The Debate Team heads to Charlotte to take on the most serious subjects - how to get on The Bachelor, whether your guy needs to get an iPhone, the keys to courting a preacher's daughter, the secret to a good ultimatum, how to regain her interest in you, and much more! Also, when it comes to dating, how much Trump is too much Trump?!
Aug 06, 2018•50 min
Do we all just need...to grow up? "The Blonde Leading The Blonde" hosts Jessica Manske and Cody Von join The Debate Team to explore the delicate balance between acting your age, feeling your age, and dating your age! What will work, what won't work, making tough decisions, expanding your pool, finding better options, picking your spots, figuring out what really matters, and when it's time to just head home!
Jul 31, 2018•51 min
When do you divulge your dirty little secret? When You Least Expect It author Jen Glantz returns to The Debate Team to talk truth bombs, dealing with your darkness, navigating neuroses, putting on a happy face, and using imperfection to your advantage! Plus, Brian and Jen reveal their shared - and bizarre - hidden habit!
Jul 26, 2018•53 min
Think you went out with the worst guy ever? Think again! Branding guru Megan O'Brien and legendary socialite Nikki Haskell join The Debate Team to judge our Tournament of Terrible Choices! Weird quirks, strange fetishes, creepy cars, horrifying habits, hygiene deficiencies, closet kleptomania - we gathered the worst of the worst from around the country. We reveal our winner - and if you dated anybody other than him, you can say you could have done worse!
Jul 16, 2018•52 min
Wonder why a moment was missed? Want him to make a move? Can't read her reactions? Confidence Guru Kim Seltzer returns to The Debate Team to talk mixed messages, uncrossing signals, the importance of communication, and why it's harder than ever to maximize an opportunity. Plus, Brian reveals the one single gesture that will turn every spark into a flame!
Jul 09, 2018•1 hr 4 min
Our listeners' favorite feature is back for an encore! Ever wanted to have one last conversation with that long lost love? Be careful what you wish for, as radio personality Emily Makinzie joins Brian to do the honors from Denver - taking on recycled engagement rings, unrequited threesomes, revenge porn, Mommy issues, second chances, and more!
Jul 02, 2018•58 min
You're ready to fall in love, but are you ready to…commit? Best-selling author and "Committed" podcast host Jo Piazza returns to The Debate Team to delve into what we are really looking for, the true meaning of partnership, what gets in the way, expanding comfort zones, the reality of post-nuptial depression, communicating goals, fighting through the muck, and making a relationship work - and last!
Jun 25, 2018•54 min
The Debate Team unveils "America's Best City For Summer Love" for 2018, and opens up a sizzling round of listener letters! We take on all your pertinent summer problems when it comes to hot friends, concert quandaries, long-distance love, baring it all, mixing meals, seasonal sex, and much, much more! Plus, we take a deep dive into Grease - did Danny really deserve to score Sandy?
Jun 19, 2018•53 min
Can we create more healthy men (and relationships) through a foundation of healing? Cove founder Charles Messow and Intimacy Specialist Valerie Baber join Brian to lay out a path to bring light to the darkness, incentivize engagement, build trust, rationalize rejection, break down barriers, communicate with confidence, overcome fear, eliminate anger, and heal the dating disconnect. Plus - a sneak preview at a new app that might just change everything!
Jun 11, 2018•1 hr 15 min
You know you're gonna have to face it…you're in need of this podcast. Dr. Deena joins The Debate Team to talk about chasing the love high, the desire for dating drama, breaking bad patterns, the root of wrong relationships, reprogramming your picker, and how to make healthy changes to avoid heartbreak! Plus, Brian explains his theory on how _Sex And The City_ caused a decade of dating damage!
Jun 04, 2018•55 min
Is dealing with dogs a dating deal-breaker? Confidence guru and dog whisperer Kim Seltzer joins The Debate Team to talk about why pets matter, how a pooch can play Cupid, picking up on signals, blending pet families, overcoming fears, and sending out signals that only a loved one can hear!
May 28, 2018•50 min
Brandi Glanville from "Real Housewives of Beverly Hills", "The Bachelor" Ben Higgins, "Amazing Race" winner Cody Nickson, TV journalist Lauren Sivan, NFL Cheerleader Michele Russo, and a couple hundred of Los Angeles' most fun and feisty guys and gals got together for a hilarious show at the World-Famous Hollywood Improv!
May 22, 2018•1 hr 18 min
Can one conversation change everything? The Debate Team takes on relationship forks in the road, saying the right things, the benefit of silence, dealing with impatience, getting a do-over, the importance of punctuation, diffusing your differences, and the surprising words that make all the difference!
May 14, 2018•51 min
The Debate Team opens up the mailbag to tackle a fresh round of Listener Letters! All the answers on dealing with problem punctuality, their need to know, the meaning of family, unrequited love, the why behind wanderlust, perfect imperfection, the difference between single and singled out, and much, much more!
