say when you get in for free, you're the product. Support the show If you enjoy the podcast, help support it by joining my Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/katblaque
Dec 07, 2021•29 min•Season 1Ep. 15
[Call-In Show] Survivors Discuss Hypersexuality After Sexual Violence
Hypersexuality is a common response to sexual violence, but many folks would assume the opposite. In this call in show I open the floor up to a wider range of people to discuss their own experiences with hypersexuality after sexual violence. Support the show If you enjoy the podcast, help support it by joining my Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/katblaque
Dec 01, 2021•53 min
Hypersexuality After Sexual Violence
When you've been assaulted, the assumption is frequently that you would become more modest, less sexual and very protective of who you allow into your physical space. This idea is often predicated on the idea that sexual violence only occurs when someone seems receptive to it. This is an obvious fallacy, but the hypersexual response to assault is still very confusing to many. For me, I wouldn't realize how much my assault changed me until years and years later; after finally meeting safer, healt...
Nov 24, 2021•21 min•Season 1Ep. 14
[Call-In Show] Black Queer Folk Discuss The Complications of Black Love
When you're black, you're often raised with this idea of black love. My parents directly told me not to date outside of my race. However, as a trans woman, I've found this to be pretty complex and I discussed that in the last episode. Now I open the floor to folks who have had similar, but also different experiences pursuing black love when you're black, trans and/or queer. Support the show If you enjoy the podcast, help support it by joining my Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/katblaque...
Nov 24, 2021•51 min
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