Episode 41 – Understanding How Vibrations, Energy and Frequency Influences Your Daily Life with Tony Lucero

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Colleen gallagher.co. And check out my online courses and freebies and all my products to help you shift into a new paradigm. And so guys this episode I'm super, super excited about I feel like I say that every time but this one is really special you guys in a way that Tony doesn't even know about this. So his name is Tony Lucero. I hope I say that correctly. Did I say right? You got it? Good job. Okay. Tony is the creator of the five pillars human energy Alchemist sound, alchemist, true seeker,

and teacher. Now I would actually say that it's hard to put Tony into words, I listen to these words. And when you when you meet Tony, you really need to just experience Him. But those are probably the best phrases we could we could offer. But what Tony really is, is we all have these frequencies in our bodies, these vibrations, and Tony literally sees it in a way and plays with these vibrations in a way that most people have unconsciously no

idea what's happening. And what Tony does is he takes these things that are happening in our body, these frequencies, these vibrations, there's tension, and he understands how to transform it and move it in a way to bring you into a more balanced and harmonious state. Now when I met Tony, I would say he I it was you would never know this, but it was two days after I actually went no contact with a narcissistic relationship I was in and I was in a lot of pain. Because I just found out I was

pregnant. I didn't know that could happen. And two months earlier, before the moment I met Tony, I had an abortion. And I found out through this story, my I'm gonna adopt my daughter, but it was the really crazy time for me. I was like showing up for my business. I was in a lot of pain, but I had all these things. And what I want to share with you is Tony didn't even know that till I just shared it here you guys. And that's why it's so important that we show up in our gifts we show up in

our purpose. Even if we think it's out there, it seems crazy. It seems not the mainstream because you really never know how it's helping someone else till far later or if ever. And so with that. I just want to say thank you, Tony. And also welcome and just tell us how we got here. Oh, what a great intro. what a what a great story. I mean, I'm, you know, we never know why we're in people's lives at

whatever time that we are. And I firmly believe my life was like that might my life my journey with frequency goes back to the mind my mom, when I was maybe four years old, five years old. She said you're going to learn how to play an instrument, you know, and I wanted to play outside in the dirt. I want to just be outside. But it was really interesting because I grew up the person who was raising me at that time when I

stepfather. My mom was married four times, but the second person like my real dad, and then she married this person who pretty much raised me from the time I was four to like as 11 Every day I was reminded how stupid I was. Every day I reminded how crazy I was every day I was told that I was I'd never mount anything, right. So imagine a kid with this new father figure telling you this

every day. And it's the the frequency of sound is I mean, it's really weird that I'm saying this the frequency of sound is what really saved saved me as a kid because I started playing this guitar and I started feeling you know, when all this terrible stuff was happening. And all these words were happening in these feelings as a 45 year old kid was happening. You know, not feelings of love, but feelings of like, you know, stress and things like that music was the only thing sound was the only

thing. This frequency was the only thing that kept me like somewhat sane through it all. And as I moved later through my life, like I've always been around sounds of birds and sounds of nature and sounds of the wind like I was really, I gravitated to like that sound that feeling because it pulled me out of the feeling that I was having as a kid growing up, you know? And so my whole life has been in the space of understanding how frequency and energy and vibration can affect

our lives. And so when you met me I've set this place in my life where I've taken all these experiences I was I was a comedy stage hypnotist for 10 years. It's so funny you say I don't even know how to introduce Tony because everybody that I introduce me goes I don't know what he is like he's like an enigma. Like an enigma, because if you follow me if you follow my life, it's like he's got got he was a commie stage hypnotist

for 10 years. So I understand how you know the mind works and how it sabotages everything beautiful in our life. So I understood how that works. I was on a touring rock band for six years, I have had successful businesses, I've travelled the world, probably two or three times looking for modalities and sounds and frequencies that I could learn myself to heal myself from all of my past

trauma. And in doing so, I developed this, this thirst for taking all of these things, whether it be the sound of a gong that you see back there to the sound of a crystal ball, or the sound of a flute or sound of, you know, the wind and taking all these things and bringing them to an environment where, like what you experienced, you could literally come to, and whatever is going on, whatever you're feeling outside this world, when you're in this little tiny bubble, and

you surrender to it, like magic can happen. I've seen sound, do miracles, I've seen sound do stuff that I I've seen right happen for me, when I'm working with people one on one, and I'm doing a sound bill or something, you can really see the shift in their energy, the shift in, you know, whether they're holding on to release, and so just a beautiful place to be. And interestingly enough, Einstein many, many, many, many years ago said that the future of medicine

is frequency. And here we are at a really interesting time, frequency wise, vibrationally wise in the world, with what's happening in December on the 21st. And all these beautiful, wonderful things that are happening now, we have an opportunity to truly shift and start manifesting like optimum

health. And these beautiful states of being that we all you know, we're praying about every night like I just want to be healthy, I want that that's totally possible when you understand how frequency and energy can play such a role in that. So since you are the frequency woman, it's no different. It's no weird thing that you get the frequency Dude, that's on your podcast, you know, I'm saying, but we, we've

we've been connected. And in that connection, when everything lined up perfectly for what you're doing, or what I'm doing now. It's just it's time, it's time, we got to let people know that the frequency and vibration and this energy that we are taking around with us every moment or Alize has an effect on our lives. So we're here to be the people to help expose that in a good way.

