Picture this: you're at your desk, 50 unanswered emails flooding your inbox, and your phone buzzing nonstop with reminders and notifications. Meanwhile, at home, there's a sink full of dishes, laundry waiting to be folded, and children wanting your attention. Sound familiar? You're not alone. Even though we feel like we need to tackle everything on our own, the truth is that we can delegate. We often just don't. One of the toughest challenges we deal with is handing off tasks to others. Why is i...
May 05, 2024•22 min
So picture this: it's Monday morning, and your alarm clock jolts you awake after what feels like you just fell asleep. As you drag yourself out of bed, a nagging thought creeps into your mind: how will ever have the energy to tackle everything on your plate today? If you can relate to some version of this scenario, you're not alone. For most of us, the daily juggle of professional obligations and family responsibilities can often leave us feeling drained, depleted, and downright exhausted. Wheth...
Apr 28, 2024•18 min
Have you ever found yourself questioning who you are, what led you to your current point in life, or what you’d like to be “when you grow up”? Maybe it’s because you’ve gone through a breakup, or your kids are grown and don’t need you as much, or you feel stagnant in your current job or career choice. Have you ever achieved a goal that you were going after or a level of success that you wanted, only to discover that they no longer bring the satisfaction they once did? Or maybe you’re at a crossr...
Apr 21, 2024•21 min
In this time of more technological advancements than ever before, I think we all need to better grasp how technology can help working moms. Since our lives aren’t getting any simpler on their own, I think it’s important to embrace how technology can help us streamline and simplify our busy lives. For example, imagine a typical day where you're rushing to get the kids ready for school, responding to work emails, planning meals, and somehow trying to find a moment for yourself. It's a familiar sce...
Apr 14, 2024•27 min
It's no secret that being a working mom is a challenge, and when you add a high-stress work environment to the mix, it can feel like you're navigating a storm with no umbrella. I’m not just talking about the occasional stressful day; I’m talking about a persistent, high-pressure atmosphere that can take a toll on your mental and physical health. The truth is that the impact of high-stress environments goes beyond frazzled nerves. It has a domino effect on various aspects of life. This week on Th...
Apr 07, 2024•23 min
The truth is, it's easy to lose sight of joy in the hustle and bustle of everyday life. Moments that could be filled with happiness and contentment can slip through the cracks, unnoticed and uncelebrated. This is the crux of the problem faced by working moms—how to reclaim joy in the midst of deadlines, school runs, and household chores. When it seems like the best part of the day is when you crash into bed, how do you not feel like every day is a scene from the movie “Groundhog Day”? Balancing ...
Mar 31, 2024•20 min
As accountant moms trying to make our way in a male-dominated profession, it can be a bit shocking when we begin to deal with ingrained stereotypes that cast doubt on our capabilities. These stereotypes range from outdated beliefs about a woman's commitment to work after becoming a mother to misconceptions regarding our ability to handle the balancing act of accounting responsibilities. The truth is that addressing stereotypes and unfair assumptions is crucial not only for the well-being of acco...
Mar 24, 2024•26 min
While we all probably want to raise healthy and happy children, many of us also have the goal to raise children who are not only confident but also independent – equipped with the skills and mindset to navigate what life throws at them. Whether by choice or necessity, the children of working moms often don’t have the luxury of having things done for them like they would if we were stay-at-home moms, and I, for one, think that’s actually not a bad thing. Honestly, I believe the importance of inst...
Mar 17, 2024•23 min
Unfortunately, the societal expectations and stereotypes surrounding working moms haven’t gotten any better over the years. They just add an additional layer of pressure, often creating an environment where professional success is measured against traditional gender roles. Because of this, the role of dads and partners is even more critical. It's not just about being a helping hand in managing household chores; it's about actively participating in changing the narrative and the societal expectat...
Mar 10, 2024•23 min
For many of us, the desire to excel at work and be present for our families often leads to a dangerous habit – overcommitting. Whether it's taking on extra projects at the office, volunteering for every school event, or attending social gatherings out of a sense of obligation, the result is the same: a calendar bursting at the seams and an overwhelming feeling of exhaustion. The overcommitment issue isn't just about a packed schedule; it's about the toll it takes on our mental and physical well-...
