The Girly Whirly Show

I care too much what people think, and the “what are we” question when dating

“The thing that no one tells you is that the magic begins after you give up. This can happen sometime in your twenties or thirties. It depends on how long it takes for life to exhaust you with its restrictions and rules. You just give up your pretenses, you give up caring about what other people think, you give up impressing others, you give up saying yes to things that are really a no. You give up playing the game. You shed layer after layer of other people's influences. You give it all up will...

what I look for in a friendship, and our advice for going on a first date!

Today’s episode goes through my list of red and green flags in a friendship - is your bestie really your bestie? Is there loyalty or a lack there of? Sam also joins us to discuss red and green flags on a first date and our advice for how to thrive on one! I am partnered with NA-KD to bring you this new season, and you can use code GIRLYWHIRLY for 30% off for a limited time (excluding sales) at https://www.na-kd.com/en Stay tuned for such exciting things to come, and you can send your questions/d...

conquering imposter syndrome, and our thoughts on right person wrong time

today I wanted to share with you girlies how I conquer imposter syndrome and Sam bae joins us to discuss right person wrong time and the invisible string theory, and should you wait for someone to come back into your life? Or is it wasting your time to heal? And even more exciting, I am partnered with NA-KD to bring you this new season, and you can use code GIRLYWHIRLY for 30% off for a limited time (excluding sales) at https://www.na-kd.com/en Stay tuned for such exciting things to come, and yo...

how to slay your hot girl autumn, and developing trust with your bae

This week I want to get you ready and excited for your hot girl autumn! It’s time to reset and rebrand after summer, and beat any seasonal depression with self love and self care for autumn! Sam bae joins us to talk about developing trust in your relationship, where going through each other’s phones is a no go!! I am so happy to be partnered with NA-KD to bring you this new season, and you can use code GIRLYWHIRLY for 30% off for a limited time (excluding sales) at https://www.na-kd.com/en Stay ...

season 2 is here: meet my boyfriend, did I meet him or manifest him?

Welcome back and welcome to season 2 of The Girly Whirly Show!! Season 2 welcomes my darling boyfriend Sam bae with a weekly segment of Ask Sam Bae! And even more exciting, I am partnered with NA-KD to bring you this new season, and you can use code GIRLYWHIRLY for 30% off for a limited time (excluding sales) at https://www.na-kd.com/en Stay tuned for such exciting things to come, and you can send your questions/dilemmas to hello@girlywhirlies.com xxx...

season finale: hot girl summer plans & prepping to be the best versions of ourselves

To close up our first season of The Girly Whirly Show, I want you to choose what you’re going to focus on for the next few weeks and have your own little rebranding while I’m gone. I want to come back to hear all about your reinventions, your realisations and your new found self love for yourself!

how to start your day right & change your day around at any point

how to get over a breakup & heal your broken heart

Welcome to heart break city; population: the girlies. Here are the things I wish I knew when I was going through a breakup, and my tips on how to deal with the shi*t show that it is! Having an ex is not fun and going through the heart break is even worse. I’m here to assure you that you will come out the other side a brand new woman. Much better days are coming

how to have confidence and not feel embarrassment or the fear

Confidence is key girlies! Everything you do you should do with confidence, you owe it to yourself to have your own back and be your own hype girl. Something is only embarrassing if you allow it to be, don’t spend more than 5 minutes obsessing over something that no one else noticed or cares about! Live your life believing in yourself and attracting good people, things and opportunities

where there’s no growth there’s rot; leave things in the past & get excited about life again

Let’s start watering our plants girlies! Where there’s no growth there’s rot, so let’s start letting go of things that rot & drain us, and make room for change and new life. Maybe there’s a lack of growth in your job, your friendships, your mindset, so it’s time to switch things up and make some changes to get excited about life again !

