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M R al Ain't no, it's powers love him. Everybody should love one would to another episode of the Death Fresh Show. I am your motherfucking house the Pine Guy. Wow, oh really really closes that? Tell me you really telling people your good duncast Bertie Man. You never if you listen, you never know what I might say. Speaking of that, I was traveling down an old school podcast rabbit hole and I was listening to old episodes of Hotially Awkward, Oh my God, and I realized we literally threw away our

whole still that we used to do in the beginning. Damn when did we used to do? I don't remember how it started. It was like the habitualized stepper, the voice of the voice list. It was like that, why did we stop saying that? You want to know where that ship came from? It's because everything, I feel like, everything we do, like it always has a call back to something we do. We started doing that year because it was because it came from wrestling. And remember what Paul had

had that whole spell where you would introducing him pump. It was like the voice of the voiceless. And then we was in the way made me be on like Facebook or Twitter, you know all these housing a frenzy agreeing with her, that's where it came from. We need to bring back we had about tonight's conversation. Is that what's called? Yeah, that's it made it made sense. So it's like, no, we need to go back to that. If I have the backyard of dans to do it, that's crazy

they could do. So we are here with a guest to that. Would you like to introduce yourself to my people? Hello? Hello, Hello, I am Diamond better known as Dido. Sound like she said, if you need to keep the ball to get started, she gonna put you you got to go to the back door. Second one, three times she got and she got the knockdown. What do you do in your free time, young lady? Yeah, the knockdown? Already know what's going movies? Though?

What in what you go ahead? Because bro okay, I was talking to Bianca from Purpose over Pain podcast before they got started, and I was like to be is the is the new variation of black exploitation movies from back in the days. So if you ever had the opportunity to go back and watch all these terrible ass black movies, they were all literally people in their neighborhoods

in their cities just making movies about it. Like, Bro, there's an old black exploitation movie where a barrel of cotton I talk in raw unprocessed cotton fell off the back of the truck. And because this, this big ass failed of cotton is so fucking important, because that's that's like literally uncut money. At that point, you could sell that for millions. The whole hood was going crazy over trying to find this fucking cotton. Literally, the whole

movie just nigga's going crazy over it. No, it's an old ass black exploitation movie. But now fast forward to Tub. Tub is something, but a bunch of people in Detroit got together, let's make hood movies. I'm not feel to let you call Tub the new It is black exploitation. Shut up, dog? Have you okay five already out? Have you ever watched the two by movie an actual to be original. I'm not sat through an entire to But that's part of the problem right there. You gotta you gotta

go down, you gotta go down this rappi hole. My gosh. Yeah, I don't know if I to B movie is gonna have the basic five points in their plot one, somebody's a drug dealer. Okay, there's some sense of drugs or drugs selling or drug pairing phinally or drug usage in a two B movie. It's just damn here a requirement like you can't get away from, can't get away from like literally stapling the hood. Okay. Number

two, somebody got enormous ass. There's always asking these movies. Okay, asked the ass and whether it's real, whether it's a BBL, whether it's a nice shaped a BBL. You did it right? There's asking this movie, okay. Number three. Most plot points have betrayal of it. Girlfriends on, boyfriends, best friends, guys, drug dealers on. There's some form of betrayal in every single movie. Okay. There's always a plot in these movies that results in a lesson that has to be learned at the end

of the movie. Because if I didn't learn nothing from this movie, it's not good guy. And then finally it's niggas from your neighborhood. You are not going to You are not going to find Laurence Fishburns and movies. Now you're not you know, you keep saying Marcus Houston, is he broke? I don't seeing when you start like when you got a little bit of money and then you start doing to be movies. I'm questioning that. I don't

always think that the case because old boy who played a Jamal Wood. Yeah, yeah, but I feel like he does the own purpose that worked though. Yeah, he wants swift motion here he has found his niche how do we know Marcus Houghton sing? Bro? Somebody helped me? Who is coming to a Marcus Houston? Save the last old bitches who love immature? Hear me out now? Tavin Campbell doing a concert down the street? Didn't you hear? Marcus Houston is at the riverside? Where do you think bitches are

going? Tevin? And Marcus's gonna go to Tavin? I don't know why, but they gonna go to what you just said? Campbell? Really he got at least six albums? Six albums? Six albums? And how many songs do niggas play from this nigga? All you gotta play is five? But they only play too They play five, they play can't we talk? And I'm ready? I never hear it? What's the point exactly? And

you you be outside? You be outside though you be outside the bar if you be outside, if you be outside, work at an older bar, but you didn't been to an R and B night a few times in your life. Right in the nineties mix, when you get the Tevin Campbell, when you hit Tevin Campbell in the nineties mix, you gonna get Can We Talks? Not that you shous Nigga's always in my heart? Tell me what you want me to do? Around and round good bye. He got enough

song that the old bitchiness is gonna throw the broads on stage again. Two songs, Can we Talk? Can We're Talking? They're not playing ship else from this bums Nigga, but it's not now Marcus Houston. I ain't gonna lie. I'm gonna go. I'm gonna go to that river Zaium though, because he got some little super gyms but super. But look at the age difference of what we just said. Tevin Campbell initially came out like what nineties

two thousands because his greatest hits dropped in two thousand and one. Okay, So that means that most of the people who go onto Tevin only remember Marcus Houston as little kid in the House party three and and um Roger. That's it. They want. They may not even remember the nigga made a song about don't nobody listening, No, no, nobody that I guarantee you girlfield days right now to play. The lead played I'm ready and can we talk? Then you got it? You tell you why I know they played.

They played it during the same time they probably got done playing a couple of Prints songs because Tevin Campbell basically got introduced and the Prince movie, Get this nigga out of here. You you just mad because you like Don Jones. So what cloud? No, we're not saying you're bad. We just he's a bad dude. You're a horrible person. He's a great guy. You're a horrible person. Great guy, I look great song. That's a horrible song. Hey, they say when you love someone, you just don't treat

them back. Oh how it feels us that now that I want to leave, she's crying her heart to me and how could you let this be? But I just need time to see so I want to be bars. So how is this not bar great woman? He has a woman that loved them, wants to give them the world, and it's willing to put up with his boyshit. But you say, baby, I can't be with you because I can't stop putting my dick and other bitches right because we've been together since

our teenage years. That's not the reality right now. That is why it is a horrible song. But I that's what make it worse. But I'm saying, bro, we've been together, that's on what day and the people went their daddy right together since their teenage years. He really just needed to see what was in the world. That's true, though. I could see that part too, because it's right now what now see now, here's here's the caveat to Dinelle Jumps. It wasn't. It wasn't what he said is

what he did. How do you tell your old bitch like, hey, I want to fuck up the bitches and I want you to be okay with it. And then when you see your bitch another nigga, you are not okay with that. You are like the window and the leather fucking coat in the middle of the summer crying and ship Jones. All right, they thought about it, and in time your heart will heal you like you'll be okay. Well, but he wasn't okay, But at least at the end of

the day. I want both of y'all to have this same energy. But I came back in the twenty nine because when we do the lyrical battle, I expect you, niggas I'm coming with to not to know lyrics. I'm coming with that. I know songs, niggas y'all say here played the game with me while I was high, and I knew every fucking thing. I'm just saying. I'm just letting people know who are listening to see my friends think that because I do drugs, that I'm fucking stupid. I don't understand

that why they think that. No, will I say I'm a little tape delayed. I won't lie on that, like is it like three seconds later? Cool? But I'm not done. We didn't say like the spad in the back of the classroom. I don't get it. It's really wild. It's because sometimes one if we're not having a direct conversation with you, you will say whatever the fucker and had the problem before we hit while we are here, well, I know, I know, I'm very much on here.

What guess I was telling my uncle that we had like we me and you had a sneaker beef and you didn't even know it. So this is what I told my uncle because like he like, when he know about the pie, if I don't got no slides on him, be like, you know what, you know what shoes you're going. So I've been feeling like it's like gonna put some Airmax on the day. So I sent him a picture. He was like, I thought you were the word leads. I was like, it's like, nah, man, I think I think.

I think Tone think I was some type of bit your ass nigger. He was like it you know. So I'm explaining to him why I feel this one. I was like, see tone when I do put my shoes on, tone, they see me wear some Jorgan's, I feel like because tone from that arrow with air Max was cracking. Tone think I ain't got no heat in my closet with some airbads. So I sent the picture. I was like, I'm gonna wearing some ninety fives all weekend because Tone, I

think I ain't got no motherfucker airbads. You think I was the type of bitch eyes nigg until you step into the world of the veps. Don't talk to me, says I'm not. I hate that big as air bubble until you wear that big as air bubble, I bet it's comfortable with motherfucker looks stupid. I have heel spurs. I don't put on my sketchers. You put on my vest I can't walking on clouds ab it. Do squeak a little from time to time, but I can't do I'm put on air bubble

shoes. We kind of pop one in the middle somehow. You know you're you're a young person. Do you follow what goes on on social media? I do, But to be honest, I try to stay like super disengaged. I'm sick of every time I got on social media, it's always some sad shits. Always either some sad or some overly opinionated ass argument. Joy I've never seen so many people care about other people's business and my mother. I think a lot of times some of those businesses be triggering, oh,

because they go through it in real life. They go through and they don't get the same result that they got. Like let's say Kiki and Darius for a moment, right, Let's let's just go straight to that. Okay, it's the biggest thing that happened since the last time we bought it right. So for those you guys who don't know, first of all, where the

hell you ben shit? Because we laid the topic. Unkei Palmer went to an Usher concert and Usher did what he always does, is he'll take somebody out the crowd, He'll serenade them here and there, and you know, they have their moment with Usher. Kekey Palmer happened to be the one that got chose. Because let's be honest, if you got a room full of women and you got a famous one in front of you're gonna grab you donna grab a famous one, It's gonna go viral. Okay. So apparently Keikey's

baby daddy was there with them. Darius, I don't even know this nigga last name, that's he just Kicky baby daddy right now. And there was this whole uproar about the fact that he felt a certain way about the moment. Now, the Internet when they first dropped was confused because some people thought he was upset about the outfit she had on, because once again people were projecting themselves in that situation. It come to find out it wasn't about the

outfit. It was the fact that she was looking lovely into this nigga's eyes, and she was hypnotized in the moment. So now it's like, oh my god, why are you stressing the funk out over this situation? My dog? You got so many different opinions. You got some dudes like my girl would never I would have, you know, had to whoop Usher ash in that moment. First of all, you wouldn't have, um you see what happened with Tom. You wouldn't have got pasted the security number two.

