Ladies and gents Corporate MILF. Back with another episode on being seen and how I got into Only Fans. I wish I actually got into Only Fans when I first thought of it, which was probably five years ago because that's probably when it was blowing up the most. But I launched my Only Fans back in February and at the time I was into Fendom and the interactions were fun, but just a lot of communication back and
forth. And I wanted a way to be able to have all of the people in one place who I'm communicating with, which was easier for me. And obviously to launch it as another stream of income that's a little bit easier to manage. The strategy that I have set up on my page is that I drive people to it from TikTok, from my podcast, from my ex and meaning the ex profile. And I literally set it up exactly like the way Sophie Raine has it set up.
So she has a $12.00 admission to be able to subscribe to the main page. And I do post some things on the main page, but the most of it is through pay-per-view activity. So when I send a video through 2D, MSI can price that video however I want and the person on the other end can decide if they want to buy it or not. So that's just a little bit
about my strategy. And when I talk with friends about this, because people have been asking like what's the reaction amongst your friends and family and just the reaction within my community? So I'll bring it down from friends first. So my closest friends are obviously in support of what I'm doing. And I just want to clarify that the way that our friendships work is that we fully support each other, what each one of us
is doing individually. And even when we give support, it doesn't mean like we might want that for ourselves. So in the opposite here, it's not like my friends necessarily want it for themselves, but they're in support of me doing it. And one of the pieces of feedback that one friend gave me recently was just her own thought of being judged and having, you know, nude pics
potentially come out of her. And she was giving the example of like, what if my kids saw a picture of me, like somebody showing them a screenshot of their mom. And my reaction to that is so, so different than a lot of people's because a lot of people don't take taboo risks in fear of what's going to happen for their their kids in the way that that's going to be viewed. But the way I look at it is so
much more complex than that. For first of all, when it comes to sex and bodies and being seen, I am so passionate about embracing sexuality for everything that it is and teaching around how to get the type of relationships that you want. And for them, I want that for them too. And my take is like, if someone were to come up to me and be like, oh, hey, I subscribe to your only fans. I'd be like, awesome, thank you.
Do you like it? And if someone were to share a picture with them, you know, I want them to be like, fuck yeah, like my mom is. That's my mom. She's like out there getting the bag, You know what I mean? And the kids don't really necessarily say it like that. It's not like that. But I want I want them to truly be comfortable embracing intimacy and sexuality for themselves when they get to that stage in life. And I think everyone should embrace it.
That said, I did have a few friends and family come to me earlier this year with sort of minor complaints. Actually, before I even launched my Only Fans, I was posting like some sexy picture of myself on my stories on Facebook. And someone from my family reached out to me and just said like, hey, do you realize that like, the family here is
watching you? And at the time, honestly, I did feel very, very attacked because no one, no one really understood what I was trying to get AT and what my strategy was behind my postings. All they're seeing is like, oh, Abby's doing something that's inappropriate. She's showing a little bit too much skin. And that is like a very common reaction, I would say. And at the time, I actually blew up at her and I chewed her out, and I spit like a lot of venom at her.
And we haven't spoken since. To be honest with you, I did apologize, but I don't think she took that too well either. But anyway, I'm working on my own reactions. But I also feel very strongly about sticking up for yourself, too. So when that first happened, I did react poorly. Now a few months later, I had another friend reach out to me and basically just say like, hey, just so you know, like there's screenshots of you floating around our hometown with only fans attached to it.
And I just wanted to let you know. And my reaction back was just like, I'm great. I'm really glad to hear your voice. Thanks. Thanks for letting me know. And like, I just left it at that. But that said, like I did think about it for I had to process that and I actually pulled a lot of my links offline for a couple of months. I was transitioning from a lot of things at that time, like I was getting divorced and like, you know, shifting where everybody was living and I had a
lot of stuff going on as well. And I just really needed to disconnect. And at the time, I wasn't actually having the success that I wanted to see on Onlyfans yet because I was only driving people through my ex profile, which is very much within like a BDSM type community, which isn't like a perfect match for only fans because, you know, the things that they're interested in are potentially different than like what mainstream people are looking for when it comes to
sex. But I just got this crazy like surge of energy and I finally got to this point. And it took me all summer to get here where I finally fully disconnected from the truths that other people hold. So for example, my friend who sent me about saying like, hey, I don't know if you want to portray yourself like this, like her situation and what she is protecting, their life is completely different than what I'm protecting.
