Have you found yourself wondering, “What do I do first when I find out I’m getting divorced?" In this solo episode, top family law expert and mediator Susan Guthrie introduces the concept of Divorce Triage : a clear, strategic approach to navigating those overwhelming first days of divorce. Whether you’re the one who’s decided to file or you’ve just been hit with the news, knowing who to call first (and why) can make all the difference. Divorce isn't one-size-fits-all. And the first steps you ta...
Jul 21, 2025•40 min•Ep. 424
When divorce and entrepreneurship collide, things get complicated - fast. The emotional, financial, and legal entanglements are real, and one wrong move could cost you big. To help us navigate these divorce danger zones, Susan Guthrie welcomes Gabriella Martinelli to the show. Gabriella is a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® and the founder of Ever After Wealth®, bringing over two decades of experience, including 16 years working closely with top family law attorneys. She’s worked with countl...
Jul 07, 2025•52 min•Ep. 423
Susan Guthrie is back with a solo episode to unpack how today’s economic instability is reshaping every stage of divorce. We are living in uncertain times: rising inflation, interest rates that won’t budge, increased job losses and layoffs, and even potential cuts to government programs like Medicare and Medicaid. All of this uncertainty affects how divorce unfolds, from spousal support to housing and healthcare. In this episode, Susan walks you through the key financial and legal challenges div...
Jun 23, 2025•30 min•Ep. 422
Dr. Justine Weber joins Susan Guthrie to share what it really looks like to navigate a relationship with someone who exhibits narcissistic or high-conflict behavior - from the moment someone starts questioning things to the long road of healing on the other side. Together, Susan and Justine walk through the five stages of divorcing a narcissist, from the first signs of doubt to post-divorce healing. Whether a listener is thinking about leaving, stuck in the thick of it, or still reeling years af...
Jun 09, 2025•58 min•Ep. 421
Social media can be an incredible space for support and connection, but when it comes to divorce, it’s also packed with advice that sounds empowering but can actually do real damage. In this solo episode, Susan Guthrie breaks down some of the most viral (and misleading) divorce tips making the rounds on TikTok, Instagram, and beyond. And, shares what you really need to know instead. With more than 35 years of experience as a top divorce attorney and mediator, Susan cuts through the noise to expo...
May 26, 2025•41 min•Ep. 420
What if divorce didn’t have to be a battlefield? Susan Guthrie welcomes back Tracy Ann Moore-Grant to share a refreshingly different approach, one that skips the chaos and centers on resolution, respect, and real strategy. Tracy Ann, a seasoned family law attorney and founder of the Amicable Divorce Network, is changing the game with her court-free model that prioritizes clarity and calm over conflict. They dig into Tracy Ann’s groundbreaking new book Divorce Amicably: Your Roadmap to Resolution...
May 12, 2025•48 min•Ep. 419
Susan Guthrie welcomes family law powerhouse Morghan Richardson for a conversation that reveals essential truths about divorce that no one warns you about, but everyone needs to know. Walk into your divorce with eyes wide open and your strategy locked in. With years of experience navigating high-net-worth divorces in New York, Morghan shares the top four shockers that catch divorcing clients off guard, truths that will save you time, energy, and heartbreak if you hear them early enough. From the...
Apr 28, 2025•42 min•Ep. 418
In this must-listen archived episode Susan Guthrie, Esq. is joined by Professor Stephanie Tang to unpack one of the most talked-about, and misunderstood, topics in family court: the “best interests of the child” standard. Listeners often ask what this phrase actually means when it comes to custody decisions, and as Susan and Professor Tang explore, it’s far more nuanced than most realize. From the wide-ranging factors judges consider to the pivotal role of judicial discretion, Professor Tang exp...
Apr 14, 2025•44 min•Ep. 417
Susan Guthrie welcomes you back for a jaw-dropping look at the bizarre and unexpected items couples have battled over during divorce. From beloved pets to vintage toys, Susan shares some of the most outrageous courtroom disputes, and yes, the Beanie Babies story is real. Beneath the shock and laughter lies a deeper truth. Susan breaks down why these petty fights happen and how the emotional toll of divorce can lead even the most level-headed people to dig in over trivial things. More importantly...
Mar 31, 2025•45 min•Ep. 416
Anger is a natural part of divorce, but what if it’s not something to suppress or fear, but a tool for healing? This week, Susan Guthrie welcomes psychotherapist, speaker, and author Bronwyn Schweigerdt, host of Angry at the Right Things to speak about why anger is actually a good thing. In fact, Bronwyn believes anger isn’t a problem to fix but a guide leading us toward clarity, boundaries, and emotional freedom. In this episode, Bronwyn helps us reframe our relationship with anger and how supp...
