Episode 8 Replace Distractions With Visions

visions. I really, really love this because for those people who know me very closely, I have such a strong vision for the world. And I have such a strong vision for what other people can make possible in their life. And as I've shared before, since I was diagnosed with cancer at age 14, I really believed it's one of my missions in life to push people to their for this potential, farther than what they even dreamed possible, because I can see a world of infinite magic and miracles and

all these things. And I've been blessed to have a lot of male friends throughout my whole life. And I'm the one they always kind of call and they're masterminding with business ideas, or they're not really sure. They're getting distracted with relationships or whatever they're calling, what is it? I just do, and I really helped bring that clarity of what is it you want to look back on your

life and be proud of. And I feel it's such an important part of why I've made this, the rule number seven is replacing restriction with vision. up into this point, with the episodes that we've done, we've really

done a lot of internal work. So it's been like, okay, like, understanding, you have intuition, you have an obsessive knowing how do you use that understanding that you have the power of your languages that you have the power of choice that you can say, know that you can have an alignment, if you choose that you can have all these beautiful things. And so this is now really the point where we transition into you taking action to make business

infrastructure in your life. And what I mean by that is, as I said before, I don't really believe in work life balance, you know, you want to create a business that goes around your lifestyle, lifestyle, it's around your business, you want to be talking about things that are important to you all the time. And that's really what you want your business to be. Otherwise, you're going to end up burned out not happy. And just, yeah, not happy. Like an example I can share with you.

There's an app that I use for a while it's called sharper, and I used it for networking. There's a guy he, we matched on there, and you just do it to connect and all this stuff. And so he told me, he was like, you know, I've been doing industrial work for 40 years, he's like, you know, I hate it. He's like, if I could go back and redo it all, I would honestly go be an agricultural farmer, because that's what I love. And I know I'd be free. And I was like, Wow, thank you so much for

sharing that. So beautiful. I said, it's never too late to start. And he actually ended up buying my book on Amazon, live your truth. And he's shared with me, like the breakthroughs that he's had. And when he's retiring, the ideas are coming through him now what he's gonna

do and all this stuff. And so I just want to remind you that at every moment, you can replace distractions with vision, every moment, you can create a new vision for your life, it doesn't matter if you've been in the same career for 40 years, you can always start new, you can always start what it is you truly wanted to do if money was never the object. Because the thing about becoming a heart centred business leader is you

put your vision first. And the thing that I've learned about every person I've had the pleasure to interact with is the people that really succeed, always have their vision first. So for example, we talked about what I said you could have two people have the same event, they go to one person is absolutely thriving, because that's the vision of their life, the other person is absolutely miserable. Because it's a distraction.

You're out of alignment, but you chose to be there as a distraction support your friend or whatever else that it is. However, you have to replace your distractions with visions. So a lot of us think we are quote unquote, working hard is what I like to say from the outside looking in that we've done well for ourselves. Yet the reality is, is we are not where we want to be yet. That would be because your quote unquote hard work and your perceived or sex success is actually all a

distraction. And that distraction is taking up energy. Remember about the queen bed and that king bed that I shared about in a previous episode. All this distraction energy is taking up space out of your energetic body that could actually feel your passion. However, because you're so distracted by all these other things going on, you literally can't have your passion be what's feeling your vision, because you're so drained from all the other things that you're doing to quote unquote, make it

successful. Like that guy said in 40 years the job he hated. And if he really couldn't do it all again yet, think if he said that 20 years ago, he would have started 20 years he would have had his life doing what he really loved it he chose to keep going to the distraction of the

job for the money. And so think Do you want to be the guy That's 40 years into your career and like, oh my god, I hate this, I wish I would have done what I really loved and not had to worry like not would have worried about the money and just trusted it would have showed up. Well, that can be your life, you can stop being distracted by something that isn't actually allowing you to

feel free. So the people that are in the media, they want you to have nothing left to create life because what you'd be taking money away from them. If you're doing what you're love, you don't need to listen to the media to you don't need to

listen to negative things. You don't need to complain about other people, you actually don't even have to complain with people, you don't have time to pick up the phone, because you're so committed to your vision that's coming through you, you don't have time for the distractions. You literally are stopping consuming the matrix of the world and instead you

literally become a producer. You stop being distracted and you move to vision, see how this is coming full circle to become a heart centred business leader, every Golden Rule matters. Now, it's not your fault. If you're like, Well, I've been working hard, or I have this success or whatever. And you're like shit, she's totally right. I'm actually not living what I want to be doing. And this is all a

