S2 Ep9 Toys

From a dominant perspective, having your sub guide you seems a little bit of a role reversal. But it's not. Remember, as a dom, it is your responsibility. to give the highest amount of pleasure for your sub to the Daddy Dom Podcast. My little space. You can call me Ben or you can call me Daddy. And here, if you're new, Even though we're well into season two of the Daddy Dom podcast, I think we're into episode eight or nine of season two, which means we've had probably well over.

25 episodes of the podcast which is more than i thought i'd ever get to i'll be honest with you i didn't think this would actually take traction but I'm actually enjoying this. It really has helped me explore and learn more things about myself as a daddy dom and to, you know, convey those experiences and thoughts and feelings I have in the DS and DDLG relationships and interactions that I've experienced and that other people have experienced and told me their stories as well.

because there's just so many different facets to that and i just hope that you know this can be a little space that we can connect and relate to those experiences through narrative conversation and spicy audios that relate to the topic at hand. I try to relate them as best I can. you know this podcast has turned into what uh in my hands audio started off back seven eight years ago is for me to explore my sexuality and finding out that there are world of people across the earth that can relate.

to those experiences and desires and kinks that we share. And I think it's just an amazing thing that we've been able to get this community of people together in a trusting, safe environment to explore.

and further our experiences within that kink and that community. So on today's episode, I'd like to bring up the topic of toys in the bedroom. It doesn't necessarily have to be in the bedroom. It can be in your dungeon, it can be in the kitchen, it can be in the forest, in the car, wherever you find.

Those tingly moments come. Those are the times that take care of them. But the use of toys from the perspective of a dom. The dom... wants to be the source of their subs orgasms it's kind of like so it gives us power kind of makes us feel good we're especially as a pleasure dom i want to be the source of making my sub come, giving her the best possible sexual experience that I possibly can with my hands, tongue, all the other parts of my body as well.

So there sometimes is an intimidation factor when our partners want to bring in sex toys into our playtime. You know, that seems to be a little bit, wait a second, am I not doing it enough for you? You know, it kind of breaks down your confidence a bit. But you have to take a look at it from a different perspective. They want you to use the toys on them. They want you to administer the pleasure of using these toys to get them off. And a lot of people can't.

achieve orgasm or sexual pleasure through the what i would call the basic means whether it be insertion you know as a straight intercourse and fucking a clitoral or a nipple play with a tongue or hands or whatever the case may be and just having like skin on skin contact sometimes that isn't enough And I've always said this before, you know, when you get into relationships and whatnot, know thyself. Know thyself, because if you don't know at least your physical erogenous zones,

You can't communicate that to your partner. And the communication is a key in this as well. So yeah, if you're not being able to have an orgasm through... insertion or through other means as well, but you know thyself and you had a few toys that you've used while you were solo that really did the job for you. Bringing your partner and marrying those two things together, the toys and your partner, showing them how to use them, what you like, guiding them. And again,

From a dominant perspective, having your sub guide you seems a little bit of a role reversal. But it's not. Remember, as a dom, it is your responsibility. to give the highest amount of pleasure for your sub. I do. That gives me the greatest amount of pleasure. I love making my sub come.

Whatever means possible. Seriously. Even if I don't get off on it sexually myself, the act of giving pleasure and owning my sub owning my subs orgasms with the use of toys oh my god total heaven so as a dom please See it as an addition to your sex life, an addition, an extension of yourself. You're the one holding the wand. You're the one holding the flogger. You're the one doing, you're administering the pleasure for your sub.

don't see it as an intimidation factor see it as another opportunity to blow your subs mind and conversely Sub wants to please their Dom just as much, if not more. Doms, don't be afraid to incorporate your own toys. There's a lot of toys for men and women out there that you should be experimenting with. It shouldn't be a replacement for your intimate interactions but as i said an addition you wanted to heighten those things and what better way than to explore these things together

Taking each other by the hand, literally showing them what turns you on. And then as the dom, you can incorporate that into your role plays. And I think that really kind of raises the bar within your sex life. It's just not about sucking. It's just not about fucking, pinching, pulling, slapping, different positions you can be in and things like that. Add those things to your repertoire.