Yes. And I want to share something that there's three kinds of questions I want you to go into, from your perspective.

One thing that I thought really interesting, I love this, because on the podcast, it's so interesting, I get I've been receiving men on this podcast, when we're interviewing every single man between what the age range you said, but always someone with 14, which is the same year that I got cancer aged 14, every single person, a man on this podcast has a 14, it is absolutely just mind boggling. And this is like all different

age brackets as well. For me, it's not like it's, it's like not like this, but it's just so interesting what happens in that time of our development as a human. Yeah. And I really believe that the frequencies that are in us by our parents or by by society, the things that happen when we're younger is for us to heal at a much earlier age than let's say when we're 5060 7080 you can still heal yourself when there's at those

ages. There's no like, timeline thing, but it's, it happens at a much younger for you to like really make a lifestyle for you to really create a place for people to come land and learn this. So their life isn't built on compound viewers of unconscious suffering. Yeah. And I love that. The other thing with that is with cancer, I supposed to be on medication for the rest of my life. And I was supposed to not be able to get pregnant unless medication. Both

of those happened. And I know I'll be able to get pregnant again. But um, I was able to really get off the medication understand this, this deeper level of healing. And so what I would like you to kind of define or go in and what would you define a sound? What would you define as frequency? And then what do you define as energy? And then how do they kind of play together? Yeah, so they're all They're all like brothers and sisters, right? So they all kind of are

together. So, frequency, the best way to describe it is for for me, like I've been doing a lot of work in this space of frequency. We all have our own frequency. Let's say we're a radio station. So maybe you're one Oh 5.6. And when I'm when my stations on I'm one Oh 1.3. But you say that, okay? So as we go through our life, this frequency that we're at, when something happens, we get pulled off that frequency. And when we get pulled off that frequency, so

let's say I'm one on 1.1. That's like that's when Tony's crankin and my energy's up and my health is often and I'm focused and everything's beautiful. That's I'm locked into my station. But when something happens, let's say COVID Or let's say this thing or that thing, or this, my aunt had all that starts to pull me away from my frequency when I'm pulled away from that frequency, then what happens is that now now I'm not prone to be the person I am and I'm tired.

And I start thinking weird, and I let my guard down, and then I get sick and that type of thing. So when that happens, we have to recognise that and get back to our frequency. So the frequencies is kind of like our, it's, for me, it's just kind of a, it's like, it's like, when when I'm in the right frequency, like, I know, things are on

things are happening. Same thing, like when I'm in the right vibration, I have the right vibration around me, it allows my frequency to like, tune in better tune in faster. And so for me, I've been playing with the idea of I know what my baseline is, I have this this feeling like my thing is happiness, which is really interesting. I'm gonna say this, but when I was 11 years old, I made a decision when we finally removed ourselves from my stepfather. We moved from from California all the way to

Houston. In my first summer in Houston, Texas, I'm 11 years old, I'm sitting on a teeter totter by myself 105 degrees in a summer, actually wrote about it in my book, and I look up at the heavens, I said, for the rest of my life, I'm going to choose happiness. And happiness is a frequency. Happiness is a vibration, right? So happiness is one of those things that nice spent the rest of my life figuring out how am I going to stay in a state of happiness, because I know what the other

thing felt like. And so every decision I make, I always go, Is this going to bring me the feeling? The vibration, the frequency of me being happy. And if it is, then I'm going to do it if it feels weird. If I walk into a room, and I feel weird, I feel that vibration, and that energy, then I immediately go, I shouldn't be here if I'm truly honouring myself. And here's what's interesting about people, people go, Okay, well, I want to

be happy. But how many people do you know, clean and have a bad relationship with one of their parents, with their mom? But guess what they do? Oh, I call my mom every day? Well, but you're not happy when you talk to your mom, because you and your mom talk are the same? So are you truly honouring your frequency? Are you truly honouring yourself? If you're know that you shouldn't be doing that, but you're still doing it? And so for me, go ahead. Go ahead. Oh, I wouldn't say I'm I just want to

say one thing. I'm so happy you brought this up, because there was a thought you must have caught it from me when you were talking about that. I feel so in this audience, we have a lot of women and men. But one thing that a lot of the men and women in this audience suffer from is relationship dynamics, and specifically with more loved ones and family, but we're like, lovers, but But anyway, but with, they would they'll desire almost to be like I want to reach out, I want this person's

attention. But I know it's not good for me. But we do it anyway. And they get in like this obsessive compulsive loop, which isn't a bad thing. We all can be obsessive, or what like, focus, I guess, something super focused and passionate about a topic. But it stems in that way. So I want to just to point out that you shared that because I've noticed times in my life in the past, when I used to say, oh, this person really bothers me. I'm really upset by this.

But then I would still be hanging out with them, like in my mind, or in my journal. And it would be like so bizarre of like, why would that be happening? And so, so yeah, finish your thought. But I wanted to interject, like the importance of what you said, because those are like real examples that people are like, become aware of like, and no judgement of yourself, it happens, but just catch how often you're doing it. Because that's furthering the frequency of happiness.

