Episode 42 - What is the System? Part 1 of 4 with Alexander Mei

leave a review. So people know to listen to it with their time, as the intention with this podcast is to combine spirituality and business for you to really evolve into who you're meant to become. And so every episode that I do is either with myself or I've co created a conversation with many people, for you to be a fly on a wall. And today we are doing a very special thing with January, we are doing a four episode podcast series with Alexander

Bay. And we'll have him introduce himself in a moment. But for those of you who don't know what that would look like, what we're going to be doing is every Monday we have an episode that released and the just as we start this year, we wanted to really create a space for you to understand what emotions are coming up for you. What just happened in 2020? Why did it

happen? And how do we really start to understand healing within our body, healing as an empowerment and healing as a tool to get us to where we want to go on our journey. And so with that, Alexander, please introduce yourself. Hello. Hi, I'm Alexandra Mae, and I am a psychic medium healer. Some people call me a light worker, I call myself a light warrior. And I combine all those things together. And I've been studying

since I was nine. And I've been a professional, light warrior slash healer, psychic medium for 11 years. I love. And so what we're super excited about you guys, we're gonna have four different topics and the series goes together. So if you're watching any of the episodes, you probably want to start at the very beginning, which is this one, episode 42. And with this one we really wanted to dive into we actually had a podcast conversation before. And we had a lot of you

liked it. We have like 60 Something downloads in like, a couple months. Yeah, so that's like super exciting for a brand new podcast. But what we want to do is we want to talk about what is this system? So we are in a process right now of transition in the earth. And we want to talk to you like what what's the system of what's happening? Transition with what's happening with the government, what's happening with spirituality and religion as its evolving? And what specifically happening

around health? What is the system of that? And so, to first go into it, I guess we can have you share from your perspective, what you've seen the system to be and then really how that's going into the body. So how the system has been designed to keep the body sick, instead of really empowering the soul to flourish. Oh, sure. Okay, so how the system has kept the body sick. So, for example, I would have to say the first word that comes up

is media. So yeah, first it was like media, um, how, like, for example, um, when I went back home, when I was living in Canada, and I moved back home, I noticed that every morning, my friends and their family members, their moms and their dads would wake up and they would drink coffee and watch CNN and Fox News. But immediately I noticed that there's this like ticker tape of doom on the bottom of the screen where it's like little girl dies and Baba Baba bombing happens in Baba,

Baba, Baba, Baba Baba. And it's like this. It's doesn't say anything great. What's happened?

It's all things that are negative, horrible are like what death but you know what I mean, I want to pause because when you're saying that I for those of you listening, like I can actually feel when you like started saying my nervous system, like my stomach going up, like I could feel like this thing in my body of like, ooh, death, this and there was actually something that I heard for those of you listening that? I don't know who is Dr. Pillai.

But there was a doctor who studied us and they said, even if you're seeing something on the news, if you're seeing it, your body doesn't know difference between someone else experienced it, and you actually going through it. Yeah, exactly. And so with that, I really love that you're saying that because the system is very deep in that whatever you're watching, even the words that we're watching and things that we could just be hearing the back on Word or store is influencing us in ways

we can't even imagine. We have no idea. I mean, while some of us but but most people the mass populace doesn't even know that they're in it. You don't really know you're in it until you're in it. It's kind of like being in a cult you know, so I've been saying this lately of like that we're all stuck in the cult of media and don't even know It's like a spiral. So then once you become aware that you've been stuck in the cult of the media,

then you can come out of it. But most people don't know that that's what's affecting them on a daily basis. Like, for example, I never you know how you you said you could feel it in your nervous system, like I never really understood how much watching certain things or seeing certain things could affect my nervous system until like, maybe recently since during combo.

