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The Dump Him Podcast

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Welcome to The Dump Him Podcast, discussing all things modern day dating, how to know your worth, and when you should just dump him! New episodes weekly, hosted by Kitty James and Francesca Coates. Follow us on Instagram @thedumphimpodcast
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Episodes

S2E20: Life updates, liking another girl's photos and taking a guy to girls' night

It's our final episode of Series 2 (cry!), and today we're chatting about our dating lives heading into Hot Girl Summer 2021, and answering two listener dilemmas about shady Instagram likes and whether to go to the same uni as your boyfriend. We hope you enjoyed listening to this series as much as we enjoyed making it, and we'll be back in the autumn with more - see you then! The Dump Him Podcast is hosted by Kitty James and Francesca Coates, discussing all things modern day dating, how to know ...

Jun 06, 202138 minSeason 2Ep. 20

S2E19: Can guys and girls ever be friends?

In our penultimate episode of Series 2, Kitty gives an update on her dates with Finance Guy, and we wonder when is the right time to meet the friends. Plus - we discuss whether guys and girls can ever be platonic, or is it always something more? The Dump Him Podcast is hosted by Kitty James and Francesca Coates, discussing all things modern day dating, how to know your worth and when you should just dump him/her/them. New episodes weekly!

May 24, 202133 minSeason 2Ep. 19

S2E18: LGBTQ+ dating and why allyship is important with Scott Flashheart

In this week's episode, we're joined by Scott Flashheart from the multi award-winning LGBTQ+ podcast Probably True, to chat all about queer dating, coming out, and why it's so important - and easy - to be an ally. You can check out Scott's fantastic podcast HERE . The Dump Him Podcast is hosted by Kitty James and Francesca Coates, discussing all things modern day dating, how to know your worth and when you should just dump him/her/them. New episodes weekly!...

May 17, 202144 minSeason 2Ep. 18

S2E17: Finance Guy, wannabe cheaters and hangovers

Introducing a new character to the TDHP story: Kitty's new squeeze, Finance Guy. Will she get the rooftop bar date she's been longing for? Also, Francesca's fending off guys with questionable morals, and we debate the age-old question - should you make the first move? The Dump Him Podcast is hosted by Kitty James and Francesca Coates, discussing all things modern day dating, how to know your worth and when you should just dump him/her/them. New episodes weekly!

May 10, 202140 minSeason 2Ep. 17

S2E16: Reality TV, social media comments and wedding bells with Maeva D'Ascanio and James Taylor

This week, we were joined by Made in Chelsea power couple Maeva and James, to talk all about what it's like to watch their relationship play out on screen, life in lockdown and their plans for the future. It was great to chat about the side of their relationship that we don't often see on the show, and they gave us a peek into their domestic bliss with their adorable puppy Clyde! The Dump Him Podcast is hosted by Kitty James and Francesca Coates, discussing all things modern day dating, how to k...

May 03, 202145 minSeason 2Ep. 16

S2E15: Shoplifting boyfriends, bed wetting and Kitty's spontaneous date

In this week's episode, a slightly hungover Kitty tells all the juicy details about her spontaneous late night date, and we talk about the most surprising things a partner could do in a relationship. Spoiler alert, it includes fraud and wet bedsheets... The Dump Him Podcast is hosted by Kitty James and Francesca Coates, discussing all things modern day dating, how to know your worth and when you should just dump him/her/them. New episodes weekly!

Apr 26, 202143 minSeason 2Ep. 15

S2E14: Alpha males and secrets of the guy code with Manny Santana

This week, we're joined by professional matchmaker and dating coach Manny Santana, who told us all about the meaning of being alpha and beta, and shared his theories around romantic mode and erotic mode (and being hot and cold!). If you've ever wanted to know how to crack the guy code - this is the episode for you! You can check out Manny's Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/iammannysantana/ and purchase his book here: https://mannysantana.com/my-book The Dump Him Podcast is hosted by Kit...