Exactly. And for me this the second because you understand something, the most growth years that you have growing is the time from the time you're born to the time you're 11 years old, I unders I know how the mind works. I know that subconscious mind works and the conscious mind works. And that your mind is a sponge during those times. So it was during those times, I've got all this programming on what love was what love wasn't

all these things. And so that's why 11 years old, really weird that 11 Knowing what I know about the brain that 11 is when you start to shift into consciousness into your subconscious mind and everything you've learned kind of transferring into the conscious. That's why you can't tell 11 year old Hey, do you believe in Santa Claus, because they go well hold on a second, and then they're conscious, like, so.

When I made that decision to be happy, it's like I it's one thing to say something to one another thing to honour it and I know what it feels like to have heavy emotions and I know what it feels like to fail. And I know what it feels like to have somebody that you love commit suicide my brother committed suicide at 19 years old. So I

know all these things. And so I if I truly honour myself from and want to maintain the highest vibration and frequency and energy I possibly can I have to remove something or add something every time something happens to me. And so if a thought happens to me, I have a choice in that nanosecond. I need to add something remove something do I want to hang on

to it? Do I want to add something to replace it with something more juicy more delicious, you know, and I've been really good about making that shift and this is when I coach people and I teach people you got you have to stand for something or you'll stand for nothing. And when people say you know I I'm going to be happy to win matter what, but then they put themselves in situations

like you did. And everybody does to talk to that person when you know, you know what the conversation is going to end up at some point how you doing great and awesome, boom, it shifts and now you're down and never Neverland talking about stupid acidic stuff that makes no sense. And you ask yourself, why keep doing this? Why keep doing this? Why I keep doing this? What I'm not what do I

need? And this is when I go forget about them what they're going like, what do I need to do to like, come to terms with this. So this doesn't happen again. And so I've spent my whole life putting together modalities, whether it be breathwork, meditation, walking with nature, taking a trip playing music, everything I can possibly do so that when that happens, I have a resource or tool that I can immediately switch to. And when I switch, that feeling that heaviness goes

away. And eventually, as all the secret, the more positive you are, the more negativity stays away from you. And negativity despises me, it hates me because I'm so positive. And we can't even bother Tony well, we can't even throw anything. And oh, we'll throw a worldwide global pandemic and CIA handles it, you know, it's like, okay, so we have sick people yet sad. And we're getting sicker because of the energy because of the vibration, because of the frequency that people are

putting in that. Meanwhile, there's a whole group of people, I always say, there's a group of people over here playing in this terrible pandemic, and they're getting sick, and they're losing their jobs, and they're hating life in there, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. And you have a whole group of people like me and you who are over here playing in the sandbox, it's like, Oh, my God, the waves are coming, let's go play on the beach. And, and we're, we're building and

thriving at this point. And just, here's a vibration of frequency energy over here. Here's a vibration of frequency over here. Humans have the ability to do that something that no other creatures on the planet do, which is make a decision to make a choice. I can choose any way I want to go anytime. If I just want to just for fun, open my doors and go play over here and see all nasty and disgusting it is over there.

I can do that. But why do I want to do that if when I was 11 years old, I said, Tony is going to be happy. In every job, every career, every person, every relationship, even though the relationship ended, the career ended, the job ended. I learned something about myself and I got better and better and better, better. And my only goal is is my only goal is I want to be better today than I was yesterday. Business people asked me hey, what's your 10 year plan? What's your 15 year deal?

And all that I'm like, Dude, I'm so in the moment right now. Like right now. I'm epic. Like right now. I'm freaking thriving tomorrow. I don't know. Yesterday, I don't care right now at this moment. And it's so a gift to be in the sweet spot as you know, moving through your day stuffs gonna happen I get it. But I got a tool, I got a resource. I have sound I have breath work. I have all these beautiful tools that might display that. If I honour

myself, I'll use them. And if I don't it if I don't, I won't know I like mind blowing. I don't know if I've ever heard it in this way. Probably a lot of other people I've learned from we've called it standards or boundaries. I really love this word of honouring because there's a lot of times it may

feel into this. There's a lot of times whether it's in when I worked in corporate, I definitely was never honouring myself, I just thought I wanted to make the most amount of money and be 30 under 30 for Forbes again, this big $23 billion company. And then I wanted to travel the world and I did that but I and I started my

awakening. But there was so many times where and a lot of the audience can relate to this where I someone would ask me something, they'd want me to be part of something they want to do an experience and in my body. I knew that that was not the right thing for me, even though it was great experience even though it would have been incredible. But I still said yes. And even though I can't say that the experience wasn't

great. I gave money to it and like I did all the things but the betrayal of myself in those moments cost you so much not just in that moment, but it actually causes so much PTSD in a way like so much of like, you are aware that you somehow betrayed yourself in this type of way and it's just honouring yourself that what you're talking about is really building the momentum of trust and I feel like vibrations are so important because it compounds if you want to relate it to something like

