Ladies and gents, corporate MILF back here with an episode on how to warm up your lady and get her off during penetrative sex, which I'll just specify that the way I'm going to lay this out is that she gets off with you versus let's say if you were to get her off before penetration. So again, this is something to share with your partner to see if it is something that they like or not. I'm not saying that it works for everyone, but I'm going to give you a couple of tips that might
make it really fun to try. The lead up here is going to make it feel like it is a little less orchestrated or planned out. I think that when couples are used to being together, oftentimes the lead up can feel the same and you end up going into the same positions over and over 'cause you know what's worked for you in the past. But then it kind of loses its lust and fun at some point to make her feel like there is no stress going into the situation.
There is no expectation of her performance. This is going to help her to calm herself and to relax her nerves and just to get into a state where she can really feel what's going on and enjoy it. So try this. Get in front of the TV, have the girl sit in front of the guy with her back to his chest and he can wrap his arms around her. He can start to massage her. And something that I would recommend is a very tight squeeze. That's a little bit different than a massage.
The tight squeeze penetrates the fascia layer on the body. That's the defensive layer of the body. That's also the part that tickles. It's the part that protects the muscles. When you release the fascia, it signals to the nervous system to
relax. So if you are sitting with your arms around your partner, you can either just squeeze her, you know, shoulders like really tightly or like give her a really, really tight hug because that's going to automatically her body is going to relax into that grip. From there, you can try some light touches with your fingernails and this is when you can start to have your hands wander across her body a little bit more.
Now, when you get to the point where you're ready to start stimulating your partner, try going for it with the lightest, warmest touch, almost not moving that you can possibly make. I'll tell you why this is a little extra exciting in an ironic way because normally people think, oh, let's just go hot and heavy, like go right into it. You know, all the movies just show people like jumping at each other, like they're ready to devour each other.
And that's cool, right? Because that's like expressing this, you know, excitement and passion for each other. But this is a little bit different because right now what I'm trying to describe is how to shift the mood into a space where she absolutely wants you so bad to continue to touch her. Like she would do anything to have you stimulate her a little
bit more. So to do this, try taking your fingernails and just lightly almost tickle on top of her the lips of her vagina, like a little bit like on top of the clit. So you're massaging over the top of what she's wearing. So assume now that she's not wearing like leggings or whatever and maybe she has underwear on. So just lightly with your hand, you can even just lay it flat. Laying it flat is so underrated. It will take the heat from your hand and start to warm up the
entire area of her vagina. And that's like bringing all this extra blood and stimulation into that area. And it's going to make it so like she is much more ready for the next touch that you make. What I love about this is that feeling of like, is he, is he going to keep going because I
want him to? And so as you're doing that, you can slip your finger underneath her underwear and run your finger down to where you would normally penetrate and take the natural lubrication that her body has and just gently rub it up on top of the lips of her vagina. And you don't even have to go for the clit yet because she is going to be begging for you to touch that if you don't go for
it first. If it's not really lubed up yet, definitely take a little bit of Lube and throw that on your finger and then massage it like again, try that flat hand thing because if you start digging your fingers like directly into like her clit area, it like she has to be very stimulated to be ready for something that intense. The idea here with this particular scenario is to warm her up so much that she's going to be begging for that a little bit later on down the line from here.
I think it depends on the person who you're with. Like this is a great time to stimulate her nipples, to kiss her, to go down on her. If you're going to go down on her, here is one thing that I would recommend. Try this. Let's say you're facing her. Take your left hand and lay it kind of across the top of her clit and start rubbing it side to side with your other finger. Slowly insert it into her vagina and the key here, do not pull it in and out like you're not fingering her right now.
What you're doing is you're slowly sliding it and make sure it's lubed. You're also massaging the top of her clit in a in a motion that might be not as typical because I feel like a lot of times the motion is up and down. So when you go side to side, it offers something that's like a little bit of a different sensation. So when you put your finger in, you're going to pull it up towards you, right? Like towards the top of her vagina and just like gently pull it towards you.
And what that's going to do is stimulate the inside at the same time that you're stimulating the outside. At this point, she's going to be warmed up and feeling very good. So I'm going to move on to two different positions that you can try. I highly recommend moving from this position into where she is on top. So when she slides down onto you for the female, the position that you want to be in is slightly arched forward.
Because when you're sort of locked in like that, then you can kind of rub up and down and you're getting the pleasure and sensation of like your clit rubbing against his skin at the same time of his penis inside you. Now for the guy, something that makes it extra good is when you hold her hips, push them down. Because as you push them down, it kind of gives you like a little extra thrust as well.
So you get like a little extra oomph and instead of focusing on like an out and in motion, try to keep your bodies completely connected so her clit is always rubbing up and down on the top of your skin. She will probably get off like this. And for the females, go as slow as you can warming up for this. And then you'll get to a point where you get those last few thrusts that might be like a little bit harder and you'll get off that way.
Now, if you are going to try the traditional position of man on top, I'm going to give you one more variation here. So when he's coming into you, have him lay his stomach and like his pelvis so it's touching your clit. And when he's rubbing, he's going to have to use a little bit of emotion so that he's almost like pushing down and up into you because when he's pushing down and up, it's like putting pressure on your clit as he is pushing up inside of you.
So if you guys can stay connected and your bodies are rubbing back and forth like that, try that and see if that gets you off. You'll notice that I didn't talk about the female warming up the man in this particular scenario. And part of that is because I want to make it clear that this warm up is about getting the female to the point where she
wants to absolutely devour you. So there is a timing component here of when you're getting her really excited and everything's really, really stimulated to take advantage of that moment and to have the penetrative sex then. So if you go from her being like really warmed up and then maybe she like gives you a blowjob or something like that, it's going to like completely lose all the momentum that you already created from all the work that you've already done.
So I would just say save that for a different part in the process. Now if it's just not happening and she's just not getting off, then try this. So if she's on top, then have the man hold a vibrator right on top of her clit. So it's like he's pushing that sort of into her. Now not too hard because sometimes it just like pushes right against the bone and it actually kind of hurts. So like just realize that is like very sensitive skin down there.
And when you push it too hard, it can have an opposite effect to actually not be as stimulative. Like it can almost dull the senses. And that can really happen. Like if you have sex that's just like really rough. It can actually be harder for the girl to get off in that situation anyway. So let's just say she's on top. The guy can hold the vibrator
and push that against her. And what's really hot is if the guy can actually hold on to her hips as well and basically be forcefully thrusting her on his Dick while she's doing that. And there's a little subtle amount of domination that's happening right there, which is part of why I think that that's really, really hot for the guy to do that because he's pushing the sensation of the vibe against her, right? And he's holding her tight enough on top of them.
So it's signaling this thought of, no, you can't move. You have to enjoy this pleasure like I'm going to make you enjoy this. And like she has, you know, she can just let go in that moment and just be like, Oh my God, this is fucking amazing and get off in that way. Last thing I'll just mention is that there's nothing hotter than having sex with a woman who is truly enjoying her own pleasure.
So with all of these things, I say it in a way that really talks about this a lot because I think for as a female, as if if you get disconnected from your own pleasure or if you're focused on his pleasure more than your own, it can really detract from the whole experience. And I think most people would agree that when you're really like getting your partner off and you're seeing them like that, it's a huge turn on for both sides.
So I would just encourage a particular females to really go as slow as you feel like you need to in order to sort of build the sensations that you feel you need in order to have your climax. As always, you can find me on TikTok at Corporate MILF on X as Fendom Jim Queen and on Only Fans as the real Jim Queen. Have a great day.