Oh look at I always have. That's that's my That's that's my story of why Usher is a villain. He's always that. You had Some people was like, but why are you mad? Your kikiS baby daddy? You want you know what I'm saying, Like you you got a baby with her already, you live a good and then you just got some folks who would just being facetious to begin with it. So let's start with your doamond, what

was your interpretation of the situation. I feel like, to be honest, it was the it was the hug, it was the dance, it was the like. But me being in her position, I guess it's just like it's ussher. That's one of the people that as in our generation, a young girl, it was like, oh, Usher, you know what I'm saying. So I feel like in that moment she really was just having fun.

She didn't mean no disrespect by it, but obviously wearing what she had on and having this new mommy sex wait wait, having this new sexy ass body and a man at home, you know, it was very disrespectful. Now in the case where people are looking at it like it's Usher, for Usher is the real villain. Usher is an entertainer. That's that's his show. So he's gonna give people a show, you know what I'm saying. He gonna give them something to remember, so to say, especially if you

have another famous person who Keikith Palmer gotta name herself. Can I ask you a question if if you got a boyfriend and this is you, do you like, do you know what? Too much is? Right? Okay? So as us should being this entertainer, right, he's only doing what he is allowed. So me being me, I probably wouldn't have did the hug.

I probably would have did a little two step with him, you know, kept it cute, kept it simple, because I know my nigga watching, but I don't know, you know when you're in a relationship and you know when you're not. He don't know that. So him just coming out as a regularized nigga doing what a nigga would do, or an entertainer. You know what I'm saying. It's up to me to be like hey, and like I said, back up, do a little two step you you know how that shit got? Okay, let me ask you this question.

Have you ever watched the Janet Jackson concert? Yes? Okay, so you know that at some Janet Jackson concerts there's a moment where a gentleman gets brought up on stage and it can be pretty intense. You you went to Jane Jackson concert with back and bakers pulled up on stage. How are you feeling about this situation? And that's literally what I had a discussion about, like with my guy at the time. Um pretty much him saying, you know,

how would you feel if it was me? And we ago? So he asked me like, you know, how would you feel if if it was me? If I got pulled up there? And I would be pissed because it's like, first of all, it's a badass bitch. Second of all, how do you be mad that Janet Jackson pulled Joe Nigga up there. You know what I'm saying, Do you let that person have fun because you know it's not gonna go nowhere. It's a more experience again, yeah,

or do you genuinely let it play out. I mean, me, as a woman, I am not insecure, So being in that moment, I'm gonna be like, get that ship back. But I'm gonna expect you to know your livings. We're not up there touching pus sy, We're not up there. Okay, That's what I'm saying. None times I said she gonna make your hands be right here, so I'm watching you get a stripped

tease without her stripping. Basically, I feel like I feel difference somewhere and when I find it, yeah, because let's not dotand between the two. Is the reason why I use Janet more so than let's take a chance of wrapper a situation is because the behavior that these niggas was going in it is as if Usher literally was rubbing his dick all on her way niggas. Okay,

here's my opinion. Like where Janet and this is different, It's like, okay, so you know when you get on stage with Janet, she gonna lay you on the board, she gonna restrain your hands and feet, and she got you at her mercy. Like you know, you can't do nothing even if you wanted to. You can't. You and this fucking you to let them tie you to fuck up. All I'm saying is you got tired up versus usher with a microphone looking at you, and then you got

your arms around me. I think that's a little different versus Yeah, I think it's different. If I'm standing there with the mic doing singing my shit and you put your arms around me. You are now touching me. I ain't didn't nothing but my job. But like I said, if it didn't, like again, I'm I'm singing with a microphone and your hands are all over me. Fam, I'm here doing my job. You are crossing lines because you're texting. Was harmless though, why you keep if it's harmless keeping

hands or something? It was very harmless, Like I want to see how I want to see how I want to see how harmless is gonna be? Only no, I think it only became something that he got like fucked up by because she looked a good asked out titties out. Yeah, now she had on some big ass grainy dress. He wouldn't care. Fact, you wouldn't give a because it's like another he liked. Oh no, my baby didn't got some She didn't got them titties. She didn't. Why are we

even why are we even here at this point? Because I feel like, shar we gonna have a conversation about all of this before you leave this house. But then did he the outfit wasn't the issue because he approved the outfit. He even was like, I ain't bitch when we get home, so everything. So if it's not about the outfit, what you bitching? Happy? She but something in life? You just got it because she wouldn't think Usher would take that vida. You know what it is. I think the

issue is not I guarantee you. His boy's got in his ear, Yes, I guarantee you. Niggas was like, hey man, you just don't let niggas all over and niggas got in the crew chatt and got the ribbon dog and that she got deep and that nigga got mad because look, he didn't even go to Kiki about it. He immediately went to be Internet about it up on his side to go to the internet as nasty work. Bro. That's yeah, it is a lot of shit niggas do. This badge

is really really sucks. Why really, Oh my god, I couldn't imagine just sitting on the Internet with a bunch of niggas I do not know discussing my butt and that's what happened. And then because really, if this wasn't a moment of oversharing, he wouldn't have been mad. He wouldn't have been mad. But because it was blasted for the world, it's because his girl was famous. Yes, that's to us because that's play attention. Like, if she wasn't Kiky Palmer, if she was just like Trakesha Palmer a third

in Oklahoma, no one cared. But because Jackson VP Kikey Palmer killing them, now it's different. Can we call it? Can we call it cheeky Palmer? Yeah, she could definitely be Cheeky cheek Palm got that ass out. Yeah, but you gotta stay on the internet with your Yeah, you can't do that. Hold on, I just didn't like to a mom, you're a mom, it's the outfit you're a mom, like, but you just posted her in a panties and brass looking fat. But speaking of two

movies, was the last two movie you ever watched? One? I don't watch. Speaking of movies, I actually finished um Um Secrets of Aside Check. I forced myself to finish it. It was terrible. I recently watch if I Can't with the guy? What did you think about? Okay? So, since we're here since lately. Okay, So for those who don't know, they're not bad movie, see Country to proper belief. They're not

bad movie. I think that because of the platform it's on and the acting is not what we're used to in big box office movies, we tend to look down on it because to me, honestly, a lot of TOOB movies a little bit better than BT movies. The people who don't always be that good. And that's you got Tyler Perry's budget on knows Hold on niggas. I'm just saying, though, but I'm saying people in BT can play these shows. Why are we shipping on two Be because it's on a free act.

I'm not saying on you, but universally we got some people like you who just won't watch a two BE movie just because they don't want to. It's to be, but to be it's starting off how bees he started, all right, and that's why we weird ass movies. If you even go on BT plus, they got a lot of the same ass. I did his actual regular movies on there too. Now, what I will say com what I will say about Toby is, whoever owns this ship, it's very

sis. This is genius to be really getting it. And I'm glad everybody's getting in on the ground floor because one day we are gonna wake up and the mother is gonna be just like y'all advocate, like, hey, bro, you should check this out. What is it? They're gonna say to be? You're gonna open your fucking phone or your smart TV and look for it to be app and that ship gonna say nine ninety nine. But that's just me real shit. But I'm not saying it's a bad thing that somebody

doing something. If they're gonna again, this is what's gonna happen. They're gonna get paid for this ship. This is what's gonna happen. Okay. Now, if you find a good, good series of movie back, you find an actor that you've kind of fallen in love with you start going down the rabbit hole and watching all the bullshit they in, because that's how I ended up on If I Can't, because Cristal the Dog, which was the

best friend who wasn't ship. She is in this, but she's also been in several other movies, including the little series The Dirty d that everybody's been watching lately, so she's in all these different been following there for a minute, then I started noticing that the main chick and If I can't Menda more. I think that's their name. Don't quote me on that. I know the first name is Menda. She's actually the one been writing all this shit.

So there's at least about ten to fifteen movies and shows on to be written by her, So off top pick ups to her, somebody on, somebody big up to her because she And what's crazy is if you look at some of these women on there, the first thing you think is some negative like another big booty beach, and it's like here it is she the writer? Yeah, and then you find out that somebody reason, it's her voice that gets me. It's the voice I love. I actually love her voice.

It's annoying that time, but I love it, but she'd be writing these roles where we have come to the conclusion she gotta die in every scene she every movie, she she kind of dies in it. This is not even a spoiler, people, not a spoiler. This is gonna die. She's gonna die. May not be season one, but I didn't see the two Jim and You're gonna die twice but uh, if I can't Actually was triggering for a lot of people. It was. It was very triggering for

a lot of people. Well spoiler for those who ain't watched it, you ain't watching the Hill, damn Fucklots about the same in every goddamn movie anyway them all. She's like kind of figure out what's gonna happen next. Um, so basically the movie and it wrapped up with the chick dating the drug dealing boyfriend. Drug dealing boyfriend basically said to so many words, if I can't have you, nobody can so if you know. But come to find

out he was actually the one who killed her first husband. He's the one who did that. But we weren't even gonna talk about that plot twist that she didn't even be tellum he literally killing he ended up killing her. Her first son who's not even his end up killing her and then copped out and

killed himself. And in Milwaukee, it's real triggering for a lot of people because over the course of the last years, we've had a lot of baby daddy's killing their baby mamas for the simple fact that they didn't want to keep putting up with your bullshit, and one who moved on, and then we've had situations where they've even gone live prior to or even during the actual killing. So for a lot of people, it triggered these memories and these thoughts

and stuff like that. And I don't think that that's what the initial reason, but the ending was supposed to be to happen because they're all the way in Detroit. They don't know what. I can't say they don't know. But I don't think when she wrote this she was thinking about what was going on in Milwaukee. Because people think that they write these movies and they've done within like three months. Sometimes it should be like a whole year, year

and a half before we even see I wouldn't. I wouldn't. I don't mind it being something that she kind of brought to the light, because, like you said, it's becoming a norm here for sure, right triggering, yes, but very much so needed to be seen. Right. But there's this light skin dude with braids like too long, too braids. Looked like he could play like light skin snoop Dog being all these movies and he damned played the same role in every movie. I didn't see him in nothing else.