May 08, 2018•56 min
World’s leading health and fitness expert Jillian Michaels gets The Debate Team in shape as she reveals the secrets to finding balance, gaining confidence, creating chemistry, indulging in moderation, the myth of aging, eating on the run, why sleep matters, dealing with fame, and much, much, more! Everything you need to kick ass in life...and love!
May 01, 2018•54 min
The Debate Team makes it right by taking on everything that went wrong! Are you dying to ask just one more question after it all ended? Do you really want that answer you think you deserve? Looking for the closure that might help you move on? Just want to have the last word? Do you really just need to know...why? We raise your questions, and give the surprising and hilarious answers so that you can get on to the next!
Apr 23, 2018•54 min
Brian is joined by NBC's Sara Gore at the legendary Bemelmans Bar at The Carlyle Hotel in NYC, where they share the right way to impress a woman, the keys to unlocking confidence, how to mature as a man, and the secret to making the pieces come together. Plus, Brian offers Prince Harry and Meghan Markle a creative plan to insure their fairy tale marriage lasts!
Apr 16, 2018•47 min
You want to know who they are, but do you really know who you are? Brian heads to Seattle and takes a deep dive into self-discovery with dating gurus Marina Lavochin and Rachel Paz. Wake up calls, surprising developments, forks in the road, living without regret, changing your course, mileposts that matter, trying new paths, and how to find the life you love - and the love of your life - starting now!
Apr 09, 2018•1 hr 2 min
You're dating someone...now what? The Debate Team is joined by Dr. Beverly Palmer, author of _Love Demystified: Strategies for a Successful Love Life,_ to reveal how to grow your new relationship into something lasting, the keys to turning your current partner into the partner of a lifetime, the necessary steps to repair broken communication in couples, the easiest personality types to love, and more!
Apr 02, 2018•54 min
Everything is in bloom again, as The Debate Team heads to Charlotte and wakes the mailbag out of hibernation to answer Listener Letters on our Dating Commandments, the best candidates for love, mixing up your moods, overestimating your appeal, the surest way to get another date, and more!
Mar 26, 2018•59 min
Suddenly thrown back into the deep end of the dating pool? The Debate Team lays out everything you need to deal with your divorce, bounce back from your breakup, learn the new landscape, discover your best you, regain hope in others, explore fresh possibilities, and get your love mojo back on track. Plus - Brian explains why 50 truly is the new 20!
Mar 19, 2018•51 min
Brian and Your Love Accomplice host Christina Weber come together for a special "Menage a Pod" episode to talk players and their games! All the scoop on alpha guys, beta boys, secret signs, sweet spots, breath kisses, hidden agendas, the importance of 100 hours, breaking patterns, and how much is enough. Plus, Brian opens up on his player past, and Christina explains the Legend of The Dragon Penis Tattoo!
Mar 12, 2018•56 min
Brian releases Part 2 of his groundbreaking **Dating Commandments** - listen, save, ingest, practice, memorize, share...and watch your love life change forever!
Mar 05, 2018•48 min
You asked, we listened! Brian releases part one of his definitive list of **Dating Commandments** - the 10 things you MUST do to change your life, date better, increase your appeal, grow a relationship, and find lasting love!
Feb 27, 2018•47 min
The Debate Team takes on all your hopes, dreams, hangups, desires, and, a long list of wants and needs! What it means to be a complete person, what a great partner can really do, how to decide what really fulfills, the role of sex in a relationship, and what is the healthiest recipe for growing love!
Feb 19, 2018•57 min
Are you dating a narcissist? Brian is joined by "Prison Letters' host Dr. Mark Goulston and leading confidence specialist Kim Seltzer to debate the answer. The warning signs, the false alarms, the keys to avoidance, the misinformation, the points of origin, the hidden triggers, the polar opposite, and how to take control of any situation!
Feb 12, 2018•56 min
“The Margarita Confessionals” hosts Lauren Levine and Ali Washburn join Brian to debate the importance of information, how to do your homework, the best way to screen potential dates, what characteristics are crucial, the ways we overthink things, why ignorance can be bliss, and how much their past should influence your future!
Feb 05, 2018•57 min
The Debate Team heads to Charlotte, NC and opens up a special #MeToo Mailbag filled with a passionate selection of Listener Letters - the perils of flattery, the truth about mansplaining, balancing your present with her past, the new rules for workplace behavior, the hidden price of happiness, and much, much more!
Jan 29, 2018•57 min
Where do we go from here? A most important episode - "Your Love Accomplice" Christina Weber joins Brian and The Debate Team to unravel the dangerous dating disconnect, where it stems from, the repercussions of a reaction, working through the pain, learning from each other, the right to be heard, the need to listen, and how to bridge the divide. A refreshing burst of healing and hope to collectively move forward!
Jan 22, 2018•56 min
Professional Bridesmaid Jen Glantz joins The Debate Team to talk about her latest book, the state of modern marriage, bad bride behavior, what can go wrong on a wedding day, and why things may not always be as they seem. Plus, Brian explains why the question "Why are you still single?" is the greatest compliment of all!
Jan 15, 2018•47 min