money but money is just a frequency Yeah, but it compounds the same way as anything else like if you're building a house it compounds like all of it and so I love that you're saying this word honouring because how many times during the day does someone text us we know we should answer the phone we should turn all our notifications off we shouldn't look at social media like we go to grab our phone we get the intuitive nudge like don't look

at your phone right now. Put that down, talk to me do whatever and we still do it and that that process of honouring Wow about I can know for me I'm looking back at you're saying that in my life. My biggest random results in life You want to call him that our biggest shifts in life? Were when I did the honouring It made no sense why I was being asked to do that honouring but when I did it, it made so much sense. I don't know if that really like, put a story

to that. But yeah, it's like, it's how it works. It's interesting you say that you latched on to that because I've gone down and I've coached 1000s of people and, and initially the word was love, like, if you will, if you love yourself enough. The challenge is, people have a hard time loving themselves enough, you know, I'm saying so honours a much deeper word. So if I go, Well, if you love yourself enough, you know, I can pick up

the phone. Well, you have the stepfather that tells you every day that your worthless piece of you know what, and so do I really love myself if I'm hanging on to something from my past? Not really. So people are not going to do it for the love of self. They might at some point like I love myself enough to know that I can put my phone down I can not do something I love myself enough to know now but in the early days if somebody said, Well, if you love yourself, you just want to talk

to your dad. Well, yeah, but I I need to talk to my dad means what kids do I got to talk to my dad and I'm going to do it. And but the word honour I spent five and a half years military so the word honour for me it's like it's like at the deepest. It's even deeper than respect. It's like when you honour something to the core. Like it you you are standing for something epic you and I'm saying it's like you hold it so sacred. Like this is who I am like you can you can take everything away from me.

You can take all that this and that and that material things and the people but the end of the day, I the only thing left standing is my honour, like what I stand for. And it's gotta mean something to somebody, you know? And no, I literally love what you said and actually the word he seriously I feel like you and I are telepathically communicating. Very rare, but I will put it this is like the

real podcast. So I was thinking the word we were saying honours and it's sacred and something that actually I had to I had to transform through with the with the co creation of a narcissistic relationship I was a spiritual codependent or emotional codependent. So what that means for those of you listening is emotionally I'm wanting to give when I wasn't giving to myself and then from that I would attract negative situations I thought I could help feel distort what I wasn't

healing in myself. So with that, what I learned in my journey through healing a lot after that is that I never knew this but I viewed love as sacred and it's funny that you now bring this honour because I would always be like I don't understand why these men don't think like this or the men I was choosing things like this I don't get it and a really profound he does it to me they were like calling because you're so deeply committed to love love is sacred to you and these people don't know how to

have emotional courage or or in broke down the now that you're saying this honour god there's so many people I know that are listening to this that are like, just do you even have values? Do

you even have principles? And are you honouring those do live by those like one of mine is always curiosity diversity of conversation travel like there's all these things but do you even have that to base it off of and I and I'd love for you to talk a little bit about the military because I don't know if I've had someone on here from that so a lot of people probably in this audience and I'm happy you said it would think sound military what's going on but I but I I want to bring light to it

because a lot of people here have negative perspectives probably around the military just because of what's been revealed unfolded other things in it but it's not necessarily negative I think it is a really can be powerful tool resource for certain parts of the world. What's gone on and what probably will happen. Yeah, but related as that and then also the sound I'd love for you to bring that connection.

Yeah, it's I've always wore a different suit is the best way to describe it my entire high school class and elite Hastings High School in Houston. You know, they Some went to college, some got jobs working for their parents, I was the only one that went into the military right out, right, I was 17 years old, I wasn't even old enough to go in, my mom had to sign the paperwork. And the reason why I did is because I didn't know what I wanted to be. But I did

not want to stay. I didn't want my mom to feel she was responsible for me, because she was raising four kids by herself. And so I don't want her to feel that like Mom, I'm gonna do my own thing. And, you know, I'm gonna, you know, you have to worry about me, I'm gonna join the military. She's like, What? Like, I'm a lover, not a fighter, you know, I'm saying like, when you see Tony Tony's like, what the heck. But here's

how the universe works. And I believe you know, there's these dots that you know, this, this map that's laid out and there's all these dots. And at some point in our life, we start connecting the dots and go, oh, shoot, that's why I met that person. And that's why I had that job. And that's why that experience. The Air Force, for me was one of those dots. And what it was was a chance for me at 17 years old to go into something that didn't make sense to me because I don't even think

I played cowboys and Indians. So I'd like for me to have a regimen to go from a place my mom was doing and you know, trying to take the best have a family to a place where they're yelling at you screaming at you, which reminded my stepfather. I mean, I literally walked right back into my stepfather after we just had left him six years earlier, right. So I walk into this hostile environment. And for whatever reason I was led to

do it. But people asked me like, What was the most significant thing that happened your life, and it's crazy, like the military was because as a 17 year old kid, I'm placed in an environment where I have to go from 17 to 35. Like mentally, I had to get to a place where I could hear instruction, take instruction, fold my own laundry, buy my own clothes, buy my own vehicles, do everything by myself, not with my mom. But I had to grow up. So the military allowed me to grow up