Child Support. Uh he popped up on Dirty Days? Why is that? Like? Why is that the name? It gives like first forty eight captions like child Support, child there's a movie on their coffee. What see? Here's the thing. They don't make creative titles, bro Like, there's no catchy title. It's just like And I think that's why, because they don't put effort of the t so I don't think people will shit on to It's just when you hear about some shit don't even sign. But maybe people

just want to get to the point. But the reason why I bring this up is because if y'all having to pay attention my Facebook page over the course of the last week, I am going to create my own Toby movies and we are. I would like for you too. You just want to be in broken Blunts and bad bootleg. I want you to make it too more and you just want to reside you check from heaven can't Heaven's a call. I just would like for you to live your dream that for him only the

guy you want to be in them. You know I'm not gonna let my boy. I didn't say that I didn't want to be in there. I just I love that he's passionate about this filling. So my question for both of you guys is if you were able to create, if I wrote a two B movie right now, what do you think your character in the movie would be. I don't know. I got to own an off switch. I could need to be the lawyer that gets you out of your ship, or I could be the ghetto ass baby mama. Why can't you be a

ghetto ass baby mama who happens to be a lawyer? See, that's to be type ship that strip at night? What you gotta pay for college? Somehow, it's always a twists, always a twist to it. Nobody is directly what they like. The lawyer. You're a ratchet baby mama. That's a paralegal. Ain't you stripped at night to pay for your bar exams? That's where we're going. That's where we're going. Bro. Wow, I don't even know how you even form a movie around not think about it.

Bro, there's always got to be Lawyer's Club, Like, what are we doing here? This drug dealing? Ain't be Daddy got got busted at the club because that's where they had the dope back in the liquid cocaine and My Poehead and all these movies. You picking your role. I'm saying that honestly, if you the pihead, you might die first. It's not a Horvie Nash. But if I'm making it to be horror movie too, I don't think I would be more. I don't want to. I don't want to

be in niggause I'm my god. But unless I'm nigga's been saying I was a serial killer year, I think my perfect debut. Did you watch the Block yet? Well? Where can I find it? Uh? I watched it online? But it is digitally somewhere. Yeah, no, no, you probably got it. It's probably a Prime video. Yeah, it might be on Prime or Max. If it's under ten bucks, it's actually kind of good, kind of good. I like it. If it's over ten bucks, I wait until they put that shot Shulman service. I packed it

might already be in a stream. I thought I was gonna pay twenty dollars to watch fucking Michael B. Jordan Create three. Never I didn't even watch Create three. Yeah, I think it's on Hulu. Now it's it's problem. I was like, I will wait until this is free to watch this big nigga knock y'll ass to fun out to a movie. Watch it, because you can't watch to be all the time. You gotta take a break from t B. I'm not gonna lie. I like stars maybe having some

gems, and I like Paramount play sent has gems. Yeah, where's your favorite movie? What? Oh? Okay? Okay with that? I like thee But then the other one say why why I love Bernie mag Okay, that's what it was. Funny as and fun fact two fun facts in one so fun fact number one my dad used to look just like Bernie mac fun fact number two to day is his birthday, and he would have been sixty five. Who's birthday? My daddy? Dare we still get colapping off the

phone every birthdaby? If you have any day I don't know, don't make it weird bro. His movie has to be told. Yes, it is. Movie has to be told. I have to write his story. Action. We should do a superhero movie too. He's the world ready. I always wanted to be an action movie. It's the world ready for a black another black superhero movie. Yes, yeah, but I feel like because we like Adam Was, I feel like when I say black, I'm talking like

meteor Man. Yes, because you gotta remember, we're making it on too be so it's to be great. I feel like we gotta be the contradiction to the Justice League, the Negro Justice League. Yeah, but just like it's a like a parody superheros people all black people and just yeah, just like parodies. I gotta figure that out. Yeah, I gotta get around licensing. Yeah. You just think of some terrible fucking superheros and they only

for the hood, only for the hood. Like you know, I feel like if we had a speed nigga, he would only be fast when it came to running from like the police literally or some type of guns. Yeah, like if you got a pistol. Yeah, yeah, I said, you would be an You want to be an action what what would your action movie look like? Like? What kind of action are you in? Like taking? Are you in like John Wick? Like? What are you an? A Mortal Kombat issue movie? I don't know. It's kind of given

Proud Mary trash, but I want to see. I'm sorry, not it's not for me. I want to see. It's probably Mary like a black taking where they took her kids and then she not really Probably Mary is more like assassinish, like she assassin. She's an hour and a half AGP walking around with this big guys Nicol played at four or five shooting motherfuck? Is that's what this movie is? You didn't miss much? Apparently I missed a lot. Trag P is not not not. You will not talk about the

ghetto queen. I love her. It's one of those things because she came from Jeldy baby Mama. No, it's just certainly no was. It's certain people you just can't see doing certain things in movies, Like how she mentioned Black Adam that wasn't the Rock being a superhero like I was. He was right, he was the Rock minus the actual good catchphrases. Yeah, like if he the slid a Jabroni candy ass we might as well have been on Monday Night. So it's like and you look at him like, damn,

I can see the rock be a superhero. Then when we got it, I was like, he shouldn't be a superhero ever again. Nah, I'm cool. Rowe Yeah, because she had did two came like smaller roles in two thousand and nineteen ninety eight, but baby Boy was literally where we really her first starting out, start starring as a star stress. Soon mis Diamond, are you single? Diamond is single? I don't like how you said that the third person, Diamond is single? So do you have someone else

in the bag that's not so? Diamond got him to speak. Next week she got Ali I love her, but she got to relax as she do. She is recruited. You cannot hit everybody with the hey I have a podcast. You just can't do that. It wasn't the podcast. Okay. Actually she caught me and she was on live and she was like, come get in my live. Are you single? And yeah, that's what I'm talking about. That's how she got it. It was like just jumped out.

Women be too comfortable around other women, asking women questions like I get it. You shell as a as a peaceful person, she's not. But just logically thinking out loud. If everybody just talked like that, niggas will be locked up. Yeah, just as a man. I don't think I could she approached as a nigga. I could never do that. It was very woman friendly though, because comparison what we were talking about earlier, saying how women approaching women and they don't it's a mug or it's you looking funny

or like, No, she embraced me. She's like, oh, your outfit is cute, like you know, So it was more welcoming. Now, if she was like, oh, hey, like you single, it would have been like why like that kind? But she was very welcome. Is like a walking carson. Yeah. It maybe want to be like, oh wow, what's up? Yeah, she just likes as soon as she's saying, hey, I just feel like you're about to sell me, so like a sleazy mused call, like a sleazy use car sale. And what

have you seen that you conversation about that? I would buying in a heartbeat. My god, Oh my god, what it's lovely? That really? That really what drew you to it? And might you're not wrong because if this is that was the second thing. If this is what's approaching me? Whatever you if you you wash you and shell and shit and you look like that and you invite me to it must be other people that look like exactly.

Gotta be other people that look like get niggas the comedies things, because they'd be like kinda be more people she like, she like one of those. Uh, how can you describe it? Like if you was the fault off a spaceship and bo and she's the first person that agreed you to be like it. Gotta be more, y'all a somewhere take me? And I never saw her like good ship? And I was like, Am I wrong? Am I wrong? This is how I describe things. Man, that's

your friends. This is my friend friend. You wrung her to our world. Are you blaming me for the positive or that she shines you? Shine your life podcast check it out all the time. Yes, because God is good. They gotta bring positivity into your life. I do you are? I know I brought somebody else. I was positive, you know, grand rising to the people ze, I'll be blessing you. I'll be bringing positivity

to her more than she break it to me. But she definitely definitely can can turn a frown upside down definitely, but what else you got on the doctor ton um interpretation? Interpretation? Interpretation? Recently, social media has like sign interpretation. Sometimes I'd be careful notw before you summon an evil spirit. You're watching another animal. Hey, it's just but yeah, we walk outside and it's ten foot all NEGGI people fan, you need to stop watching the

tack on t That's what I was like. I walked in bro Romo, like like, what is this. It's like, it's a tackle on just like now, this is why you don't think it's weird, right, But again, the anime culture, I respect it. I don't get it, but that's your back with whatever's your back is your back. I like wrestling and people will still be like, hey, you know it's fake. That is my biggest man peeple people actually do. I still watch wrestling and they're

like, you know it's fake. No ship some of that shit, don't be fake. It's not. It's predetermined. Yeah. I used to be into it more than I have Now Now I do kind of feel like it's like, y'all just get it is a soap opera and all the rock and all them. I was like I'm so sick. He beat his ass of every woman who said that you to watch wrestling. It always circles back to the Rock, and it does. Damn it was other niggas that was there.

Yeah, but this is the watching the darkness. He's super relevant now. So that's why I just said him just saying because relevant. It's funny because you name You're not gonna looking at me like the Undertaker. Nobody's thinking about him right now. Yes, let me don't do it. But I know what you want to do. But I can't let you do it because

we just got on. Don't put your feelings on the internet. I was going to say, you name two cats who I would say, it's funny because the two cats with the reason why you watch wrestling, there's younger versions of them right now and making wrestling the greatest thing ever. And that lustfulness that you used to have for the Rock guarantee you and I like girls. This nigga Roman is gonna have you even weather pause. I had to say,

why do we not have you? No? I like girls. I know you like girls, but I have no good you talk to any mom goodall is a good ball. How many times that we talk to women who do watch wrestling, and that's the first nigga they bring up every time. He is relevant, and he is fine, and he still got his youthfulness. You wouldn't need long as slash. I would imagine that thirty eight year olds still have a youthful. But no, one don't. Don't. We're

not gonna do ages them. Ye he's thirty eight. Enough conversation going on the group chat right now. My old niggas not being relevant, man, My old niggas just ain't. But wrestling is different about relevance either, like life, you are here today, gone tomorrow. So interpretation, where would you get in with that? So lately is this more like people reading the room? We're getting there? So lately the Internet has been black. Internet

has been the frenzy because the AI have shook up the world again. Recently, a new AI application came out called The REMANI depends on how you say it, where they have literally are taking your face and putting you on different bodies and making people look beautiful. Because I'm not gonna lie to you. That blue suit on me, A'm fucking sexy. I want to say fucking sexic your your your you put your AI pictures on the screen for the world

to see. We got that kind of technology, sure, because you look like you look like the black James Bond, And I'm cool with that. But I think what really started getting me irritated because first of all, I already know that all these AI software are leading to something else down the road. Eventually you're gonna get some form of identity fraud that's gonna happen because of it, because it's getting a little bit too advantage. The AI is gonna

get smart and take over the world like we always expect. But I think my thing is is niggas on the Internet don't know how to not take shit

personal. Like I was minding my business scrolling through seeing all my friends with the AI photos, and then in the mix of it, I've seen someone make this extremely long post talking about all these AIS is fucking up people's perception of self imagery and and they're making you thinking that you're supposed to be at a certain standard of beauty because everybody is skinny, and and then and then now you're starting to have self doubt because if you are a big person and

now you look like this, you still like you ugly, and I'm like, always there's always one woke nigga on the internet. Nobody, nobody that I know who's been using the AI, sits here and says, oh damn, I need I need something. I need to change who I look. I got a lot of people like my skinny folks. It look like a regular photo to them. My big people. We end up having big heads and small bodies because we big people like you, like an extra and fucking

