The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-Doubt, Overthinking, Insecurity, Perfectionism, Procrastination and Impostor Syndrome
The Confidence Podcast is the podcast for women who struggle with perfectionism, self-doubt, and a self-critical voice. If you know you have potential and purpose, but you still secretly feel like you're behind, not enough, or even an impostor, then this podcast is for you. In each episode, world-renown Confidence Coach Trish Blackwell will teach you how to live confidently and courageously as the woman God created you to be. This podcast is your weekly resource to train your thoughts, take them captive, and use them to help you live with joy, abundance, peace, power, and, of course, confidence. Get FREE instant access to the Confidence Masterclass to learn exactly how to have more confidence with the 3-part "Confidence Formula" at www.trishblackwell.com/freeclass.
This episode explores why high achievers often feel blocked and overwhelmed despite constant activity, experiencing a disconnect between effort and fulfillment. It delves into the psychological barriers, such as self-talk, fear, and avoidance, that keep people stuck. Practical strategies are offered, including taking imperfect action, overcoming self-pity, using prioritization methods like WIN and ABC123, time boxing, setting boundaries, and acknowledging avoidance.
Are you playing small, editing yourself for approval, or holding back from showing up online? This episode is your confidence boost to break free from fear, be yourself unapologetically, and show up boldly in your life and business. Learn how to build social media confidence, express your opinions with clarity, and let yourself be fully seen—messy, real, and radiant. You’ll learn: How to stop overthinking your online presence The real reason you're afraid of being visible Daily habits to grow yo...
Your self-talk shapes your self-confidence — and if your inner voice is harsh, critical, or negative, it’s time to change that. Inside this episode: • How to stop believing the mean girl voice in your head • Real-life examples to help you rewire your daily thinking • Why most people never change their self-talk — and how you can Get ready to think better, speak to yourself with more kindness, and feel more confident than ever — starting today. 🏛️ GET MENTORED & COACHED BY TRISH in the COLLE...
Do you ever feel paralyzed by the fear of being judged? Or catch yourself judging others even when you don't mean to? Both sides of judgment—being judged and being the judger—can quietly erode your confidence. Let’s be honest—being judged hurts. And judging others…well, sometimes it’s just a knee-jerk reaction we don’t even realize we’re doing. But here’s the truth: both receiving judgment and giving it out are confidence killers. In today’s episode, we’re exploring what happens to our inner con...
Confidence in conversation is a skill — not a personality trait — and in this episode, you’ll learn exactly how to talk to anyone, anywhere, with confidence and ease. Whether you struggle with small talk, freeze in social settings, or just want to upgrade your people skills, this episode breaks down the mindset hacks and talking tips you need to shine. Inside this episode, you'll learn: • How to stop overthinking conversations • Go-to phrases to start or carry a conversation • What confident peo...
In a world where everyone seems to have an opinion about how you raise your kids—from social media to the school pickup line—it’s no wonder so many parents feel like they’re not doing enough or doing it "wrong." In this episode, we’re unpacking the silent confidence battles most parents face: the fear of judgment, the trap of overthinking, and the constant comparison game. You'll walk away feeling less alone, more equipped, and reminded that you don’t need to be perfect—you just need to be prese...
What’s the difference between being kind… and being nice? If you’ve ever found yourself people-pleasing, avoiding conflict, or trying to “keep the peace” even when it costs you your authenticity—this episode is for you. We’re talking about kindness versus niceness. Two words that sound similar, but are wildly different in how they impact your confidence, your boundaries, your relationships, and your self-respect. If you’ve ever caught yourself over-apologizing, saying yes when you really mean no...
Your thoughts shape your reality—but what if the thoughts you’ve been thinking aren’t actually true? In this episode of The Confidence Podcast, we're breaking down the life-changing power of reframing—the simple yet strategic mindset shift that helps you take control of negativity, reduce overthinking, and build unstoppable self-belief. You'll learn how to identify thought patterns that keep you stuck, how to flip the script in real time, and how to start creating thoughts that empower rather th...
If you've ever felt disconnected from your body or caught in a cycle of self-doubt, you’re definitely not alone. In today’s episode, we’re doing a special Q&A on body confidence , where I’ll be answering your most pressing questions on how to embrace the body you’re in and step into the confidence that’s always been within you. We’ll talk about practical ways to shift your mindset, let go of comparison, and silence that inner critic. It’s time to stop letting self-doubt hold you back, and in...