really, really, really quick. I knew the second I signed the paperwork, and I was on the bus driving from Houston to San Antonio did that I was gonna suck at some of the military because I'm not a follower at all. And so he now I'm having people tell me what my hair has to look like when my outfits when I can go on leave when I can see my friends when I can write letters. So for me, it was like the true test of disk, and invoke developing in me, a

discipline and a focus. And it when I was a kid growing up, I used to pretend I was in a movie. And I literally felt I was in the movie in the military, like I was in this, this war movie. And they said, action, and away we went. And I just felt like I was acting. And here's what's crazy about it all. My job. I was a cop carrying an M 16 machine gun. And I was flying a chopper to go out to work on the missile fields. Four days a week. So the total against anything that I

am, like complete opposite. I was always the guy in high school, I was on sports. All the women hung out with me because Kotak to Tony, he knows the answers, he knows the answers, he'll make you laugh, he'll make Tony. So I always that really nice, soft spoken guy that had a lot of friends was popular in school, but and now I'm thrown into a cop carrying an M 60, which is a big machine gun, chopping out to the missile

field. So because of my ability to adapt really quickly, I quickly became the person that if something needs to be done, go talk to Tony, he can figure out how to take this difficult regulation, this difficult task and simplify it. And I would take in all these regulations that were 2030 years old, and taking them going, Hey, we can do it this way, and make it easier for people. So we all can get along. You know, we all can be happy. We're not supposed to

be happy in the military. But so I still dabbled off and on playing guitar often on playing guitar. What the military brought me was truly the the discipline and that feeling of

loyalty and honour. And that's why that word comes up even today is because I the thing I'm most proud of even though I'm I don't believe in military games and living in fear, I'm most proud of is that I went through that and got the foundation to prepare me for things later in life, which is prepare me for these experiments that I did that didn't go very well, because some people call them failures, I call them experiments, right? All this stuff prepared me for later in

life. So as I got out, as I got out, I quickly jumped back into playing guitar again and jump back into music. And then I got a gun to

hypnosis. And I've always been on stage entertaining, moving people through my words through my energy, just like you calling people, when they're around you or even they hear your name, they go, ah, you know, when they hear Tony, it's like, ah, that's what I that's what I work every day to make sure that I'm staying and honouring myself and authentic to the gifts that I've been given. And I just stayed I say my lane I tell people get in

your lane, stay in the lane. And you know, that's that's your only goal is to stay in that sweet spot is to find that sweet spot for you and stay there, you know, with the right intent with the right love. And life will be beautiful for you. If you can do that. I love that you're sharing this

too. And I'll touch on it. So for some of you, many of you know who you are, but I'm getting my PhD and I'm not pro what's it called Pro academia, through the education system, but I feel like there was a very specific mission that I was given all of us are given and part of my mission for the rooms that I do desire to be with the people I desire to be communicating with the decisions that I feel, I desire to influence that is a requirement at this point in the evolution

of humanity. By no means would I ever in a million years tell every person to go go do their masters and PhD or any of these things? Definitely not. There's a lot of times when I'm in my classes and I'm like, no join me out. But like there's other times when I also see like, there's a lot of really amazing scholars and researchers if you actually hit COVID-19 The researchers who are speaking out right now are those who did the academic route and not the

mainstream route. And that's what a really beautiful thing. And if you are called to be a researcher then absolutely that's the pathway that's the way to learn the process. This objectively writing and finding materials just as if, with what you said, you travelled the world and you had all these different modalities that you started learning and adding to

your toolbox. And so I love that no matter what your path is, sometimes you may do something or be involved or experience something that quote unquote, maybe is viewed as a matrix or viewed as negative or viewed as a conflict area for the soul, let's say or for the unity consciousness, but it still is part of unity consciousness because there is still a need to go into kind of density or into vibrations that are not meant to maybe expand they're meant to just be like a road and

infrastructure block they're meant to be a block for us to receive and then expand beyond and so I love that you shared that as I can relate to it as

well. But I want to touch on something a little bit here and maybe you do this with your clients but what would you say for people who are listening who are like okay, I want to understand this energy I want to feel like it's real but I don't get how money is gonna work I just don't get how it's gonna happen like I don't get what you're saying military and then now you're telling me you do sound healing like that just doesn't make sense to me what would you offer in that

perspective? And then also in the perspective of them being in a job or place just to again like receive the money but a scared to leave like it ties in but those two kind of concepts? Oh, this is such a big thing. I know why you're bringing this up? Because it's a big thing for people it's like, you know, do what am I here on this planet to pay my cell phone bill and do whatever job I have to and be miserable and hate my job and hate driving to work and, and live like that?