James Bond movie, Like my neck? What is this? But it was? And I'm like, y'all got me next to these unrealistic Why couldn't get trucking something next to the Ferrari Oh shit? Because the way the imagery look it was never meant for it to be realistic. Like people were freaking out because they were allowing you to put your face on a baby's body or d aging you. It's like, have you not watched Marble movies? They've been had d aging technology. You know, whole Captain Marble movie was done in

the nineties. You know, Nick still don't know where they got that Blockbuster storefront they use the last one in the country. I think it's in Seattle and blew that motherfucker. They're still a blockbuster out there. Some people still it in dvdsis some people do not. Everybody wants to move into the one old people don't like change. Now some change. You just gotta get what you No, you don't gotta get with all the changes. But some of

the changes you change. They and that's why they are always the ones calling and call centers. Plus all right, bro, like some shit you just like if you still got a VCR, family, all right, get get give it a fucking rest man. They eventually upgraded the DVDs. I mean, shit, you ain't got to add a stream of services, but goddamn it the VCR. Bro, I had a VCR. Had you still got one movie? Certain movies, the whole it was a whole TV and it had a VCR. But I still had tapes and shit, So I was

like, all right, like some tapes. Some movies were better on types. Prime example, I use your Share as example, the original Star Wars the six seven and eight that's six seven eight, No, four or five six, my bad, four or five six. They changed it like five or six times. So unless you have a tape from when it first came out, you wouldn't see all the changes that happened into it, all the extra ship that kept getting changed over and over again. So for some people,

having those tapes is literally like printed gold. You don't want to get rid of it. And then my grandma right, and you're growing up in the Nickelodeon eras, man, you're not gonna tell me you're not gonna have some joy when you've seen that orange VHS tape because you knew exactly what that movie was. Facts and Wild Thornberry, Oh yeah, yeah, yea, all three of them, All three was the orange tape. So you go by granny house and Granny found your orange tape. You know you was gonna

have a good time. So if you're going to sit here and watch rug Rats, yeah you could go on a streaming service and watch it, but it didn't hit the same as putting that VCR tape in there and getting pissed off because somebody rewands your tape, so you didn't get a chance to be where you left off. That. I feel your nostalgia stalgia makes a lot of people do a lot of shit at baby Daddy. Now now you're talking about me, Why why? Why do bitches go back to the nostalgia.

You want that whole thing back. I mean like that. Let me ask you a quick how long were you what you make dad? The first time y'all broke up before? I ask the baby before? How many times after y'all broken up? No, I'm not gonna say broken up. That's taken it too far. Took a break. I feel like the us before the

baby had different stipulations. So I just like how you dancing around. So it's like we wasn't breaking up. We only really broke up once and then it kind of just staying up. The shortest distance between two things is a straight line. Okay, I just okay a break up. We're still broken up? Okay, but I gearing how old is this baby? Now? I have other courses now too old and not child. They're usually under five. And you know when they what they said when he won, you ain't

done. I'm just kidding. No, no, hold on, hold on where we're getting ready? So this is like fresh, This is just very fresh. This reason this just happened. Things wanting some change in March. Let's talk about your breakup. Yeah, it was like last year October, So y'all ain't really broke up. Oh yes we are okay, so he got a chance to do right, right and right, Like you ain't completely

saying. So if you go let's say you go to the Okay next week and you meet a guy, you want to entertain that guy, you know you have to go through the whole entire process of getting to know somebody, getting comfortable with them, seeing where they had as the whole dating process with purpose. Right at the end of the day, your baby daddy, I hate that work child's father. Y'all broke up because he did something wrong or did you do something wrong? Right? I was gonna say, what if

it was me? No, it was definitely some wrong doing. Okay, there was some wrong doing. So let's just say during this time frame he matures whatever things that he wasn't doing, he fixed, He get himself together, he got better stability. Now he's good. You got this great guy who you're building something with, but you got this old thing who now got itself together. It's like an episode of love it or listed. I got

the brand new house that does everything got need. But if you just fix these couple of things that's wrong with the house I'm living in, I'm not moving. Damn, that was a really good metaphor that shit just used right there. That's what we do, right I know that's right, breaking up, but you're not let to help you to go back, And that's what let's that's going back to what me and Kendall was just talking about, Like I told her, in this day and age right now, I want the

house, I want the family, I want the big backyard. But it's like it just seems so fucking our fast. It seems so unrealistic in this generation right now, like we were best friends before any of this, And to be honest, I feel like after the baby, it either makes or break y'all as a couple or as friends, as co parents, as whatever

the fuck you know what I'm saying. And y'all right, for sure, it is hard to you know what I'm saying, you when you want something, especially when you have a child with somebody, if it's not something that's just a one night stand or just like you know, you've known this person, y'all love each other, y'all have been together. You expect more out of the situation. And I think that's where I went in wrong. I felt like it was supposed to be this big fairy tale that we always talked

about. You're not wrong for that, but I always tell because I tell one that's almost every year we grow old, because we ten years apart in age. Right, So I'm a whole age bracket above this, nigga. And you start to go up, there's gonna be certain things that you're just not gonna give a fuck about no more. And as you get older and you start giving a fuck less about unnecessary shit, the regular shit starts to become more important. Right now, you gotta sit in the age category.

We're settling down is on nobody's mind. God, nobody should be wanting to settle down between twenty one in like twenty seven. But a lot of y'all come into y'all twenties ready to some of us, some of us as women though that's all we see from our mom. So you got some people who, you know, they get this housely housewife mom who taught them this, this and that. Then you get this other one who's like, I don't

give a fuck what time you come in the house. You've grown. They fucking they ended up pregnant, not saying it like that's the only statistics but you get what I'm saying, Like more so it's coming from what we see as women growing up from kids, Like you know, I saw my mom. She never bashed my dad, even when hearing him were on bad times. She never talked shitbo about him. She never wanted this image of they were into it for us, you know what I'm saying. I've always seen

them love each other, no matter if they were together. So me growing up and having him as a baby daddy or the father of my child, now that was my best friend. So I try to go yeah, yeah, both. So I try to go into it knowing like, Okay, even if this shit don't work out, we have to still remain how we

used to be. Like I because not only was that what I saw, but you know, I saw my mom being like wifely, being wifely, you know, but being a hard worker, always at work, you know, but always trying to make time, always trying to you know, make sure we were straight, but always still trying to include him. And I feel like me seeing a lot of those things became something that like, oh I want to do that, which is great. I want to be like

that at your age. That's a rare mentality just banging age. I'm not saying that there we do, we should have more like that. But then let's flip the coin on an up de side with him. Has he seen that kind of adultness going on prior to before y'all crossed that line, Because I think his story is definitely completely different from mine. I will say that, and that could change the narrative of him appreciating what you're trying to present

at this younger age, because in his mind, I'm twenty something. I'm not saying that I was supposed to go out here and fuck everything under the sun, but I gotta go out here and figure out what adult team looked like for me. Because he may want the big house and all that stuff, but he may want to start off with apartments first. He may want to have roommates with his guys and live that wild boy life first, to

get that all out his system and then settled down. You know, not everybody wants to be in a relationship first, because twenty years from now at you're only forty six forty seven at that point, and now here you are forty six forty seven, Like I don't want to be in a relationship no more, because I stout on so much, so much, you know what I'm saying. But I'm a fine believer, and if you know, you know, like, don't get me wrong, I'm gonna keep it a hundred.

I can do both. I can go out do me, talk to a bunch of niggas, go on a bunch of dates, funk who I want to fuck, talk to I want to talk to. But I can also really lock in. I feel like sometime men use that as a cop out, because when you know, you know, when you want to be with somebody, you're gonna make sure you do what's necessary to keep them. Now, let me ask you this question. Does he know that you'll always be there for him? Sadly yes, And that's another reason why he moves

the way he moves. Because I can go out here, Daniel Jones, I still got lushed inside of me. So I'm gonna go out here and fuck all these bitches, but I'm not gonna hurt you on purpose. I'm gonna suck all these bitches, but I need you to say exactly where you are, so when I'm done sucking these bitches, we can go and be the family we're supposed to be, right, when I gotta get I gotta get this funk off. You gotta get these fucks off. I need you

to not have anybody else. So he keeps being your friend, and he keeps being a great co parent. He keeps presenting himself in the way of things that you love about him, so you'll never let the love for him diminished down so someone else could step in and actually love you like you're supposed to be. I've definitely sabotaged a couple, and I know you have bombs and experience that me actually liking a man I'm talking about, like, yes, he's the one, and then my baby daddy calling, I'll be like

you said, come outside. That's crazy, he said, come outside. That's why I ain't got no girlfriend. But I'm keeping a huney. I've never just crept off, like if I'm really fucking with somebody, you know what I'm saying, it only becomes me entertaining. I guess my baby daddy when the person who I didn't try to invest his time, man, it's like it's always something and I think that's what while we go back to our comfort, because here it is out and invested all his time to you.

Now we're talking about meeting kids. Now we probably didn't have sex or whatever the case may be, and you turn out to be a fuck nigga, why wouldn't I go back to my own But here's my question, is your fear of him possibly being a fuck nigga actually stopping you from even experience in

life? Because if you, if you, if you go through all the stages of the dating phase and you find out like, Okay, I really want to be more with this person, and then all of a sudden, baby daddy pops in with the usual bullshit enough to get his foot through the door, and now you didn't let this dude go or he was like damn, I really want to be back with my baby daddy. But I like

this dude. Are you finding reasons to label him as a fuck nigga to run out the situation so you could go be with your baby daddy with no problem? Of course? Not, of course not, because to be honest, I, like I said, it's to the point where me dealing with somebody, I'm open to know what I'm saying, it going wherever you need to go. Like at this point, yes, yes, I love who

I love, I want who I won't. But it's like us as women period, we get caught up trying to wait around for what we love or trying to wait around for a motherfucker to get right or to but it's like, no, you gotta get left at this point. And it's just like I don't know, I know what comes with my baby daddy. I trust him, I trust some of the moves that he makes. But when you go out and you start trying to put that trust in other people, it's

sad to say, but they always show you why the fucking shouldn't. And that's why it's not even me trying to like, oh, let me try to put this label on you so I can have a reason. No, I'm to one hundred, like I'm gonna tell you upfront, like, but niggas don't how to do that. They don't know how to be like, this is what it is, this is what it ate. I'm going to tell you because I don't want to lead you on. This is what it is, this is what it's not. Now I've definitely me and my baby

Daddy stopped working with each other. We were both talking to other people like everything, here's your baby. You know what I'm saying, it's not like it's not possible. But in the dealings where yes, we probably start back talking there, we probably start back working around. Of course, I'm like, okay, drop everybody all over again, you know what I'm saying, Like it kind of just going in phases where I'm not talking to him while I'm talking to somebody else. Not at all. That's why I don't date.

