If you hate me, you're absolutely right.

“I Don’t Trust You, Erin.”

If you’ve ever booked a call with someone like me, only to feel your guard go way up the second the Zoom opens, you’re not alone.

Because I’ve felt the tension. And I’ve seen the crossed arms. The squinty skepticism. I know you hate me and everyone like me who has confused and overwhelmed you.

I’ve heard the polite answers hiding a hard “no.”

I've heard the impolite answers too: "What snake oil are YOU trying to sell me?"

I don’t take it personally.

I get it.

The wellness industry has burned women like you. It has overpromised, underdelivered, gaslit, confused, judged, and sold you one more program when you were already on the edge.

So if you don’t trust me at first, I understand. And in this episode, I’m going to talk about:

• Why women should be skeptical—and what we’re really protecting when we are

• A hostile comment I received that actually speaks volumes about why the whole industry feels unsafe

• Why you don’t need to blindly trust me to start taking better care of you

• And an apology. A real one. For every time someone made you feel like a failure instead of a human.

I’ll tell you what I believe in. You don’t have to believe in it too. But if there’s a voice inside you saying, “I’m tired of this fight with my body… and I need a new way”—maybe this will help you take the first step.

Timestamps:

00:00 – When you don’t trust me… here’s why I don’t flinch

00:45 – This business isn’t always pretty

02:30 – The comment that revealed what women are really mad about

03:43 – What I’d say to you, woman-to-woman

05:47 – Why wellness can’t just be a script and a supplement

08:00 – How to alchemize your anger into power

12:10 – What I’m sorry for—and what I’m inviting you to believe instead