But you know, I'm surviving. Here's what I can tell people in just basically a nutshell, it took me a long time to fit well, not really, because I figured out long at a young age when I got the military. I knew that I had the ability to simplify things I had ability to move people i the ability through my energy to get people to follow follow me, right and do eight. Tony's doing it. I'm doing it. I don't know how many times I've heard that my Hey, you ever doing it? I'm all in. I don't

even know what it is. But let's just go do you know, so I spent when I got the military said, Okay, I know what I'm not I know what I am the military love because it gave me this foundation. It gave me the belief that I could do anything, I can fold underwear in a little foreign square if I wanted to, which is what they taught us. Or I could, you know, jump out of an aeroplane. I mean, so there's so much stuff that I was able to learn there. As I move through my life, I made that decision 11

I was gonna be happy. Playing simple. So what does it make Tony happy? Well, Tony knows that Tony likes to talk. Tony knows that Tony loves people. Tony knows that he's really good on stage, communicating, taking a difficult message and communicating to a way that makes sense to people. They go, Oh, okay, now I get it, even though they've heard it 1000 times from somebody else, but they get it with me. So I've always known that I've always known I've had the ability to

move people into action. So I said, Okay, if that's what truly makes me happy, then I'm going to find jobs that do that. Well. So my first job out of the military, I was selling, I answered the ad working for a fortune 500 company. I walked in there it's a Kirby vacuum cleaners. So it was I really

honouring that. So for eight months, I became a Kirby vacuum cleaner salesman, which taught me something taught me how to communicate with somebody in three seconds, because my knock on that door, you better love me, or are you going to hate me, you're going to kick me out. And I was able to get in these people's homes. But here's what I realised in seven months. If for those who listen, I want you guys listen to this, for those that are going after something because of money, and it's not

your passion. Seven months I had one month that was good. Because I was learning I was excited. I was like, oh my god, this is great. I'm learning. I had six months of being sick. I had six months of energetically, every time I walked into a house, I pulled dirt, I'd start coughing every time I'd go home, I'm like, I would go home like God, I just feel like crap right now. And this went on for six months, but I made $75,000 in seven months, selling Kirby vacuum

cleaners. So, at that moment, I said I will never do anything for the pursuit of money ever. I don't care if I'm making minimum wage, and I'm speaking to the homeless people motivating them. And I make you know, and they're giving me you know, $1 to give them a motivational speech. I didn't care. And when I shifted that, okay, when I made that shift, and I said Tony is going to stay in his lane Tony is going to do what he loves to do when I make money or not. I'm gonna develop my craft when I

make money or not. I've made so much money, not pursuing money. That it's freakin crazy. That's all I can say. So for those people that are going well, yeah, but Tony, you don't know me. I got bills. I got that fine, then you're going to that exchange of your energy for that exchange that frequency of money. It's going to run its course. It's going to run its course. My mom I love her death. My mom was at a point in her life where she goes, I gotta

find somebody with money. I want it wants somebody to love me, I want somebody that's secure. I want someone to take care of me. I want somebody to be financially sound. So she found this guy that was rich er than most people. She falls in love with this person, I guess. They get married. And everything is great for kind of like my, my, my my vacuum cleaner story for a

few months. And then the oil crisis hit in Houston and ever but a job in Houston, Texas that had anything to do with oil, lost their job, he was an engineer doing something for oil company, lost his job. Now that thing that she wanted, which was security, guess what, we didn't have any more security. And guess what, they didn't have any more a relationship because she went in wanting something. So if you go in wanting money, my dear listeners and that money,

something happens to it. You're going to put yourself into a world when it's going to set you back years, sometimes decades, emotionally, physically, spiritually, mentally, it's going to set you back. But if you go, Okay, what do I love to do? Where am I where the the skills and talents from all these jobs and careers and the experiences I've had these failures is experiments that went like what should I be doing? If money was no object? What would I be doing every day?

Like? People don't know this call and you might not even notice. I'm actually a genie, did you know that? I actually grant people do that on your on the Facebook. So I did. Yes. I was like, Okay, I see. People, I get people wishes. And so I'm gonna say, Hey, if you had one wish, and let's say money is that thing, and I put enough money in your bank for you to go live the next 10 years without ever thinking about money? What would you be doing

with your life? What would your life look like if you woke up every morning in a state of euphoria, and you went to bed eating want to sleep? Because you were so excited to get up tomorrow to do what you'd love to do? What would it be doing? And you know what, most people can't even answer that. They can even answer that. It's, you're correct. And there's two things I want to touch on here. And what you just

said, it's so important. So what's one is this thing of woman wanting security and safety man, it's a huge one with the Root Chakra, and I want it and it's red. It's a very big

thing. And I feel like 2020 the end of 2019 This was a huge one, not even just for myself, but to like, embodying for me, but embodying like a feminine frequency, it is so profound as a woman, our natural state has been to feel unsafe because even from a biological standpoint, like we're meant to be entered we're meant to be penetrated

like that. And it's almost like because of that it feels like there's something already taken from us there's already like a disadvantage and so when you said that in my mind, I'm thinking wow, I never I've related that before to money but when you just said the story I was like wow, like such a powerful visual went through my

system. Because I can totally see how women are programmed in so many ways to believe that safety will be found in men but if you are only chasing a man for safety and security, you will never quite feel the love that you truly desire in a relationship. Correct. The second thing I want to share with you about this this is really such a cool story. I have never shared this actually go let's go let's go. Okay, so when I had my abortion I told the part the guy that it was a

miscarriage. The reason I did that is because it was he's a master manipulator and that's okay. I attracted that but I knew like my soul knew if I called this man and told this man i He would it would have been a different outcome and I knew with everything muy bien this was the right decision for me and the child it was like I