I love and what I want to why why why I also work I want to have this conversation you guys is that more time on what does the system so we just dealt with a whole year of basically this COVID-19 That was released and there was a lot of unknowingness a lot of things in the media was saying one thing, then you have people in social media, which is decentralised media, also sharing a lot of truth, you have people that got kicked off platforms that are also trying to share their voice or their

truth on it. And what I wanted to share, I guess, I think it's really important to what I believe COVID-19 Why it's occurred. And why it's important to understand the system, the true systems, not the implanted systems to keep you stuck is that COVID-19 packs the lungs, right, and the lungs, if you look at lung cancer, it's near

the heart. And right now with this is the cosmos even after just under the age of Aquarius, like there's literally things that are shifting in our solar system, there's things scientists are finding out that we never knew before. Like various things, literally people have studied and studied and studied, we're finding out more things. And now we're actually like the space race of who's actually going to like, get out there as the first country to like start claiming space. So

that's a real thing. And so, with COVID, it was to the heart, because we're being asked to open we're being asked to have our hearts feel. And a lot of us our whole life, we have felt safe, we have felt unsafe, I should say or we should we have felt challenged to feel because when we express our feelings before it really caused rejection or disruption are systems. So we actually just created a protection protection mechanism around our heart to

close into shutdown. And so COVID was here to go towards the heart to open the heart. Because where we're going in the world, that's the way of the future, it's the way of the knowledge and into the future, it's the way of the now is that to be open into feel and experience. And so what is the system really is anything that was keeping you in a space of not feeling of not having your heart open or not

expressing. And so that relates to the body, as you just said, in so many ways of when you would watch the news growing up and people beyond their coffee in Santa Ana and Fox and kind of what I'm sharing as well. And so I just want you guys to know, like in this time of health, we're really moving to wellness, and it's your responsibility to heal, it's your responsibility

to become healthy. It's not any Western medicines, job or pharmaceutical because they will always have you stuck in a repetitive cycle of needing it and sort of tuning into what opportunities you could expand in your body. And so that was

really important. So the other thing I want to talk about a little bit with your opinion as we go from like that's the system, what's Western medicine with the system as far as it goes on, say healing, psychic medium versus, I'm going to go to this doctor do this thing. Sure. So okay, that's, that's really awesome a subject to ask

about. So usually, whenever someone comes to me or to someone else, to take a look at the body, we take a look at what's happening to the mental body, the physical body and the spirit body. Right and so, within the first two minutes of talking to someone over the phone or in person, I can see where it's coming from. Is it

the matriarchal lineage? Is it the patriarchal lineage and when I say that, I mean, like a me I'm probably an example also like doing my nails but, um, uh, I'll give you the best example. So I used to be really racist towards Asian people. I couldn't, I couldn't figure out why. Um, and in my first data healing class, wanting to theta hidden class, which is created by vana Stibo. I went into my patriarchal lineage because that's where it was coming from. That's the origin of where the

racism was coming from. And I cleared it out with my teacher, Beatrice Blonko. And immediately, I felt different. It wasn't just mentally how I felt towards Asian people. It was my body. Like, there wasn't this like repulsion towards anything and then I went on a date with this really hot guy.

That was from Japan. Um, and then the, like, literally days after that, and I realised that, like, I had it physically stuck in my body, but the way that she could tell was, oh, it's your physical and your mental, and it comes from your father's line. So mental, physical, but not spiritual. But that's how you really can start to see where it's coming from in the origin of certain things, as opposed to like, while we're just going to give you like the site five and or whatever. Like, you're like,

you have anxiety. Here's the Xanax, like, you know, yeah, and I love that because the thing that you're saying, and the thing that we really want to communicate here, or as we're starting this year is for you to understand that the system anything external to you is false. If the system VEDA healing is something that's always been internal, it's actually sound vibrations with frequency, like, there's much more to it, but it goes into a specific, like, your brain can

be measured and fade away. Like there's there's things that this is natural, it's not produced to, for you to consume. Sure, yeah. And I think that's why it's so important for you to start understanding when to listen, it's like what system I function, how much of the system are you actually playing in, because we like to disassociate think that, Oh, it doesn't matter if I get that plastic

water bottle, but it does. And the thing is that we want to blame the system for failing us, but you are in total control of either being part of the system or falling back into the truth of the natural organic system

breathing on this planet. Sure. And so I think it's really important that you said, so the other thing that I want to go into, we talked about it a little bit, but I want to go a little bit more we talk about the nervous system, we brought it up, but how does the nervous system relate to the body, which is and that whole system of the body.