Mar 17, 2025•47 min•Ep. 415
The discovery process is one of the most critical phases of divorce—it directly impacts your settlement and the final outcome. In this episode, host Susan Guthrie breaks down what discovery is, why it matters, what to expect, and how to prepare for it. You’ll also hear some of the complex issues that can arise in high-asset cases and the key professionals you may need to bring in to support you along the way. By the end of this episode, you'll have a clearer understanding of how to navigate disc...
Mar 03, 2025•42 min•Ep. 414
Co-parenting is never easy, but when high stakes are involved—whether due to legal complexities, a history of domestic violence, or deep-seated conflict—it becomes even more challenging. Navigating these situations requires a unique blend of legal expertise and emotional intelligence, and that’s exactly what today’s guest, Robin Sax, brings to the table. Robin is both an attorney and a clinical therapist, with over 15 years as a prosecutor specializing in domestic violence and child advocacy. No...
Feb 24, 2025•49 min•Ep. 413
Susan Guthrie shares insider tips from her 35+ years of experience to help you work smarter with your attorney—saving time, money, and stress. These are the strategies divorce lawyers wish their clients knew, giving you the knowledge to navigate the process more efficiently and confidently. In this solo episode, Susan pulls back the curtain on what every divorcing person needs to know—like why your attorney isn’t your therapist (and why treating them like one will cost you big), how to communica...
Feb 17, 2025•43 min•Ep. 412
If dating after divorce feels like uncharted territory or downright overwhelming, get ready for some game-changing advice. Bela Gandhi is back to answer the questions about dating after divorce that you wish you could ask! That’s right, Susan Guthrie welcomes back one of your all-time favorite guests—America’s Favorite Dating Coach and the Fairy Godmother of Love herself—Bela Gandhi! Bela is the founder of Smart Dating Academy and has helped thousands find love after divorce. She’s been featured...
Feb 10, 2025•51 min•Ep. 411
Susan Guthrie welcomes Charmaine Panko, a King’s Counsel, collaborative lawyer, mediator, arbitrator, and trainer based in Saskatchewan, Canada. Charmaine specializes in helping families navigate separation in a way that preserves relationships, protects children, and creates a strong foundation for the future. This conversation explores how customized divorce agreements empower individuals to take control, protect their legacy, and prioritize their family’s unique needs. From high-net-worth cas...
Feb 03, 2025•53 min•Ep. 410
Susan Guthrie welcomes Trina Nudson, creator of the groundbreaking BeH2O™ program, to explore how neuroscience, business leadership principles, and mindset coaching can be brought together and applied to the concept of co-parenting. For parents immersed in the cycle of conflict, Trina's approach offers a pathway to transform challenging dynamics into collaborative partnerships that benefit their children. From setting boundaries to embracing accountability and shifting your mindset, this episode...
Jan 27, 2025•46 min•Ep. 409
Susan Guthrie welcomes Dr. Nadine Macaluso (Dr. Nae), a renowned therapist specializing in trauma healing, to tackle a transformative topic for January, known as “Divorce Month.” As the real-life inspiration for Naomi in The Wolf of Wall Street, Dr. Nae blends her personal journey of escaping a trauma bond with her professional expertise to help you recognize, escape, and heal from toxic relationships. This episode offers a roadmap for understanding trauma bonds, preparing your exit safely, and ...
Jan 20, 2025•45 min•Ep. 408
Susan Guthrie sits down with Marc Garelick, a highly sought-after family law litigator, to explore what happens when a divorce case reaches the point where settlement isn’t possible, and litigation becomes the only path forward. While most divorces avoid the courtroom, situations involving high-conflict personalities, contentious custody disputes, or complex financial matters often require judicial intervention. Marc brings a strategy-focused, results-driven approach to these challenging cases, ...
Jan 13, 2025•41 min•Ep. 407
Susan Guthrie welcomes accomplished attorney Tamara Rowles, creator of the Divorce Wave app, to discuss navigating the complexities of divorce. As we step into January, often recognized as Divorce Month, this episode dives into what you need to know about riding the waves of divorce, starting with day one. Tamara introduces vital insights on the initial steps to take when considering a divorce, how to handle the emotions that inevitably come with it, and the tech that can help. Whether you’re co...
Jan 06, 2025•40 min•Ep. 406
Susan Guthrie welcomes you to the final episode of our special holiday archive series (new episodes will return in early 2025!)! As we gear up for a fresh start in the New Year, today’s episode is all about embracing hope, joy, and a renewed sense of purpose. This episode features the world’s #1 Happiness Coach, Steffani LeFevour. Steffani, a best-selling author, international speaker, and master of manifesting, shares powerful insights and actionable strategies for creating happiness—even throu...
