Today we are diving into Psalm 33. There is so much that applies to us as moms in the particular days that we live in. I hope you will find the encouragement that I found in this Psalm as we focus on the steadfast love of God! Resources mentioned in this episode: Subscribe to my monthly email here ctcmath.com The Unhurried Homeschooler Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School Day The Unhurried Homeschooler Mentoring Course Places I am speaking in 2023 Classical Conversations Blog p...
May 05, 2023•28 min•Ep. 424
M is for Mama has been read by countless moms and provides timely encouragement toward resiliency in motherhood. Today the author, Abbie Halberstadt joins me in a lively, challenging, inspiring and very real conversation as we call out mediocrity in motherhood and exchange it for something so much better! Between the 2 of us we have 18 kids, so we are speaking from a place of knowing what it’s like to be in the trenches, but also where real help actually comes from! Resources mentioned in this e...
May 01, 2023•1 hr 4 min•Ep. 423
I doubt any of us haven’t been touched by cancer in some way. For most it feels like a hopeless and helpless diagnosis. Chris Work joins us today to share a fresh and hopeful perspective on healing and preventing cancer! Resources mentioned in this episode: ctcmath.com The Unhurried Homeschooler Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School Day The Unhurried Homeschooler Mentoring Course Places I am speaking in 2023 Refresh Classical Conversations Chris is the author of the national bes...
Apr 28, 2023•1 hr 8 min•Ep. 422
Learning happens best through hands-on experiences and one of the best ways to nurture our family’s faith is through God’s creation! Today Eryn Lynum and I talk about how the Bible and nature are connected, how spending time outdoors can strengthen the faith of our families, how experiences in nature can show our kids absolute truths in a society prone to relativism, and more! Even if your family isn’t “outdoorsy”(Eryn wasn’t either) you’ll find some great tips and truths in today’s episode! Res...
Apr 24, 2023•40 min•Ep. 421
The study of the end times can be confusing and overwhelming, but Wes and I have attempted to share some nuts and bolts on this topic. Last week we shared an episode titled Are We Living in the Last Days? On Monday we shared another called: Living with Hope When the Church Says It’s Only Going to Get Worse. Our intention in doing these episodes was to present another biblical perspective on the end times that many have not heard about because we have never been taught anything different. To clar...
Apr 21, 2023•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 420
I've always struggled with the idea that we are living in the last days. I couldn't really put my finger on why because although I had heard several sermons on the end times, none of it really ever made a lot of sense to me. It all seemed complicated and over my head. However, over the last few years, I have explored this area more deeply and found hope that I never expected. (Please note that I do NOT believe this is a salvation issue. Wherever you land on this topic doesn't change your eternit...
Apr 17, 2023•43 min•Ep. 419
I've always struggled with the idea that we are living in the last days. I couldn't really put my finger on why because although I had heard several sermons on the end times, none of it really ever made a lot of sense to me. It all seemed complicated, over my head, and quite frankly, pessimistic. However, over the last few years, I have explored this area more deeply and found hope that I never expected. (Please note that I do NOT believe this is a salvation issue. Wherever you land on this topi...
Apr 14, 2023•49 min•Ep. 418
Although homeschooling our kids gives us many more opportunities to disciple our children, it does not guarantee that they will embrace our faith. Often our teens will ask questions or make statements that can invoke fear and cause us to react, but as you'll hear in this episode, questions are actually a GOOD sign. I had a mom reach out to me recently who was concerned that her teen was expressing doubt about the existence of God. She asked for some advice on how to handle this situation and for...
Apr 10, 2023•21 min•Ep. 417
I recently had a mom reach out to me to ask about my thoughts on friendships/relationships/boundaries and outside-the-home time with others. This episode is not exhaustive by any means, but a few things that certainly come to mind! Resources mentioned in this episode: ctcmath.com The Unhurried Homeschooler Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School Day Classical Conversations The Importance of Nurturing Sibling Relationships Ways to Nurture Sibling Relationships Ways to Nurture Sibli...
Apr 07, 2023•27 min•Ep. 416
Do you sometimes find yourself stressed out and angry when it comes to parenting? Are you looking for solutions to discipline your children that will produce peace instead of anger? Today you can inhale hope from Israel and Brook Wayne, the parents of eleven children, who have learned practical ways of de-stressing and responding to their children with words that encourage. They are joining me today to talk about some of what they share in their book Pitchin’ a Fit: Overcoming Angry and Stressed...
