In this episode Brook and Charlie talk about the Manhole Story and how as humans we have unconscious blind spot that keep us doing the same thing over and over and how we can become conscious of the Manhole and begin to repattern our thinking to avoid the fall. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!! Join "The Disengagement Zone" Membership! Ga...
Apr 17, 2020•32 min•Ep. 83
In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss the dramatic changes the cover-19 pandemic have created for everyone, especially those caught in high conflict divorce and custody cases. It is forcing everyone to think and rethink their actions regarding exchanges, travel and communications around containment. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!! J...
Apr 03, 2020•40 min•Ep. 81
In this episode Brook has a discussion with attorney Julie Mack about navigating the uncharted territory we are facing with the Covid 19 outbreak, the closure of the courts and the total lack of direction concerning Shelter At Home orders and the chaos that is created with exchanges and travel. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!! Join "The ...
Mar 27, 2020•47 min•Ep. 80
In this episode Brook and Charlie explore how looking at the internal components of Conflcit, meaning those sensations and internal beliefs that live within all of us can go a long way to help us disengage and begin to solve the external conflicts in our relationships with others. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!! Join "The Disengagement ...
Mar 20, 2020•39 min•Ep. 79
In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss the epidemic of High Conflict, How to detect it, How to protect from it and how to inoculate your children from it!!! If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!! Join "The Disengagement Zone" Membership! Gain access to: •daily value-packed emails •exclusive podcast episodes •free masterclasses •personalized...
Mar 13, 2020•37 min•Ep. 78
In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss some of the struggles and ramifications in making decisions around navigating the Covid-19 situation! I hope this helps. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!! Join "The Disengagement Zone" Membership! Gain access to: •daily value-packed emails •exclusive podcast episodes •free masterclasses •personali...
Mar 13, 2020•33 min•Ep. 78
In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss the Drama Triangle and how each of us enter the triangle and perpetuate the cycle of conflict. This is a simple model to rap your head around. Enjoy!!! Join "The Disengagement Zone" Membership! Gain access to: •daily value-packed emails •exclusive podcast episodes •free masterclasses •personalized recommendations for lawyers and therapists •live Q&A sessions •special discounts •meditation sessions •and fresh content every month All designed to help y...
Feb 14, 2020•37 min•Ep. 74
In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss the need to anticipate holiday challenges and to be proactive in dealing with them and not waiting for the last minute when it is too late. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!! Join "The Disengagement Zone" Membership! Gain access to: •daily value-packed emails •exclusive podcast episodes •free maste...
Sep 20, 2019•34 min•Ep. 53
In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss the perils of the stories we have and how they have distortions and how those distortions are created. When we get lost in the stories and can’t see the distortions of both our story and those of the other parent, we are headed to the abyss of conflict. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!! Join "The ...
Sep 13, 2019•43 min•Ep. 52
In this episode Brook and Charlie are joined again with Eric Sjoberg as they discuss the concept of the Rat Tangle. The Rat tangle has a great deal to do with the unconscious parts of our beliefs and behaviors as it pertains to our ancestry and family of origin. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!! Join "The Disengagement Zone" Membership! G...
Aug 23, 2019•1 hr•Ep. 49
In this episode Brook and Charlie talk about the crucial thought process that goes into managing the conflict, that of always doing the right thing for the right reasons. This is a rich conversation that will be of value to all. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!! Join "The Disengagement Zone" Membership! Gain access to: •daily value-packed...
Jul 08, 2019•35 min•Ep. 43
In this episode Brook and Charlie talk about how finances can be a major factor in conflict and some of the ways to get a perspective on how to maximize what you have and strategies to build on for a more secure future. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!! Join "The Disengagement Zone" Membership! Gain access to: •daily value-packed emails •...
Jun 21, 2019•47 min•Ep. 40
In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss the Flypaper Effect. How High Conflict Personalities attract us into and get us entangled in conflict, in such a way that it feels like we just can’t release ourselves from the flypaper. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!! Join "The Disengagement Zone" Membership! Gain access to: •daily value-packed...
Jun 07, 2019•40 min•Ep. 38
In this episode Brook and Charlie have a conversation about the structure and components that make up conflict. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!! Join "The Disengagement Zone" Membership! Gain access to: •daily value-packed emails •exclusive podcast episodes •free masterclasses •personalized recommendations for lawyers and therapists •liv...
May 31, 2019•38 min•Ep. 37
In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss Choices, Change and Conflict. How when we begin to make choices toward health, the change that is created can engage us in healthy conflict that can propel us toward a future that will bring us to a point of new perspectives. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!! Join "The Disengagement Zone" Membersh...
May 25, 2019•33 min•Ep. 36
In this session Brook and Charlie discuss the pitfalls of putting the children in the middle of the conflict and the unconcious ways many parents do it. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!! Join "The Disengagement Zone" Membership! Gain access to: •daily value-packed emails •exclusive podcast episodes •free masterclasses •personalized recomm...
May 17, 2019•36 min•Ep. 35
In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss how anxiousness is often the root cause or nexus in the creation of the conflict cycle and how the anxiousness of a parent transfers to that of their children. This is an episode no one should miss. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!! Please feel free to leave comments and rate this episode. Join "T...
Apr 26, 2019•46 min•Ep. 32
In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss the Game of What IF. This is a mental practice of learning how to do things differently in ways that sometime feel counter intutive but are crucial to changing how you think and do things. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!! Free High Conflict Diversion Program Booklet: “When Co-Parenting Doesn’t Wo...
Feb 08, 2019•36 min•Ep. 21
Co-Parenting is the relationship that never ends. If your ex is difficult to deal with, if you are are experiencing high-conflict and/or the children are being hurt by the behavior of your ex partner, than this show is for you. You may not be able to change them but you CAN change everything that your child needs to be healthy and happy. Listen in as Charlie and Brook discuss the principles, tools and techniques available in order to create peace in high conflict co-parenting relationships. Join...
Sep 11, 2018•39 min•Ep. 1
