For this episode I sat down with Aaron Boylan, a a good friend and colleague whose gigs include teaching, acting, selling loans, and building houses. He was also an All-State football player and could take my life in an instant with his Brazilian Jujitsu expertise. Aaron was the most interesting man in the world before the Dos Equis ad campaign. In this wide-ranging discussion, Aaron uses public restroom behavior as a metaphor for manhood, explains the real reason guys love Joe Rogan, defends hi...
Jul 07, 2023•1 hr 14 min•Season 1Ep. 22
For Episode 20 I sat down with Craig Oliver , a guy I had known primarily from pick-up basketball courts and karaoke stages. He's a father of three girls, an Army vet, a fitness guru, and someone who doesn't believe in chairs. Craig has some hot takes on parenting, marriage, personal development. If you're not willing to question some of your assumptions about and approaches to being a dad, you might want to skip this one. On the other hand, if you're like me and like to be challenged, tune in f...
Apr 01, 2022•1 hr 4 min•Season 1Ep. 20
For Episode 19, an innocent negotiation with the boys about getting rid of a television morphs into a full-blown whiteboard session about energy conservation. I wasn't planning to record this, but after listening back, I was reminded of Albert Einstein's famous quote: "We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them." Spoiler alert: Dragons might be the solution.
Mar 01, 2022•19 min•Season 1Ep. 19
For Episode 18, I sat down with Phil Zaroo, a close friend and one of my favorite people to talk to, mostly because we disagree a lot. He's a father of three, an ex-liberal, ex-journalist, hater of all things U of M, and bearer of brutal honesty. We've had countless yelling matches over the years about social and political issues, but in this fatherhood-focused conversation we keep it mostly civil. Phil offers some unconventional takes on parenting, shares the raw experience of losing a parent, ...
Feb 01, 2022•56 min•Season 1Ep. 18
For Episode 17, I sat down with Moses Price, a man I don’t know well enough to call a close friend, but one who I feel like I’ve known my whole life. Among our similarities, he's a Flint native, a father of two boys, an educator, a huge sports fan, and the proud head chef in his home. In this wide-ranging conversation we explore, among other topics, the YouTube basement, raising black boys, his Flint roots, why video games get a bad rap, and the evolution of teen problems. With a name like Moses...
Jan 01, 2022•49 min•Season 1Ep. 17
For this episode I sat down with Brian Galvin (BG), a a good friend who looks like Matt Damon and also happens to be wicked smart. No seriously, he has a photographic memory. In this heady discussion, BG reveals the dude’s side of the in vitro saga, goes full Bezos on his predictions about K-12 education, presents an interesting thesis on why Michigan weather is a source of unity, and reflects on collaborations with the likes of Taye Diggs and Common. And a lot more. Some of you may recognize BG...
Dec 01, 2021•1 hr 13 min•Season 1Ep. 16
For this episode I sat down with my great friend James Boardman, a man who single-handedly forced me to change the podcast's profanity policy. James riffs on the curiously poor dental health in England, the life of a stay-at-home dad, growing up in a cult, having a winless record in arguments against his badass lawyer wife, developing flavor in the kitchen, and his spiritual death and subsequent awakening after his sister Sarah's death. James is one of the most generous, reflective, and genuine ...
Nov 01, 2021•43 min•Season 1Ep. 15
For Episode 14 I sat down with Ben Jacobs, whom I’ve known for 40 years. His folks have been second parents to me and though I can’t quite call him a brother he's definitely more than a cousin. We also share a man crush on Aaron Rodgers so I think that makes us related in some way. Ben has always been an adrenaline junkie, which explains why he was a nationally ranked gymnast and a stunt man at Disney for several years. A big kid himself, he has always loved kids and been a natural with them, wh...
Oct 01, 2021•48 min•Season 1Ep. 14
For this episode I sat down with Joe Johnson, AKA MC Schlep, one of the two good friends I made in graduate school. Joe has always been just ahead of me in most life events--getting married, buying a house, having kids, becoming a functioning adult--so I feel lucky to have learned from him. In this chat we explore, among other topics: the mindset of an East Sider; how his experience at Warren De La Salle, an all-boys Catholic school, shaped him; trash picking; bargain grocery-shopping; coaching ...
Sep 01, 2021•45 min•Season 1Ep. 13
For Episode #13, I sat down with Michigan State Senator Jim Ananich, a friend of nearly three decades. Our relationship had been characterized by tennis and basketball, using my 50% discount at Bennigan’s when we weren’t hungry, and spontaneous explosions of Dayton Family rap sessions in public. Somehow we’ve become responsible adults with children, and Jim is now the highest ranking democrat in the Michigan Senate. Thankfully he has not lost his integrity or his sense of humor. In this chat we ...
Aug 01, 2021•56 min•Season 1Ep. 12
For this episode I sat down with Sami Aljallad, an old friend and and fellow father of only boys. Among other topics, Sami discusses the joys and challenges of running a business with your spouse, how being the son of immigrants informs his parenting, and why free-range doesn’t work for him. Sami’s life moves as quickly as his brain, but he’s a true family man with a relentless focus on making a better future for his kids. Enjoy this meandering chat with the one and only Sami the Bull. Support t...