Apr 03, 2023•50 min•Ep. 415
With so many new families homeschooling, I thought it would be wise to address the topic of school "choice". What I mean by that is we hear a lot of talk about the government wanting to offer us what they label school “choice”. At first glance this seems enticing, however, there are some very clear and present dangers that come with this offer. Listen in as Israel Wayne presents a very strong argument against school “choice”. Resources mentioned in this episode: https://www.ctcmath.com/ The Unhu...
Mar 31, 2023•34 min•Ep. 414
Have you ever felt overwhelmed by all that's going on in the world? Has it become a burden to you? Have you ever wondered what moms are called to when it comes to politics? Today I'm going to be tackling this topic from both a practical and biblical perspective and praying that God will free you from burdens that are not yours to carry. Resources mentioned in this episode: ctcmath.com The Unhurried Homeschooler Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School Day Homeschooling Today Places...
Mar 27, 2023•44 min•Ep. 413
Have you ever found yourself frustrated with the amount of clutter that seems to naturally come with kids and especially with homeschooling? Today Ashley Wiggers and I are having a great conversation about ways to manage our kids' clutter! CTCmath.com The Unhurried Homeschooler Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School Day The Unhurried Homeschooler Mentoring Course Homeschooling Today Places I'm speaking in 2023 (P.S. Don't forget to check out my latest book, The Four Hour School D...
Mar 24, 2023•19 min•Ep. 412
I’ve had moms write in and ask about the role of mother-in-law either because they have a mother-in-law or are one. I’ve been a mother-in-law for 10 years, but feel like I’m continually learning more because there is always more to learn! I hope you’ll find some helpful suggestions and perspectives in this episode! Resources mentioned in this episode: ctcmath.com The Unhurried Homeschooler Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School Day Homeschooling Today Places I'm speaking in 2023 ...
Mar 20, 2023•37 min•Ep. 411
I decided I had more to say about dealing with aggression in boys, how to re-direct it, and more specific examples of what we did and did not allow our boys to do! Resources mentioned in this episode: ctcmath.com Tomato Staking: A Relationship-Based Parenting Tool The Unhurried Homeschooler Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School Day The Unhurried Homeschooler Mentoring Course Previous episode on Dealing with Aggression in Boys (P.S. Don't forget to check out my latest book, The F...
Mar 17, 2023•47 min•Ep. 410
I have moms email me periodically asking how to deal with the aggression that seems to be more present in boys. (Hint: aggression is not necessarily a bad thing). I hope you'll listen in and share this episode with your friends! Resources mentioned in this episode: ctcmath.com The Unhurried Homeschooler Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School Day Homeschooling Today Places I'm speaking in 2023 (P.S. Don't forget to check out my latest book, The Four Hour School Day: How You and Yo...
Mar 13, 2023•44 min•Ep. 409
I've talked a lot about building a strong work ethic in our kids in both The Unhurried Homeschooler and The Four Hour School day, but if you weren't taught this growing up, you may want to hear some ways to build a strong work ethic in your kids. Resources mentioned in this episode: Age Appropriate Chores for Children (flandersfamily.info) Places I'm speaking in 2023 CTC Math The Unhurried Homeschooler Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School Day The Unhurried Homeschooler Mentorin...
Mar 10, 2023•28 min•Ep. 408
I've talked a lot about building a strong work ethic in our kids in both The Unhurried Homeschooler and The Four Hour School day, but if you weren't taught this growing up, you may want to know more about what work ethic really is and why it's important. In the next episode, I will talk about ways to instill a strong work ethic in our kids! Resources mentioned in this episode: HomegrownGeneration.com/Durenda (online conference) Age Appropriate Chores for Children (flandersfamily.info) Places I'm...
Mar 06, 2023•30 min•Ep. 406
Have you ever wondered if your child might need speech therapy? Speech therapy actually covers a vast array of issues including newborns swallowing properly, auditory processing, texture aversions and so much more! Today I'm talking with Brandee, a homeschooling mom who has been a speech therapist for 20 years and worked with ages 0-100! She will be defining speech therapy and sharing how it's helpful, sharing what normal developmental speech issues kids might have, signs to watch for, things we...
Mar 03, 2023•34 min•Ep. 407
Do you have an unmotivated teen? Are you wondering how to help encourage them to be more self-motivated? I'm sharing some perspective and practical tips today from my experience raising 8 teens! Resources mentioned in this episode: CTC Math The Unhurried Homeschooler Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School Day The Unhurried Homeschooler Mentoring Course Homeschooling Today (P.S. Don't forget to check out my latest book, The Four Hour School Day: How You and Your Kids Can Thrive in...