You don't date because right so, I was gonna say there's nothing wrong with dating as long as I mean, I can't even say as long as you so you want personally have slid into your comfort zone. You are like a great pair of house slippers. Okay, you come home, you do your normal routine. It is what it is. In order to bring a relationship into your comfort zone, you have to not only make space for that person to ficken your comfort zone, but you also have to change a few

things that you do to do it with them. You have to go out and enjoy the world from their perspective just as much as you want them enjoy the world from your perspective. And even though you may like eight things that this person does out of a list of ten, those two things will make you not want to lock it in because those two things, as they are, will bother the fuck out. It depends on what those things. You say that now you can't as those two things become bigger and bigger, and

that will be your cop out to get out. Yeah, it really depends on what these two things is, because I don't want you to be seen here trying to make it seem like I'm just this irrational because I'm not. I didn't describe you as a direct believe it or not. There are a lot of people like that. That's I was just gonna say a lot of people like that. You won't love, but you won't love on your terms,

and you don't want to compromise what those terms are. In order to get love from the perfect person from you, you got to compromise a few things, and you don't want to comp I feel like if you got a list of ten things and I hate too, I gave you ain't there was no compromisation on that. But those two things can be nails that just get in my hands like Jesus, and that got me five bucks. I appreciate that that nigga's changing and he just let it slip. Fight say he can't

hold money the same as life, nigga can't hold water. It's definitely a lot of people as to keep back the water. Like I do want to find love. I do too, but it's it's not it's not just loved however it happens. I'm why people say that. It's plain to me why you feel like you can't find love and love got to just find you. Because the reason being is the way society determines what relationship, Socialization, personal social media, all these different things create walls and barriers that we put up

that makes us not even want to give people the opportunity. So if we go out looking for love, we're looking for a specific thing with specific entities of a specific ways supposed to look. Our list of ten just went through my mind. Yeah, and then when these ten are not met, we automatically assume this person is not for us. But when you throw the list out the door and just enjoy life and enjoy the individual, you tend to find out people who love you dearly are right in front of you, plain

and simple, and you just gotta give that the opportunity. Because a lot of times and you brought up something that's I think that a lot of people need to do more, but we refuse to do that. It's sometimes we gotta date our best friend. Sometimes don't not your bestie. It's completely different.

But you to start making your maybe your friend first. And that's why I think I said that shit about the whole going back, because when I say going back, and don't necessarily mean that me and my baby daddy'd be back fucking or are we back trying to be in a relationship, but it'd be more so like we're back kicking it, like how we used to and enjoying each other company and enjoying each other president end of the day, for

y'all, it can never be back to the way it was. Facts number one, there was a whole relationship in between there and then kids involves not even gonna get there yet, cold cotton right now, Okay, Uh, there's a whole emotional connection that you guys have. You have legitimate history. So there's the friendship stuff that you did, and then there's the things that

you guys actually did together. You know, things you guys actually did together will always cause problems and how the friendship party view because even the relationship wise, he may be over here, you may be over there. You're gonna always get reminded that, well, this out right here does ABCD. When I was with him, he did this and that. So if this person does something that reminds you of a positive or a negative, this person can

be penalized simply because it reminds you of your friend. Or if you see your child's father moving in a direction that you always wanted him to be in, you're gonna gravitate and that love is gonna build back up to the service again, and you're gonna want to give it a chance again because he's now

projecting what you wanted him to be all to begin with. So there's always gonna be this conflict and then, let's be honest, Starting a new relationship can be very tricky exactly because you have to tell the man that you are dating or woman sexual logic and spectrum that you're dating. You and your baby daddy co parent like a boss, and y'all still kicking, y'all doue family things together, y'all still hang out. And then they'll be like, well,

how long it's been since you too broke up? Oh, about eighteen months. That's gonna send the nigga flying right away because you have to build the relationship with this new person and in the back of their head like, we damn what you're doing this weekend? Oh nothing, I'm just you know,

I'm at home and whatnot what you're sucking him did? Even though that may not be the cause y'all may not have touched Private Parson two years wrong, but it's the fact of the possibility that that thought is always there and the actions that match with how y'all move will give that person that inception of a thought no matter what, and you could just be really comparing it like a boss. M So right now you're gonna have issues unless you get a

nigga who don't We don't care. I mean that's where all of my shit goes, honestly, Like I can dead as be vibing with it, motherfucking it. Don't be me. It'd be like, oh, you're still cool with him like that, y'all be talking like that, or I really had a nigga tell me, like, you know, I'm scared to love you because I think he's gonna go back to you know, he's not wrong to

feel that way, but you gotta respect him. Enough to put that out there, because now by him putting that on the table, he's allowing you to either a prove him right or prove him wrong. The ball is now in your big on reassurance s though. I mean, I'll try to give it to him, but it's like he only seen one way, so I'm not gonna try. Still. It's the same issue about when the chick who wants to date the guy and he says, I got kids, and they asked him how old this kid is and the kid is under three? Oh,

you you still fucking your baby, mama. I can't date you with no proof of whatsoever. They literally immediately draw that conclusion and end the date right then and there because they feel like he's still fucking her and that is not the case. At the same time, people are gonna grow up. That's true. But look, that's why I said, look at the age category. She said. I'm not saying that there's not niggas mature in her age group, but that number. If I got a baby and me and

her don't, we don't jam like that no more. But my kid is a year and a half. Put me in this bitch, won't jam like that? No more when I tell you that I got a baby mama and my kid is a year and a half. Apparently in this relationship that is done with that wounds still a little fresh though we're still there. It ain't been along that it's gone. But at the same time, you gotta be mature when you meet me, and I laid this out for you that don't

hit me with you. Don't hit me with that. Oh you still talk to you? Yeah, man, this bitch gotta comparing. It ain't even like that. Would you like to come with me when I dropped this little crumb snatching my fucker off? Would you like to be there when this bitch bring me my kid? Like whatever makes you comfortable. Women, that's gonna be a little bit different because women are emotional. Niggas gott to grow up too, I feel you. Women are emotional. So for no reason whatsoever,

you could be moving on with your life. You could actively have started day and that woman is going to be a problem to your child's mother, your mother's child, your baby mama for the simple fact that there's another woman around her kid. Because the thought process that down there's a mother over here who could possibly mothering better than I am, I automatically have a problem with this woman. Don't know nothing about this up. Then number two, let's

let's look at the other side of the woman dating you. Now, what is your relationship with your yo yo baby mama. You might be in your head, I'm done with this bitch. This bitch is crazy. But this bitch could be crazy because she's still in love with you. This bitch is doing all this wild, stressful ass shit to you because all she wants you

to do is come home and love her. So I'm gonna put you on child support because I know by you being on child support, it's gonna cut into your finances and you financially can't survive being a single man trying to still help out with your kid on child support. But if you come home, I take you with me support. Listen, I feel like it all becomes a movie fast fast. It all becomes the thing of at the end of

the day, the man put his foot down. If you have a baby mama, or multiple baby mamas, or a girlfriend, and you know that that's what it is, a motherfucker gotta be able to set the record straight. I shouldn't have to wonder about your baby mama as the baby mama, I shouldn't have to worry about your girlfriend. Like the minute he period, but the minute he put his foot down, the minute he showed he's a fun it. Only it only becomes that if he's still fucking his baby mama.

But the minute he puts his foot down and he be a man, I thought, you're gonna suck your thumb, I'm like, And the minute he put his foot down and he showed it he a man. She wants them even more. Now you a real man. Now I had a boy back then when we had kids, But now you grew into a man. Now I want my man that you didn't become. No, no other bitch is gonna have what I helped build is the mind stake. So now she

becomes this. This is why I will personally be in jail. Well I didn't have kids, I would snatch her motherfucker album comitely, I b one crazy bitch and that bitch you got a whole bunch of kids and all the type of baby daddies and kids. One could you be a woman with multiple kids thirty thirty five? It's possible, depends on depends on the age of your children. If you're thirty five, that means to have an eighteen year old. She had to be sucking at like seventeen eighteen, right, which

is understandable. I can get that. So I don't guess she wasn't sucking at twelve. If she was sucking at twelve, I didn't check her mental because she may not have been willing. We twitter stable have. Really, I really need to check your mental. But that comes with the game. If that's got a lot of girls in trouble, are you a little pets? That's not answering the question. You can't just laugh because you ain't see

me up a little shout. Okay, but eight kids, stuff, I mean, I mean, if that's the game I want to play, then that's the game I'm playing. She checks off all ten of your boxes. Okay, eight kids. See that's that's that one box that I'd be like, that's that's that's questionable. That box being though it's a big that's not a box that that's a fat ex bandage all sections though, So that box is still okay. Man, I was talking about the box off the piece

of paper, eight kids, I know it's fire. Somebody thought that should fire eight times so I know it's good. I know it's good. It's it's a one exceptional like you know, you go to these little restaurants, he little helpers, back to board or that. Hey plus plus. I'm just saying, I know it's fire. So the bedroom, the bedroom is a plus plus. She can work her magic and anything else. Financially,

she didn't learn how to juggle money like a boss. So you coming into the equation literally just makes the makes life less stress Gonna flip these she gonna flip this account like they flipped, make it less stressful. Okay, but you gotta remember bro stepping as a step dad. You can't just buy one pair of Jeorgans. Don't drop that moneyga, you cut to buy ten. That's true, but crazy one drops with you niggas. But again we talk.

