Can an online quiz really tell you who you are in BDSM? How long does it take three neurodivergent kinksters to take a test together (and just how many Barbarella references can we fit into our commentary)? Charlie and I decide to take the (in?)famous BDSM Test and compare it with another sexuality self test MojoUpgrade . While working our way into the first test we got a call from one of our favorite humans, Sir Aiden Charming , who joined us in the test adventure and commentary. We laugh, we c...
Feb 26, 2026•1 hr 12 min•Season 3Ep. 32
We're back with a new interview episode! I invited my dear friend and metamour, Nicole Nichols, to talk about her amazing work as boudoir photographer. From creating safe spaces for women (and men!) to rediscover and celebrate their bodies to building community traditions in self love, Nicole has touched so many lives! Follow my guest: https://www.nicolenichols.com/ Join the 28 Days of Self Love Challenge https://www.nicolenichols.com/self-love-challenge-win-boudoir-session Follow The Good Love ...
Feb 12, 2026•51 min•Season 4Ep. 28
In this installment of of Kink Journeys , I sit down with BDSM educator and certified life coach, Jonnyace . Together, we explore the power of consent, the importance of community, and why representation for sadists matters. Jonnyace shares their path from martial arts and polyamory to kink community educator and shaped their identity as a sadist, daddy, and dominant. Honest stories. Fresh perspectives. Real kink journeys. Follow My Guest http://www.gsrmcoaching.com/ https://fetlife.com/Jonnyace...
Oct 02, 2025•1 hr 9 min•Season 3Ep. 30
In this episode of The Good Love Podcast, I interview the founder of Denver's House of Pleasure, Mistress Pain. Mistress Pain shares her Kink Journey from trying to 'pray the gay way' to creating spaces of erotic exploration and self expression. We also discuss her community vision focused on female pleasure and how many of us connect with sex-positive spaces as a form of ministry and fellowship. Follow My Guest House of Pleasure...
Sep 18, 2025•1 hr 5 min•Season 3Ep. 29
In my last episode we did a deep-dive for International Female Orgasm Day, including busting through some of the many misconceptions around female sexuality. So this week, I'm bringing on my friend and colleague, Sex Coach Same, to unpack some of the inaccurate and harmful messaging around male sexuality. Whether it's misinformation from society, media or pressure we put on ourselves, we can break the cycles and Sam was happy to share to tools to do this vital self-work. Trigger Warning for disc...
Aug 22, 2025•1 hr 6 min•Ep. 28
August 8th is International Female Orgasm Day ! So I’m diving into history, bad science, and reclaimed pleasure. Where did this holiday came from? What is the orgasm gap (and why does it still exist)? How can we push back against a society that tries to control our sexuality? I'm unpacking all these questions and more. If you’ve ever been curious about the clit, the G-spot, or why pleasure still feels taboo—this one’s for you! Resources Mentioned: Bodysex Books Follow The Good Love Project www.G...
Aug 08, 2025•29 min•Ep. 27
In this episode (recorded live at DomCon LA ) I interview Lady Sheba , a powerful Black kink educator and leather community photographer. Sheba shares her journey from curious submissive to confidence-wielding Dominant, exploring how kink helped her reclaim her femininity after trauma. Together we discuss the challenges Black women face in kink spaces, the importance of representation, mentorship, and community accountability, and Sheba’s inspiring photography project for the Carter-Johnson Leat...
Jul 25, 2025•1 hr 13 min•Ep. 22
In this powerful episode, I talk with Berlin-based kink artist and educator, Sven Brandy aka "Carnivore". Sven shares his journey from nude photography to immersive kink art, emphasizing consent, authenticity, and cultural differences in kink between Europe and the US. They discuss "play shooting," the art of integrating photography with interactive kink, and dive deep into Edgeplay, safety, preparation, and ritual. Sven also shares his teaching philosophy, upcoming projects, and insights into b...
Jul 11, 2025•1 hr 14 min•Season 3Ep. 25
Kat is joined by two guests, Smokey the Babe and Vana X . They dive deep into the evolution of embracing one’s true self within the kink community, share their personal journeys, and discuss the importance of informed and enthusiastic consent. From nostalgic stories of discovering kink to navigating the complexities of relationship dynamics, this conversation is full of playful insights and candid reflections. So, get comfortable, open your mind, and enjoy this thought-provoking session with Kat...
Mar 14, 2025•34 min•Season 3Ep. 24
In this episode of the Good Love Project Podcast , Katrina and Charlie dive into the importance of solo exploration and how it can deepen self-awareness, boost confidence, and enhance both personal and partnered pleasure. They debunk common myths—like the idea that solo pleasure is just a "substitute" or a sign of dissatisfaction—and talk about shifting the mindset to embrace self-connection without guilt. You'll hear tips for unlearning shame-based habits, creating a pleasure-positive space, an...