Jul 01, 2021•40 min•Season 1Ep. 11
For this episode I sat down with Quentin Barrett, a fellow thespian and father of two teenage girls. Among other topics, Quentin discusses raising girls in the age of social media, the importance of identity, and why making education a priority takes care of most problems. Quentin holds a rare combination of conviction and humility; listen to him talk and you wonder why he’s not a teacher or a preacher. I hope you enjoy this conversation as much as I did. Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/...
Jun 01, 2021•48 min•Season 1Ep. 10
For Episode 9, I sat down with the rambling Jeff Beeler, a guy who defies all convention. He’s an East Tennessee boy who would feel equally comfortable freestyle rapping with Lil’ Wayne as singing a duet with Dierks Bentley. In fact there’s a good chance he’s done both. Jeff embodies one of my favorite Emerson quotes: “Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm.” He’s an adventurer, an explorer, a guy who “sucks the marrow out of life,” and for this conversation we zero in on the struggl...
May 01, 2021•33 min•Season 1Ep. 9
For Episode 8, I sat down with my oldest brother, Peter Hughes, someone I've looked up to (literally and figuratively) for over four decades. Among topics covered: The real story on Disney, why moving weight at 4:45 am is the best way to start your day; parenting as a left-brainer, and why kids are more like sharks than monkeys. I've always admired Peter's analytical nature, his broad knowledge on a ridiculous number of subjects --we used to call him "The Peternet"-- and his unwavering love for ...
Apr 01, 2021•38 min•Season 1Ep. 8
For Episode 7, I sat down with close friend, accomplished athlete, and equally accomplished attorney, Paul Vance. Among the topics he covers: the challenges of balancing family, work, and physical fitness; the evils of the iPad; the insanity of youth sports; why it's okay to just sit silently in the same room and not talk to your wife. As always, Paul is honest, insightful, and succinct. He also happens to be one of the most loyal, stand-up guys I know. I hope you get as much out of this convers...
Mar 14, 2019•29 min•Season 1Ep. 7
For Episode 6 I sat down with my brother, David, who I’ve known since I could breathe. He’s been a mentor, a protector, a coach, a confidant, and a best friend for over 40 years. In this conversation David discusses how parenting affected his marriage, the importance of taking care of himself first, and his zero tolerance policy on social media. David also explores the limits of modern definitions of manhood and offers insight on how not to be a victim of said definitions. David is one of the mo...
Mar 01, 2019•38 min•Season 1Ep. 6
For Episode 5, TR and I fight our juvenile instincts (we did write a book about bathroom graffiti) to have an honest conversation about parenting. TR reflects on what he's okay with his kids watching on TV, why hired help is worth every penny, and how having kids has made him become a child again, but in the best way possible. Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/rory-hughes/support
Feb 10, 2019•42 min•Season 1Ep. 5
For Episode 4, I interviewed high school principal and father of three boys, Matt Rudy, to discuss the ins and outs of co-running a household of three wild animals and a dog. Matt offers practical tips on surviving the dreaded witching hour, shares the origin of his parenting mantra: "Tie a knot and hang on," and underscores the importance of routine in order to maintain some semblance of decorum in his house. Even though he's a Georgia fan, I have a ton of respect for Matt as an educator, as a ...
Jan 25, 2019•51 min•Season 1Ep. 4
For Episode 3 I sat down with my dad/next door neighbor to deconstruct his approach to fatherhood. I like this man so much I named my second son after him. My essential question: What were you intentional about when raising kids? He tends to default to the "I don't know what I did; l it was all luck" response, but I was determined to press him. Specifically, my dad talks about some of the routines and rituals he and my mom employed as well as their core values. You'll notice that although in con...
Jan 18, 2019•35 min•Season 1Ep. 3
In Episode 2 my most legitimately stoic friend Sean Galvin, who introduced me to my wife (and married us by the powers vested in him by the internet) shares his hopes and fears about becoming a dad in about 8 weeks. The one question that keeps him up at night: Should I raise my kid to be a Lions fan? Sean also shares his meritocratic process for coming up with a name (Rory is a #6 seed in the girls bracket), and his appreciation for his own father, whom he insists is "in the conversation" for th...
Jan 11, 2019•31 min•Season 1Ep. 2
In this episode, my son Samuel shares some of the keys to being a good dad, which include not doing dangerous things like stepping on dogs. He also delves into his ambitions to be a father himself and to become a bulldozer Rescue Bot . Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/rory-hughes/support...
Dec 23, 2018•5 min•Season 1Ep. 1
(produced 5/27/22) Wings to Go CHORUS Scotty dubs is a man’s man Likes smashburgers, beer, and jam bands Drives a Tundra, not a minivan Happy 40th, from your big fan VERSE 1 Let me walk you through a typical day Of Scott Alex Weinstein if I may Wake up with a snort, yank the apneia tube Rise, brew some coffee, and scroll through Youtube Algorithm’s bumpin’ with Panic shows and food Might check his texts if he’s in the mood Ebs said Thai joint opened in the Lou He’ll be there tomorrow with a cold...
Dec 01, 2018•4 min•Season 1Ep. 21