Mar 03, 2024•22 min
While the accounting profession can offer exciting opportunities for growth and development for working moms, it also presents unique challenges. In today’s episode, I want to discuss the everyday hurdles faced by accountant moms and explore practical strategies to overcome these challenges. The reality for most of us is a dual role that requires a lot of effort. We might make it look like we’ve got it all figured out, but if we’re being honest, we’re often hanging by a thread trying to balance ...
Feb 25, 2024•22 min
Have you ever heard someone talk about being more mindful? Or becoming a more mindful parent? I remember hearing that term and thinking it meant to make sure I knew what my kids were doing, as in “Be more mindful of where your kids are.” The truth is that the concept of mindful parenting is so much more. It's about being fully present in each moment, paying attention to your thoughts and feelings without judgment. It’s about managing your emotions so that you’re bringing your best self to work a...
Feb 18, 2024•20 min
In the hustle and bustle of our daily lives, it's easy to lose sight of what truly matters — the connection we share with our kids. Amidst the chaos of schedules and to-do lists, the laughter, the small talks, and the shared moments can sometimes take a backseat. But here's a gentle reminder: these connections are the glue that holds everything together. Why is it so crucial? Because these connections are often the stories your kids will carry with them throughout their lives. It's the bedtime s...
Feb 11, 2024•22 min
In the fast-paced world we live in, instilling financial wisdom in our children is more crucial than ever. I want you to imagine your kids growing up not just understanding the concept of money but mastering it with confidence. As accountant moms, you have a distinct advantage – a unique perspective that can make a significant impact on your children's financial education. Honestly, I don’t think there’s enough taught about financial literacy to children. I think that’s part of the reason why we...
Feb 04, 2024•24 min
Mentorship isn't just a buzzword; it can be the secret to overcoming many of the professional hurdles we face while managing the demands of motherhood. I believe all accountants could benefit from mentorship, but particularly accountant moms. Why is that? Because society and our workplaces often have expectations that can be overwhelming. The truth is that striking the right balance while meeting expectations is no small feat. That’s why it’s important to acknowledge the challenges you’re dealin...
Jan 28, 2024•20 min
Balancing the demands of an accounting career with the joys and responsibilities of motherhood is a feat that many working moms undertake, and during certain times of the year, the challenge can feel particularly intense. For those of us in public accounting, tax season becomes a marathon of filing deadlines and client expectations. Working during the busier times of the year, especially for moms, is truly like orchestrating a symphony – a harmonious blend of work commitments and family responsi...
Jan 21, 2024•20 min
I'm really excited to be talking about a topic that might make some of you raise an eyebrow – the idea of being selfish. Now, I know what you're probably thinking. "Selfish? Isn't that a word we were told to avoid, like the plague? Isn’t being selfish a bad thing, especially for mothers?" In this episode, I’m not talking about the kind of selfishness that leaves a bad taste in your mouth. Instead, I’m exploring a concept that might just revolutionize the way you approach your daily life, your fa...
Jan 14, 2024•21 min
During this time after the holidays, you might feel like your to-do list has grown out of nowhere. That's totally normal. But here's the good part: now is the perfect time for all of us to take a pause, regroup, and start thinking about how to get back on track. Getting back on track means more than just catching up on work stuff. It's about finding balance in our lives, setting goals for ourselves, and getting ready for the challenges that are coming. It's like getting our ducks in a row so we'...
Jan 07, 2024•25 min
How many times have you felt that you need to be flawless in every aspect of your life to be valued? How often have you hesitated to share your work or ideas because they didn't meet the elusive standards of perfection? Here’s the thing: we need to give ourselves permission to be human. Unfortunately, perfectionism is like a sneaky intruder that creeps into our lives, whispering that anything less than perfect is a failure. Let's be honest: the pursuit of perfection can rob us of joy, time with ...
Dec 31, 2023•19 min
In the life of a working mom, overscheduling can often be compared to trying to fit a hundred puzzle pieces into a fifty-piece puzzle. It's an everyday dilemma that leaves many of us feeling stretched to the limit. The truth is that overscheduling becomes evident when there's hardly a moment to catch your breath, let alone savor the precious time with your loved ones. The result? Stress, exhaustion, and a sense that life is slipping away while you're frantically trying to keep up. This week on T...
