If you’ve ever had one of those “how is this my life?” moments in sobriety—when it feels like everything is crashing down around you and a glass of wine (or five) sounds like the only way to survive the storm—you are not alone. Sobriety doesn’t give you a free pass from heartbreak, betrayal, or complete life plot twists. But it does give you the tools (and the clarity) to get through the mess without self-destructing. In this episode, I sat down with Tiffany Jenkins—bestselling author of the mem...
Jul 03, 2025•51 min•Ep. 273
If you’ve ever thought, “Life without alcohol sounds boring, lonely, or just... blah,” you’re not alone. Let’s be real—most of us grew up swimming in wine-soaked messaging that told us drinking was the key to fun, connection, and success. Whether it was Sex and the City, Bridget Jones, or just Tuesday night mom memes about needing wine to survive bedtime routines—alcohol was everywhere and always painted as the prize for being a grown woman. But here’s the thing: that story is a lie. And it’s on...
Jun 26, 2025•57 min•Ep. 272
If you’ve ever found yourself googling “why can’t I sleep after drinking?” or “is alcohol making my anxiety worse?”—you are not alone. So many of us are walking around exhausted, stressed, wired but tired, and wondering what the hell is wrong with us… without realizing that alcohol might be the culprit. In this episode, I’m talking with Gill Tietz—biochemist, sobriety educator, and host of the Sober Powered Podcast—about how alcohol actually affects your body and brain, why it’s so hard to stop ...
Jun 19, 2025•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 271
Ever found yourself googling “Do I have a drinking problem?” at 2AM after another night of “just a couple glasses of wine” turned into a bottle (again)? Or wondering if you really need to quit drinking—or if you’re just being too hard on yourself? If so, you are not alone. I’ve been there. And in this episode of The Hello Someday Podcast, I’m talking with Amanda E. White, a licensed therapist and the author of Not Drinking Tonight: A Guide to Creating a Sober Life You Love. I asked Amanda to sha...
Jun 12, 2025•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 270
If you’ve ever decided you’re not going to drink tonight—and then found yourself pouring a glass of wine at 9PM anyway—you’re not alone. Cravings are intense. Early sobriety can feel like your brain is screaming at you to “just have one.” But here’s the thing no one tells you: you don’t have to kill the craving. You just have to stop saying yes to it. In this episode, I’m joined by my friend Kristi Coulter—author of Nothing Good Can Come From This and Exit Interview: The Life and Death of My Amb...
Jun 05, 2025•1 hr 12 min•Ep. 269
Let’s be real—summer can be one of the hardest seasons to stay alcohol-free. Between the barbecues, beach days, boozy vacations, girls’ weekends, and pool parties, it can feel like every single event is soaked in rosé, White Claws, and mimosas. I remember thinking, “How am I supposed to get through the entire summer without drinking?” It felt impossible—until I actually tried it. In this episode of The Hello Someday Podcast, I’m teaming up with Suzanne Wayre, host of The Sober Mom Life Podcast (...
May 29, 2025•1 hr 17 min•Ep. 268
Have you ever heard someone say, “Only people with a problem with alcohol stop drinking” or “Life without wine is so boring”? Yeah. Me too. The truth is, there are a lot of flat-out lies floating around about what sobriety is really like—and if you’ve been scared to take a break from drinking, chances are you’ve believed at least one of them. I know I did. But here’s the truth: most of the stories we tell ourselves about what life without alcohol would look like... they’re just that. Stories. My...
May 22, 2025•1 hr 15 min•Ep. 267
If you’ve been caught in that exhausting loop of “I need to take a break” followed by “I need a drink,” this episode will be a game-changer. I asked Dr. Anna Lembke—Stanford psychiatrist, addiction specialist, and author of Dopamine Nation—to help explain the science behind alcohol cravings, why dopamine plays a central role in addiction, and how you can reset your brain to feel better without drinking. Dr. Lembke breaks down how alcohol spikes dopamine in your brain, giving you that initial “ah...
May 15, 2025•1 hr 12 min•Ep. 266
If you’ve ever wondered what happens to your friendships when you stop drinking, you are so not alone. Because when alcohol has been the glue holding your social life together, stepping away from it can feel like pulling a thread that unravels everything. In this episode of The Hello Someday Podcast, I sat down with Dr. Kimberly Horn, research psychologist and author of Friends Matter, For Life, to talk all about how to build and nurture friendships that actually support your alcohol-free life —...
May 08, 2025•53 min•Ep. 265
Hey there! In today’s episode, I’m flipping the mic and sharing an interview of me—recorded on the Drunk-ish podcast with the hilarious and wise Stefanie Wilder-Taylor—comedian, author of Sippy Cups Are Not for Chardonnay and Drunk-ish, and one of the original mom writers who made me feel seen in the early days of parenting (and wine o’clock). If you’ve ever wanted to hear the full origin story—like, how I went from a straight-A, people-pleasing diplomat’s kid to doing rugby keg runs in college ...
