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Our guest today is Chad Hennings, who flew forty five successful missions with the Air Force bringing humanitarian aid to Kurtis refugees fleeing their homes in northern Iraq in the aftermath of the Gulf War. He was then promoted to captain and twice awarded the Air Force Achievement Medal.
Yeah He's also authored three books. He is a three time Super Bowl champion of the Dallas.
Cowboys, America's team that's.
Right, twenty seven years old. It's all he was as a rookie. Crazy twenty seven. I mean, that's light years ahead of his fellow rookies. And I love this guy regardless of the fact that he's an Air Force veteran.
I truly love this guy. I first bumped.
Into Chad when I was at Coppel High School in Coppel, Texas, as a young teen, and we're definitely definitely going to unpack that later.
We are so excited to bring you our conversation with Chad Hennings.
Was the camaraderie close from your Air Force service to when you transition and made it big time with the boys in the NFL.
I tell you it was like going from one locker room to another. Squadron, well duty, Honor Country, Mission orient It same thing with the Cowboys. It was offense defense, special teams, mission orient win super Bowls. It was two bunch of alpha males in both and guys trying to get after it. And when games are successful, training or combat missions.
God, that's awesome here.
Absolutely.
I think men or men, guys or guys or guys in high performing units or whatnot, that that cohesiveness, that fraternity, that is free a corps for any organization to be a success of it. And again company professional athletic team, military unit, they have to have that. It's all about relationships, the brotherhood. The brotherhood exactly right.
And clearly that led you to not just being a rookie at age twenty seven with the Dallas Cowboys, but the greatness you achieved while being a Dallas Cowboy, three super Bowls and an iconic era of Dallas Cowboy football.
You know that was God's providence over that one. I've never been around a group of guys that were more selfless, more dedicated to their craft, wanting to win. Whatever it took, We're gonna win.
I love you realize, and I'm sure completely accepted the fact that, like you're a unicorn, nfler and veteran on both sides on military and the NFL, you get three super Bowls in the first four season, Like you know, I don't have to give you odds on your unicorn.
Yeah, graduation, We're so thrilled to have you here on the good stuff. Chad Hennings, air Force pilot, three times super Bowl champion and friend, and we're thrilled to call you friend and how did the two of you meet, because I know you've known each other.
Why, I lived in Copel for a number of years, so we may have run into each other when you were a young man. You were just a wee little lad at back in the day I was.
And I do remember when you guys are still practicing out at Valley Ranch and Coppel had built that indoor facility. I remember one day it started.
Pouring rain and we practiced over the yeah.
Yeah, And so coach comes in and he's like, all right, jents, we're all getting wet today.
Got the Dallas Cowboys coming. They need to use the indoor facility.
And I remember thinking, like, I love you guys, but what the hell, Like, you're the Dallas Cowboys. You can't get an indoor facility. You gotta come over to our facility. And I remember us walking out, walking out, y'all are coming off the bus, and I will never forget all of us, Like we may not win, but we'd fight them right now.
Wow, just because like it was Texas football.
Yeah, it was like freaking cowboys, can't get wet.
We're cowboys too, that's right, Coppell Cowboys.
I'll never forget that Texas football and Texas high school football, especially the Friday night lights. It's iconic. And yeah, you're probably pissed, like we have to go practice in the mud now because the Cowboys have to have indoor facility.
I'm telling you, we were ready to fight, and knowing we would lose, it was like, this is not right, successful friendly.
Groundwork for eventually what the man that you became take out all lot No.
Football is huge in our family for generations, cheerleading football, it really dominates our life and now our boys both play football, and we couldn't be more thrilled about that because it's such a great sport. It's such a great game, and it lends back to what you talked about the brotherhood. You've been rewarded for living a life of dedication, focus, hard work. You've flown a ten fighter planes, You've won
super Bowls. Your accomplishments are legendary. But despite all the victories, all the accolades, you're actually here to tell us about one of the most challenging times in your life and events you've ever lived through. And it's the one thing you credit above all else with making you the man that you are today. Being a father, when your firstborn son, Chase was battling some terrifying health issues.