knew so much of it. And he never offered and I went to therapy after a while EMDR and I went to a therapist and I went to a healer and I did Neurofeedback therapy I went like all are doing things and so what do we have to do when we have something so traumatic like that come up in our field but obviously it was a little bit financially stressful because it's like okay, this is kind of a lot that I'm putting on myself like where's my mouth the guy never offered to pay for

anything with a miscarriage or whatever which was totally fine I don't need it but he quote unquote possibly had the money I mean, he did it from his Yeah, but anyway, so I never asked for it never do anything never complained and I went and did my I did to Neurofeedback 13 weeks each sessions I have one more one month one that I'm doing for my visions it's totally different now than trauma but anyway, I but I go to my mailbox Monday and I see there's a lottery ticket there and I don't

do and it just literally laying on my mailbox by itself and I'm like you've got to be kidding me. This is like gonna be crazy. And so I've literally like it's just sitting there it's not a card there's nothing like there's just a lottery ticket by itself in my in my mail. It's nothing and so I go and wipe it off and like I didn't win but it is the second chance so go okay, I'm gonna like enter to win second chance. And so I win the second chance almost exactly to the dollar amount of everything.

I put into personal development from the trauma that happened. And I was like, yeah. Like, I was like, this is incredible. And so it was like so funny because I didn't think funny, it was just one of those moments of like, I remember those times of being like, holy shit, I really don't know how I'm gonna keep my business going. And like my lifestyle and like, take care of this mental trauma that just the emotional trauma that just happened, like I really was like, how is this gonna happen?

How's it gonna work? I'm, like, it was scary, a little bit like it was like a shock to the system. But I always would be like, breathing, it's gonna be good. It's gonna be fine. We're safe. And that was like, my whole thing was safety. But it wasn't even really with money. It was just in general. So I love that you shared that because it's such a real thing that happened in my life recently. Yeah, it's, it's a great story.

And the thing that's really tough for people, because you've had this happen, right is is to know that this force that we cannot see, okay, whatever it is, whatever you want to believe God, creator, energy, quantum, whatever you want to believe, right? This energy, this frequency, if we can surrender to it, when we surrender to it, and not have to force and pull and tug, and scratch and claw, and we can sit with it and just go, You know what, I don't know what I don't know. But I know

and I trust enough. And I'm going to surrender enough to the process that whatever's meant to be is going to happen. And if the money, the money I need, it's going to show up, it's going to show up. If the thing I need the job, I need the person in the relationship I need whatever I need, when the timing is right, when I quit clawing and tugging and pulling, and trying to encourage energy to flow where it probably doesn't need to go, then that's when the

magic happens. And it's so difficult for people to get that because we're such instant gratification beings and we get to where, you know, we're taught in market right now. We're all we're hearing here, who's crushing it today who's freaking killing it. So I mean, the the mentality that we've come to is, we have to be in this fight or flight mentality all the time. And when I started understanding energy, my whole life shifted. I mean, at 54 years old, I have more freakin energy than people

in in their lifetime. Well, then 10 People 100 People in their lifetime will have why is that because I appreciate it. There's two things I'm very appreciative number one, the time they have on this planet, so I'm going all in every, every nanosecond, I'm here. The second thing is I I'm aware of energy. And I know when it pulls and tugs on me, I got to stop it. When am I gonna use one of my tools? I'm gonna use something, and then all sudden just goes away? Am I inhumane?

Because I'm not sensitive to the fact that you know, somebody's sick, no, but I can choose to how long I want to stay in that state. If I want to sit with it for a few minutes ago, kind of sad, whatever here and be the strong one. When something happens then that's maybe that's what my role is. Go to Tony. He knows the answer. Go to Tony. He can help you feel good. Go to, you know, go to Colleen, she's gonna say the right thing. She's perfect for you guys. We all

have our roles. I believe your role in my role is to tell people it's okay. Number one. It's okay to have life stuff happen to but what you do with that, and how you respond to that. If you understand frequency, you understand vibration, you understand energy. Like you'll make the right loyal decision based on how well you're honouring yourself. And I have no time because I respect time so much to sit back and sit around and have people talk for more than four seconds about politics.

Like I just don't want to do it. I have no time because I've only been given a certain amount of time. So I got to make sure that time I'm happy. It I love these and it's so funny you said this because my mom called me my mom is so beautiful. She's on this awakening journey. She's she's she's trying to shift share, she is shifting but she's she's there like these parts of her she was really programmed from having been in law most of her life. And it's a beautiful thing. But anyways, so she will

call me someone's big. Why just know this COVID thing isn't right. And that one's gone. Like I can't I just can't listen to it anymore. Like I'm like, I love you, but I can't I can't listen to anymore. And I really believe like, the more that we talk about anything, it's what's gonna manifest. So example if it's politics, or if it's like, if anyone is actually I just wish there could be a study on this, the people that are talking about their dreams right

now versus COVID-19. Like what their life will be like, in five years to see that study. That would be incredible. Like the people that probably so stuck on this thing and like so angry about it like I can probably tell you're going to have more chronic illnesses and the people that probably had COVID-19 in their heart possibly could or could not have pre existing conditions in future but it's probably not going to because

they're happy. They're not talking about it and they're moving on with their life and it's it's something that it's it can be hard to hear. And I think what Tony are saying to is there's a way when you obviously need to communicate need to purge and you need to have a container that's held like I said, therapy I've used Neurofeedback therapy I've been sound healing sessions I mean I've done a lot of different modality Writing, journaling.