So the nervous system is a very interesting thing because, uh, in relation to the body, because, um, I always go back to this, whenever I describe this, when I died, um, I've died twice in my life and come back. But each time, I remember that once I left my body that my body was just made of light. It wasn't with the nervous system, right? And so when I died, I had a conversation with God, which I'm writing the book about that right now called death is boring. That's actually the name

of my book. Um, God was like, You do realise the reason why you keep getting reincarnated. And I'm like, no, why don't like because you don't have a nervous system when you're dead. Because you can experience things like pleasure and orgasms and like, you know, like, you know, like having, you know, it's just like, all light. And so, what we don't realise is that our nervous system, our gut, and all of these things are interconnected with each other.

And when we we we do anything to disassociate or to numb ourselves out, we're actually shutting it down. We think we think that we're calming ourselves down with like drugs or alcohol or with other things, but actually, any anything that we do Coleen to make us forget that we're in here massively affects the nervous system.

And I love that you're saying this because Yeah, so my walks I do walk a lot for those of you who follow me know that but i i started maybe two weeks ago, Wow, am I walking down that when I'm on it, I stopped but I actually touch a tree and I'm and so I started doing this and I would turn my headphones off and sit there and you can actually feel the drop of your nervous system and you can actually start to like you literally sink with the tree. And I know this sounds crazy for

those you listening. Like I don't think this woman is batshit crazy. Like years ago, I would have been like, what is this person talking about? But even this morning, I did this was a totally I wasn't on any plant medicine or, or anything like this is literally just in the morning. And I could literally like feel by touching this tree. How connected were

like pulsing. And it's only like, I mean, like this bill felt like the solar plexus that moment, but like this, this solar plexus thing that we're we're all existing in. And so this conversation that we're having is really important because as this year evolves, there's going to be more that comes up there's going to wait this is really a transition from 2020 to 2024 for the complete balance of this to harmonise for us to then have some type of normality, but it will not still

be normal. It's still going to be a new expanded way of being and so where I want to go with that cuz it's funny, I didn't know I was gonna do that but the nervous system, I want to then go into chakras because I know a lot of you following and a lot of the people here you know a little bit about this stuff you're calling the system and a lot of you have worked in corporate or you've you've maybe had a marriage that you kind of just fell into and it wasn't really based on love or based on

venture or you fell into a business because it's like a family business and so I really want to expand this like what the system could be for you what is possible and I've as you follow me on line like you guys, I I literally have monetized so many things my life and will continue this year, we have so many amazing product launches, but I want to go from this nervous system, to how that relates to the energy chakra system that's breathing and existing Ms.

Mm hmm. Okay, great. So each chakra system actually is on top of an endocrine system, which regulates hormones in the bodies. So the interesting part, oh, I'll give you a prime example. From my own life. So your solar plexus, otherwise known known as the money, Porter, is associated with the colour yellow, and is associated with your personal power, okay.

So whenever you give too much of your personal power away to someone who doesn't, isn't grateful for it, or you disempower someone else, this becomes inflamed, which also connects to cortisol levels in the body. So whenever the body goes through stress, it creates cortisol to protect itself. So when people get stressed out, and they gain weight, they gain not only spiritual weight, but also physical weight on top of the way that they think they

have. So it's like compounds with stress that's being represented physically in the body. For example, Colleen and I did some test runs with some videos a month ago. And we noticed that in the progression of the videos, I got smaller. Yeah, videos, because we were we were talking about things and we were releasing energy while we were talking. So you could It was wild, wild. So your chakras aren't just associated with some sort of spiritual energy or some sort of energy outside inside?