Yeah. For me, that was the first thing in my life that I couldn't control. Right after we won the third Super Bowl in four years, we beat the Pittsburgh Steelers, and I had a believers in magic. I had a Super Bowl record. I was tied. I had two sacks in that game. Two sacks in that game.
Completely believe it, by the way, And then I remember the JG.
White broke it the next year. I think he had two and a half sacks. But for a period of time, I was one of ten guys that had two sacks and whatever in the Super Bowl. It was in Phoenix and they had a Luke Air Force Base was right near there, so I had friends that were stationed at Luke, So I took one of our days off. Prior to that, I took a contingent of guys out to Luke to fly the tax Sims, the F sixteen sims and or my cowboy career. I took guys out on aircraft carriers.
We took them out to fly tax sims, to go out to Fort Worthy Dry Reserve, but JRB to do a variety of different things so they can get a glimpse into the experience that we have that a lot of other military men and women have.
And most people will never ever be able to get.
Yeah, exactly. Former teammate of mine from the Air Force Academy was part of the four ship that did the flyover then prior to the game. Look, it's just a slew of emotions going through and then you know, win the game. It was just a high point. Married for six years. My son was two and a half. He's just a blowing and going, let's get after a little boy that's just tearing things up. And it was good. I mean, it was at the peak of life for
us at the game. Yeah, my whole family, mom, dad, brothers, sisters, aunts, uncles, cousins, you know, fill up your whole Super Bowl ticket contingent. Again, from a life standpoint, making more money than ever thought I'd make notoriety being a Dallas cowboy in North Texas, in Dallas, it doesn't get any better than that. From a relational business, relational standpoint, beautiful, family life was just good.
It was cowboy fans. Did they travel? Did they show up for that game?
They always showed up. Cow fans are They're awesome, They're the best. And the thing about it, we had fans from all over the world, you know, warming up on the sidelines. There's Kevin Costner and here comes Merle Hagger singing the national anthem. That was every game. There was something for being an America's team, and that was really back in the day. It was that way. We had fans all over the world.
You played with some iconic.
On that one, you know the trip. It was Troy Emmett, Michael Dion Sanders, Charles Hadley here, what's will be a future Hall of Famer, all the guys that were on that team. It was just we are teammates, your friends. It's like your fellow co workers. People put individuals that are either in social media now or that are half some perceived notoriety because they're on TV. They put them on a pedestal, but realize that they're just a normal guy. They got families, their kids get sick, you know, they
got to pay their same bills. It's just that you're in the public eye. But people are people across the board, and these guys were phenomenal teammates and some of them are crazy, but we don't need to get into that. We had a lot of fun in the locker room.
Awesome. What was it like in the locker room that day.
It was like being a fighter pilot. And I'll describe it like this. As fighter pilot. They had that certain mentality I call it confident arrogancet that I know I'm good. Every fighter pilot you've probably ever met is the world's greatest fire pot, and I'll tell you that. But it's that confidence. I know my craft, I know my job. I'm really good at what I do, and I know it. And that was the same as the Cowboys. When we would go on the field, we know we're going to win.
We knew that we're the best team out there. And a lot of times the other team do that too. We win the game before they know. The initial gun goes off to start the game.
If you won the mental battle before the first whistle, you've already won.
That's it.
You have to have that arrogance. And it's not so much like a conceited selfish arrogance. It's almost like a survival thrival mechanism. In those high stress and environments that you know you're going to enter into, rather be flying an aircraft in a combat zone or walking out in the Super Bowl. If you don't have an error about you knowing A. I deserve to be here.
I've earned the right.
I've put in the work to be here and that can't be questioned. And then B.
We know we're the best. How do you come away with the highest title in the world not having that? I just don't think you can.
If you constantly thought abouts I'm thinking it as a fier padd and talk it as a fire pound. Now that if you thought about all the what if what if I you know, insured malfunction, what if I'm flat failure, what if I have gun failure? What if the essay two site's there? What if you know the essay six? What if physiast? What if all these things are there? You never accomplish your mission. You have to concentrate always on that end goal mindset. It's everything. You have to have that confidence.
