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The Gaslight Effect Podcast

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Gaslight (/ˈɡaslīt/). Verb. Manipulating someone by psychological means into questioning their own reality. The Gaslight Effect podcast is hosted by Dr. Robin Stern, co-founder of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence and author of the best-selling book, The Gaslight Effect. On her podcast, Robin helps listeners identify gaslighting, to escape the destructive dynamic and reclaim their reality.
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Episodes

044 - Sarah McCammon's Exvangelical Journey: Is Gaslighting Influencing Faith, Politics, and Society?

On this episode of The Gaslight Effect Podcast, Dr. Robin Stern unravels the complexities of belief, identity, and society with political correspondent and author Sarah McCammon . Sarah McCammon is not just a seasoned journalist; she's also a voice of insight and understanding in the midst of today's tumultuous political landscape. But what sets her apart is her personal journey—a journey that intersects faith, culture, and the very fabric of American society. Growing up in the heartland of Kans...

May 07, 202447 min

043 - Surviving The Cult of NXIVM: Sarah Edmondson and Anthony Ames' Resilience in the Face of Manipulation

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern is honored to be joined by two extraordinary individuals whose resilience and courage have transformed their experiences into beacons of hope. Sarah Edmondson , a Canadian actress known for her roles in CBS's "Salvation" and numerous Hallmark Channel and Lifetime films, embarked on a journey of self-discovery when she encountered NXIVM , a personal development company led by Keith Raniere , promising the keys to unlocking human potential. Alongside her husband an...

Apr 23, 20241 hr 3 min

042 - Finding Her Voice: Jessica Willis Fisher's Triumph Over Abuse and Gaslighting

A QUICK WARNING: This episode contains discussions of traumatic events, violence, child abuse, sexual abuse, suicidal thoughts, anxiety, depression, and graphic language. Listener discretion is advised. On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern dives into the extraordinary journey of Jessica Willis Fisher —a tale of survival, resilience, and the relentless pursuit of truth. Jessica's story unfolds with the haunting echoes of a tumultuous childhood, where the enigmatic philosophies of her controlling fath...

Apr 09, 202458 min

041 - Facing The Past: How Lucas Mack Reclaimed His Power After Childhood Trauma

A QUICK WARNING: This episode contains discussions of traumatic events, violence, child abuse, sexual abuse, suicidal thoughts and suicide attempts, anxiety, depression, and graphic language. Listener discretion is advised. Welcome to the Gaslight Effect Podcast, where we explore stories of courage, healing, and transformation. On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern has the privilege of speaking with Lucas Mack , a visionary leader who guides men on a pilgrimage of self-discovery and healing. Lucas Ma...

Mar 26, 202456 min

040 - Over the Influence: Empowering Women in the Social Media Era with Dr. Kara Alaimo

IS social media toxic for women and girls? On this episode, Dr. Kara Alaimo , author of "Over the Influence: Why Social Media is Toxic for Women and Girls - And How We Can Take It Back," hashes it out with Dr. Robin Stern. Kara is a communication professor at Fairleigh Dickinson, where she created the university’s programs in social media, and has been writing for CNN Opinion about the social impact of social media and issues affecting women and girls since 2016. Kara's latest release, "Over the...

Mar 12, 202444 min

039 - Sobriety, Sisterhood, and Self-Discovery after Multilevel Marketing: A Conversation with Emily Paulson

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern dives into the transformative journey of Emily Paulson - a beacon of courage, resilience, and authenticity in the realm of wellness and empowerment. Emily Paulson's remarkable journey, chronicled in her books "Highlight Real: Finding Honesty & Recovery Beyond the Filtered Life" and "Hey, Hun: Sales, Sisterhood, Supremacy, and the Other Lies Behind Multilevel Marketing," offers profound insights into the complexities of addiction recovery, motherhood, and the ...

Feb 27, 202446 min

038 - Leading With Emotional Intelligence: Wisdom From Dr. Craig Dowden

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern has a conversation with Dr. Craig Dowden , a renowned psychologist, executive coach, and author who specializes in unraveling the complexities of gaslighting and its impact on individuals and organizations. For over 25 years, Craig has been fascinated by the links between positive psychology and the practice of leadership excellence, so much so that he pursued his PhD in Psychology and Business. His personal mission is to bridge the gap between what science knows...