Metaphysical but also science as well. It is scientifically connected as well. And honestly, like science and metaphysics are not that separate from each other. No, but I wanted to go into something to share. Could you just go through like, what each of the chakras are Yeah, like name. And the other thing I want to say before you do that is one way that I started to play with this guys, when I became introduced to this like three years ago was, I would look at

what colour I was wearing. On days, I looked at what food was in my fridge and usually the colour that's around you the most that's that chakra is trying to speak to you asking for attention. But anyway, so I want you to kind of go into that part of it. Um, so Mooladhara is red, which is the root chakra, which actually has to do where you feel at peace or at home within your own body. Um, the spa study, Stannah is the sacral

chakra, which is orange. Um, this usually is associated a lot of people think that the root and the sacral are associated with sexuality, but they're actually interconnected in a way where I, for me in my own personal journey, Orange is the colour of forgiveness. So it's about forgiving generational trauma. Wow, for me, for me, it's different for other people. Um, yellow is what I was talking about before which is money Bordeaux, which is the solar plexus which is associated with

personal power. Also, yellow is a detoxification and anti inflammatory colour as well, which is very interesting, um, showing green, green is on the Hatha, which is the heart chakra. So this is about

receiving. And a lot of people don't know but this is where the thymus is associated to a lot of people associate that the third eye is where we receive messages from, but this a lot of people believe used to be the actual third I was here, because we didn't need to vocalise how we felt because we could just send vibrations to each other. That's an interesting topic to go into

another time. Um, then Vishuddha is a virtual, green, blue, blue, blue has to do with your expression of self and your authenticity of self expressed through the throat chakra. So whenever you repress parts of yourself, that's why people get sick, that's why they get colds, that's why they get sinus infections. Um, then a blue is also really interesting colour because it has to do with awareness and awareness of self as well. Then You go up into Indigo, which is a Arjuna, which

is the third eye. And that has to do with deep psychic energy. And being able to not only receive messages, but to also perceive energy around you. A lot of people when they do energy work with me their pineal

gland, D calcifies. Or when they work with other people or work on themselves, and will think that they have the flu, I've had a lot of people that have worked, where I've worked remotely on them that all of a sudden, the next day think that they have COVID, but it's because their pineal gland is decalcifying. And then, um, then a Sasada is the violet, that's the last chakra, what's not, there's more than seven chakras. But these are the best based on

your face first. And then that has to do with your connection to God and the divine. So usually, whenever you have had times in your life where God or the Universe however you call it source wants you to change when you ask for change, but then you blame God for it, that usually

will shut this chakra down. So usually, a lot of people who think that they can't see or perceive energy or think that they have a complete disconnection to God, it's because something happened to them when they were a child or to their parents, where they shut that down.

Wow. So for those of you watching what I one thing I want to say so why I think this is really important as well as because our chakra system that we're not going to go super deep into this, but our chakra system, you guys is the real system. So what is this system? It's these orbits, that's probably not the best word. But anyway, it's these fields that are in our body that help

regulate self regulate. energy moving through us, and energy, human moving, like you just said, straight through vertical. And it also can move through us horizontal like this, and it can happen, it's always happening simultaneously. And it's really important to start to be present with yourself to go what is my actual body saying? What is what is what am I feeling like? I'm in pain. Okay. Where is the pain in your heart? Where is your heart closed? Where do you

unhealed forgiveness? I have no idea about that with the orange. But it makes so much sense. And I have a friend I need a message after this because I'm like, Oh, my gosh, it's like, and my new book and uncompromised life, I talk about generational lineage, there's a whole chapter in that.

But with you with what I want to share is that that's the system guys, this system is understanding what colours are around me becoming aware of what speaking to me, and how is my body literally manifesting things in my reality from clothing to a tonne of what I so many things, for me to actually be present. For me to actually feel this system, I am in the system, it is me. It's not them.

It's not this person. It's not the media, it's me, it's my personal power, it's me who's in charge of getting the results that I want. And where I want to go into that a lot of you go will go in there. But the chakras are totally internal. Like there's nothing. There's nothing you have to do outside of you to get access to that.