Pressure can either crush you or bring out your best—and the difference comes down to confidence. In this episode, we’re talking about how to stay calm, clear, and confident even in high-stakes situations. Whether you're stepping into competition, facing a big career moment, or just dealing with the everyday pressures of life, I’ll walk you through practical mindset shifts and confidence strategies that actually work. 🎧 Press play now to learn: ✅ Why most people lose confidence under pressure (...
If you’ve ever thought, I’ll feel confident once I have more experience or Other people are just naturally confident, and I’m not—you’re not alone. But here’s the truth: confidence isn’t about being fearless, perfect, or having it all together. It’s about recognizing and rewriting the sneaky lies that are keeping you stuck. In this episode, we’re breaking down the five biggest confidence-killing lies, why you keep believing them, and—most importantly—how to replace them with thoughts that will a...
In this special listener Q&A episode, I’m answering your biggest questions about confidence—straight from real, high-achieving women just like you. From overcoming imposter syndrome to trusting yourself in big decisions, breaking free from people-pleasing, and building unshakable self-belief, we’re tackling it all. Whether you struggle with self-doubt in your career, fear of failure, or body confidence, this episode is packed with practical strategies and mindset shifts to help you show up b...
In today’s episode, we’re talking about something that can feel a little scary: letting people have their own opinions about you—even if those opinions are negative. It’s totally okay for people to think whatever they want, and today, I’m going to show you how you can be confident no matter what others think! Here’s what we’ll cover: Why it’s okay for people to have negative thoughts about you (and why it doesn’t mean something is wrong with you) How letting go of the need for everyone to like y...
We all do it: I’ll be happy when I lose the weight. When I hit six figures. When I find the right person. When I get that promotion. But then, the moment arrives… and happiness still feels out of reach. Why? In this episode of The Confidence Podcast, we’re unpacking the hidden confidence-killer of conditional happiness and how to break free from the “next-goal” trap. You’ll learn the surprising reason why success doesn’t always equal joy, a simple daily shift that rewires your brain for lasting ...
Ever feel like people are constantly watching, judging, or keeping score of everything you do? Spoiler alert: they’re not. The truth is, nobody is thinking about you as much as you think they are—and when you fully embrace this, you’ll unlock a whole new level of confidence and freedom. In this episode of The Confidence Podcast, we’re diving deep into The Nobody Cares Theory—a game-changing mindset shift that will help you stop overthinking, take action without fear, and finally start showing up...
Are you filling your days or truly fulfilling your life? In this episode, we’re diving into the difference between living bigand just staying busy. You’ll learn how to break free from the hustle mindset, prioritize what actually matters, and create a life that feels expansive, not exhausting. If you’re ready to step into more purpose, joy, and intentionality, this episode is for you! If you’ve ever felt stuck in the hustle, like you’re doing a lot but not really living, you’re not alone. Somewhe...
Have you ever looked at someone else’s life and thought, Why does everything seem so easy for them while I’m over here struggling? Maybe you’ve been working hard for a promotion, only to watch someone less experienced get it. Maybe you’ve dreamed of having a family, but infertility has left you heartbroken. Maybe you grew up in a family that never really saw you, never really supported you, and now you’re left wondering how much further ahead you’d be if you had a different start in life. Life i...
What if failure isn’t something to fear but a stepping stone to your greatest success? In this episode, we’re redefining failure and exploring how setbacks can become your most powerful tool for growth. You’ll hear inspiring stories of world-class achievers—like Michael Jordan, J.K. Rowling, and Walt Disney—who turned failure into fuel for success. We’ll break down why we fear failure, how to reframe it as a learning experience, and practical steps to embrace it in your own life. If you’ve ever ...
Have you ever found yourself spiraling out of control, imagining the worst possible outcome, even when things aren’t that bad? Maybe you’ve caught yourself thinking, 'If this doesn’t work out, everything will fall apart' or 'I can’t afford to fail at this, it’ll ruin everything.' This type of thinking, known as catastrophizing, is when we blow things out of proportion, expecting the worst without evidence. It’s easy to get caught up in all-or-nothing thinking, where we see situations in extremes...
