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The Friday ReFresh

Hello and welcome to the Friday ReFresh, a Ben and Travis podcast. I’m Ben from Ben and Travis and I have been working as a minister for 23 years and as a counselor for the last 10 years. I recognize that there are a lot of things in our world that impact different people in different ways. Working in counseling I’ve learned that there are a lot more things that can rock our world that I never knew existed. Many of those things are hidden struggles that others may never know about — or at least they don’t know about until something comes along and quite literally “opens up a can” of past trauma or hidden struggles. So I invite you to come along with me on this journey of exploration and understanding through this podcast which offers short episodes and hopefully informational and motivational material to help you as you prepare for the last day of the week. Not every episode will be about a mental health struggle but there will certainly be weeks that are. Sometimes we will just hope to give you a boost as you close out the week. However, there are some rules of engagement here though - some understanding that I want you to have before you agree to go on the journey. 1. Keep An Open Mind - Some of the things we talk about here may be new territory. It may be like one of those movies like Journey to the Center of the Earth where you see things that seem hard to comprehend. I know there were a lot of things that were hard for me to grasp at first and has certainly been hard to relate to others. So think of it like Journey to the Center of Your Soul. 2. It’s an Ever-Changing Landscape - The counseling field is something that seems to change all the time so understand that I may say some things that may be different than what you might have been taught in the past. It may also change as I record these over time. It is also true that various theories of counseling reveal different techniques for dealing with things so I will likely be sharing things from a wide variety of therapeutic mindsets. 3. No Two Experiences are the Same - Just because we share a thought about anxiety or depression doesn’t mean it will apply to every person who hears and so this is certainly not a replacement for good person centered counseling - but you may very well find some helpful tips for various things you may face. So, do you think you are good to start that journey? I hope so. Travis and I hope through this short podcast, along with the weekly Helping, Healing, Humor Podcast and our website to bring a better understanding of mental health to all people but especially to the church. It is a part of us that has been ignored for far too long. I hope that even in this short little podcast to help us have a little more understanding.
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I Keep Counting My Blessings

This episode of The Friday ReFresh is brought to you by www.benandtravis.com! I was sitting in my office this week listening to a song that echoes a similar sentiment to the old hymn “Count Your Blessings.” In this song by Seph Schlueter it says, “One, two, three, up to infinity. I’d run out of numbers, before I could thank you for everything. God, I’m still counting my blessings for all that you’ve done in my life. The more that I look into the details the more of Your goodness I’ll find. Fathe...

Jun 06, 20254 minSeason 4Ep. 6

What They Remember

This is your Friday Refresh brought to you by BenandTravis.com. There is all sorts of good stuff for you there for the summer — from videos featuring VBS songs along with the lyrics and hand motions to a free blog that can be used for devotionals or articles to fun videos you can show to your youth group. You can also find ways to support our work through purchasing books and/or some Ben and Travis merchandise. That’s BenandTravis.com. Millions of teens will walk across the stage over the next f...

May 23, 20254 minSeason 4Ep. 5

Impressions of the Past

The Friday ReFresh is brought you by "The Adventures of Ben and Travis and the Joy Rider" children's book. Preorder you copy today at www.benandtravis.com/books Links mentioned in this episode: http://www.benandtravis.com http://www.facebook.com/groups/benandtravis http://www.patreon.com/benandtravis Reframing Hope Book https://www.benandtravis.com/books Helping. Healing. Humor. with Ben and Travis: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/batify/id1457601152?mt=2&uo=4 Good Old Fashioned Dislike ...

May 09, 20255 minSeason 4Ep. 4

Nails

The Friday ReFresh is brought to you by "The Adventures of Ben and Travis and the Joy Rider" children's book (www.benandtravis.com/books) As I drove through town the other day a red light stopped me at an intersection where there was an old wooden light pole standing at the corner. It had clearly been there a while based on the condition of the wood. It has undoubtedly weathered a lot of storms. It wasn’t the light it gave, the power it conveyed through the wires running across the top, or the a...

Apr 25, 20255 minSeason 4Ep. 3

Slow Down and Notice

Welcome in to the Friday Refresh Brought to you by the Adventures of Ben and Travis and the WorryCoaster. If you have a little one who struggles with anxiety or you work with students who do, this book, designed specifically for elementary age students -- but helpful to anyone -- is for you. The back pages even include some helpful tips for working with kids and teens who are burdened by fears and worries. You might even find that it helps you as an adult. So go to BenandTravis.com and order you...