I live with a marine and totally understand what you're talking about, and I agree that understands.
Like you, just like when he was flying on his missions, like I can't get too close to those marines, even though you probably did.
You being older, the Grand old men when you went in there rookie.
Of the year.
By the way, do you think your other teammates, even some of the vets that you were still older than, leaned on you a little bit because you were a little wiser, had more life experience under your belt, especially because of the military.
I would teach him, Yeah, you know, I had a real job before I came here, you know, really real life work experience. And I was in the same draft classes as Michael Irvin and then Ken Norton Junior, who was with us for the first two Super Bowls and
he went to UH San Francisco. And here's the thing that I tell a lot of veterans, those guys on the grid iron or those professional athletes whatever, they are in awe of you guys, you veterans for what you do because his kids, as we grew up, where everybody played cowboys and indiansury, you played army, you played soldier, or you wanted to be your favorite professional athlete. We all role played on these different things, and those guys
did the same. They're in awe of those active duty members in the military, whether fight or pilot, whether they're Marine, whether they're Navy, seal or whatever. Just as much as you admire them, they admire you. And these guys would ask questions, what was it like? Man? They didn't care what I did. You know, as an Outland Trophy winner at college, my college, they could care less about that. Tell me those missions. What was it like to fly? Take off out of Turkey and fly Northern roct Tell
me about those submissions. What's it like to fly that plane? But tell me about that. I've been asked many times, would you rather do go back play for the Cowboys or fly? I said I would go back and fly in a harp Cowboys, Been there, done that. I want to go fly. Still that young boy and me still wants to go. Let my hair on fire and let's go.
Because of your real job, because that's exactactly what it was being a fighter pilot in the Air Force. You walked in the doors with respect that had nothing to do with football. That's a rarity, you know that. That's a rarity in the NFL or any professional sport. For a veteran, let alone combat veteran, to walk in the doors. Something tells me that they're not going to say heyo, carry my helmet.
Yeah, for me though, I still felt that I had the personal discipline, call it whatever, the mindset that I had to earn it. Even though I had accomplished stuff, that I had to still go out there and prove my worst right, same as when I went to be, you know, in a fire squad, you have to prove you have that gravitas. Rank has its privileges, they have
to be earned to that point. For me, yeah, I did have that reputation, that respect from that, but I still for me personally, I did have that mentality that hey, look at me, look at it I did. I was a fighter pilot. No, that's what I did. You know, what you do is not to find who you are from a mindset standpoint. But I still had to go in and I had to prove that I could be a football player.
And we mentioned you were older. You were twenty seven when you got into the league. And so now here's Super Bowl three and you're older, but your family's there. You're a family man. Maybe the rest of them are going to go out and get drunken party.
But Jerry owaystill is a great party afterwards where all the families would come by. Then it's eleven twelve, o'clock at night. You just got them playing a game. You're spent anyway, but you're still from that emotional high. The adrenaline is still flowing. Just a chance to decompress with family, with teammates, get a picture in front of Lombardi Trophy, the third one, the third one.
Yeah, in four years.
Take us now to post super Bowl. It's February. You're ready to relax, recharge, do family time. Take us to that period.