May 01, 2025•1 hr 9 min•Ep. 264
If you’ve ever tried to “just have one” or “only drink on weekends,” you’re not alone. Most women I work with try moderating their drinking before they ever take a full break from alcohol. I did it too—for years. I set all the rules: only wine with dinner, no drinks during the week, only on special occasions. And I broke all those rules. Over and over. In this episode of The Hello Someday Podcast, I’m joined by my amazing friend and former client, Marriott. She was where so many women are—trying...
Apr 24, 2025•1 hr 10 min•Ep. 263
Stopping drinking is hard enough. But repairing the emotional aftermath that lands at your kids’ feet? That’s a whole different level of brave. Whether your kids are toddlers or teenagers, grown adults or somewhere in between, chances are you’re asking yourself, “How do I talk to them about this?” or “Will they ever trust me again?” In this episode, I asked Janice Johnson Dowd—licensed master social worker, speaker, mom of four, and author of the book Rebuilding Relationships in Recovery—to shar...
Apr 17, 2025•1 hr 6 min•Ep. 262
If you’ve ever felt like you’re not good enough, like you don’t belong, or like you’re secretly one mistake away from being exposed as a fraud… you’re not alone. That feeling has a name—Imposter Syndrome—and it’s more common than you think, especially for high-achieving women juggling work, family, sobriety, and everything else life throws your way. Imposter Syndrome (or as my guest calls it, “the imposter phenomenon”) is the belief that your accomplishments are a fluke and that you’re going to ...
Apr 10, 2025•1 hr 10 min•Ep. 261
If you're worried about your drinking and wondering how your doctor can help, you’re not alone. So many women I talk to want support—but they’re unsure what to say, how it’ll show up in their medical file, or whether their doctor will even take them seriously. You might worry about being judged, dismissed, or told to “just cut back” or “go to AA.” That’s why I asked Megan Popp, a family nurse practitioner with almost six years of alcohol-free living and 15 years of recovery from an eating disord...
Apr 03, 2025•55 min•Ep. 260
If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything in your household—while your partner somehow has time to watch SportsCenter or scroll on their phone—you’re not alone. Managing the invisible load of running a home and family can feel like an unpaid, full-time job on top of everything else you do. And if you’re navigating sobriety, the stress, resentment, and exhaustion can feel even heavier—because now you’re no longer using alcohol as a “reward” or a way to take the edge off. I asked Eve Rodsky...
Mar 27, 2025•1 hr 12 min•Ep. 259
Stepmom life is no joke. It’s one of the hardest, most emotionally challenging roles to take on—yet most of us step into it completely unprepared for the rollercoaster ahead. You’re trying to blend two families, manage different parenting styles, navigate tricky dynamics with an ex, and build a strong relationship with kids who may or may not accept you. Oh, and while you’re at it, you’re also supposed to stay calm, keep your marriage strong, and not lose yourself in the process. No wonder so ma...
Mar 20, 2025•56 min•Ep. 258
If you’re a sober curious woman or in the early stages of sobriety, chances are you’ve spent years feeling disconnected from your body. Whether it was waking up with hangovers, feeling puffy and bloated, trying (and failing) to diet while still drinking, or just feeling uncomfortable in your skin—your relationship with your body may feel strained. Here’s the truth: rebuilding trust with your body is one of the most powerful gifts of sobriety. And it starts with learning how to nourish, respect, ...
Mar 13, 2025•1 hr 15 min•Ep. 257
If you’re a mom who has ever found yourself seething with resentment while your partner somehow gets to sleep in, take leisurely bathroom breaks, or “helps” with the kids by taking them to the park for an hour while you tackle the 500 things left on the to-do list—this episode is for you. Marriage after kids is hard. And for so many women, it’s enough to make anyone crack open a bottle of wine at 5 PM just to get through the chaos. In this episode, I’m talking to Jancee Dunn, author of How to No...
Mar 06, 2025•1 hr 13 min•Ep. 256
If you’ve ever thought about exploring a 12-step program but felt hesitant—whether because of the language, the concept of "God," or the label "alcoholic"—this episode is for you. As someone who has my own doubts about following a 12-step program on my path to sobriety, I get it. It can feel intimidating, outdated, or just not like “your thing.” But here’s the deal: while it’s not the only path to sobriety, there’s a lot of value in the 12 steps when you look past the barriers and approach it on...
Feb 27, 2025•57 min•Ep. 255
Life is busy, chaotic, and sometimes really overwhelming. Between work, kids, relationships, and the endless to-do list, it can feel like there’s no room to breathe. And for many women, alcohol has become the go-to way to cope—whether it’s wine after a long day or cocktails on the weekend to escape the stress. But what if the very thing you think is helping is actually making everything harder? Sobriety isn’t just about quitting alcohol—it’s about creating space, peace, and clarity in your life....