Apr 04, 20256 minSeason 4Ep. 2

March Madness

Welcome in to the Friday Refresh brought to you by the Adventures of Ben and Travis books. The WorryCoaster is in print and ready for you to order. You can have your copies today by going to BenandTravis.com. You can also preorder your copy of the JoyRider that will be out within the next year. Go to BenandTravis.com/books and order yours today. Brackets. Underdogs. Rivalries. Blue bloods. Cinderellas. Busters. Sweet. Elite. Final. March. Madness. Links mentioned in this episode: http://www.bena...

Mar 21, 20255 minSeason 4Ep. 1

Look Up

Welcome in to the Friday Refresh brought you you by the Adventures of Ben and Travis and the WorryCoaster children’s book. Written by myself and Travis Creasy and expertly illustrated by our friend and brother, Jacob Hennigan. It is a feel good story of how to overcome anxiety and fear with a section in the back for parents, youth workers and teachers with helpful hints to keep the conversation going. Go to BenandTravis.com/books for more information. Challenge Youth Conference (www.cyconline.co...

Feb 21, 20254 minSeason 3Ep. 24

National Day of You

This is your Friday Refresh Brought to you by the Helping. Healing. Humor Podcast with Ben and Travis ( https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/helping-healing-humor/id1457601152 ). If you enjoy this short burst of mental health and motivational content then join us as we explore similar topics in a little more depth and a lot more craziness. You can find the Helping Healing Humor Podcast with Ben and Travis at any of your favorite podcast providers. Have you ever noticed that almost every day is ...

Jan 31, 20254 minSeason 3Ep. 23

Cartoon Heroes

Brought to you by the Helping. Healing. Humor Podcast with Ben and Travis ( https://www.benandtravis.com/more-content ). If you enjoy this short burst of mental health and motivational content then join us as we explore similar topics in a little more depth and a lot more craziness. You can find the Helping Healing Humor Podcast with Ben and Travis at any of your favorite podcast providers. I have always loved cartoons. I grew up when Saturday morning cartoons were the most anticipated event of ...

Jan 17, 20254 minSeason 3Ep. 22

Auld Lang Syne

This is your Friday Refresh brought to you by Liberte Ministries. We appreciate so much Liberte sponsoring this podcast for several months. It is a great ministry and we hope you will Visit TravislovesHaiti.com to find out more about their work. You can supply Bibles to people who are thirsty for the word… and you can also have some of their workers visit your church to tell you more. That’s Travisloveshaiti.com. "Should auld acquaintance be forgot, and never brought to mind? Should auld acquain...

Jan 03, 20255 minSeason 3Ep. 21

The Darkest Day

This is your Friday Refresh brought to you by Liberte Ministries. Visit TravislovesHaiti.com to find out how you can supply Bibles to those who long to read the word of God and learn more through a visit to your church. Winter can be tough. Especially for those who have recently experienced loss...and even for those who have experienced it many years ago. Darkness and depression seem to go hand in hand. Many people in the northernmost state of Alaska experience depression during the long months ...

Dec 13, 20245 minSeason 3Ep. 20

Every Remembrance

This is your Friday Refresh brought to you by Liberte Ministries (travisloveshaiti.com). Visit TravislovesHaiti.com to find out how you can supply Bibles to those who long to read the word of God and learn more through a visit to your church. Here in the south cool breezes are starting to blow, leaves are starting to fall, and holiday songs have started filling the air. There will be plenty of Christmas decorations going up and Holiday movies being watched on TV. Kids and adults around the count...

Nov 15, 20244 minSeason 3Ep. 19

Not Alone

This is your Friday Refresh brought to you by Liberte Ministries (travisloveshaiti.com). Visit TravislovesHaiti.com to find out how you can supply Bibles to those who long to read the word of God and learn more through a visit to your church. As you listen to this you may be trying to come down off a sugar rush or wake up after a long night of trick or treating and Halloween movies. Either way, I hope you found some fun with your family and friends. Speaking of family and friends I just want to ...