We got to talk about the aid. That is true even okay, because if you if we're talking eight at thirty five, right, realistically, you got some, you got some seven, you definitely got some under ten, and you got some over the age of seven day. Okay, so let's just say four of them, keep it realistic. Half of them are over fifteen, the other half are under. So you got some semi some some small back talking adults in here because that teenage year is rough. Remember,

Noah, I don't want to be your daddy half ground. We can bargain what you gonna do the first time? Were you tweving that we can bargain, like like, did you do your chores? If you did your chores, you know, if you're doing your ship lead not to drop day, you're gonna be good because I know I'm gonna have my money, and I know I'm gonna have everybody else money who wear a decent little kids size. But you big feet niggas, y'all washing dishes, taking out garbage,

right, aren't your kid? You gotta get whatever you want? What you're gonna do The first day you come home and you found out that sixteen year old, don't worry your jays to school, oh my god, because you know that's gonna they're gonna. I see like you talked to him and he said he had to get a swag up at school because kids was picking on him. But now if he your what sauce did you really have in my shoe? If you're choking your fucking ankles, that's your step dads step in

where is the sauce you got? I gotta put you off. He borrowed your oreos? Oh my god, No, you gotta have them. I ain't never wore, not the worry else. I just said that because I know the shoes he don't fuck with. Yeah, okay, let's say. Let's say. Let's you got luck my cool grounds. I got lucky. You caught the North Carolinas man, I don't give my don't get my imaginary kid down North Carolinas though he came home Laska. Dude, I put your shoe. Fan. Once you put your friend in my shoe, you gotta

have it yours. They don't say that out loud because then they just really start mbling. Shit, don't put your fucking fee in my shoes. That's nice. What about you? You find a guy, awesome guy, sweetheart, Everything going good, financially stable, house is nice, car, two cars, two cars in his garage, living life good. But you find out he got six kids. That's not a deal Brecord for me. As long as he take care of his kids and he take care of me,

baby, we're good. And when I say take care of me, I'm totally speaking past financials like make sure, I'm straight, but like I said it, dude, depend on the age because now I'm the woman. You don't know how these women have you? You twenty six, so he twenty seven with six kids though, so all his kids baby maximum under team,

I'm not gonna lie. Still really not a deal breaker. It's not a deal breaker because it's so fucking rare that you're gonna find a nigga without a pass and that past is gonna conclude kids crazy, here's where we are. Here's where everybody misses the key words on like Facebook. So kids is not a deal breaker. It's the adjective that you put both four kids that were making them a deal breaker, like badass kids. You know, I don't

even mind him bad keep it a book. A lot of the times you have a lot of bitter situations that are making them be bad where the mama like don't know that, ain't like mamma and talking shit kids. You know you as a mom, though, give a take a dad, you were you a part time dad? You don't know? The end is announced of everything. I see you on the weekends, holidays and when you with me,

your your shit together, you in check. I don't know what you do at home, especially if your mama don't call me to be like, hey, whipper's ass or some shit, but you should. I'm just saying, no time, I feel you as a mom who have your kid all the fucking time, you know where your child is a little a little too much, you know, when that nigga a little out of hand. I feel like that only get disclosed if me and you really working on the relationship

and we are actually moving forward to get somewhere. If you know I'm from the met cho Keys, yeah, you should probably let me not heytt, little fock's a little while, ye like, so I just know what I'm doing when I come in the crib, Like, do I need to keep my hands in my pockets? Is this little nigga a little pickpocket? What

the fuck kind of time? Bertie beyond you know what I'm like, I don't like because I don't want you to go like, oh, you know, we'd be chilling and you step out the room and you come back and had a hard tied and pushed him in his fucking throat because he keeps fucking round that there's no one but I'll definitely fuck your kid up. But I mean. At the same time, though, you also dating someone with kids can be difficult because what the kid. The kid knows how to manipulate situations

too. So like you and your child's father, y'all could be super cool and your kid only one. But let's just say you start dating here, your kid is five or six, and because they want mommy and day to be back together, they misinterpreting your new boyfriend friend or they presenting your new boyfriend as a horrible person. And now these these stories and things are being created about dude. That's not true. That is true. So now you, as as the mother, is stuck in a situation where you have to

do you believe your mate or do you believe your child. But that comes back to me saying, at the end of the day, kids soak up everything. So I'm not gonna be around my kid saying shit that's gonna make him even think that me and my baby daddy not good. You know what I'm saying, Even on bad terms, even on the worst of the worst, I am always going to show him that, No, I'm not thinking like we're together, but we're a family. I'm gonna show you we're a

family. We're all one at the end of the day when they're around, Mommy and Daddy back together though, But how what what? What is back together like? Is I would have to be around him saying something to have him with the persona of back together. Right now, when he sees us, he just sees a mommy, a daddy. He we don't really know the correlation right now, but obviously he knows about five. Yeah, obviously he may white white movies. No, but he right though, because to

be honest, it is a lot of kids who do that shit. But he watch many movies. But you right though, that shit right though? No bullshit because I felt that way too though, But it wasn't when I was five, I was like ten. Sometimes I was like ten though, I did want my dad and your mom and dad has been together for majority

of your life. Then all of a sudden, you may not know why daddy got to move out, but then you don't like the fact that daddy house ain't got shit in it because Daddy got to start from scratch, and Mama walking around the house depressed because she doing everything on her own. Then all of a sudden, Mama finally meet somebody's like, hey, I want you to meet my friend Richard here, and you don't like Richard. Richard ain't this shit to you. He brings you give, he bought your fruit

Sta nine Yard. You living good with Richard. But Richard ain't daddy, So you gonna be like, I don't like Richard. Daddy ain't got shit in this house. Richard is okay. I'm like, well, okay to me, Richard, make sure we got Bruce names pops. You're struggling, bro, I don't know this box of corn flakes. Ain't cutting him, my nigga. We even food looms at the crib. But it becomes the correlation of respect to me, Like if it did come down to it,

I moved on. I got a new relationship. I'm going to make sure my partner respects my child. I'm gonna make sure my partner respects the father of my child. I'm gonna make sure my child respects my partner and respects knowing like, okay, this is not your fucking daddy period. You know, low kid, I would be cool with my like my girlfriend baby daddy. I would I would try to be I would do my best with Disney.

Yes, I ain't gonna say he gonna be like my bestie, but like we're gonna be cordial on some level, like if we're having a family thing and surety coming a room like a YoY. I'm thinking about reaching out to my baby daddy because he an't really got no families, So can he come jam with us? Cool? Because we got some level of your respect and he cool. You come kicking with me and my people as you smoke, bring you drink, bring whatever you you know, bring your amenities like

when they're not still fucking I'm sorry. I would want to be on some level with live commonality with my girlfriend's baby daddy facts and I will I would want him to feel the same way. Like if you is having something at Joe cribb and for your for the kid and you won't focus. But a lot of baby daddies, dude, be bitter, but the baby daddies be bitter. It gives very much welcome to death for ro niggas. Don't be

wanting you to be with nobody else Nias day. As long as focus ain't doing hard to my kid, sure you can raise that little motherfucker when I'm not there, right, that's cool. I don't mind that I mean, in fifth, if there is someone in my baby daddy life, you know what I'm saying, who is giving off mother vibes or giving off something or some type of genuine love for my kid that she did not push out. I can't do shit but respect that. How long before you try to have

that sit down conversation with her the girlfriend? Yeah? Like how long of the dating process? So I'm not gonna lie. So you probably don't know he dating her long before it gets serious? So when do you sit down and have that conversation with her about this is where I would like us to be as friends, because you gotta remember, at the end of the day, you you're in a particular place because you're both best friends and child's mother simultaneously. So you want to meet her as oh, let me see who's

dating my friend, to see she's good enough for him. But then at the same time, let me see who this woman is is gonna be around my kid? Yeah, because that's more so where I met with it. At that point, I don't give a fuck who good enough for you because it ain't me. Yeah, So yeah, I'm more so want to be your friend because you're around my child. I don't want no bad blood with us. If you're around my child, if you don't like me, I

don't want you around my kid. If we don't have mature vibes. Even if we are not friends, I want to still be able to be like, hey, you know I'm dropping him off to you. You got kids, they playing with each other With that, I wanted to be mature. We don't have to be the best of friends. If we do, okay, cool, But all in all, my sole purpose, if I'm not messing with him anymore, would strictly be how you're treating my kid. Whatever karma she put you through is on you. Baby. They ain't got shit

to do with me. Like when you think about the hand the workings of a relationship, like we need like again, we don't gotta be best friends, but on some love, well we gotta we gotta jam because there's gonna come time and life where I might gotta be the third party facts like I might gotta be the nigga that bridge the gap, Like okay, well she got stuck at work, so I got a little man, And you know, either I'm gonna bring him to you or you could come get him.

But you know, he's safe right like, so you know he's good. You know what I'm saying. When we get I'll bring him to you, all right, bro, you know he did we did this, we did that. I've got him. McDonald's what I'm saying. So you might not gotta feed him for a few hours because he cool right now, and then y'all gonna do father something, whatever the fucking is y'all do. That's true. I mean, the person who keeping my child should want a relationship with

me. They should want to be able to call me, Hey, something's going on with Osia. Hey, Ohia might have had an asthma, so it could be any fun thing if you can't get to him. I need you to feel comfortable enough to call me. You don't gotta be my fucking friend. I don't have to like each other, but I need you to at least have the respect for me that I'm gonna have for you. Call

me. People weird for sure. People. That's because people still be fucking I'm still on that and people still be fucking everybody trying to act like in the generation fucking so so so oh, it's just it's nothing. It's we're kind of but like so many soul ties, so many, so many emotional connections, and all of them demons you carrying with you. That shit is real. I believe that should have. If your son creased my shoes, I'm gonna fucking up. I ain't gonna lie to you. Why why would

you do that to my shoes? I want him to be like he yeah that he can't can't get on his toes. I will punch the shit out, child like, don't have my value? Well your kids? That's another thing. Do you got five hundred dollars because the rebounding shoe caused me five hunds? No, he's gonna be working it off at the summer time. He gonna be sweating his ass off, cutting the ground. Okay, And I'm painting twenty cents on the hour. Yeah, because you fucked up my

shoes. I'm gonna show you what hard work is like. Nigga. Yep, if you nigga twenty cents, yeah, it's twenty six hours. So how many hours did you work? You had a nigga? After four hours of yard work on a hot nigga, I'm gonna hold you so what he could whoop your ass? Tom? Did you fuck up the shoes or did he fuck up? Now? If you want to be a great uncle and slide little folks five hours so one can't rehab his shoes by all means. But if not five cents an hour, twenty five cents an hour, do

you want him to come work in tom already tone death studios? Do you want to pay this little nigga better than working with you? Because twenty five cents an hour? Do you know how long you're gonna be working to replace my shoes? You can make more money in jail. Do you want to go to jail because what you did? Because because what you did was a crime, and you will be treated as such with swift justice. Did you hear that side of fact? Child? That is how you gonna be treated

if you fuck with my tennis shoes? Swift justice, swift justice. What I'm saying what washing dishes for a quarter? And I think you valid? I think it's you could definitely do like five dollars thank you? No, my baby, five sentence, five dollars he fucked up the shoes, Well, I gotta overpay this nigga. Minimum of wage is eight dollars. I think we are missing the point of the punish you. I want you to

work as hard as I had the work. I want you to work as hard as I had to work to go to work to get these shoes. Then I had to I had to watching our live so I can know that they was gonna do the early drop. I had to work. It's a blessed way, tiens for these cheers all these years to hit these tears. You go, you're gonna learn the day about Stevie. I bet he won't suck up another pairs want And if you do it, just office, I'm gonna we're gonna fight. We don't fight the jail hitting. Hit him with

a couple of body shots. All his shoes and he want somebody shots. Send you up, bail one. You gave him twenty five cents an hour. He really gonna be on your ass. Snicker got me working and doing. I mean definitely gonna tell his dad. He's definitely definitely for your daddy having me. I can like Cindebrella bro y'all podcast dad, And you know what's so funny part You're gonna be like man Blue kidd and you're gonna say it to mem it meem me gonna be like, that's what you get.