Zero, there's tools, there's people you can get around, there's environments, there's experiences, but you can do it all sitting by yourself, there's no need to go somewhere specifically. And then with that, the other thing is that a lot of you are very see a lot of things you're very vision present and so something that we want to move into is Aras. So chakra is is something that it goes inward and how he described it, or how I was saying before is like your chakra system.

Basically how it's aligned or how it's going to help me through will then radiate out your aura. And a lot of you who can see things or see things around people, you're looking at the aura and their aura is basically two things. One, a bunch of us could look at one person and we could all see something different depending on our unique gifts, what we're being reflected our reality and what our what our focus of our

life is. However, I want to just go into a little bit from going chakra internally to our eyes, if you can describe it. Sure, yeah. So your aura is your electromagnetic field that extends out of your body. Um, some people say it's, it's three feet, some people say it's six feet. I mean, I've had times where it's expanded. Our I've worked on other people or theirs is expanded very far out as far as we can say, but um, your aura is also an extension of who you

are. It's, for example, okay, so this is my best way to explain it. When you're walking a dog around on the leash. A lot of people don't realise that when When they get when the dog walks up to another dog like that, that energy is transferred into the dog. And so they think it's because the other dog is freaking out at that dog but it's because that your your animal is feeling your fear. Right? See your aura is an extension of who you are. Therefore it attracts things to you.

Love. Oh, yeah, yeah. Okay, this is wild wild. Okay. Right before you guys, we started this wild, okay, I'm like, bring it in. Okay. Usually if you guys if you follow me, you see that I attract pennies all the time. already. I tracked a lot of things all the time. But one thing that I tracked pennies, I've done this, like my whole life, wherever I go places like literally, there's always been money in the ground because

money falls from the sky. And I'm basically when I see I know that I'm in the right place at the right time. Like it's basically a combination. So there's been times you guys I have gotten like, 10 pennies in one day. Like it's insane. Like, and I'm like, Okay, this is a real and like, where's that money? I don't pick them all up. But if it's like one or two, I'll bet Okay. Well, 2021 You guys, I have some amazing the goals. We're doing new launches of new products and new

creations. And I was just telling Alexander right before we started this, I found two quarters, or did you like in in at the start of January? Wow. And I was like, oh my god, I think I just like expanded my ability to receive because my goals are so much bigger for my business. And even from what you just said, like the penny to the quarter. I know that doesn't seem like a big deal, guys. But if I found 10 quarters in a day versus 10 pennies, obviously that's not the end of the world.

But that compounds over time. And so it's interesting that you even just brought that up. And then we just talked about it literally. And so what I want you guys to know is everything around you with what you just said is because of something you're attracting, like the relationships, you're in the friendships you have, like, it can be kind of scary, because you're like, why don't really like anything that's around me. All right, I'm really angry at people like, I feel really angry

by the media. Like I haven't I don't have a TV. I haven't had one in a long time probably won't ever again, maybe but I don't know, like probably not. And so I have no idea what that reality feels like. Because it's interesting, when people who play in that space, they become attracted to me or like my parents. Like it's almost like I don't even know how to respond. And because my aura has expanded to such a place where you guys like I literally don't attract those types of conversations.

And so this took me a while though, because there was when I first started my business, there was some denser mentors are denser people that I was attracting, and I had to go through those lessons to understand how did I attract that person in my reality? Why was I attract that and what needs to be healed in me? And so I feel like that's a really good way for you guys to look at like, internally your talk was like, what's going on what's happening and start to Google? Like? What does this mean

spiritually? What emotion is attached to this? Like, what, what's West? Or what's Chinese medicine with this, like, start to do it real time to get answers to questions instead of just going, Oh, my arm hurts are always stubbed my toe, like get curious and start to look at these things. Because the system that we're sharing with you like chakra is and understanding it, and then what how that affects

your are going outwards. And then that affects what can actually be attracted into your reality and what you can play with and we can feel with it all matters. It all matters. Yeah, it all matters. And also like you, you have such a huge chance and opportunity and choice to be able to choose something outside of what you've been choosing for most of your life that has kept you in this sort of hamster wheel of insanity, which is the system the system we're trying to try to live on

is the true system. And the other thing I want to go with that because some of you may listen to it calling like how what how Is there truth to this between a healer and you like what how are you guys able to speak on this? And one thing I know to be true when I really want to hold on to this is people have died like will go to war over the truth. People will literally go to war over the truth. But the truth is truth needs no defending Oh yeah, the truth Truth needs no defence.