Feb 20, 2025•57 min•Ep. 254
Have you ever felt like you had to be perfect? That you had to succeed effortlessly, without anyone seeing how hard you were working? I know I did. And for a long time, drinking felt like the thing that helped me pull it off. In today’s episode, I’m talking with Sarah Levy, author of Drinking Games, a memoir in essays exploring drinking culture, perfectionism, and what it means to opt out. If you’ve ever used alcohol as a way to turn off the constant pressure, to feel like you fit in, or to give...
Feb 13, 2025•1 hr 19 min•Ep. 253
If you’re rethinking your relationship with alcohol or navigating early sobriety, you know it’s not always easy. From stressful days at work to the chaos of kids, marriage, and a never-ending to-do list, it can feel like the only way to unwind is with a glass (or bottle) of wine. But here’s the good news: life without alcohol doesn’t have to be boring, isolating, or impossible. In fact, it can be joyful, connected, and full of possibilities. In this episode, I’m sitting down with Tawny Lara and ...
Feb 06, 2025•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 252
Do you feel like you're carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders? Are you the one everyone turns to when things go sideways at work, home, or with friends? And yet, despite all your effort and capability, you find yourself drained, resentful, and maybe even turning to wine or Netflix just to numb out. If that sounds like you, you might be struggling with high-functioning codependency. In this episode of The Hello Someday Podcast, I’m diving into the world of high-functioning codependen...
Jan 30, 2025•1 hr 11 min•Ep. 251
Long-term sobriety is an incredible journey, but let’s be honest—staying motivated as the years go on can feel like a challenge. If you’ve ever wondered how to keep growing, thriving, and finding joy without alcohol, this episode is exactly what you need. Today, I’m diving into part two of my conversation with Marriott, one of my coaching clients who’s celebrating five years alcohol-free. In this episode, Marriott shares the lessons, strategies, and mindset shifts that have kept her inspired and...
Jan 23, 2025•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 250
It’s easy to feel fired up in early sobriety, fueled by the excitement of a fresh start and the immediate benefits of cutting out alcohol. But what happens when life gets busy, old triggers resurface, or that initial motivation starts to fade? In this part 1 of a 2 episode interview, I’m sitting down with Marriott, one of my first coaching clients who is celebrating five incredible years of sobriety. Marriott shares her journey from Dry January to a thriving, alcohol-free life filled with joy, g...
Jan 16, 2025•57 min•Ep. 249
Navigating life without alcohol can feel overwhelming at times, especially when you’re just starting out. You might wonder: What do I need to stay alcohol-free? How do I handle stress, cravings, and social situations? And what’s the secret to building a life that feels good without drinking? If these questions sound familiar, you’re not alone. The good news? Sobriety isn’t about deprivation—it’s about creating a life full of tools, resources, and practices that support your well-being and happin...
Jan 09, 2025•1 hr 11 min•Ep. 248
Dry January is the perfect opportunity to hit reset, reevaluate your relationship with alcohol, and prioritize your mental and physical health. But let’s be real—starting is one thing, sticking with it is another. If you’ve ever found yourself saying, “This year will be different,” but struggled to make it past day five, you’re not alone. About 41% of U.S. adults intend to take part in Dry January, but only 16% made it to the finish line. By the second Friday in January—dubbed “Quitter’s Day”—ma...
Jan 02, 2025•39 min•Ep. 247
Have you been thinking about taking a break from alcohol this January? Maybe you’re tired of waking up groggy, frustrated with yourself, or stuck in a cycle that no longer feels good. You might even wonder: What would life feel like if I stopped drinking? Could I handle stress, unwind, or have fun without alcohol? What if this year could be different? If you’re curious about what life without alcohol might look like—or if you’re ready to take on Dry January—this episode is for you. 4 Ways I Can ...
Dec 26, 2024•1 hr 23 min•Ep. 246
Have you ever wondered what it means to be sober curious? Maybe you’re not ready to give up alcohol forever, but you’re starting to question if it’s truly adding value to your life. If you want to drink less or are reevaluating your relationship with alcohol, you’re in good company. More Americans than ever are exploring what it means to take a break from drinking. In this episode, I sit down with Ruby Warrington, the woman who coined the term “sober curious” and the author of Sober Curious and ...
Dec 19, 2024•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 245
Friendships in sobriety can feel like uncharted territory. When drinking has been at the heart of your social life, stepping away from alcohol may make you wonder: Can I still connect with my friends in sobriety? Will I lose people who matter to me? And how do I find new, sober-friendly friends? If you’ve asked yourself these questions, you’re not alone—and the good news is that friendships in sobriety can be more meaningful, fulfilling, and aligned with who you truly are. In this episode, I sit...
Dec 12, 2024•1 hr 9 min•Ep. 244