Dec 30, 2024•36 min•Ep. 405
If you're singing "Single Bells" this season or just need some tips on how to take better care of yourself during the holiday rush, this episode is for you! Jenny Stevens, founder of Create Change Consultants, shares insights on how to navigate the challenges of the season and make your holidays the best they can be. As part of our special holiday archive series, we're resharing this episode to help you navigate the season with strength and resilience. If you're feeling the weight of solitude th...
Dec 23, 2024•36 min•Ep. 404
As part of our holiday archive series, we’re revisiting timeless episodes packed with practical tips to make your season less stressful and more joyful. We’re featuring “Happy Holidays? How Co-Parents Can Avoid Holiday Nightmares” with renowned parenting expert and co-parenting coach Christina McGhee. This episode is full of invaluable advice to help co-parents navigate the holiday season with ease. What You’ll Discover in This Episode: How to set boundaries and manage holiday expectations. Coll...
Dec 16, 2024•39 min•Ep. 403
Feeling the holiday stress while navigating divorce or separation? Susan Guthrie is here to help you find moments of peace and joy with her timeless holiday episodes. This week, she revisits an inspiring conversation with Co-Parenting Coach Lisa McGregor, sharing insights on holiday gift-giving and co-parenting with grace. In this episode, Lisa shared practical strategies and heartfelt advice on how to help your children celebrate their other parent with a thoughtful gift, even when emotions mak...
Dec 09, 2024•34 min•Ep. 402
In this eye-opening episode of Divorce & Beyond , Susan Guthrie welcomes Amanda Singer, a family mediator, California-licensed attorney, CDFA, and founder of West Coast Family Mediation. Together, they explore the complexities of remarrying after divorce, a topic that has surprisingly never been covered on the show before. Whether you're already in a new relationship or still unsure about love after divorce, this conversation is packed with valuable insights that could reshape how you approa...
Dec 02, 2024•39 min•Ep. 401
In this transformative episode of Divorce & Beyond , Susan Guthrie dives deep into the world of holistic healing with special guest Dawn Wiggins, a licensed marriage and family therapist who has reimagined what it means to recover, grow, and thrive. Dawn explains why traditional therapy, while helpful, is often not enough on its own and reveals how her integrative methods address the gaps left by conventional approaches. What You’ll Discover in This Episode: Why talk therapy often falls shor...
Nov 25, 2024•43 min•Ep. 400
Susan Guthrie welcomes Karis Nafte, Pet Custody Mediator and Certified Dog Behavior Consultant, to explore the complexities of pet custody in divorce. With the legal landscape around pets evolving, the topic of pet custody has become increasingly relevant for divorcing couples. Karis, founder of Who Keeps the Dog? , sheds light on the unique challenges of navigating custody for your furry family members and shares insights from her new book, Who Keeps the Dog: Navigating Pet Custody During Divor...
Nov 18, 2024•43 min•Ep. 399
Selling or buying a home during a divorce? Susan Guthrie brings in expert realtor Kathy Clark to shed light on the real estate journey for divorcing couples. With 13 years of experience in Southern California’s mortgage and real estate industry, Kathy shares essential strategies for navigating property sales, avoiding common pitfalls, and setting yourself up for a successful transition into your next home. Kathy’s insights will help you avoid unnecessary stress and find the right realtor to guid...
Nov 11, 2024•45 min•Ep. 398
Susan Guthrie welcomes special guest Marcia Zug, a family law expert and law professor, to discuss the move to repeal no-fault divorce laws. As reform proposals emerge across several states, this conversation explores what a shift back to fault-based divorce could mean for individuals, families, and the legal system. Marcia offers insights into the history of no-fault divorce, the forces behind this legislative push, and the potential impacts on personal freedom, safety, and family dynamics. Tun...
Nov 04, 2024•43 min•Ep. 397
Few things are scarier than finances and divorce. In this special Halloween episode, Susan welcomes back financial experts Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan of My Divorce Solution! Together they offer tips and insights for overcoming your spookiest financial fears during divorce. This episode dives into where financial fears come from, and how to overcome them and shares cautionary tales with powerful takeaways. You'll learn how taking control of your finances can help you conquer fear and un...
Oct 28, 2024•53 min•Ep. 396
Susan Guthrie welcomes returning guest Jackie Pilossoph, Founder of Divorced Girl Smilin, to share insights from her latest book, Who Let the Dogs Out? a hilarious and heartfelt dive into dating after divorce. Jackie brings her journey to life, revealing the complexities and joys of dating after divorce. This episode combines humor with profound insights, providing listeners with a realistic yet optimistic view of dating post-divorce. You’ll walk away with actionable advice and a fresh outlook o...
Oct 21, 2024•35 min•Ep. 395
