Send us a text Ep 149. - Do all men actually crave sex ALL of the time? Is a man UNHEALTHY if he doesn't want sex? Is it true that a woman's sex drive tanks after she gets married? The questions about sex and hormones are endless. That's why we brought on the "hormone whisperer" to help sort through all of the cultural stereotypes and assumptions about men and women. In today's conversation, Dr Patrick Flynn is bringing mind blowing truths about men, women, sex and hormones. NEW GUIDE: Finding F...
Oct 16, 2023•57 min•Ep. 149
Send us a text Ep. 148 - Modesty put Girl Defined on the map way back in the day when we first launched this ministry. Girls went crazy for our posts and videos on this topic. We ended up creating an ebook "Project Modesty" and hundreds of you bought it. Fast forward a few years and all of our old modesty content has been removed (by us) and we've ghosted you on the topic. We're breaking the silence and sharing the honest truth about how and why we've changed. FREE BOOK - Battling Sexual Temptat...
Oct 09, 2023•32 min•Ep. 148
Send us a text When it comes to LGBTQ people and conversations, how often do you engage as a Christian? The truth is, most of us have NO IDEA how to engage in these crucial conversations in a way that's loving, thoughtful, Biblical, and truthful. And so we don't. Our guest today is here to HELP US. Andrew T. Walker is the author of the book, "God and the Transgender Debate: What Does the Bible Actually Say about Gender Identity?" He's the type of Christian who actually invites LGBTQ people out t...
Oct 02, 2023•39 min•Ep. 147
Send us a text Ep. 146 - Enjoy this replay! Many Christian women wonder if being a virgin on their wedding night will be awkward. Saving sex for marriage sounds great, but is it really that great? OR is it mostly super awkward and weird? Is saving sex for marriage actually worth it? Does God really care that much? In today's episode, Kristen and Bethany share their own stories of saving sex for marriage and dig into these questions from personal experience. They also share multiple resources tha...
Sep 25, 2023•45 min•Ep. 146
Send us a text Ep 145 - Do evil men exist? Yes. Are all men toxic? No. We live in a society that actually hates strong men. "Toxic manhood" has become a buzzword that now encompasses all forms of male strength, leadership, and masculinity. The feminist movement promoted this mindset by declaring men as the primary source of women's oppression and unhappiness. And the battle rages today. But is this what we want? A society without any masculine and strong men? Dr. Owen Strachan doesn't think so. ...
Sep 18, 2023•30 min•Ep. 145
Send us a text Ep 144 - Enjoy part two of this replay series. The history of "the birth control pill" is something most women are not familiar with. Most women simply listen to their Dr. (without question) when they're told to get on the pill for one reason or other. Oral contraception has become the go-to for preventing pregnancy with little understanding of the potential negative health impacts to the woman taking it. We've brought on expert, Dr. Leah Gordon to talk all things birth control, o...
Sep 11, 2023•1 hr 24 min•Ep. 144
Send us a text Ep. 143 - Enjoy this replay episode. It was so good we had to bring it back. Have safe sex. Don't get pregnant. And build your career. That's the mantra women have been told from the time they were teen girls. Birth control is the go-to prescription to assist in this process of raising career minded women who put family on the back burner. This entire way of thinking needs to be tossed out and rebuilt. That's where Candice Watters comes in. She brings a perspective to family plann...
Sep 04, 2023•1 hr 9 min•Ep. 143
Send us a text Ep. 142 - Motherhood is a beautiful blessing and an incredible challenge all at the same time. Kristen opens up and shares about the past two years since adopting her boys from Ukraine. She shares the practical things she does on a daily basis to disciple her boys in the Word and show them the love of Christ every single day. Motherhood has its hard moments and having a deep relationship with Christ is the key to loving well during those moments. Recommended Resource: Girl Defined...
Aug 28, 2023•45 min•Ep. 142
Send us a text Ep 141 - Sexual struggles are rampant amongst christian women. Sadly, women are often left to fend for themselves and figure it out with google. The shame and embarrassment of feeling like she is "the only one" is not helping either. Women need answers. They need help. They need freedom. In today's episode, Kristen gets raw and real about her own past struggle with masturbation and shares the practical steps she used to find lasting freedom. The Ultimate Sex Mentorship Course for ...
Aug 21, 2023•42 min•Ep. 141
Send us a text Ep 140 - What does it mean to be a woman? Some have answered this question with a simple "an adult human female." Is that sufficient though? You were created to be uniquely different from a man. Every fiber in your body speaks to that reality. You were made female on purpose and for a great purpose. Your gender speaks to God's beautiful calling in your life. Let's dig into the Word and discover exactly what that is. Recommended Resource: *NEW* Embracing Biblical Womanhood (PDF Dow...