Apr 19, 20211 hr 1 minSeason 2Ep. 14

S2E13: Is sex the be-all and end-all?

In this week's episode we hear all about Kitty's recent drama in the dms, and Francesca's giving up all hope of love entirely. Plus, we shared our feelings as we come out of lockdown, and we talked all about sex, sexting and feeling horny. How important is sex to relationships really? The Dump Him Podcast is hosted by Kitty James and Francesca Coates, discussing all things modern day dating, how to know your worth and when you should just dump him/her/them. New episodes weekly!

Apr 12, 202150 minSeason 2Ep. 13

S2E12: Body language, narcissists and intelligent dating with Lily Walford

In this week's episode, we're joined by Lily Walford from Love with Intelligence, an international dating coach and expert in behavioural profiling, to talk all about the body language of liars, the behaviour of narcissists, and how to date intelligently. You can check out Lily's website here: https://www.lovewithintelligence.com/home and Instagram here: www.instagram.com/lovewithintelligence The Dump Him Podcast is hosted by Kitty James and Francesca Coates, discussing all things modern day dat...

Apr 05, 20211 hr 7 minSeason 2Ep. 12

S2E11: Kitty's dating mishap and the Fear Of Better Options

Kitty's back in the dating game, with an awkward case of mistaken identity from her first lockdown date... Also, we chat all about how our FOBO is causing commitment issues, and ask the question - how do you know when you 'know'? The Dump Him Podcast is hosted by Kitty James and Francesca Coates, discussing all things modern day dating, how to know your worth and when you should just dump him/her/them. New episodes weekly!

Mar 29, 202149 minSeason 2Ep. 11

S2E10: Body confidence, periods and sex education with Rakhi Sachdev

This week, we're joined by Rakhi, a body positivity coach who helps women develop their connection to their bodies - and we chatted all about body confidence in lockdown, self care and how women feel pleasure. To hear more from Rakhi, you can check out her Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/raks_sachdev/ The Dump Him Podcast is hosted by Kitty James and Francesca Coates, discussing all things modern day dating, how to know your worth and when you should just dump him/her/them. New episode...

Mar 22, 202157 minSeason 2Ep. 10

S2E9: Francesca has an OnlyFans?

This week, we catch up on our progress for March's self care month, then take a deep dive into our Tinder messages and tell you which chat up lines (if any) work on us... The Dump Him Podcast is hosted by Kitty James and Francesca Coates, discussing all things modern day dating, how to know your worth and when you should just dump him/her/them. New episodes weekly!

Mar 15, 202151 minSeason 2Ep. 9

S2E8: A real-life sugar baby spills the tea

We decided to follow up our last episode, 'We joined a sugar daddy dating site so you don't have to', by interviewing an anonymous sugar baby, who told us all about her time dating older men from sugar dating sites, and all the financial benefits she received as a result. This guest was a very juicy one... The Dump Him Podcast is hosted by Kitty James and Francesca Coates, discussing all things modern day dating, how to know your worth and when you should just dump him/her/them. New episodes wee...

Mar 08, 202147 minSeason 2Ep. 8

S2E7: We joined a sugar daddy dating site so you don't have to

Ever wondered what happens on sugar daddy/sugar baby dating sites? We certainly did... so Francesca went undercover to get the inside scoop, so you don't have to! The Dump Him Podcast is hosted by Kitty James and Francesca Coates, discussing all things modern day dating, how to know your worth and when you should just dump him/her/them. New episodes weekly!

Mar 01, 202155 minSeason 2Ep. 7

S2E6: Sober sex, dating while drunk and hangover anxiety with Millie Gooch

This week we're joined by Millie Gooch, founder of The Sober Girl Society, a platform for sober-curious and teetotal women. Millie told us all about dating as a sober girl, how to approach sober sex and ways to enjoy a life without alcohol. Could quitting alcohol be the future for The Dump Him Podcast? You can check out Millie's book 'The Sober Girl Society' here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Sober-Girl-Society-Handbook-empowering/dp/1787634124 Follow The Sober Girl Society on Instagram here: https:...