We had been two weeks into our vacation time. We had been to Iowa to see my family were out in Colorado see and my wife's family. Also the player rep for the Cowboys at the time, which meant to a part of our players Association, and we'd get a trip out to Hawaii to Maui every year. So that was in the first part of March. So kind of prepping, laying back, relaxing for that. But then my son Chase, who was two and a half at the time, just woke up with a fever. Didn't feel well. I was
at the Cowboys facility doing a light workout. My wife took him two of the pediatrician and white kids always get sick on a Friday. I don't know, but this was on Friday, so we said just take him home,
will monitor him. But anyway, he continued to get worse, high high fevers, rash started to grow all over his body, and like, what the heck's going on here, So we admitted him to the hospital and we spent the next week in the hospital where they poked and prod dropped blood trying to figure out what this is, and bottom mind,
they had no clue. And then we were released. After spending a week in the hospital with what they called the fever of an unknown origin, his body started to attack itself, creating an autoimmune process and went on for days, for weeks, so emaciated and depleted, to the point where we had to do some emergency medical procedures to keep him from going on. And it was for me tough because this was a point in my life. You know,
at the time, I was the strongest cowboy Jake. I could bench five point fifty, I could squat seven fifty at Believe me, I intimidated more doctors to stand over. I'm like, okay, doctor, fix my son, right, fix my son. You know, we don't know what's going on. We'll try this we'll try this cocktail. That's called practicing medicine. And I don't blame the physicians because it's the human body is so ornate that everybody is so unique that it's not a one stop shop to fix or create somebody
by here, take this pill or keep this medication. The human body reacts in different ways. It'd be like daily, his fever would start to go up, and you'd give him his children's tile and all or motrin, and that's a dose he can only give every four hours. But his fever continued to climb throughout a hundred and one hundred and two hundred and three. I'm like, okay, now, what do you do? Draw a type of temperature bath, go old school to bring the core body temperature down.
It was in our master bedroom and my wife was outside, no she's crying, and I'm looking at my son and he's it's like, daddy, Daddy, am I.
Gonna be okay? You know, realize he's two and a half. He doesn't know what's going on. And I'm like, yeah, buddy, you're gonna be good, daddy. What's the matter with me? Why do I feel so bad all the time? And I'm my son, you can be okay, buddy, and inside of me, by guess it's just being torn out.
And again, because I was a guy who was always performance based, I could fix anything by my work, ethic ability, whatever, and I couldn't do anything. And this is where I came to the end of myself. I pray that three words, simple prayer, God help me, because I can't do it. I can't do it. But this was the one thing in my life that I couldn't fix, that I couldn't correct. And that's where I struggled. I really struggle with that aspect of who I am as a man. You know,
why can't I do this? It was either going through school, academics. You study harder on the wrestling matter, on the football field, you practice harder, you put more time in. But this was the one thing in my life that I couldn't fix, that I couldn't correct. And I started with my fate. You know, I ask God why? And also who are you that you could allow this little boy to be able to suffer like this? And I questioned it. Man.
I during this time, I read, of all people, Nietzsche, who had a quote that says, he who has a why to live, work, and bear almost anyhow. He who has a purpose, a mindset, and identity. It came to me is okay, not necessarily why did this happen? But it became okay, to who am I going through this? God doesn't take you out of it. He gives you the strength and the courage to sustain and to walk through it. And that's where I learned that truth for me.
And I didn't have anybody around me. I didn't have my tribe around me, the guys where you can really
feel it. You could open up, be honest and say, guys, I'm not holding it together today, or guys that you know my son had fevered up to one hundred and five last night, we spent the night in the hospital, or he was up all night crying and you know I can't Or I had to take him to a specialist my day off yesterday for Tuesday, and then it just these things he can't share because at that time I do want to say, hey, I don't have it all together, because that was the antithesis of what I
thought it meant to be a man. You know that you have to have it all together, you have to have all the answers that you can't show any chinks in your armor, that you have to be Rambo or Jason Bourne or going back to my day, John Wayne, that's what it means to be a man. And it impacted my marriage too. And I looked at statistics that showed where couples that have a child that goes through extreme illness or the death of a child, divorce rates
are way north of AVE. That's the one thing my wife and I sat down from a relational standpoint, Hey we're in for the long haul, let's stick together. But for me, I look back that whole fight or flight mechanism. I was in a constant firefight the whole time. I had to emotionally disconnect myself to the point that I had or survive. I got to compartmentalize. I got to play a game on Sunday. But then coming home, my son's got to go to a treatment or whatever, and
he's not feeling well. What's the plan of execution? That you never had time to decompress and never had no off time. So you'd imagine the constant cornsole levels that are showing through your body, the adrenaline rush, and I thank god that I was able to sustain me through us and from my wife to it alone. I'm look at me, I'm sitting here complaining about this, but what
my son went through was beyond that. I mean, this is a little kid that would be time for you couldn't even put a sheet on him, it would be so painful for him to even sleep, and not being able to go to school with his classmates just because he hurt all over. The extreme amount of pain, it broke our hearts for my wife and myself, and that's
where our faith as Christians got stronger. We did realize that God loves Chase, God loved us is more than we could ever love him in that regard, and it actually strengthened our faith and it gave me an extreme sense of empathy towards others that are going through trials in life. That man, I know what you're going through. I know what you're going through, and I tell you, man, just hang in there. There is hope. There's always hope.