Feb 13, 202454 min

037 - Healing the Healers: Addressing Gaslighting in Healthcare

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern engages in a candid conversation with Tracey O'Connell MD , integrative health coach and seasoned medical professional, as they unravel the complexities of gaslighting within the healthcare industry. Having spent decades navigating the intricate web of medical practice, Tracey opens up about the often unspoken reality of gaslighting experienced by health professionals themselves. From subtle dismissals by peers to the pressure from superiors to prioritize profita...

Jan 30, 202444 min

036 - Unlocking Emotional Intelligence: A Conversation with Daniel Goleman on Gaslighting

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern dives into the world of emotional intelligence and gaslighting with psychologist and acclaimed author, Daniel Goleman . Daniel Goleman has left an indelible mark in psychology with his groundbreaking work on emotional intelligence. As an accomplished author, his insights have not only enriched our understanding of the human psyche. Daniel's work has also paved the way for transformative conversations that are foundational for transforming lives - from personal to...

Jan 16, 202448 min

035 - Behind The Screen: The Impact Of Gaslighting and Social Media Influencers On Teens

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern interviews Hannah Husain, an eighteen year old student researching gaslighting interactions in relationships - particularly in teenagers. Hannah's first encounter with gaslighting occured when her friend had wanted to go to a concert, and was unintentionally gaslighted by her mom into not going. Robin and Hannah discuss how, even if parents are not intentionally meaning to gaslight, the effect on their children can be long lasting. Robin points out how in some ca...

Jan 09, 202439 min

034 - From ICU to Advocacy: Dr. Arghavan Salles on Pandemic Realities and Gaslighting Challenges

On this episode Dr. Robin Stern shares a conversation with Dr. Arghavan Salles that is both crucial and empowering. Dr. Salles wears many hats—she's a skilled surgeon, a passionate advocate for diversity and inclusion, and an expert in confronting gaslighting in medicine. Dr. Arghavan Salles gained global attention not just for her expertise but for her remarkable courage and resilience during the spring of 2020. As the COVID-19 pandemic wreaked havoc in New York City, Dr. Salles, based in Calif...

Jan 02, 202451 min

033 - Gaslighting Inside the Oath Keepers' Founder's Family with Dakota Adams

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern talks with Dakota Adams , son of Stewart Rhodes , the founder and leader of the Oath Keepers organization. Dakota opens up about a life that was not only entangled with the controversial Oath Keepers but also shadowed by the dark clouds of gaslighting and abuse. Gaslighting, a form of psychological manipulation that seeks to make victims doubt their reality, is a theme woven into the fabric of Dakota's narrative. He recounts the harrowing escape from an environme...

Dec 19, 20231 hr 1 min

032 - Breaking Chains: Dr. Kerry McAvoy's Triumph Over Marital Gaslighting and Narcissism

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern guides us through the captivating and deeply personal journey of Dr. Kerry McAvoy - a story marked by heartbreak, betrayal, and the insidious effects of gaslighting. As a devoted mother, wife, and psychologist, Kerry's life took an unexpected turn after the loss of her first husband. Her second marriage seemed perfect until an unknown woman's text shattered the illusion. The words, "I’ve been dating your husband," plunged Kerry into a world of shock, entrapment, ...

Dec 05, 202343 min

031 - Understanding Gaslighting Through the Lens of Emotional Intelligence: A Conversation with Dr. Marc Brackett

On this episode, the intricate realms of gaslighting, human behavior and emotional intelligence intersect, as Dr. Robin Stern talks with her colleague and good friend, Dr. Marc Brackett . Dr. Brackett is the Director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence , and author of " Permission to Feel ." On this episode, Dr. Stern and Dr. Brackett unravel the subtle dynamics of gaslighting, a pervasive issue affecting relationships, workplaces, and self-perception. Dr. Brackett, with a wealth of ex...