Nov 01, 20243 minSeason 3Ep. 18

Soundtrack

This is your Friday Refresh brought to you by Liberte Ministries (travisloveshaiti.com). Visit TravislovesHaiti.com to find out how you can supply Bibles to those who long to read the word of God and learn more through a visit to your church. It has made me laugh. And It has made me cry. It has made me stop right in my tracks. And at other times it has made me move. It has entertained me. And yet it has been my avenue of communication. In some moments it has touched me down in my soul commanding...

Oct 18, 20243 minSeason 3Ep. 17

Discipline

This is your Friday Refresh brought to you by Liberte Ministries (travisloveshaiti.com). Visit TravislovesHaiti.com to find out how you can supply Bibles to those who long to read the word of God and learn more through a visit to your church. Thursday night I was invited to attend the Faulkner Benefit Dinner in Montgomery, Alabama. It was a really spectacular night for many reasons. There was fantastic food, some amazing singers, great waiters and waitresses consisting of students from Faulkner,...

Oct 05, 20244 minSeason 3Ep. 16

The Real A-Team

This is your Friday Refresh brought to you by Liberte Ministries. Visit TravislovesHaiti.com to find out how you can supply Bibles to those who long to read the word of God and learn more through a visit to your church. I grew up watching the A-Team. Can’t tell you how many hours Travis and I pretended to be Hannibal, Murdock, Face, or B. A. Baracus. Of course one the most famous, oft repeated lines of the show was said by their leader, Hannibal: “I love it when a plan comes together.” Usually a...

Sep 20, 20244 minSeason 3Ep. 15

Yet

This is your Friday Refresh brought to you by Liberte Ministries. Visit TravislovesHaiti.com to find out how you can supply Bibles to those who long to read the word of God and learn more through a visit to your church. What would you consider as the most powerful word? I’m sure there are plenty of arguments in the world over which word might carry the most weight. I know on some lists break them into powerful words that convey values or meaning in life: love, faith, wisdom, purpose, and peace. ...

Sep 06, 20244 minSeason 3Ep. 14

Tears

This is your Friday Refresh brought to you by Liberte Ministries. Visit TravislovesHaiti.com to find out how you can supply Bibles to those who long to read the word of God and learn more through a visit to your church. They often appear with laughter Just as they do with mourning. They come when we expect them And then they come without warning. They show up at the beginning When we hear a newborn cry. And at the very end of life When it’s time to say “goodbye.” Links mentioned in this episode:...

Aug 23, 20244 minSeason 3Ep. 13

Make A Difference

This is your Friday Refresh brought to you by Liberté Ministries and TravisLovesHaiti.com! What does it take to make a difference? I suppose you could do a quick search online and come up with a variety of answers. There are thousands of stories of people who have done some great deed to make lives better. On the Ben and Travis podcasts we support works like Liberte that make a difference by helping kids who are less fortunate than so Many of us and by supplying Bibles. Other things like Walk fo...

Aug 02, 20243 minSeason 3Ep. 12

Caring for Self

This is your Friday Refresh brought to you by Liberte Ministries. Visit TravislovesHaiti.com to find out how you can supply Bibles to those who long to read the word of God and learn more through a visit to your church. A couple of years ago I came across a small pamphlet called “the cookie under the doormat.” The interactive story inside goes something like this: Think about two kids. You pick the ages and the gender in your mind. They are simply for ease called A and B. The first day A and B b...

Jul 19, 20245 minSeason 3Ep. 11

The Price of Freedom

This is your Friday Refresh brought to you by Liberte Ministries. Visit TravislovesHaiti.com to find out how you can supply Bibles and learn more through a visit to your church. Freedom isn’t free. There is always a price to pay. In 1776 a band of 56 men met in a hot room in Philadelphia Pennsylvania and officially made a Declaration of independence from England. The men who signed that Declaration were normal people. Lawyers, jurists, farmers, and merchants. Men of means and men of education. S...

Jul 05, 20245 minSeason 3Ep. 10

Children at Play

This is your Friday Refresh brought to you by Collisions Auto Repair Services in Killen,Alabama. You can contact them at (256) 272-2007 Slow Down Children at Play. You’ve probably seen those signs as you have driven through neighborhoods in your own home town. Warnings that there are children present in the area so be on the lookout for them in case one mindlessly chases a ball or animal into the street. Children love to play. I wish I could calculate the number of times in raising my 5 kids tha...