And the only way you as one person can get into this system that we're sharing or remembering it because it's always available. It's not like there's an initiation it's just remembering that there is for you to really hone in on what is your truth because your true truth like you are reason for being here as a human being your reason for expressing that your purpose your why like that truth will always align you to these

universal truths. It may take a day For an avenue than what Alexander did, or I did, but it will always guide you back into that. Mm hmm. And always remember that you can take bits and pieces of every single spiritual principle and imbue it into your own

practice. So, just because we tell you someone tell you something, or someone else tells you something else, just remember that is whatever works for you, you know, and what's true for you, like, you know, for so, you know, when I first started this journey, like I always kind of knew about energies and chocolate, I knew about it, but I didn't know the words, let's say like, I wouldn't, like I saw things, but I wouldn't have been like, oh, that's, that's cool. There's

nothing on that. Yeah, um, but I didn't really know a lot about arrows you guys read till probably recently, like probably like the last year, I started playing with it more like I'd see things. But I had no idea what I was seeing or what was happening. But the more that I've diamond even like, oh, well, my fridge was filled with a lot of green, my heart rhythm is open, or wow, I got all red peppers. And I kind of got the orange ones are this like, and I don't consciously do it, you

just grab it. But no decision you make is by accident, because your body is speaking you need read their safety, there's routing, there's something being required. Even my clothing like, you know, if I go shopping, I'm like, wow, I got a lot of nudes, or I got a lot of this. Like, it's always giving us feedback. You guys, like your life is always giving you feedback. And so with that, it's important to know because that's what you're

radiating out. And from what you're reading, and that's when you can start to make different choices on what system you desire to play in. So anything else, I'm sure? No, I feel very satiated by this conversation. Okay, so anyway, I just want to say guys, thanks so much for tuning in. If you know someone who this would really benefit for free to tag them, share it. And I'm gonna let Alexander say how you can also reach out to

him. But I just want to share with that, um, make sure that you listen every Monday because we have three more of these but a total of four. So and my new book and uncompromised life, we have 30 days in January, we're doing a campaign where you can get it a signed copy just for $22. Or you can still get the full uncompromised life experience for $88. We are asking our girls to get 500 copies that are sold, because it really helps my publisher and me be able to get into more

bookstores. And we want that because this book that I wrote is medicine, it's into the system, you guys into the truth system. And so make sure i'll leave a link here, but you do that. And then also as vendor, please share where to find you. I also have read half of the book now I haven't even told you Yes. It's fucking awesome. So yeah, so I also bought my own copy because you support your friends. So yeah, if you would like to reach me, I am under Instagram is Alex may today.

It's m EI. And then also, my website is Alexander may.com. That's me. ai.com. And if you'd like to reach me for email, it's magic legato. LPGA [email protected]. I love this. And the other thing I was gonna say is, I actually did a healing session you guys with Alexander when I was really in a deep transition, like it was a lot of density, a lot of things. The work really works. I know it can be like scary, especially as a woman, it can be scary to be like healer, man,

what's going on? Like it's it can be you know, there's things you don't know. And I had I had a lot of that. And I remember like in one of the parts Alexander and I were there we're doing more energetic work. So maybe you guys don't totally know things but you're working on your energetic body and then for it to come back into your physical body. And so Alexander and I were in the energetic body and he could like tell I was like so afraid and not him. But it was like to let a man come

into that space. And it really transforms and transmutes the current system you're in and dots that importance of going into something like a healer versus Western medicine because you're playing on different systems, and then you can integrate it back in the body where Western medicine is just putting things in your body. Yes. So anyway, we love you share it and we'll talk soon