Nov 21, 202352 min

030 - Before "I Do": Dr. Robin Stern Explores Gaslighting and Prenups, with Attorney Evan Schein

On this episode Dr. Robin Stern talks with attorney Evan D. Schein , a seasoned attorney and partner at Berkman Bottger Newman & Schein LLP. Evan brings a wealth of experience in family law to the conversation. If you're curious about the legal nuances of relationships and the complexities of prenuptial agreements, this is the episode for you. As a divorce lawyer in New York City, Evan has been lucky to meet fascinating people and work with top experts in fields like finance, trust and estat...

Nov 07, 202345 min

029 - Manipulation & Justice: Amanda Knox's Gaslighting Odyssey

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern talks with Amanda Knox - a woman who, at a young age, found herself entangled in the complexities of the Italian legal system, her name echoed around the globe. Robin and Amanda illuminate the darker corners of her story, focusing on the glaring presence of gaslighting. Amanda Knox is an exoneree, journalist, public speaker, and author of the New York Times best-selling memoir, Waiting to Be Heard . Between 2007 and 2015, she spent nearly four years in an Italian...

Oct 24, 202356 min

028 - Legal Compassion: Tackling Medical Gaslighting with Brian Dretke and Dr. Debra Rosenzweig

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern talks with Brian Dretke and Dr. Debra Rosenzweig . Brian Dretke is a legal professional with a rich history of service and dedication. Hailing from a background in law enforcement, Brian's journey took a turn into the legal arena, where he became a stalwart advocate for those who have experienced medical malpractice. His insights into the legal intricacies of medical negligence bring a unique perspective to this episode's conversation. Joining Brian is Dr. Debra ...

Oct 10, 202346 min

027 - Gaslighted by a Murderer: Collier Landry's Unforgettable Story

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern delves into a story that unearths the chilling depths of gaslighting, the indomitable strength of the human spirit, and the power of inspiration. Robin's guest, Collier Landry , has navigated a path marked by the most unthinkable circumstances. Collier's story is a harrowing tale of a murder that rocked his world and the insidious web of gaslighting that ensnared him. Collier is the central figure in the documentary "A Murder In Mansfield," produced by Collier an...

Sep 26, 202357 min

026 - Resilience Beyond Tragedy: Dr. George Bonanno on Grief and 9/11

On this special 9/11 episode, Dr. Robin Stern talks with Dr. George Bonanno . Dr. Bonanno is a Professor of Clinical Psychology at Columbia University's Teachers College and internationally recognized for his pioneering research on human resilience in the face of loss and potential trauma. He is recognized by the Web of Science as among the top one percent most cited scientists in the world, and has been honored with lifetime achievement awards by both the Association for Psychological Science a...

Sep 11, 202348 min

025 - Empowerment Through Awareness: Understanding The Psychological Manipulation In Gaslighting

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern talks with Dr. Grant Brenner . Dr. Brenner is the principal and co-founder of Neighborhood Psychiatry , an NYC-based group practice. He is the author and co-editor of Creating Spiritual and Psychological Resilience as well as co-author of Irrelationship: How We Use Dysfunctional Relationships to Hide from Intimacy , Relationship Sanity: Creating and Maintaining Healthy Relationships and Making Your Crazy Work For You: From Trauma and Isolation to Self-Acceptance ...

Aug 29, 202350 min

024 - She Is Not Your 'Perfect Mexican Daughter': How Erika Sánchez Stepped into Her Power

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern talks with Erika Sánchez . From Erika's website: "Erika L. Sánchez is the daughter of Mexican immigrants. Her debut poetry collection, Lessons on Expulsion , was published by Graywolf in July 2017, and was a finalist for the PEN America Open Book Award. Her debut young adult novel, I Am Not Your Perfect Mexican Daughter , published in October 2017 by Knopf Books for Young Readers, was a New York Times bestseller, a National Book Awards finalist, and Tomás Rivera ...

Aug 15, 202354 min

023 - Overcoming Gaslighting In Your Marriage and Work

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern talks with Phil Franks , co-founder, along with his wife Krista, of Owl & Key , a transformational lifestyle design company. Phil and Krista created Owl & Key - in their own words - to be "Intentionally working toward a new reality where our most valuable resource (time) was spent where and how it mattered most to us. We wanted to be present with our children and loved ones. We wanted to invest in travel, new experiences and growth. We craved meaningful w...