The more tools you have on hand, the more sensual and sexy and kinky those interactions and scenes can be between you. One of my favorites that a few of my subs have loved is the Hadachi. The vibrating wand. That's always a favorite with some of the female subs that I've been with. Almost addictive, I would say. So use it sparingly, all you doms out there.

Because again, we don't want to be replaced by the tools and the toys that we use, but we want to enhance, right? So use it maybe as a... special time or you know a time when you feel that you really want to do a really good job for your sub but uh yeah again should not be replacement and subs you remember that too as well as much as those vibrators and toys feel extremely

extraordinarily good nipple clamps and all those things. They are not a replacement for your dom. They are an addition to your sex life. So please remember that on both sides. And I wish you all the best of luck in finding and exploring all those toys that kind of make you go, hmm, haven't tried that before. Let's do that. Yeah. And that's what makes it exciting. The openness of the kink of the DDLGDS relationship really kind of opens that up for us because we've already started on that road.

let's just continue you're in a safe place you're with a good partner trust is everything you want to cause pleasure even if there's a little pain in there but at the end the goal is to have a really good mind-blowing orgasm whether it's physical mental or just all visceral all over your tingly skin so i wish you the best of luck on that journey continue it with me Today's audio is pretty much about that. Earbuds in, and stay tingly.

I try something tonight. Something just for you. It's going to be all about you. Well, it's actually for me. Because I love making you come. And I... Just get comfortable while I slip off those panties and take off that bra. I want you to lie down on your back. I feel my fingers lightly tingle across your chest and down in between and across your tummy. tickle doesn't it but i don't want you moving i don't even want you to twitch so

We're gonna take these restraints. And we're gonna put them around your wrists. and two and then we're gonna lash them to the top of the headboard nice It's okay. I got you. going down to your ankles. I'm going to spread your legs and make sure that each securely for you. And I want you to consume yourself in that. So I have one more thing. I know you can close your eyes, but I don't want you peeking. I just want you focused on the sense of sound and the sense of touch.

those tingles I am going to enjoy giving you. Put this on. That's it. I'm going to start at your wrists and slide my way down. Make you shiver. Just give your nipples a little. I like it so far. Nice, long, slow strokes. Lightly as I kiss your tummy.

Take a deep breath for me. That's it. And I have something else. Just a little toy. Nothing crazy. eyes. your skin yeah I love those little jerks you make maybe you're not secure enough but that's okay It pleases me to watch you twitch and bring it up and slide it over those ever hardening nipples. in circles like that ah there you go up and around your neck to watch you come. And now slowly down. Slowly down your chest. And again around your nipples.

Just slowly pinching one of those nipples as I get down between your legs. this vibrator lightly over your pussy lips and just grazing your clit tummy sucking in, your mouth dropping open, as I just circle around and then slightly making my toy all wet. Look at you, giving in. your thighs again. this too, you know. Can you feel the pulse? just up and through your pussy lips. Reach up and squeeze one of those nipples again.

on it. Kiss your thighs. I love how you try to bend your knees but you can't. Yeah, a little bit more pressure. Pulling on those nipples. Sliding that vibrator. through up and down just grazing your clit just a little bit just a tease and then pressing into it

Pressing in nice and hard. Ah, I love how your breathing's changed. Ah, blindfolded. and restrained and your pussy is mine all mine ah you're gonna be a good foot girl for me Say yes. That's it. Little pulses on your clit, can you feel it? Circling it around and around. Putting my hand on the inside of your thighs. and pushing you a little wider. Spreading your lips. You're absolutely pouring.

I love the way you sound. I love the way you try to move. I love seeing your hands tied up behind your head and your legs restrained. wide for me giving yourself to me vibrations. up inside you. You must because you're pushing yourself up into my face. Can you feel my scruff? Can you feel its roughness? squeezing your nipples and pulling So sensitive with that vibrator leaning on it. My fingers and thumb pulling your nipple so hard. Oh, looking all around your pussy.

Your legs bending as much as they can. Your head tilt back and your mouth open. Moaning for me. Screaming for me. Wait for it. Wait for it. I'm going to tell you. I'm going to tell you. I'm going to tell you. Hold it for me. Hold it for me. Hold it for me. Hold it for me. and trace my nose. Kisses. And a hard suck on your neck. You did so good, baby. Giving yourself to me Coming When I told you and just for me.

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