Dec 24, 2023•20 min
Have you ever had that frustrating feeling when you have big goals, ambitious projects, and endless to-do lists, but somehow, you just can't seem to get the motivation to get going? It happens to most of us. For example, maybe you've got a project at work or in your business that you're passionate about, but you find yourself stuck in a cycle of procrastination and inaction. Or maybe it's those never-ending home improvement projects that keep getting pushed to the bottom of your list. If you've ...
Dec 17, 2023•23 min
As we know all too well, being a working mom is a multifaceted role. It involves transitioning seamlessly between being a career professional, household manager, and caregiver, often in the span of a single day. The challenges are immense, but so are the rewards. For those of you who are thinking of a flexible work arrangement or who are already in one, it’s essential to understand that the concept of flexible work arrangements has transformed from a buzzword into a lifeline for working moms. Wh...
Nov 26, 2023•22 min
In a world where the demands of work and personal life often seem like a balancing act, work-life integration offers a fresh perspective. Unlike the traditional idea of work-life balance, which suggests keeping professional and personal lives separate, work-life integration encourages a more fluid and harmonious approach. Imagine your life as a symphony, where the notes of work and personal life come together to create a beautiful melody. Instead of striving for a perfect balance like a scale, w...
Nov 19, 2023•25 min
In an era where we're perpetually bombarded with demands, distractions, and an ever-expanding to-do list, the concept of "time management" takes on profound significance. It's no longer a mere skill but a life philosophy—an approach that can make the difference between barely keeping up and thriving in the face of constant change. The urgency of time management goes beyond mere productivity. It touches every aspect of our lives, from personal growth and professional success to our overall well-b...
Nov 12, 2023•32 min
As accountant moms, we understand that the balancing act of managing a demanding accounting career alongside the joys and responsibilities of motherhood is nothing short of a superhero feat. But even with our busy schedules, sometimes we just feel the pull to start a side hustle – something that will add an extra layer of fulfillment, financial security, or even career flexibility to our already dynamic lives. It's that entrepreneurial spirit within us, eager to explore new opportunities while m...
Nov 05, 2023•21 min
In today's fast-paced world, as working moms we're often chasing a dream: the dream of "having it all." That dream is a bit like trying to balance on a tightrope. It's about excelling in your career, nurturing your family and personal life, following your passions, and taking care of yourself, all at once. Sounds wonderful, right? But it can also seem incredibly elusive. So, here's the big question: Is it even possible, or is it just a beautiful idea that's impossible to make real? This week on ...
Oct 29, 2023•21 min
Being a working mom is like juggling multiple full-time jobs at once - you're managing your career, nurturing your family, maintaining friendships, and attempting to squeeze in some self-care along the way. Amidst this chaotic juggling act, we often fall into the trap of people-pleasing. It's that constant urge to say "yes" when we really want to say "no," the pressure to meet everyone's expectations, the need to become a chameleon so that we’ll be well thought of, and the relentless quest to be...
Oct 22, 2023•23 min
Imagine this: You're juggling a career, a family, and countless responsibilities, all while striving to carve out a bit of time for your personal growth and well-being. I know you don’t even have to imagine it because you’re probably living it. The daily hustle and bustle can often feel like an overwhelming whirlwind, leaving you with little room to breathe, let alone work on your goals. It's in these moments that the power of self-discipline becomes your secret weapon, your guiding star. Believ...
Oct 15, 2023•19 min
As accountant moms, we often navigate a unique landscape, trying to seamlessly transition from crunching numbers to caring for our loved ones. The challenges we deal with are distinctive, requiring skills that extend beyond the realm of traditional accounting. This is precisely why I think it’s important to explore and improve our problem-solving skills. I want to help you have a resourceful toolkit that has the potential to elevate you, both professionally and personally. The truth is that I've...
Oct 08, 2023•26 min
Every CPA has a story - we all have a journey we’ve taken to get us to where we are. Every entrepreneur also has a story and journey as well. This week I had the pleasure of interviewing Charlotte Ruemke, CPA. Charlotte is a mom of three and lives in Texas. Charlotte has over ten years of experience in public accounting providing tax services to clients in a wide variety of industries. She is experienced in federal and state tax compliance and planning for individual, corporate, partnership, and...
Oct 01, 2023•28 min