Have you ever looked around and thought, 'Am I the only one here who doesn’t have it all together?' Do you feel like you’re one mistake away from being ‘found out’? Do you constantly worry that everyone around you will see you for the fraud you believe yourself to be? Or maybe you’ve caught yourself holding back, scared that if you speak up or make a mistake, the world will find out you don’t actually know what you’re doing. Guess what? You’re not the only one. And you might be surprised at how ...
Embarrassment is something we’ve all experienced—those moments when the spotlight feels a little too bright, and you wish you could disappear. But what if feeling embarrassed wasn’t something to fear but an opportunity for growth and connection? In this episode, we’ll dive deep into understanding embarrassment and how to handle it with confidence and grace. You’ll learn: Why embarrassment is a natural part of being human. Simple steps to manage the heat of the moment when it strikes. How to refr...
Dating doesn’t have to be overwhelming or filled with self-doubt—it can be exciting, empowering, and confidence-boosting when you approach it with the right mindset. In this episode, we’re breaking down the essentials of dating with confidence. You’ll learn how to: ✨ Put yourself out there and embrace opportunities. ✨ Get clear on what you want in a partner (and why it matters). ✨ Own why you’re a catch and show up authentically. ✨ Live an exciting life that naturally attracts the right people. ...
Do you ever have those moments when you catch a glimpse of yourself and think, 'Ugh, why do I look like this?' Or worse, when you spiral into comparison mode, scrolling through perfect social media photos and wondering if you’ll ever measure up. Well, spoiler alert: you don’t need to measure up to anyone, because your worth is already infinite. In this episode, we’re diving deep into why we sometimes feel this way, how societal standards and overthinking play into it, and most importantly, how t...
Do you ever have those moments when you catch a glimpse of yourself and think, 'Ugh, why do I look like this?' Or worse, when you spiral into comparison mode, scrolling through perfect social media photos and wondering if you’ll ever measure up. Well, spoiler alert: you don’t need to measure up to anyone, because your worth is already infinite. In this episode, we’re diving deep into why we sometimes feel this way, how societal standards and overthinking play into it, and most importantly, how t...
Have you ever felt like your confidence just disappeared? Like you used to feel sure of yourself, but now, self-doubt seems louder than your self-belief? Maybe you’re wondering: Why do I feel so uncertain when I used to be fearless? Is confidence something that can vanish forever? And most importantly—if I’ve lost it, how do I get it back? If you’ve ever found yourself second-guessing your abilities, overthinking every decision, or struggling to find the courage you once had, you are not alone. ...
Have you ever felt crushed by someone else’s words? Maybe it was a bully from your past, a toxic co-worker, or even just someone who was having a bad day and decided to take it out on you. It’s tough, isn’t it? Those moments can leave us feeling small, second-guessing ourselves, or even spiraling into worst-case scenarios. In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into the messy world of bullies, mean people, and catastrophizing. We’re going to break it all down—how to handle the hurt, why some peop...
Are you tired of questioning whether you measure up? Do you find yourself constantly comparing your life, your work, or even your worth to others? And what would it feel like to finally believe that who you are, right now, is enough? How do we measure "good enough" anyways? And we're not just talking about it in general, like "you're good enough", but what is "good enough" in work, in friendships, in your fitness, in life? How do you know if you're doing enough? How do you know if you're settlin...
Do you look around at other people's lives and wonder why they're happier than you, or least they appear to be? Have you ever said "Must be nice?" about someone who seems to do cool things with their life and you secretly wish you knew what you could do to make your life more exciting, but you feel stuck? Today we're covering: How to know what you want in life -- especially if you feel lost or in transition What people don't tell you about designing your life The most critical thing you need to ...
You're driven, and focused, but then life happens. You told yourself that you would be super consistent, but what are you supposed to do when there's a family crisis, when you get sick, or when you're just stretched too thin. This episode is going to offer simple hacks that will take you out of the overwhelm and fog that derails so many well-intentioned people and help you keep things simple, clear and progressively moving forward. Get the full show notes and transcript at: www.trishblackwell.co...
Do you want to be able to really love yourself, and your life, like, not just when things are going well for you or when you're getting external validation from others? This episode is for you. Look, I've been there … I put my worth and value, and my ability to love myself into the hands of what I couldn't control -- performance, affirmation, success and dating the right people. Ultimately, I loved myself when I got the positive feedback, but when I didn't, it felt like my world (and my worth) w...