But you are the man that you are today.
Because of that struggle and the struggle as we all know, I've learned more through my pain and through my suffering and obstacles in life. Than I did through any Super Bowl victory. That was what defined me and for my son and myself, that helped define our relationship going forward.
It's made him the man that he is today. But that's where as parents now, and as i'll give philosophical here, we do our kids at disservice by denying them the ability to struggle, the ability to go through life to figure it out.
You learn your lessons in the valleys, not on the peaks. The view from the top is great, but you knew that It's all about what did you learned during the climb. And that's something that I think we can all relate to you. We all know that you're gonna get knocked down, it's a guarantee. And for you to be able to at that time having this epic high and then looking at Chase and feeling one d per helpless, it is
something for people like us it is very foreign. You know, after I got hit, I never did me Why God, I didn't do that. I was grateful, in fact that it was me and not my fellow Marines, better me
than my marines. But I was pissed that I lived because I went from being one of as you all know, one of the world's most elite gladiators to good news a bathroom on my own and literally a millisecond that started my journey of helplessness and having to succumb to my pride and lay down my weapons and go, Okay, I'm not gonna be able to win this one on my own, like I'm gonna need help for everything. And I can only imagine as a father now, and literally when I say that, I mean it, I can only
imagine and not even well. And I know Chase and love you guys and love your family, and to know what you guys went through, I can only imagine that feeling. But the one thing that is all relatable to us I've learned in my journey thus far is pain and suffering sucks. Yeah, and we're not built to do it alone. There's times in life where your grit is gonna be equally as tested, if not more so, as your grace.
You also had to embrace the vulnerability of talking about it, of building that community around you, because you couldn't do it alone.
You know. And that was why I was so got into a lot of the guys coming back from down range that coming back with post traumatic stress. We all as young men bought off on that lie that to be a man, you had to show that you weren't vulnerable, that you can never show any vulnerability, that you had to have it all together at all times. And that's the antithesis of it, particularly for our guys today, because
you're constantly engaged in that fight or flight. Whereas conflicts in the past, yeah, you may have a period of time, but then you had a reprieve. I can miss imagine, you know, the Peloponnesian War back in the Greek times, that guys would go through a major battle and they sit around the campfire and they talk out. Man, did you see that dude I hit today? Man, his head just lopped up, you know. Yeah, but they're able to process and talk through that.
Or the Spartans, it was mandatory that they wurn their losses. Yeah, for an hour after every major battle. And we've regressed tremendously as warriors, modern day warriors and gladiators. And it's like, man, where did we go wrong? Where did that start? Because just like you said, it's a lie, and not only to the warrior class, but to me the humankind where I grew up where I actually grew up. Bad things happen and it's like, hey, you be okay, you're good.
Let's keep on moving. We'll not talk about it. You'll be fine, just keep going. It's like, Nope, that's not suppressing. And at some point that pressure cooker is going to go off right.
And it just keeps building and building. But you realized you needed support around you, and you also knew that other people need support too. So what did you do?
Amen started a men's ministry group called Wingman because I thought about these experiences that I had in life. Every time that I would fly a mission, whether it be a training missionor mission in combat, I never went solo. You guys, never went out ever solo. Even with the sniper team. You always had a spot or you always had somebody with you all the time.
Always have a shadow to check.
Your six and we always talk about check your six because as people, you can't see back one behind you. That's why you need those relationships the success. For me to have a successful mission come back and land, I needed to take care of my wingmen. My wingmen needed to take care of me, and if we didn't the likelihood of something bad happening to us goes way up, and the likehood of us actually accomplishing the mission goes way down.
So how is Chase today?