Mar 02, 2025•34 min•Season 3Ep. 23
Welcome to another insightful episode of The Good Love Podcast, where we delve into the realms of personal growth, relationships, and confidence. In today's episode, "Pleasure Mapping," your hosts, Katrina Boots Rainsong and the ever-insightful Charlie Sharp, explore the concept of understanding desires and boundaries through the creation of a "Pleasure Map." This episode serves as a personal guide to discovering what brings you joy and comfort, both physically and emotionally, while establishin...
Feb 14, 2025•27 min•Season 3Ep. 22
In this episode, Kat and Charlie tackle the complex and often silenced topic of sexual shame. Listen in as they deconstruct societal myths around non-normative sexual preferences, explore the damaging impact of cultural and religious expectations, and emphasize the importance of embracing your authentic self. With personal insights, candid discussions, and a touch of humor, they'll challenge the notion that there's a "right" way to have sex and shine a light on how misinformation fuels feelings ...
Jan 24, 2025•28 min•Season 3Ep. 21
Curious about kink? This bonus episode offers an exclusive excerpt from Katrina's popular "Intro to Kink" class, where you'll get a glimpse into the essentials of consent, communication, and creativity in BDSM. It’s a tantalizing taste of the full recorded class, available to Patreon subscribers in the "Let's Go Steady" tier. If you're ready to explore your desires in a shame-free, supportive space, this sneak peek is just the beginning of what you'll unlock when you join our community of Good L...
Jan 16, 2025•15 min•Season 3Ep. 20
Happy New Year, It's Season Three! We're trying something new this year; themed seasons to boost your learning and inspiration! Sexual confidence is about more than just feeling good in the bedroom—it’s a foundation for authentic self-expression and deeper connections in all areas of life. In this episode, we explore what sexual confidence looks like, why it’s essential, and how it can transform your relationships and self-esteem. Join Kat and Charlie for an empowering discussion filled with per...
Jan 03, 2025•36 min•Season 3Ep. 1
In today's episode (which is a past recording), Katrina and Charlie are feeling a little under the weather after getting their COVID boosters in preparation for the highly anticipated Sex Geek Summer Camp. But don't worry, they're not letting a little vaccine fatigue stop them from bringing you some juicy content! Get ready for a laid-back episode as our hosts lounge around with their microphones, offering their thoughts and advice on a variety of Reddit posts. From discussing the complexities o...
Aug 16, 2024•36 min•Season 2Ep. 18
In today's episode, we're excited to welcome a very special guest, Amy the Poly Realtor, who's not only a kinkster and current president of Arizona Power Exchange but also a proud, self-identified Cuckquean! Amy opens up about her unique relationship dynamics and discusses the nuanced differences between cuckqueaning and other forms of non-monogamy based kinks such as Cuckold and Hot-Wifing, shedding light on topics of humiliation, degradation, and the joy in her particular lifestyle. We also to...
Jun 13, 2024•1 hr 19 min•Season 2Ep. 3
This week, I bring my girlfriend on to talk about the (infamous?) PornHub year-in-review report! We pore over the intricacies of global and US search terms, laughing our way through state-specific curiosities—from car sex in sunny Arizona to body swap fantasies in the hustle of New York—while exploring the shifts in our online desires. Charlie tries not to tell on herself with her interests and I go on a mini-rant about my love/hate feels for "gangbang" content. We're lifting the veil on what te...
Feb 29, 2024•1 hr 11 min•Season 2Ep. 16
It's Season Two of The Good Love Podcast, where we dive deep into the world of intimacy, relationships, and everything in between! For this 15th episode, I have a special treat for you. Joining me in the studio is the ever-insightful Vana X, here to explore the multifaceted world of kink and BDSM. We share our laughter over a foiled attempt to shoot a movie review YouTube episode, leading us to an impromptu sneak peak critiquing the controversial " 50 Shades of Grey ." We'll also unravel the com...
Feb 08, 2024•1 hr 3 min•Season 2Ep. 1
In today's episode, I'm exploring the practice of Orgasm Control. From the intense power exchange of submissive handing over their orgasms to their Dominant, to the thrilling play of edging and denial, there's so much to discover. I'll delve into the various forms of orgasm control, including mental and physical chastity, the art of asking permission before climaxing, and the mind-blowing experience of "forced" orgasms. Get ready for this orgasmic adventure! Follow Me: website: http://www.goodlo...
Nov 03, 2023•14 min•Season 1Ep. 14
In today's episode titled "Pleasure in Restraint: Exploring the Depths and Rewards of Chastity Fetish ", we delve into the intriguing world of chastity kink. We explore the concept of chastity, its origins, and the reasons why some people find pleasure in the erotic denial of sexual activity. We uncover the intimate connections and power dynamics that can come into play within the realm of chastity kink. Whether it's about trust, submission, or enhancing pleasure, there is much to discover. We'l...
Oct 24, 2023•21 min•Season 1Ep. 13
My spicy model friend, Kinky Kupcake, joined me to watch Luis Buñuel's French erotic-drama classic Belle de Jour (1967), starring Catherine Deneuve as Severine, a kink-curious young woman who takes on a double life to explore her fantasies of submission and degradation. Get a taste of my new series "Bad B*tch BDSM Reviews" where I bring on guests to react and review kinky cinema classics. Conversational topics include: Lust vs Love, Shame, and the power of erotic fantasy! Watch movies with me on...