frickin distraction. That's taking my energy away from me to actually fuel my passion and fuel the vision that I want to impact the world with? Well, this is something called programming. Since you were a little kid, you've been programmed to work hard to achieve a certain financial success, relationship status, health status, and even perceived beauty status. From this programming, you have thoughts, subconscious habits, and even patterns that you are acting out without even

realising. Abraham Hicks said it beautifully. A belief is a thought that you just keep on thinking. And a lot of our thoughts are subconscious thoughts. So if you're thinking subconscious thoughts, and you have a lot of subconscious thoughts, that are beliefs that you're literally acting out in your life, you are heavily programmed to literally live a life distracting you from the core reason of why you're here because you never took the time to see, whoa, is this programming how I want to be

acting? Do I want to be in a scarcity mindset? Do I want to be like, Oh, I don't have money? Or this would be you know, how can I get creative and make the money? You know, I've been shooting these it was in the corona. Virus time of funny, funny, and some who were like, oh my god, I lost my job or this. And that is really sad. I'm really, really sad about that. And it makes me sad. And the next portion is okay, I obviously wasn't in alignment with that job. It wasn't what I

was meant to do. How can I get creative and tap into my abilities to be the creator of my own reality and become the visionary? How can I start making this happen? What company do I need to working with entrepreneur? What can I do to start somewhere who can I reach out to now you're becoming the visionary or becoming an action taker and doing what feels good to you instead of living just a random life to make money.

Because I truly, truly don't believe any single one of us is here to just live a random life, I truly, truly believe each one of us have a unique purpose of why we're here has a unique purpose of why we're here. And I truly, truly believe that each one of us is meant to live an extraordinary life, each one of us is meant to be amazing. Each month, each one of us is meant to feel free in the expression of who we are. Each one of us is meant to explore this whole beautiful world that God has

given us. Yet, you can only do that, when you allow yourself to reprogram who you're meant to be. Which means you have to look inward. Why a lot of people don't want to become heart centred entrepreneurs because it means you have to look at yourself dead in the eye in the mirror, own your demons and own your glory. You can't have anyone else do it for you, you get to own them both. So an example that I like to say with this is when you feel like you

have to do something. So as I've kind of said before, stories, but let's say specifically I want to talk about business, you feel like you have to do something or your boss is gonna be mad at you, a employee or a client, whatever that is. So you have to do this. Well, there's an exam this that's people pleasing, right? Because if there's a client that's like, I want you to do this, and I want this price point, I want that and it's putting all this stuff

on you. Well, that's a programme of people pleasing, because you aren't slowing down enough to go okay is what everyone is asking me to do right now even in alignment with me, is what everyone asked me to do right now even when excites me, is what everyone's asking me to do right now. Even something that goes with my vision of why I'm here to impact the planet is what I'm doing right now helping anyone or everyone no matter what I do still going to be upset, mad grumpy, and it

doesn't matter. So why am I putting myself in this

environment? And you can literally took a change which thoughts otherwise if you just keep doing and doing and doing and doing and saying yes to all the people and doing all the things for the job and doing all the things whatever well then when the company lays you off, you have a lot of resentment and you have a lot of anger on the company's not paying you the raise that you think you really deserve because of all the things you Behind the scenes, well, that anger, that madness,

that resentment that's carrying over, remember into multiple areas of your life, you can't have one area of your life that's going really good. And the other part that's not, that's not how alignment works. It's not a golden law, it's not a golden rule. So you have to look that you are now being distracted by anger, frustration, resentment, which is not going to allow you to have the clarity to listen to your obsessive knowing to act on the vision coming through you.

So let's take this even a step further. Every time you say anything negative, like you hate your job, or you wish your life was different, each of these are guiding you to actually come to the awareness that whatever you are saying is a distraction from your vision. The words that are coming out of your mouth, as we as we have talked about in previous episodes with this series is literally a vibration

that you are putting out. And so if you are actually saying something negative, you're actually not taking the time to listen to your obsessive knowing, because your obsessive knowing would have you would never lead you in a way where negative thing would happen to you, it will lead you or lessons happen, where growth happens, where opportunity to expand who you're meant to be, it would

never be negative. So from this, you have to really take a look at your actions move back and go, Okay, I'm talking negatively things aren't going well. Where am I out of alignment, back to the exercise I gave you, and you become the detective of your life to go, Okay, how do I move into the vision of what I want from my life and stop letting these distractions be present? So a great question to ask yourself daily or even hourly, when you start doing this work is? am what I doing right now

moving the needle forward? For what I actually see I want to do in the world, yes or no? Then I didn't know. You ask? What are the actions I must take to become accountable to make my vision come to life. And see, that's only something you can do. I can share these tools with you, I can look at your life and say a million different things. It used to have the power of choice, right, which is a rule that we talked about a golden rule, you still get to choose

it. Are you going to allow the distraction Are you going to choose the vision. And again, I want to go into this a little bit more when I hear expecially say I don't understand how people like this, I understand this, I don't understand how people that are or their negative, other people are living a life or they're complaining or they're feeling stressed because of work. Well, these are literally all low level frequencies and vibrations that are causing you to fill your mind with distractions.