In fact, it's like a 180 because in my situation, I am responsible for fully funding my my family's life and I am working in in her situation, she's not. So like she actually has to protect her family unit from a different point of view than what I do. I can be ruthless in how I pursue my money. And I've also lived already in 25 years of corporate. So I've already been there, done that. I've already done the good girl thing. I've already like lived through that.
And I understand that being in corporate is definitely not where I want to be for the rest of my life. So shifting a little bit, there's a perspective that I've been able to take on over the course of this year that has grown stronger and stronger within myself, which is having the confidence in myself and what I am trying to pursue and knowing what my own goals are and not letting other people
derail me from that. So if somebody else isn't happy with it, I'm sorry, but they're not paying my bills. So it, it's like it doesn't matter, right? It's funny, 'cause people are like, are you worried about this getting in the way of getting a job in corporate? And first of all, I don't want a fucking another job in corporate. But if I do go down that path, I'm not really that worried because because, well, first of all, I see, I see this actually growing.
So I can see a pathway out. I can see the business strategy that I have for the podcast and all my different other assets. So I actually see a full revenue stream building from this, but at the end of the day, like people are going to judge you, but they're not paying your bills. Like I literally went through fucking hell for the last few years and like trying to thread the needle on not bankrupting my
family. And thank God I didn't, but I had to move every single piece with such fine orchestration. And in the end, The thing is, is like no one was helping me during that time. No one stepped in from like apart from my mom who did give me a loan to finish like a major renovation project that I had like thank God I had that funding for that project. But I'm kind of just talking about everyday living type stuff. Like no one stepped in and said, Hey, here's some money to help
you get through this period. Let's help you get get divorced. Let's help you separate and you know, go your separate ways and have your own house. Like no one was doing that for me. So people can love you and they can want the best for you, but in the end, you're the one who
has to get it for yourself. I'm also at the point where I've done so many different things with business that I know for a fact that I can drive sales with whatever it is that I choose to do. I actually launched a lot of different things before I got to this point in this particular business plan that I have right now. So anyway, moving on, there's another kind of deep piece to this, which is that I think I have a really, really deep need
to be seen. And I think part of that comes from just not having been seen for like the last 10 years. And it's such a deep desire that I have that when I am showing off my body, which I'm so extremely proud of. I've literally worked my entire life to have the body that I have right now through working out and through my nutrition and all the things that I do. I'm so incredibly proud of it that I want I want it to be seen. And that is so very different than the way a lot of people
think about things. Because if you think about my friend who doesn't want, you know, someone from the gym knowing like what her body looks like, like I'm the opposite. I'm like, you're welcome, you're welcome that you got to see that. And do you want to see some more? You can pay 12 bucks. So it's just a really, really different way of thinking about
things. But I think it comes down to this ultimate confidence that you have to have to be able to be seen and to not worry who's seeing it or not.
I've just finally come to this understanding that I've been treading in this line for so long of like trying to be this kind of perfect mix of some concoction that I thought was perfect, which is, you know, being in shape, being good looking, having a good job, you know, being a parent, Like moving in a way where no one's going to judge you one way or another. But ultimately people are going to judge you literally no matter what. So I figure, why not bring out the weird?
Like, let me just show you guys exactly all the weird shit I do all the time. And some people are going to love it and some people are going to hate it. But regardless of what I do, even if I'm not being super taboo and putting my tits out there on Only Fans, people are still going to judge me and maybe even harder. The irony, right? So that's my thought on it.
What do you guys think? You can find me on TikTok at corporate MILF on X at Finn Dom Jim Queen and only fans at the real Jim Queen. As always, you're not allowed to come until I do Peace.