Stop being cheap, nigga, all them years off, you not tipping Meemi gonna do a call back on your I've been tipping now. I'm just saying I ain't tipped back then, not back then, back then? We sick. You ever feel like you've done a lot in a short time spine like how long we'll be going through the how quickly we're going through these fives? Yeah? Like not that, But you know, I remember when you just

have a good conversationship. Be I heard she is gonna be in a recap to me, like, why are they why are they doing this to the people? I can see that, Bro, I'm not for the city. Didn't tell me that there's not some kind of washing up the money going on behind the scenes. Because one, these clothes be cheap as fuck, okay, and the material will be cheapest fucking a lot of these cases too. I don't know, man, I'm sure outfits be looking kind of kind of

righteous. You don't trust it? How you gonna trust it? One they don't even have our sides ninety Sometimes I don't know, No man, shopping though, shit, occasionally I might go look for a shirt because jams. But for the dudes, I know, I know they got some shit on fashion over that niggas. You know, now fashion man, I'm gonna see what that guy some draws, some draws. Pretty much, that's all they care about. That's all they think. They all, that's all women places

think about us. I mean, I'm saying, like, this is this dude I follow on Instagram, he'd be wearing like the outfits. He'd be nice. Yeah, like here he's shooting nigga and then like he'll model like the outfit and a parent. I don't know. You know, everybody think they're fucking fashion easton ship. Yeah, like, broches, what are you doing? Bro? Just put the fucking god what are you doing? Who dressed better than you? Damn? Yeah, he just gonna make me step

my swag up a little bit. But it's still gonna make me be like, damn, you care too much. I can't say that because like I'll be putting that shit on too. So it's like, but I'm a bad bitch. I want I'm a bad match, not barely look great, and I want him to look great standing beside me. You know, it is nothing you can't you can't have no kind of self care. You're supposed to be an ashy as nigga your life. No, I love. I actually

love a man who take care of himself. I love the fact that you know, I'll see a man with his nails done, clear coat, toads, the clear coat. Shit like that to me? Does not that don't entitle me feeling like, oh you you're gay, Like that's that's great to me, that's great. If you get a manny patty fan, do you whatever makes you happen. Just I love me a good clear coat. You

want to facial my dog? Whatever makes everybody. Because niggas definitely have skin issues, especially now the niggas want to brow their beards and shit, they definitely need to get that. Yeah, because or be up under nigga's bears. That's why some niggas can't never shave it off. Yeah, should look like ill, but it is. It is. It is a regiment that you have to do. And a lot of niggas they just say, what's your idea, nigga, Like if you could build the nigga? What what

what like build a bear? So to spit na build this nigga, My nigga would be please be realistic, too realistic, don't be like hebe seven nine really want nigga that to be honest, I can't even say I want to build a nigga because that's too perfect, Like that's too perfect. I don't want broken niggas, but I don't want perfect. I do not want every fucking day to be like whatever you want, my love, But I don't want you nig that you want. The ideal nigga is like a nigga

that would literally not do no shit behind my back. Obviously everybody won't the realistic world, we all just don't want to cheat. We all just want somebody that's gonna love us enough to not cheat on us. Not that not. I don't want you to be I don't want you to be fucking perfect. I just don't want you to cheat on me. Niggas everybody like, but the luckily niggas. Once you start dating and you're a bad bish, they always get a little bit hidya some of them, some of them.

I don't. I don't. I don't think big headed in a way. We're like chill, like I don't know what big headed like. Now you feel like you can go off and fuck around on me, or you feel like the sudden the way you used to talk to me, now you're talking different. It is becoming a little ass holy, or it's like, well

that's how to be, but it's not new to them. Like when you've been an ugly nigga or be considered ugly and a lot of eyes, or you try to shoot your shot at some girls and they shot you down and talked about you, your confidence level is pretty low. So when you get a chick who builds up your confidence level and she a batty on top of that, So when you out in public you got all the niggas who want to fuck yo bitch, you get a little cocky is naturally gonna happen,

but they have to learn how to control how that energy is conveyed. So they don't want to come off they're not purposely trying to come off with Most of them are not purposely trying to come off as assholes. They're just trying to come off a little bit more confident. So when they're talking to you that not even necessarily get that base out of your voice, because like, I'm not trying to be your mama, I'm very much so just trying to

be your woman. But you know, still respect me as such. Yes, you got better clothes, better confidence, or whatever the case may be. But demin the niggas who didn't getting no pussons. Yes, still treat me as fucking such, still treat me with respect. No, no, they didn't. They didn't get no pusson in your life. Then when they made a pretty bitch to give them something like we're crazy, ye having an attack? I mean because now you you you back the Kiki Palmer, you

you got the Angela Bassett or I just hate what niggas say. Well, you're so fine. Why are you saying ale? Why the fuck do you think? Why the fuck do you think I'm single? Because I got a brain, because I'm not going for no bullshit, because I'm not allowing you to cheat. I'm not allowing you to come home at six o'clock in the fucking morning. Um no, no, huh. Okay, cool, if you had worked, cool, But if you are street nigga, cool,

But it has to be a reason why you're doing this. If you think you just out at the club with your niggas coming in, you coming in at five six, that's too much for me. You was with a bitch. See you nast five in the morning. My guy was with you, was with a bitch there. But some bitches y'all nigga had some type of two man going on. Were not acting crazy here? I do I do because it'd be two man games. Oh the whole time. It don't even

be my nigga who bringing a bitch around. He just got to be the friend of the friend and the ugly ass girl that's there, Like, yeah, I get in trouble trying to be the nigga to get my nigga out of Like exatimes, we wing man for guy like one could be meeting the bad bitch and and she got a friend. But I swear to guy for one to get closer to her cause somebody got an occupied a friend, so

I might have to be there to occupied a friend. And all of a sudden the friend was like, well I'm bored, and all of a sudden, zip, hey, yeah, bro, see you gotta take I gotta take one for the team. From my home books, I ain't gonna lie to you. I would never put you in that position. I was young enough, but I would never put you in that position. Man, we're not talking to the friend of the friend i'd be I'll sit there literally have

conversation with you. I will have conversation with you just because we're we're out here and nay up in the room. We do not gotta fuck, but bro up well not. I mean, that's that's that's poem. Let's talk about again. This is when I was younger. Yeah, so when you younger, the game game was way different. Back it wasn't the game. It was like you do right. It was like most girls like they didn't

want to be left out. So if you if you know your friend upstairs fucking, you're gonna try to get you so, especially if you think if you think I'm cute to a degree, man, wildest, wildest line I have ever used. That actually worked. Guy upstairs bagging his ship, come downstairs, her friend down there, she's looking bored. We have a regular conversation. You know, I'm a conversational kind of the two. Okay, so you know you hear head boards moving. I was like, damn,

they have been great times. The old girls said, man, they are, I'm ready to go home. I just like I got a big dick though, and oh you do shit happened the wildest line of every yiwu. It worked, God said, as the wildest line I've ever used, and it worked. Sound what up? That's I was a young nigga. Everybody was the point of talking about see you you're you're new to me like that though, And what you will find out over time is in my early twenties

wild lifestyle. He was or very very wild lifestyle. He was playing Russian Roulette with his dick, just throwing his dick on a crap tap many and that many and that. I say I won because I walked out with no diseases, and for sure I didn't say you lost. You definitely didn't crap out no no diseases and no kids. Fact, I gotta get it to you like that as episode. So I came out pretty good. But I got some stories to prove it. But in these niggas will have no problem

bringing them up. For sure. He was in the Air Force, see not I said. I ain't even go in detail. It was it was it was the eyes for me, bro. You like you like a military man. I don't know, like stability you got you got you got your uniform in a closet, Not that one tbh. I prefer consistency over stability. That sounds bad, don't don't talk to me and text message okay, consistency, consistence, my mama, I'm an everyday fucking anybody. I come

home and love you for who you are, all my dirt. Stay out that door so minute I walk in that door. You're the only thing I care about. But if I do that consistently, you'll choose that over stability, because stability being to me, I think the worst stability is probably going over my head. But stability to me is like financials. Are you taking care of me? Are you taking care of home? Are you making sure that she's saying she got that bro? So any way, I get where

you coming from. You don't need his money because your own. But that's not even no, not even necessarily the money either, but more so along the lines of stability, don't outweigh you know what I'm saying. You constantly loving me, you constantly being there for me, you constantly treated me, how you treated me to get me, or because I can Yeah, I think where a lot of people make the mistake at is you need both simultaneously. You can't choose one over the other. See, because I can love

you for you, and I can always make you feel appreciate. I can always make you feel happy. But in the back of your mind, you don't know how rent getting paid next month, and that's going to deter you how you look at me, or if you gotta work toward extra hours to make sure money's in the house. Even though you have a go get or mentality, you're gonna be asking yourself, why am I giving eighty and you're

given twenty? So that's stability or the ability to be able to not have to worry about where the next meal is coming from, when the bills are being paid, money in the savings account, no car note that has to be worre If all the financial side of things is completely taken care of, or even better on auto pay, that's how good y'all got it. It's easier for me to focus on you and you focus on me because we're not putting any extra work in to make sure we have a roof over our head

or food in our mouth. Now we can focus on each other. And usually when those problems are out the way, I don't have a need to be out here in the streets because I'm not stressing over this billing because you're not stressing me. I'm not out at this bar drinking trying to get my woes away. Who Now this bitch over there say hey, you look good, you want to have a good time, and I go home with her and staying for that night because I'm tired? Are you stressing on me?