Aug 01, 202343 min

022 - The Oath Keeper Wife - Beyond the January 6th Riot

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern interviews Tasha Adams , the former wife of Oath Keepers founder Stewart Rhodes . In November 2022, Rhodes was convicted of seditious conspiracy and evidence tampering related to his participation in the January 6th riot at the United States Capital. On May 23, 2023 he was sentenced to 18 years in prison. Tasha describes her childhood and how she met Stewart when she was only 18 years old, and ultimately married him in 1994. Robin and Tasha discuss how gaslightin...

Jul 18, 202354 min

021 - Freedom and Forgiveness After Gaslighting: How to Cultivate Compassion and Move On

On this episode Dr. Robin Stern talks with author, teacher, and meditation guru Sharon Salzberg . Born in New York City in 1952, Sharon Salzberg experienced a childhood involving considerable loss and turmoil. An early realization of the power of meditation to overcome personal suffering determined her life direction. Her teaching and writing now communicates that power to a worldwide audience of practitioners. She offers non-sectarian retreat and study opportunities for participants from widely...

Jul 04, 202350 min

020 - Surviving and Thriving Beyond The Sarah Lawrence Cult

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern interviews writer and producer, Daniel Levin . Daniel Levin holds an MFA in poetry from the University of California, Irvine, where he taught creative writing and rhetoric, and a bachelor’s degree from Sarah Lawrence College. He is the winner of the Stanley and Evelyn Lipkin Prize for Poetry, the Lynn Garnier Memorial Award and is the recipient of fellowships from The Frost Place, Tent, The Sarah Lawrence Summer Seminar for Writers, and The Community of Writers a...

Jun 20, 202357 min

019 - The Epidemic of Teen Gaslighting

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern talks with Dr. Lisa Damour . Dr. Damour is the author of three New York Times best sellers: Untangled , Under Pressure , and The Emotional Lives of Teenagers . She co-hosts the Ask Lisa podcast , works in collaboration with UNICEF, and is recognized as a thought leader by the American Psychological Association. Dr. Damour is also a regular contributor to The New York Times and CBS News . Dr. Damour serves as a Senior Advisor to the Schubert Center for Child Studi...

Jun 06, 202345 min

018 - Cults, Mind Control, and How it Can Happen to You

On this episode Dr. Robin Stern interviews her friend and colleague Dr. Steven Hassan . Dr. Hassan is a leading expert on cults and has dedicated his life to preventative education and helping people recover from their own experiences. Dr. Hassan is the author of four books: Combating Cult Mind Control ; Releasing The Bonds ; Freedom Of Mind ; and his most recent book, The Cult Of Trump . Dr. Hassan describes in great detail how he became part of a cult in college, the techniques that were used ...

May 23, 202348 min

017 - When Cultural Gaslighting Turns Deadly

WARNING! This episode includes discussions about sensitive topics including rape and violence and is intended for mature audiences. On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern talks with Leslee Udwin . Leslee is an actor, producer, director and now an education sytem change activist. She directed and produced the documentary film India's Daughter . Robin and Leslee discuss the process Leslee went through to make this incredibly moving documentary about the brutal rape and death of a woman in India. Leslee ...

May 09, 202346 min

016 - Teens And Gaslighting - Is It a Thing?

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern interviews Hannah Husain, a seventeen year old student studying abroad this semester, researching gaslighting interactions in relationships - particularly in teenagers. Hannah's first encounter with gaslighting occured when her friend had wanted to go to a concert, and was unintentionally gaslighted by her mom into not going. Robin and Hannah discuss how, with social media causing insecurities to skyrocket, even if you're not intentionally meaning to gaslight, th...

Apr 25, 202350 min

015 - Am I Crazy? Or Am I Being Gaslighted?

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern talked with her close friend and colleague, Alice Forrester , the CEO of Clifford Beers Community Health Partners. Alice discussed how growing up as a teenager in the 1970s, she was aware of the culture shift that was occuring at that time in our country, and how her father struggled with this changing dynamic. Alice recalled often being told she was wrong by her father, about certain opinions she was formulating at that time, and how that did not leave her unsca...

Apr 11, 202341 min
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