Aug 14, 2023•51 min•Ep. 140
Send us a text Ep. 139 - Porn is rampant and destroying peoples lives. It can be extremely uncomfortable to discuss the topic of porn. Many wives don't want to know if their husband is struggling. It feels too big and too hard to deal with. Today's conversation is filled with guidance and direction from a husband who once found himself enslaved with sexual addiction. His story of freedom in Christ will bring you hope to your own relationship. Recommended Resource: Sex, Purity and the Longings of...
Aug 07, 2023•55 min•Ep. 139
Send us a text Ep. 138 - Barbie has overtaken the world with her pink outfits, blonde hair, and handsome low commitment fragile blonde boyfriend. The trailers and teasers captivated the world causing the movie to explode opening weekend. The movie was definitely packed with surprises...and not good ones. The movie had a strong agenda and basically used barbie to get its message across. It was less about Barbie and more about very specific talking points. In today's episode, Dav and Bethany unpac...
Jul 31, 2023•43 min•Ep. 138
Send us a text Ep. 137 - Loneliness is a huge problem for thousands of christian women across the world. Have you ever felt left out, alone, forgotten or just excluded because of your beliefs? We live in a world that is overly connected through the internet and under connect in real life. Christian women need in-person relationships and community to thrive in God's design. God made us to live with one another. Community is a part of God's good plan. In today's episode, we help you practically fi...
Jul 24, 2023•28 min•Ep. 137
Send us a text Ep. 136 - One the most unique aspects of women all around the world is her uterus. This aspect of our anatomy sets us apart from men in a very clear way. We're reminded of this piece of our womanhood every single month when we're greeted by 5-7ish days of bleeding. Have you ever wondered why God created you with a period? In today's episode we're taking a theological look and your period and unpacking why it matters to God. BOOK: A Brief Theology of Periods Recommended Resource: G...
Jul 17, 2023•42 min•Ep. 136
Send us a text Ep. 135 - Can you imagine being honored and rewarded for LIMITING the amount of children you have? This is the reality in America. Get this, "Prince Harry told British Vogue in 2019 that he and Meghan Markle would have two children maximum. Harry said it was an environmental choice, which was recognized by charity Population Matters. The couple were awarded $695 to give to a charity of their choice for their "enlightened decision." Is it really an enlightened choice to LIMIT havin...
Jul 10, 2023•28 min•Ep. 135
Send us a text Ep. 134 - Men are under attack in our society. They're viewed as a cancer to be eliminated. Feminine GOOD. Masculine BAD. Are men really as toxic and evil as we've been told? Are there any respectable men left? In today's conversation we talk with Professor Nancy Pearcey about the TRUE war on masculinity and the insightful research that has been hidden away. Bottom line. There is hope. Good men exist. Listen to the conversation to find out why this is true. The Toxic War on Mascul...
Jul 03, 2023•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 134
Send us a text Ep. 133 - While the Bible does not give a direct command on this subject, it does have a lot to say about marriage. Marriage is a covenant between one man and one woman forever before God. It is a picture of Christ and the church. A husband and wife become one flesh. Does that mean a woman should take on the man's last name though? Let's take a deep dive and figure this out together. Recommended Resource: Girl Defined: God's Radical Design for Beauty, Femininity and Identity Sex, ...
Jun 26, 2023•29 min•Ep. 133
Send us a text Ep. 132 - Masturbation is a topic that Christian women typically do not discuss. Sadly, the silence surrounding this topic has only confirmed in women's minds that, "I must be then only woman in the world struggling with this!" That is not truth though. Kristen has also bravely shared her own story many times in the past to help you know that you're not alone and that freedom can be had. Let's take a deep dive and unpack this conversation and all of the nuance it holds. NEW GUIDE:...
Jun 19, 2023•50 min•Ep. 132
Send us a text Ep. 131 - There’s a lie masquerading as truth that’s running rampant in our culture. It goes something like this: you are powerful enough to control your circumstances and create the life you want through positive thinking, solid planning, and dreaming big enough. But if you’ve ever tried to control your life or to strive your way to self-fulfillment, you’ve discovered what lies on the other side of this supposedly empowering message: frustration, exhaustion, and disappointment wh...
Jun 12, 2023•39 min•Ep. 131
Send us a text A new documentary series covering all things IBLP and the Duggar family has many people talking. The two of us are weighing in to share our thoughts. Support the show RESOURCES: Made to Be She: Reclaiming God's Plan for Fearless Femininity Love Defined: Embracing God's Vision for Lasting Love and Satisfying Relationships Sex, Purity and the Longings of a Girl's Heart Support the Show FOLLOW US: JOIN US ON PATREON GirlDefined.com Instagram YouTube...