Feb 22, 202149 minSeason 2Ep. 6

S2E5: Speed dating, giving up on ghosting and the results of our Hinge experiment

In this week's episode, recorded on Valentine's Day, we've got a full debrief on our virtual speed dating event, and we're fed up of being ghosted on dating apps. We've also got the very scientific results of our Hinge experiment, and we give a listener some tough love in answer to her dilemma... The Dump Him Podcast is hosted by Kitty James and Francesca Coates, discussing all things modern day dating, how to know your worth and when you should just dump him/her/them. New episodes weekly!...

Feb 15, 202148 minSeason 2Ep. 5

S2E4: Worst dates and friendzoning with the All I Do Is Fail Podcast

This week, we're joined by Tom and Ali from All I Do Is Fail, who chatted to us all about their worst dates and how they friendzone people, in the most ambitious podcast crossover event of the year (unofficially). You can hear more of the guys over at https://www.instagram.com/aidifpod/ The Dump Him Podcast is hosted by Kitty James and Francesca Coates, discussing all things modern day dating, how to know your worth and when you should just dump him/her/them. New episodes weekly!...

Feb 08, 20211 hr 2 minSeason 2Ep. 4

S2E3: Impersonating each other on Hinge, vegan dating and tracking delivery men

This week, we're beginning our new experiment - we'll be impersonating each other on Hinge and setting each other up on blind Zoom dates in the process! Could this be the answer to all our online dating woes? Plus, Kitty got dumped for being vegan, and we have a new business venture idea for tracking delivery men. Just a reminder - ticket sales for our virtual Valentines Day speed dating close on Thursday 4th Feb, so get your tickets soon if you want to join us! The Dump Him Podcast is hosted by...

Feb 01, 202131 minSeason 2Ep. 3

S2E2: Asking an expert about retroactive jealousy with Eva @relationshipanxiety_therapist

In this episode, we chat to Eva, a relationship therapist specialising in relationship OCD and retroactive jealousy, and learn all about whether jealousy is normal in a relationship and how to heal from past wounds. You can find Eva on Instagram @relationshipanxiety_therapist or via her website www.evathompsontherapy.co.uk The Dump Him Podcast is hosted by Kitty James and Francesca Coates, discussing all things modern day dating, how to know your worth and when you should just dump him/her/them....

Jan 25, 202144 minSeason 2Ep. 2

S2E1: Season 2, dating bad drivers and our upcoming event

We're back baby! Welcome to Season 2 of The Dump Him Podcast. This week, we're catching up on our recent love life development and announcing our upcoming virtual dating event! We also chat all about bad drivers - and the struggle of dating them... The Dump Him Podcast is hosted by Kitty James and Francesca Coates, discussing all things modern day dating, how to know your worth and when you should just dump him/her/them. New episodes weekly!

Jan 18, 202146 minSeason 2Ep. 1

S1E21: Tiger King, masks and Tinder Passport - dating in 2020

It's our series finale, and we're looking back at dating in 2020 - from Tik Tok to Tinder bios, how has dating changed this year? We talk about key events from the year we'd all like to forget, and how dating behind a mask has affected our own love lives. See Tinder's Year In Swipe in full - https://hypebeast.com/2020/12/tinder-year-in-swipe-report-2020-gen-z-dating-trends-info The Dump Him Podcast is hosted by Kitty James and Francesca Coates, discussing all things modern day dating, how to kno...

Dec 14, 202045 minSeason 1Ep. 21

S1E20: Tinder bios, lads' holidays and first dates with Joe and Kieran

This week, we're joined by our pals Joe and Kieran, who'll be revealing what guys really think on first dates and what really goes down on lads' holidays... Plus, find out what makes a good Tinder bio and how girls should start a convo. Don't say we don't help you ladies out! The link to our Spotify playlist 'TDHP Anthems': https://open.spotify.com/playlist/48sjtnNOgk5MPyJ0N863DN?si=goX3c-sVQEKxoxXswUP5MQ The Dump Him Podcast is hosted by Kitty James and Francesca Coates, discussing all things m...