Oct 13, 2023•23 min•Season 1Ep. 12
Last week, I got to chat with one of my favorite kink educators, Professional Disciplinarian and self-described "Dominurtrix", Miss Chris! We talk about the variety of Domestic Dynamics one can explore and disspell some of the many misconceptions around her favorite actvity... Spanking! Whether you're a full-on Spanko, or just a bit curious, you're going to love this fun and down to earth conversations with the incomparable and imaginative Miss Chris! Find My Guest https://www.missschris.com/ Tw...
Oct 06, 2023•59 min•Season 1Ep. 11
In today's episode, we have some incredible guests joining us: Emma, and Cody from The Good Eggs organization. Get ready for a thought-provoking conversation as we dive into topics like vulnerability, consent, and harm reduction. We start off by discussing Southwest Flow Fest 2023 and its unique focus on learning and skill-sharing. Our guests share their favorite moments from the festival, highlighting the power of vulnerability and the importance of creating safe spaces for growth and explorati...
Sep 28, 2023•39 min•Season 1Ep. 10
Can solo pleasure be a meditation practice? What can we learn from observing ourselves in a state of sensation or pleasure? Does semen retention REALLY have benefit? This week we're talking about Masturbation and Meditation aka Medibation! Follow Me: website: http://www.goodloveproject.com facebook: http://www.fb.com/GoodLoveProjec instagram: http://wwww.instagram.com/goodloveproject twitter: http://www.twitter.com/GoodLoveProject Support: Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/TheGoodLoveProject Merch...
Sep 21, 2023•26 min•Season 1Ep. 9
Our society is obsessed with the idea of "tight" vaginas and full of misconceptions that there are many ways to "ruin" them. This week, I'm talking about some of the most common, and incredibly pervasive, misinformation around the dreaded "loose pussy". Follow: website: http://www.goodloveproject.com facebook: http://www.fb.com/GoodLoveProjec instagram: http://wwww.instagram.com/goodloveproject twitter: http://www.twitter.com/GoodLoveProject Support: Patreon: http://www.patreon.com/TheGoodLovePr...
Aug 31, 2023•21 min•Season 1Ep. 8
What does it mean to "fly" in scene? How does BDSM affect our states of consciousness? This week, we're talking about the altered headspaces we can get into through kink, namely, Domspace and Subspace and I share my own first experience. Got a juicy story you'd like to share? Send it to goodloveproject@gmail.com Follow: website: http://www.goodloveproject.com facebook: http://www.fb.com/GoodLoveProjec instagram: http://wwww.instagram.com/goodloveproject twitter: http://www.twitter.com/GoodLovePr...
Aug 24, 2023•15 min•Season 1Ep. 7
Part two discussing my experience at the inaugural event, Southwest Decadence! We talk about what you should know and how to survive your first con. Digressions include: Charlie's review of Kat's new Kitten Play toy. Conferences and Events Mentioned: https://www.southwestdecadence.com/ My Guest: Charlie Sharp https://linktr.ee/charliesharpofficial https://boasbycharlie.square.site/ Follow Me: website: http://www.goodloveproject.com facebook: http://www.fb.com/GoodLoveProjec instagram: http://www...
Aug 10, 2023•30 min•Season 1Ep. 6
I get interviewed by my girlfriend about my experience at one of the newest Leather/Kink conferences in the U.S., Southwest Decadence! I also answer questions about what happens at a kink convention, what draws people to them, and the differences between Leather and Kink. Digressions include: talking about the food and introducing my new product for kitten players! The charity referenced in the episode is The National Indigenous Women's Resource Center. Please consider donating: https://www.niwr...
Aug 04, 2023•23 min•Season 1Ep. 5
Will a vibrator ruin me for the "real thing"? How many partners is "too many"? How long should I spend on foreplay? This week I'm sharing clips from my video series "Ask A Good Lover", where I answer real questions from listeners just like you! Got Questions about sex, pleasure, or relationships? Ask a Good Lover! Send your queries to goodloveproject@gmail.com (subject: "Dear Good Lover") Follow Me: website: http://www.goodloveproject.com facebook: http://www.fb.com/GoodLoveProjec instagram: htt...
Jul 28, 2023•16 min•Season 1Ep. 4
Curious about Dominance and submission? What does it mean to be Dominant? What traits do you look for in a Dom? We're exploring the left side of the slash in D/s relationship dynamics! Follow Me: website: http://www.goodloveproject.com facebook: http://www.fb.com/GoodLoveProjec instagram: http://wwww.instagram.com/goodloveproject twitter: http://www.twitter.com/GoodLoveProject Buy me a coffee:http://www.ko-fi.com/thegoodloveproject Merch: http://wwww.wickedsibessentials...
Jul 20, 2023•15 min•Season 1Ep. 3