But to be honest, one thing plays into another, which is why I said I'll take that over that, because if you're being consistent, that comes with stability. That comes with know what I'm saying, you being able to build a foundation or you know, build off solitude. Like I'm a full firm believer in if I'm coming home, I'm consistently loving you, I'm consistently

doing right. I'm consistently going to work doing what I gotta do, or I'm consistently putting me in work, in my in whatever it is that I'm an entrepreneur in or it's that all that is gonna bring stability, All of that is gonna bring more love, All of that is gonna bring a bond that It's just really you can have consistency. You have consistency and stability,

but you can also just have stability. No consistency. Now, that's true, and that's that's where it come into play because I can make sure you're good straight and literally not have no touch or spark on my mind mentally or emotionally innatly. It was great from not trying to be funny. But there's

a lot of girls in your age category. That's what they want. They wanted Nigga to do all of that for them to keep them stable and could care less about him because they still strung up on the baby daddy that's in jail. See, I'm more so looking at it in in a mindset up. And if I meet you and you tell me that your baby daddy in

jail, I'm not talking to you. No, not ask how long he when you get out, I don't care because whether it's a good time work or a long TI because if you get let's just have some fun right now, all we can do it. And once you're saying I have a baby daddy and he's in jail, all we could do is outer that because why because what if she just have a baby daddy, she's not waiting for him. That's not my problem. She worried his baby daddy. She didn't say

more my boyfriends in jail. That's not my problem. You figuring that out. I've told you where I stand. She checks all Timbo, I've told you where I stand. That's a problem. I just they're not. Why is it a problem? Because jail better than him being out. He lurking in the shadows. How but he's behind ball? But okay, what if what if this is the nigga who's running up the fucking phone bill? What if I ask you where your money going? And I find out you putting

money on his books? That's still shit. That's different all right? Then? So even even if it ain't there you in jail, where's his mama? Maybe she did? Bro, you're thirty five years old, Bro, everybody mama ain't a lot where your family is. Bro? He talks to him too. Okay, but you put money on the books? You see? How you see how y'all adding these variables to a situation. In the beginning, I said no too, because we're looking at the no. Your

no is absolute, absolutely out having context? And do you know that there are twenty four hours in a day? Right? Let me ask you this question. I'm twenty four one, one thousand, four hundred and forty minutes. Do you know how much shit people just say no too without contact within twenty four hours in a day. Let me but here's the reason why a lot of us when you say no the stuff, and we hit you with what you refer to as variable because we want you to look at the coin.

If you were in that same position, you got into a situation that you're now in jail for two years and your girlfriend with your child is on the outside, even though you're not gonna be home in two years, you want her to still continue to at least be that point of contact for you while you're behind bars. Right, You got a mama, you got a sister, you got brothers, and even though they still communicate with you, she got your kid. Though, don't you still want to have communication with

your kid? Though I get what you're saying, that's the only the baby mama and the baby daddy, whatever they got going on, that's them. I'm telling you that I do not want any part of that because I am not mature enough to deal with it. So when I say no. But when I say but, when I say no, I'm not doing things, it's because I understand that my level of maturity on certain topics ain't where it

should be. To deal with that too. Oh, I'm just saying, like, do you watch the internet a little bit, right, Adam? You know Adam twenty two is no Adam twenty two is a famous podcaster and on the side of doing podcasting, his wife is an only fan star, so they fuck on only fans and get profit. Now they have only did scenes with other women, or it's just them, or she let him fuck

other girls. Now recently he stepped outside of his comfort zone and was like, I'm going to let my wife do it, saying with another guy. Now, granted you let her fuck ad Dick probably war bigger than yours, Pauls. But hey, whatever flow show boat is cool. I am not here to judge whatever it is that they got going on in their relationship. I am here to tell you that Dwan thinking's the pie guy, young freshman whatever motherfucker's know me by I am not mature enough to be like, hey,

back, let's let's let's fuck. Nah, I'm not mature enough to do. But that's on any level since we hear because we were supposed to talk about this story anyway him and then we're gonna close it out. He's a bit chass nigga. Damn. Here's the reason why I say that. When it was your wife, girlfriend or whatever she is, and you were bringing in other women and she stepped back, was like, okay, you can fuck these women. Your feelings is good, you cool, you Okay,

your dick is dicking down multiple different women and you are phenomena. But now the shoe is on the other foot and it's your woman who's the actual star of this story here Now, okay, I want you to know that niggas didn't subscribe to the only fans for him. They subscribe for her. She now go out and get a dick, and it's like, oh my god, I can't believe that these too much to handle. How do you know that she didn't hold the same way and the problem but that was it

wasn't the fact that you felt that way. That's not the reason why you a bitch ass nigga. You're a bitch ass niggas. You ran to the internet about it. You wanted sympathy from other niggas, but you put her in this position and you allow yourself. No, no, no, no, no, no, this is reality here he wasn't not okay with he

was all for it, like he was cool with it. I had the issue with the fact of, like, if I know that my dick is a solid six inches and you are cool with this six inch pipe that I'm slinging right what I'm saying, and but then you were like, well let's do it, let me try another guy, and I'm like, okay, cool, And then you go get the nigga who got me by like a solid seven inches. That's wild. A is fuck bro, Like, if you're gonna go, if you're gonna go get a dick, go get a

dick that look like mine. Don't go get a nigga who just dropping baby arms on the first golfee table as wild as ship. Since we're here now, no no, since we're here and I was getting get there, since we're here now and we're securing our sexuality, I'm not mature. If you're gonna go from a white dude to a black dude, let's just go ahead and go full blown stereo tyre. So let's just get what I'm gonna get, a black dude, Get a big dick, black dude, because this

is what they've known for We gonna do it. Let's just do it right. She wouldn't got home arm out this bitch and she took it like a chimp. That's crazy. The whole video, the video leaked. So yeah, he let her give them the sloppy debby like you got like fucking this one thing. Listen, you can't second intimate. You can't see now now we take it into yeah, but you are the only business is business. But you can't suck dick. But that's business. That's not businesses. Look

one second, dick ain't business. Why you can't dat chick who was either a porn star or only fans because from what I heard though, the two different things. Second, dick ain't business. It's business one. No, not you don't know how it was business because it's the first thing that happens in every scene. That's that's the that's getting to the business. Business. But it ain't business. One at the end of the day, did you you would you let your man fu somebody else? No, let alone eat

the person. I can't even I can't even as much as my curiosity be like ooh, threesomes, I can't even do it because I'm just crazy, Like I see you just drilling and just fucking too good. And then it's like, fop, you can back of your head. You don't even know why you can't punch people? Yes I can't. You can't fight. Why everybody's naked? Yes I can't. You're just gonna have vagina and just start

slapping. That's slanging, teddy slangings. I played the fifth This is a safe space, so we are not because she brung up threesomes and it's like a lot of times women will agree to do a threesome for their man, but don't be into women. They're just doing it for it cam. So the question of are you into girls was like to even be cure is about doing a threesome? Do you want a man man woman or that's that's a that's a tricky situation. I definitely times said no, King Shaman because I

just it's fried. Just fight that that's frowned the bond to man yes, and a woman yes if that's what she will Yes, who frowns. Just literally situation you literally gave, just gave because I can't take that serious. Bro, I don't frown upon if you want to to nigga. At the same time, get your shut off. You see what I can't handle that. I feel like women to be okay with bringing another woman into the equation, and they think that the loophole is if I let her pick the woman,

that's good. That's good. Nigga's not mature. I can't. And again, I'm not mature enough to where my girl can sit down and be like, everybody, let's go get another nigga? Absolutely not. But because I know I'm not mature enough for that, I'm not. I'm not putting threesomes on the table just in case you trying to hit me with some shit like that, because when I got asked, I actually got asked, like, you know, would you have a threesome? And you know the correlation

wrong? And I'm like, oh, okay, so I could fuck to do too. We could like we could all have one. He's like, bro, I'm not do you really want to suck out and have another nigga with him out? But that's okay? Do you really want to due? No, then why would you say that? I just feel like I wanted him to know the like the correlation of you don't ask that's extreme. Don't ask me to go ask. Don't ask me what I fuck a bit. If we can't fuck nigga, what have you to be? Like, yeah,

let's do it. That would have been kind of because but I don't know either or so I'm supposed to like take two dicks at one time. I don't know. The whole thing is weird. It's weird. That's it. That's a category on my favorite someone. No, not even saying it like that, I'm just saying, like, so, okay, what he fucking and then like when I'm done with him, I gotta don't even have to be that right. And he could be and he could could be hitting

in front the back. You could be sucking dick. We could be or it can be a party world one pink and depends on how you get there. Now, that's a little too close. I'm not saying. I'm just saying, it's a lot of shit. That's too close. That's too close. Now, if I'm on the top of you down low down low on top, were good? We Montana and Florida, that's cool, But we cannot be like Texas and Alabama, Alabama, Louisiana, Alabama. Nothing more

like Oklahoma and Texas. That's still that's still crazed to be more like South Carolina. That's that some people. I don't want your thigh on my thought. But it's different when you are a woman and you are actually interested in women, and you are actually someone who has had a relationship with a woman, then yes, the pleasure is yours. You are getting that pleasure of

the woman more so with a woman. What No, well, yes, but it was like a long time ago, like what like like what kind of like pause, like get into it and like you aren't like the down stroke and you like work up a sweat. It's like you hit a stroke and now your sweat flinging. I gotta stop. I got it too, if you if you North and South Carolina, right, So if you Carolina,

technically she's in between y'all like an oreo cookie. So you really should physically, if you position yourself right, y'all honestly never touch each other. If you position yourself right, that's a lot of fucking works. It also depends on how much balls you got, because your balls, yeah, they've seen some big boss. But at the same time, you got to be secure in your manhood that sometimes doing certain things. No, I don't real

talk. Sometimes that that's not big boss like you here for you wore that. I just want you to know that you you have so many complications. Well, ladies and gentlemen, I like to thank everybody for coming out and hanging out with their fresh and diamond and something. I was just hanging out with us too, apparently, but you know it's what I'm saying. It's all to the good, the good. I appreciate everybody for rocking with the homeboy. See y'all later, man, Until next time.