Jun 08, 2023•44 min
Send us a text Ep. 130 - Women have become obsessed with physical perfection. Filters on social media are no longer "enough." Millions upon millions of women have decided to alter their physical bodies to achieve a certain look. Nose jobs. Lip fillers. Breast implants. Butt lift. Buccal fat removal. The list of procedures that women get done are endless. It's time to take a step back and take a look at cosmetic procedures from a christian worldview. Sex, Purity and the Longings of a Girl's Heart...
Jun 05, 2023•29 min•Ep. 130
Send us a text Ep. 129 - Target stores nationwide have fully embraced the gender confusion mania with their new "Take Pride" apparel line. I walked into a store this week to check things out for myself. I saw female-style swimsuits which offered a "tuck option" along with an extra wide crotch for biological males. I saw graphic tees geared toward teen girls featuring large print that said, "Busy thinking about girls." But the worst products by far were the rainbow colored BABY bibs and onesies w...
May 29, 2023•30 min•Ep. 129
Send us a text Ep. 128 - A prominent conservative recently made some comments about porn that got everyone talking. Many started discussing whether viewing porn was an okay substitute for actually going out and cheating on (committing adultery) your spouse. Do men need sexual variety and therefore need porn as a way to handle their sexuality well? Is porn an okay addition if you and your spouse have a committed relationship? Should you be thankful your husband is viewing porn rather than sleepin...
May 22, 2023•49 min•Ep. 128
Send us a text Ep. 127 - Enjoy this replay. Finding purpose, worth, identity, and true joy are core desires of every woman. Sadly though, many of us are finding ourselves in a place that is void of the very things we long for. This is because we’re looking to ourselves and the world for answers about our purpose, worth, and identity as women rather than God’s Word. We need to remind ourselves that God is our loving creator and has an amazing plan for our lives as females. Our deepest desires wil...
May 15, 2023•37 min•Ep. 127
Send us a text Ep 126 - Many married women find themselves having intercourse with their husband physically, but they're a million miles away in their minds. Sexual temptation doesn't disappear when you get married. The lustful heart that was there before marriage is the same lustful heart that goes into marriage. This isn't a comfortable or easy topic. Opening up about sinfully lusting and fantasizing about other men isn't easy. Let's jump into this uncomfortable but needed conversation. God, S...
May 08, 2023•27 min•Ep. 126
Send us a text Ep. 125 - Growing up in a family with five sisters gave us tons of room for comparison. We're all different heights, weights, body types and just look different. We all had to work hard to appreciate and THANK God for our differences. In today's episode, the two of us open up about our own insecurities and how we've handled body image issues as christian woman through the changing seasons of life. NEW Personal Retreat Journal Sex, Purity and the Longings of a Girl's Heart: Discove...
May 01, 2023•28 min•Ep. 125
Send us a text Ep 124 - The content subscription platform OnlyFans exploded in popularity during the pandemic. Many college aged girls found themselves home from school, out of work and desperate for money. This new London based platform promised easy money for sexy pics. Many young women decided to jump in and give it a go. Sadly, OnlyFans takes most creators MUCH further than they ever imagined they'd go. Many promising to never post nudes found themselves needing to post x-rated content to ma...
Apr 24, 2023•33 min•Ep. 124
Send us a text Ep. 123 - Enjoy this replay. Gender pronouns are all the rage right now. Instagram has even updated their bio feature to include your pronouns as a feature of who you are. Youtube will kick you out if you do not refer to someone by their preferred pronouns. Commercials have resorted to actors verbally communicating their pronouns so that everyone knows who they are. Guess what? We're not a fan of this movement. We think the issue of pronouns is a big one. We need something more he...
Apr 17, 2023•46 min•Ep. 123
Send us a text Ep. 122 - You've been here with us through our dating, to engagement, to marriage, to having babies and now to this. We've been pretty open about our marriage...but this is the MOST vulnerable we've ever been with you. We're answering these questions: Does it bother Dav that you talk so openly about sex online? What did you think of your age gap at first VS now? How do you resolve conflict and do you do it away from your kids? What do you and Bethany disagree on and how do you han...
Apr 10, 2023•50 min•Ep. 122
Send us a text Ep 121 - When it comes organizing and managing the home, most Christian women feel overwhelmed and underprepared for this daily task. As a result, we find ourselves constantly frustrated OR feeling indifferent to the piling dishes and never-ending laundry. Maybe what we all need is a little heart adjustment followed by a big dose of practical skills, tips, and training. As a self-made organizing guru, Deb VonBergen is here to help us all! Whether you're single, marriage, have kids...
Apr 03, 2023•40 min•Ep. 121