Chase is doing great. Bought us first house last year. He's dating a nice young Lady's got a phenomenal job. He's doing really well. Physically. He has had his limitations. He gets around a wheelchair. He had a lot of arthritic damage done to his joints in some of the connective soft tissue.
But his attitude palpable.
I love that young man. And the fact that I've been around is some extreme, strong minded, high performers in all aspects, but they pale in comparison to him for what he went through and his effort, his mentality. He gets up and every day it's a choice. I may not feel well, but man, I'm gonna go out and make it a great day. And I ask, that's what life's about. As if I had anything to do with that as a father, you know, but you did was
just what God's sustained him. And he has become a phenomenal young man and I couldn't be more proud of who he has become as man. And for me, that's my legacy. I could care less about the Super Bowls or air Force status or my legacy was gonna outlast me. Is him, He and my daughter and venture their grandkids, and that, to me, that's what life's about. Relationships.
That's beautiful. And it's clear you're not only proud of him as a father, but he inspires you every day. That's amazing. What better legacy could you have? So, having gone through this, how do you define strength?
Now?
It's the ability to be able to when you face adversity, to face it and to continue to plod forward and to move forward. To me, that strength, that's courage. Having the fear, having the potential anxiety of knowing what's going to happen, but still willing to face it and to go forward. That's true strength. Every day, every day.
Preachy much what Jake was doing a speaking engagement one time and EMMTT Smith was sitting on the side and he kept going preach Jake like all times, like loud as hell.
That's awesome.
I looked at him. I almost gave him like to come on, man, trying to talk. I have a very limited time. Man.
So do you find yourself using the lessons in your day to day life. Now you're jat Inning is the husband, father, businessman, leader in your community, I mean your leader in every fast in your life. And do you use the lessons that you've learned through these trying times? Do you think on a day to day basis?
Every day? Every day? You know? And that's one of the things I took this course. Make your very sponsorous for brain health doctor Sandy Chapman phenomenal, very familiar. Yeah, yeah, I love said. But you know what I took from her book and going through that was that people talk about intelligence wrote memory, regurgitating content, information, but that's not it. What true intelligence is is the ability to think integratively, innovatively, strategically.
So for me, it's the aspect of taking your experience or someone else's experience and being able to apply and apply that to my life. And that's where I take the experiences from listening to you or another mentor or myself. How can I apply that to me? And how can I make that personal for me? And that's what I've really strive for my life now is to take some of these experiences because not everybody's going to get a chance to fly a jet or play for the cowboys
or do those things. But when I'm talking about what it boils down to it each and every one of us. I go through the same routine which you can go through to apply these lessons to your life. And that's embrace the suck, Embrace the grind, celebrate the time, movements, be with your family. All those things. They're universal truths.
And I don't care who you are what you do again, what you do is not define who you are, but that's those are lessons that can be applied to anybody in any facet of your life.
Nor what's happened to you define who you are exactly.
Yeah, what do you do to relax or recharge?
Be around my family? You know? And that's the thing that we are now empty nesters. So my wife and I we make time too. We have a call it coffee time and wine time. We have coffee in the morning, we go through our day devotionally. All night, we come home and maybe have a glass of wine and just relax talk about the day. And for me that's peace and how I also I work out. I love to work out after that and I love to read books. That's what recharges me and my aspect of self awareness
and self help. Is trying to expand my knowledge base absolutely greatness.
Is there one person organization that's had a significant impact on you in your life that you can think of?
The guys who have impacted me the most, particularly early in my life for my coaches, yep. And I think that's the most hallowed profession in our culture today as being a coach.
Yeah, it's just this lifelong impact.
They changed the trajectory of my life. Yeah, because I was a kid, you know, not highly recruited a small rural community in Iowa for football, and I wanted to play division on college football. My coach my junior senior year that summer asked, Chad, what do you want to do? Coach, I'd really like to go to the Air Force Academy. Wasn't how they recruited to play at a football powerhouse school.