Jun 21, 20243 minSeason 3Ep. 9

Are We There Yet?

This is your Friday Refresh brought to you by Collisions Auto Repair Services in Killen,Alabama. You can contact them at (256) 272-2007 Are we there yet? If I heard that question, or some variation of it, once in the 6 hour drive to the beach I heard it 50 times. The youngest of the kids asked it the most. The others just looked on their map apps on the phone to figure it out. But every one of my five have been guilty of saying it at some point in the history of the car rides we have all had to ...

Jun 07, 20244 minSeason 3Ep. 8

Memorial

This is your Friday Refresh brought to you by Collisions Auto Repair Services in Killen,Alabama. You can contact them at (256) 272-2007 I often talk about my very eclectic taste in music. You might find me listening to country one moment, then 70s rock, then an acapella gospel song. Or it could be blue grass, then rap, followed by a couple of musical numbers from Disney or broadway. But in my phone I also have a playlist entitled “Memorial.” It’s a playlist I made one year so that when I got up ...

May 24, 20243 minSeason 3Ep. 7

Nothing Day

This is your Friday Refresh brought to you by Collisions Auto Repair Services in Killen,Alabama. You can contact them at (256) 272-2007 In every walk in nature one receives far more than he seeks. John Muir. This past Saturday I got to enjoy a Nothing Day. We didn’t have any formal plans so we slept in a little later than usual and then we went to our friends house to ride jeeps and four-wheelers and then walk the creek. We saw some local wildlife, looked for fossils, creek glass, smooth rocks f...

May 10, 20244 minSeason 3Ep. 6

No One

This is your Friday Refresh brought to you by Collisions Auto Repair Services in Killen,Alabama. You can contact them at (256) 272-2007 No one is immune to struggles. No one is prevented from pain. No one will avoid every heartache. In that way we are all the same. No one can claim all the answers. No one succeeds on their own No one can conquer every giant We weren’t meant to face life alone. No one has room to judge. No one lives life without flaw. If they saw the whole picture of your life th...

Apr 26, 20241 minSeason 3Ep. 5

Survival

This is your Friday Refresh brought to you by Collisions Auto Repair Services in Killen,Alabama. You can contact them at (256) 272-2007 One of my favorite things to do as I drive is to listen to podcasts. But not any old podcast. I like true stories. I like stories of people who face hard things head on and find a way through it. This started with one that my cohost of the Helping Healing Humor podcast put me on to. It was called “A Short History Of” and it chronicles all sorts of interesting hi...

Apr 12, 20245 minSeason 3Ep. 4

Your Finest Hour

This is your Friday Refresh brought to you by Collisions Auto Repair Services in Killen,Alabama. You can contact them at (256) 272-2007 He started with eight. Not eight grown men. Eight boys. From a tiny blooming seed consisting of eight boys, he managed to grow the dream into something that well over 20,000 participate in each year now. Links mentioned in this episode: http://www.benandtravis.com http://www.facebook.com/groups/benandtravis http://www.patreon.com/benandtravis Reframing Hope Book...

Mar 29, 20245 minSeason 3Ep. 3

Poison

This is your Friday Refresh brought to you by Collisions Auto Repair Services in Killen,Alabama. You can contact them at (256) 272-2007 The other day I was driving my kids to school and my 7 year old son began talking about how he dreads moving to the next grade in school. His lament went something like this: “what if I CAN’T do the work!” My immediate…almost visceral response was “don’t say the word can’t—can’t is poison.” I’m not exactly sure where that came from because I’ve never said that b...

Mar 15, 20244 minSeason 3Ep. 2

Wanting Wellness

This is your Friday Refresh brought to you by… Collisions Auto Repair Services in Killen,Alabama. You can contact them at (256) 272-2007. Do you want to be made well? It is a silly sounding question. “If I am sick, hurting, or struggling, then why would I not want to be made well?” There are doctors offices, treatment centers, rehab facilities, counselor’s offices, and hospitals scattered across the landscape of this country. It would seem that alone is an argument for the fact that people WANT ...

Mar 01, 20245 minSeason 3Ep. 1
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