Because you're so consumed in it, you're consuming consuming other people instead of producing based on your vision. Full circle again, see how this goes. Because in each of these, you're complaining about an external factor. You are actually listening to what it is you are doing. Why is in your life because remember, everything is happening because you're either in alignment with

it or you're not. So if you're frustrated, you don't understand you this that's because you are in alignment with that frequency. You're not in alignment with the compassion, of love of acceptance of how can I serve people because it looks like they're in a lot of pain and I move myself out of that pain. So how can I assist them and that goes back to alignment. And when you start to shift like okay, I'm not going to be distracted by all these people feeling negative, I want to

provide a solution. You know, one thing that I just thought was beautiful, right before I did this podcast or recorded this is that in the time of the Coronavirus, there's a Singapore multi billionaire and he just increased his net worth by $5 billion by providing

ventilators. Now you could say negative Okay, he shouldn't do that or he should but the reality is he's he's stepped up to the plate to manufacture ventilators to get it to more people so that these people can be taken care of, say what you want. But he provided a solution. He wasn't complaining about what was happening. He wasn't just sitting around waiting, he literally stepped up and made a solution. He saw an opportunity with a vision to help others and he did it not a

lower frequency. So you really want to look at where is your focused vision? Is it focused on a virus? Or is it focused on solutions? Is it focus that you were laid off? Or is it focused on how you're going to replace that? Is it focused on how you don't have health care? Or is it focus on how you're going to find a new way for healthier? Are you focused on whatever it is with the banks or whatever it is or the food are you like the

negative part? Do you focus on the good parts of the people that are working and God we still have access to food I'm so grateful how amazing this food tastes. I'm so grateful for the people that are wearing gloves and using it Extra stuff as the food is being delivered. Replacing vision, my vision of being grateful my vision of the world. So moving on, that I can

be a part of it. My vision that I'm alive in my health is still here, and I'm not being distracted by all the other commotion going on, I'm producing. And so if you're listening to this, the thing that I know about you is you're someone who deeply deeply desires to change the social injustice that happened in the world. The thing is, is you have to start by healing your own demons, by the way, you talk to yourself, the way that you people, please others and the

distractions that you allow. So, as I just shared the examples of the guy who made 5 billion an increase in his net worth from ventilators, how do you shift more frequently into your vision, becoming your primary focus, instead of your allowing distractions? Well, this all comes back to an awareness right, you have to choose to become aware of the power of choice. And the thing that I like to share the most that I think is the most easiest is become aware of the

conversations you're having. So carry either in your phone, you can put a note section or a little journal. And every time after you leave a meeting, or you have a conversation with a friend, I want you to write down what you talked about. Were you talking about vision? Were you talking about relationships? Were you talking about? Lack? Were you talking about abundance? We're talking about ideas, like what is it you were

talking about? And then from there, I want you to start digboi aware of your thoughts. Because once you start becoming aware of the conversations you're having, then you can go wow, that's what I was talking about. Now you can go, what am I thinking about? And sometimes we have so many thoughts that are moving through us, all of us, we all have, I don't even know, like probably 50 thoughts every minute that are running through

our brain. It's the ones that we're capturing and communicating right back to the cloud, which is what I've talked about, we all have access to the greater cloud, which is like an infinite bubble around all of us. And we can all say, hey, My life sucks, or hey, you know, I'm learning I'm growing in my,

my life is going upward. I'm learning every day, to different totally different realities from the same person, different people, it could be the same person, you could, you could be that person one week, and you could literally change your language and be a whole different person on the week. However, you have to start with

that communication. Maybe you're having no communication with anyone you're like, Okay, well, I really got to look at what thoughts I'm having, because I'm so afraid to even talk to people. And then number three is you want to start asking yourself different questions. So if you realise you're someone who maybe isn't having any conversations with anyone, then you want to pick okay, what are the thoughts going on? Why am I afraid to talk to people? Okay,

how can I? That's a better question than me just sitting here being by myself. Or let's say, if you're someone who realised you're talking about relationships all the time, I realised, with my girlfriends, I was constantly talking about relationships, or my friends would always call me it was like relationships, relationships, like oh, my gosh, you guys, Amanda, Amanda, best friend.