how to stop caring so much about what other people think

We spend way too much time over thinking and over analysing, because we care too much what other people think! Wouldn’t life be so much easier if we could just go about our day not consumed with the worry what other’s are thinking about us? I have some tips to help you ease that stress and relax your shoulders. It’s not that deep, we live on a floating rock, and life is too short to live by other people’s judgment & opinions!

how I’ve unlearned body hatred; no more crying in the changing rooms

(trigger warning: discussion of body image.) I decided to love myself too much to let myself cry over my body anymore! It’s time we start loving and appreciating our body and unlearn all the hatred we’ve given it over the years. The way you speak to yourself on the daily is so important, you believe everything you tell yourself, so you’ve got to make it positive! Start treating yourself with the love and kindness you give to your loved ones, be your own bestie!

how to fill your own cup & not pour into the wrong ones

You’re a 10 gallon lover trying to love a pint capacity lover! You want your cup to be so full that you don’t waste time pouring into people who don’t deserve it. It’s so important that your own cup is full before seeking a relationship or new friendly, you shouldn’t have to depend on anyone else to fill your cup! Once you’ve looked after your own cup, you’ll then realise that you may be pouring into the wrong people, and you might rethink who you want to keep around you. Protect your full cup!

obsess over yourself, not over them; exes, co workers, mean girls

They’re living in your head rent free - time to evict them! It’s time to take back the time and energy you spend obsessing over someone else and spend that time and energy on yourself. Stop worrying what that particular person is up to on their socials, you don’t need to know. You’re ruining your own life by focusing on what your can’t control, so it’s time to start focusing on you and your life and no body else’s!

starting 2023 with “lucky girl syndrome”

Happy 2023 girlies! I’m so excited for us to make 2023 our year, and the best way to start is living life like a lucky girl. Trending on Tiktok right now is the term coined as “lucky girl syndrome” where you live life assuming everything is going to go your way because you’re just lucky like that! It’s channeling the Law of Assumption where you attract amazing experiences and opportunities because you believe and assume that of course good things would happen in your life because that’s just the...

what we’re leaving in 2022

the end of the year means the end of any toxic habits or negative vibes we held on to in 2022! We need to go into the New Year with a fresh mindset and leave the baggage and the f boys behind. No bad energy or bad people are welcome into your 2023. Let go of 2022 and cleanse your soul for what’s to come, your best days haven't even happened yet!

comparison is ruining your life

Comparison is the killer of all joy! Comparing yourself to others is holding you back and getting you down. Someone’s beauty does not equal a lack of your own. It’s time to leave comparison behind and focus on you and living your best life

the ghosts of Christmas past

today we are talking all about ghosting! This time of year can tend to wake up the grave yard, where ghosts and exes of the past might reach out when feeling lonely or litty. I explore my thoughts of why we ghost people and what is our best way to go about it. Don’t let the ghosts of the past bring you down, we only want the living and the thriving!

from flop era to glow up; a rebranding & reinvention

Today I tell you all about my rock bottoms, my very own flop eras, and how I pulled myself out of them. After every flop era comes a glow up - your glow up is calling! My rock bottom saw a lot of self hatred, toxic inner dialogue and shattered self worth. Working on all of that negativity brought me to a place of self love and glowing from the inside. Let’s glow up together besties, and we’re starting from within!

shooting your shot, slay or flop?

Today’s episode explores shooting your shot; assess the sitch and do it with gumption! I share with you how I think it’s best to approach sending the risky text, and how to come to your own conclusion when you’re questioning whether they like you or not. “If he wanted to be would” tends to cause a bit of debate and it’s a topic that must be discussed when doubting their interest and intentions. Don’t settle for the guy that takes 2-5 working days to reply!

exes & woes (& cheatos)

it wouldn’t be my first episode without me delving deep into my peak cringe era; where I played the role of the obsessed ex girlfriend and the girl that couldn’t shut up about it! In honour of my past self, here are the lessons I wish I learned sooner. With exes comes woes, but that doesn’t mean we can’t thrive through it! Your glow up is calling - don’t wait for your ex to. Leave them in the past, it’s all about you now!

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