Dec 07, 202054 minSeason 1Ep. 20

S1E19: Zoom dates, #bodygoals and bumping into our exes

This week, we chatted all about Kitty's recent Zoom date, and answered a listener's dilemma about how to handle bumping into her ex. Also, find out what Francesca's been up to on Hinge in lockdown, and why we think Instagram diet culture has gone too far. The Dump Him Podcast is hosted by Kitty James and Francesca Coates, discussing all things modern day dating, how to know your worth and when you should just dump him/her/them. New episodes weekly!

Nov 30, 202036 minSeason 1Ep. 19

S1E18: Mental health, dating and healing with @thewaffleshoppodcast

(Trigger warning: mental health, suicide and OCD) UK Samaritans Helpline: 116 123 US Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 In this episode we are joined by our wonderful guest Taylor from The Waffle Shop Podcast. We discuss all things mental health, breakups and a very peculiar pet peeve... Massive thanks to Taylor for joining us this week! The Dump Him Podcast is hosted by Kitty James and Francesca Coates, discussing all things modern day dating, how to know your worth and when you should...

Nov 23, 20201 hr 3 minSeason 1Ep. 18

S1E17: Our worst dates ever, The Banker and having Covid-19

We've been a bit AWOL recently, but we have good reason - this week Francesca explains all about her recent bout of Covid and we talk about our worst dates ever. Also, find out what happened on Kitty's second date with The Banker! The Dump Him Podcast is hosted by Kitty James and Francesca Coates, discussing all things modern day dating, how to know your worth and when you should just dump him/her/them. New episodes weekly!

Nov 15, 202056 minSeason 1Ep. 17

S1E16: How to spot a fuckboy with @laurensaddingtonx

This week we're joined by the Tik Tok queen Lauren Saddington to talk all about spotting fuckboys, guys with 'J' names, and the best opening lines to slide in the dms. The Dump Him Podcast is hosted by Kitty James and Francesca Coates, discussing all things modern day dating, how to know your worth and when you should just dump him/her/them. New episodes weekly!

Nov 03, 202033 minSeason 1Ep. 16

S1E15: The truth about why Francesca isn't dating...

Francesca has a confession to make... it's time to discuss the real reason why she isn't dating at the moment. You might be surprised by the reason why! The Dump Him Podcast is hosted by Kitty James and Francesca Coates, discussing all things modern day dating, how to know your worth and when you should just dump him/her/them. New episodes weekly!

Oct 22, 202049 minSeason 1Ep. 15

S1E14: Bailing on dates, planning our weddings and asking a guy your juicy questions

This week, we're joined by Henry, who talked all about dating apps and answered all the juicy questions sent in by our listeners. If you've ever wondered what goes on inside guys' brains, this is the episode for you... The Dump Him Podcast is hosted by Kitty James and Francesca Coates, discussing all things modern day dating, how to know your worth and when you should just dump him/her/them. New episodes weekly!

Oct 11, 202039 minSeason 1Ep. 14

S1E13: Heartbreak, our rosters and why millennials are bad at dating

This week, we answered a dilemma about getting back together after a break, and got honest about going through heartbreak. We also discussed whether millennials are good at dating or not... The Dump Him Podcast is hosted by Kitty James and Francesca Coates, discussing all things modern day dating, how to know your worth and when you should just dump him/her/them. New episodes weekly!

Oct 05, 202056 minSeason 1Ep. 13

S1E12: Speed dating, separate bedrooms and do we want kids?

In this episode, we share all about our recent virtual speed dating event and chat to one of our daters from the event. We also discuss whether separate bedrooms and bathrooms is key to a healthy marriage and whether we want kids in future. Our answers might surprise you! The Dump Him Podcast is hosted by Kitty James and Francesca Coates, discussing all things modern day dating, how to know your worth and when you should just dump him/her/them. New episodes weekly!

Sep 27, 202058 minSeason 1Ep. 12
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