Feb 27, 2023•42 min•Ep. 405
Sometimes it can feel overwhelming to try and keep up with grading and checking all of our kids' schoolwork. A mom reached out to me with this question wanting to know how I kept up, so that is what I'm sharing today! Resources mentioned in this episode Upcoming events where I am speaking Homegrown Generation Interactive Online Conference: homegrowngeneration.com/Durenda Homegrown Generation coupon code: HG25 ctcmath.com The Unhurried Homeschooler Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour ...
Feb 24, 2023•22 min•Ep. 404
Today we are bringing some encouragement for the reluctant homeschool mom Maybe you are homeschooling and are still not sure this is for you. Perhaps you are thinking about homeschooling and have doubts that keep you from taking the leap or you are a seasoned homeschool mom who is feeling a little burnt out. This episode is for you! Join me at Homegrown Generation: an online interactive homeschool conference going on March 6-9th! (Use discount code “Durenda” for $10 off) HomegrownGeneration.com/...
Feb 20, 2023•37 min•Ep. 403
Moms often wonder how in the world homeschooling can work when you have one or more little ones. I had 5 kids under 7, 6 kids under 9, 7 kids under 11…you get the idea, so I am not a stranger to homeschooling with many littles in the house. In the last episode I talked about WHY it can work and today I want to talk more about HOW it can work! Resources mentioned in this episode: CTC Math My YouTube channel The Unhurried Homeschooler Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School Day The ...
Feb 17, 2023•43 min•Ep. 402
I’ve had many moms message me asking how to homeschool with littles at home. I’ve had 5 kids- 7 and under 6 kids-9 and under 7 kids-11 and under…you get the idea. So I totally get this and I can tell you that it’s NOT impossible In this episode, I talk about WHY it’s possible and in the next episode I will talk about WAYS to do that! Resources mentioned in this episode: CTC Math The Unhurried Homeschooler Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School Day Homeschooling Today The Importan...
Feb 13, 2023•25 min•Ep. 401
It seems as though so many are struggling and facing difficulty on several fronts all at once (including myself) so today I want to talk about having a biblical perspective on hardship. You could also call it a theology of suffering which is essential for the believer. God is not silent when it comes to suffering. He is compassionate and gracious, but in order to experience the fullness of the comfort He offers and remain steadfast, we must frame our emotions and circumstances under the authorit...
Feb 10, 2023•43 min•Ep. 400
It’s been 27 years since I embarked on this homeschooling adventure(more if you count the preschool years). We have 8 kids so I’m still homeschooling the youngest and there are three things I’ve learned that I think every homeschool mom should know regardless of where you are on this journey! Listen in and be encouraged! Resources mentioned in this episode: CTC Math My YouTube channel The Unhurried Homeschooler Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School Day The Unhurried Homeschooler...
Feb 06, 2023•25 min•Ep. 399
We know that one of the greatest temptations for us as humans is to worship something other than God, but is it possible for even our children to become an idol? Listen in for some warning signs that our children may hold a higher place in our hearts than they should. Resources mentioned in this episode: CTC Math My YouTube channel The Unhurried Homeschooler Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School Day The Unhurried Homeschooler Mentoring Course (P.S. Don't forget to check out my l...
Feb 03, 2023•30 min•Ep. 398
It’s popular to take kids on dates, but if you look at the bigger picture historically, it’s a fairly recent/trendy activity. Dates with our kids can be fun, memorable, and meaningful, but we have to be careful not to make them a gold standard of parenting. They can serve a purpose, but are they necessary? Resources mentioned in this episode: Tomato Staking (Podcast) My YouTube channel CTC Math The Unhurried Homeschooler Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School Day The Unhurried Ho...
Jan 30, 2023•21 min•Ep. 397
Learning happens in such a variety of ways, but sometimes we find ourselves stuck in the traditional classroom model and need some inspiration to try something new! Today I’m sharing a simple way to do social studies with multiple ages! Resources mentioned in this episode: CTC Math My YouTube channel The Unhurried Homeschooler Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The Four-Hour School Day The Unhurried Homeschooler Mentoring Course (P.S. Don't forget to check out my latest book, The Four Hour School...
Jan 27, 2023•31 min•Ep. 396
God commands parents to discipline their children because He knows that is what is best for our children and the entire family. Wes Johnson joins me today to talk about biblical discipline, including THE most controversial discipline tool. This is a long episode, but it is chock full of good stuff even down to specific examples of how to carry out biblical discipline. Resources mentioned in this episode: CTC Math My YouTube channel The Unhurried Homeschooler Unhurried Grace for a Mom’s Heart The...
Jan 23, 2023•58 min•Ep. 395