That's what I'm here for. But it's like, you guys are always asking about a woman and how to this and that, and I'm like, Oh, my God, just be you. Like, it's not that hard. And they're like calling you don't understand women are just, they just want money. And I'm like, but do you see the frequency, something in your field is allowing that to be the frequency, whether after you for money, or they're after you for travelling, something that you don't want to do.

Everything is a frequency it is either in alignment with you or it's not. And if that is something you don't want, well, then you are vibrating that have that be in the alignment in your field. So that is a distraction, because that's not what you want. So start talking about what you do want. And that's when you start talking about

your vision. The more that you talk about what you do want and the questions that you ask yourself are empowering you to create thoughts in your head and then communication with other people about the visions that you see. The hopes that you have the dreams that you believe are the things that you want to be talking about, the more that's gonna start happening in your reality. So a great thing to even look at is you can say, How do I want to impact the world?

Well, what are some social injustices that you emotionally get charged about? Is it healthcare, sustainability, food, education, sex trafficking, I guarantee you there is something if I were to meet you in person and go, What do you care about in the world, you would rattle off calling? Do you know that you tell me a whole list? I'm like, oh my god, I had no idea

about any of these things. Not everyone knows your knowledge because what you're passionate about and the vision you see in perceiving the world isn't how everyone else sees it. And if you don't allow yourself to communicate that to other people, no one can get behind your why. And trust me, because I've had this same thing happen my whole life. To all the men I've ever dated to all the

friends have ever had. They're like I just don't get it or they want me to they've they've helped me and tried to communicate when I haven't been able to sometimes and you have to find a way to believe in yourself enough to understand that what's on your heart. What's in Your Mind, what's present in your body matters, that it's on your mind for a reason and to communicate it in a way that will empower others

to be behind you. So stop distracting yourself with all the nonsense of the working hard of this, of that of data data. Pull your shit together, and say, and communicate what it is you care about and take responsibility to dissolve every other distraction in your life. So the frustrations that you really have with other people are frustrations you have within yourself, of not creating a solution for the people to have their problems fixed by you.

Because the reality is all these distractions, I'm working hard, I'm doing this and ended up but you're frustrated, you're angry or this you don't understand girls stop bah, bah, bah, that is exactly because you are not providing the solutions that you know you can and you are not living into your potential. You're being distracted instead of vision. And so for you to really become the heart centre business leader that I know you're meant to be. Ask yourself, and what I'm doing

right now. And what I communicating right now are the thoughts that I'm having right now, actually moving the needle forward. To allow the vision that I see to be birthed. Yes or No. If it didn't know, what actions must I take to become accountable to make my vision come to life. And see all the episodes up until this one are a newfound awareness you must have, you must practice and you must have commit to it. There is a vision that is inside of you.

There's something that you see in the world that no one else does. And the sooner that you commit to communicating it. And the sooner that you commit to understand that you know what, I am a creative person, I'm someone who can adapt. I'm someone who has momentum. I'm someone that can literally empower others, no matter where I'm at, or how far I feel from success. Where I'm at is good enough. And from a place of good enough, I'm going to act on what is on my heart. That's

depression. And that's anxiety, if that's hating my job, if that's just gotta have a divorce, just gotta have a abusive relationship. Just wrote my first book, I'm going to teach people what I know. Because what I know to be true, as I said, there's no absolute truth. Yet through me communicating my truth, I'm going to allow others the experience to see that they can put words to the thoughts they have going in their head, or the emotions that they're feeling that they're not sure how to

communicate with. And that is, the greatest gift you can give someone is to help them make sense of something they cannot make sense of. And you can't do that when you're judging. You're being frustrated, you're angry. You can only do that when you are coming from a place of peace, compassion, love and joy. And again, this isn't perfect. Anyone that gets it who tells you that they're always envision they're always in alignment, their line. No matter who we are, we all get out of

alignment. Yes, Gabby Bernstein said, as I told you beautifully, I don't care about how quickly you're out of alignment, I care about your rebound, right? I don't care how many distractions you have, I care how quickly you come out of distractions back into your vision. I don't care how long the distraction took care of your life, I care that enough that you are committing

to get out of the distraction. I don't care if the distraction was a 35 year marriage, the fact that you can see it with the distraction and now you're going to rise up and make your own life. Beautiful. So, with this, I hope that this gives you greater depths and greater awarenesses of how to see that there's so many places for you to birth vision. There's so many places for you to birth, a business. There's so many places for you to birth, a lifestyle

that you love. There's so many places to birth where you can have conversations that you love all day long. I hope that you know what's in your soul, what's in your heart, it matters. And I hope that you know that you are meant to thrive and be the leader you desire to see in this world. Thank you so much for tuning in to this episode of a man's best friend, where you can literally tune in to receive the frequency so that your mind reality is totally transformed.