He took it upon himself to make a sixteen millimeters highlight follow and me drove it nine hundred miles from our hometown in Iowa to Colorado Springs, handed off to the coaches there that recruited that area and says, you need to take a look at this kid. That's how I got there. Wow, probably changed the trajectory my life with that question. Yeah, that's awesome.
One question we ask all of our guests on the good stuff. What feeds your soul?
What feeds my soul is my relationship with my Lord Savior, Jesus Christ Barnard and Blood by Pascal. That inside man is a God size vacuum that only God can fill. And I've tried to fill with so many other different passions and pursuits of life, and it was always vacuous, and it was always empty. But he is the one that brings me a purpose, meaning and satisfaction in life.
Beautiful, well said brother. All Right, have one more question, Yeah, and I'm asking it. So you've played with the Dallas Cowboys for nine seasons, you have three Super Bowl championships under your belt, and according to the stats, you have exactly one NFL touchdown.
Explain it was against Arizona Cardinals. Out there, it was it's like the twenty yard line. We did a run blitz Darren and came through as a safety blitz. Just nailed the running back in the Yeah, drop the ball right in front of me, you know, I picked it up and it was like a rolling ball of butcher knives. Man, I did. I. I had to run about fifteen yards to run into the end zone. This is what's funny, and this is the impact of a coach. I get there,
and this is what's crazy. I remember what my high school football coach, same guy that drove the film out to the Air Force Academy, said, he goes, act like you've been here before, sear. I ran up to the referee and I handed in the football and I started drawing back. But then I realized, Hey, in the NFL, you can keep the footballs, I said, sir, Can I have that? I'd like that was my only Touchdo I'll probably have?
Can I have that?
I ran back, But that's that stuck with me forever and has those important life lessons. Act like you've been here before.
I do. I do remember it. And did you call me a mentor?
Okay, I was just checking because Chad Hennings referred to me as a mentor.
It's recorded anybody that you can learn something from in life as a mentor.
Absolutely, we have learned a lot today, and we're truly grateful that you not only took the time to come and do this, but to be vulnerable with us and share with us your story, your highs and your lows, and all of the lessons you've learned from it. Such an incredible story and we're truly grateful.
Dude, nothing but love, respect, and admiration for you and your family. You epitomize mentor and leader and victor, and you do it with grace and humility, and you do it beautifully.
Bro.
Yeah, just your presence and existence is inspiring. So thanks for the hope and the soul for brother. I literally want to run through a brick.
Wall or climb a mountain.
Nope, I'll take the brick wall. So inspiring what this does for my soul.
The best way I can describe it is on the drive here. You know, I'm on the Struggle bus right now, and I see these guys on this window washing mechanism on this giant building in Dallas, smelling out hope with white panels or something on the side of the building, and it was like a godwink for me, like, hey, you got it, You're good. And that's what I get from this. This is the perspective and the mindset that I needed today.
Right, And like Chad said, it's all about mindset that no matter how prepared you are in life. You and I we always try to prepare, make sure we've got all of our tea's crossed and all of our eyes dotted and all of our ducks in a row, because we've lived and lead such a busy life, but life still happens. And hearing Chad talk about everything that he went through and he's got it all squared away and then life happened. You know, was that life happening to
him or was that life happening for him? And it's just so beautiful to hear mindset, perseverance, just keep going no matter what. Dig deep, but you can get through through this, you can get to the top of that peak.
That's right.
Act like you've been there before. I think that has everything to do with mindset. Regardless of what the circumstances is or what may arise. Don't overreact, don't underreact, just act like you've been there before.
And I feel like that's what we all struggle with.
And because we have all these different things going on, But if we're able to just act like we've been there before, that's gonna put us completely present in the moment, just like today where again I'm driving the struggle bus, but I get in this conversation. I acted like I've been here before, and it really the rest took care of itself. So it is all about mindset and perseperience and understanding.
It's not over. That's why I'll take the brick wall, screw the mountains.
I'm so grateful to have this soul food today because we need it. We all need it from time to time. If you enjoyed this story with Chad Hennings, please feel free to share this episode. And if you have a story that you want Jake and I to tell here on The Good Stuff, something that's fed your soul, something that's encouraged you to go on, please reach.
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