But there's also a place when you come to a healed space and you speak on it, but when you're speaking on it, and you're still bleeding, it like to others who are trying to empower, it's not helping. And so if you're still bleeding about politics, or you're bleeding about COVID, that you have a lot of emotion behind it, it's probably not a time to speak on it until you really have a sound vibration, like a sound, clear place of, here's what I stand for. And

here's what I'm honouring. And no matter what anyone else says, it will never sway you. But if you're in an emotional space of this is what I believe in this is your easily Slater trying to prove your energy to other people. And it's just a lot of pain that's leaking out of you. But it's this way of what Tony said, using these modalities and and I think the biggest thing I just talked about in my webinars are the two most important things in this time is our world

is time and energy. But I really believe for you to maximise your time and energy, you have to get new environments and by listening to this, you're in a new environment, you're listening to a new frequency. And I know Tony, you have lots of do online sound, the sound healings as well. I don't know if you have like a certain time, but anyone could say it on

there, or on here. But I just recommend the Get yourself outside of the normal things you do into things that are more expansive, and things that are more expansive, or things that has to do with developing yourself things that aren't just sitting and talking about silly things. It's talking about the future talking about the dream that's talking about clearing or unravelling, or unwinding anything that's hindering you.

That's expansive were contractive you do need that but a consistent say there's contraction there's a shrinking the shrinking energy is more like talking about people highly emotional not sure not hot not like these are things that we want to move into contractive for you to like move through the pain to expand or or or just not find a way to stay there. We want to move through that and so um, so yeah, I guess with that, Tony, tell us where we can like

find you. With the sound healing if you have like a specific day every month or what you do with that. I really don't but if you follow me the best thing to do probably is on Facebook is a really good resource is Tony looser on Facebook, I have a business page and a personal page. So you just paid until you sell you'll find me I pay the best thing that you can do. And then from there, I can include you everything I'm

doing. I don't have really like a set schedule, like Okay, I am doing a sound healing very soon, but it's just when I feel it, I do it, I put it out there and people come and it's beautiful.

One of the one of the things you said was really interesting, I wanna make people grab onto you guys the new time management is energy management, that's the bottom line like the new time management's energy manage because if we respect time we respect our energy then we'll we'll make sure that we're doing the right thing if we so choose, there's that choice word again if we so choose, we'll make sure

we're doing the right thing. And if you're looking to elevate your your energy you guys you got to start learning something new like when every time I learned something new I'm elevating my being and I'm becoming a better version of myself and that's all I want to do everyday become a better version of myself. So what can I

learn today? What environment can I put myself in and that way different than the other one like I don't want to go to that group because all I do is do that like put yourself in a new situation and just be open to receive that that frequency from that new situation listen to the podcasts it puts you raise that vibration raise that frequency right raises your energy like and then when you share that like oh my god I was on calling saying they had this guy Tony on there you got to you have to

believe what he said when you look what notice what happens when you start teaching and sharing that energy that's been that you just learned you know so let's let's be in a place where we're exchanging like loving healing positive energy for change you know and that's what this whole new shift that's happening right now is so Facebook you can find me I'm on Instagram I am Tony looser on Instagram not really big on

social media. But also to there's something special I can give your guests if you'd like calling I'm doing I create a web page that says your desire to life now calm your desired life now.com You can go there I have five steps to help people kind of like shift their energy so if there's an energy subtopic that you're trying to discover like how can it work for me there's a place you can go to do that. So I will leave all of those in the show

notes as well. Like the sound bites go live you guys that will leave the links on there so they also can get it on there. But anything else Tony or that you want to share offer before we close it nope Yes. I'll leave with this you guys. This is my this is my thing I'm really passionate about we all have right now. We all have this in this desire life right now. I mean, our current life right now, in our current life is three dimensional world that has all

the moving pieces. It's all the things the person the shoes, the people, it's where we're at right now. It's our current life. All of you have this thing called a desire life. It's like Ma'am, my life was just like this, if I had these things and all this house and so in order To get from your current life to your desire life you have to add or remove something or we have a blind spot fixed or a hole in

your boat plugged. And to help do that you need people like Colleen II people that are coaches and teachers that have been through that that are I'm still learning I have two coaches right now. I'm still learning right I still have blind spots I but I have this desire life that I'm shooting for in order to do that. I got to remove something or add something and that's what we

want you guys to do. We want you to add something remove something to go from here to here to here to here to here and live the quality of life that you guys are dreaming about. fantasise about praying about it's possible you can have the most beautiful life if you just put your energy there instead of back there. Or even in the future. If you focus on the future, have fun with that if you focus on your past Good, good luck to you but if you can stay right here, man it's that's

the sweet spot. That's the sweet spot. So that's my thing. Go to your from your desire life, your current life, you got to remove stuff, add stuff, I know you can do it. I believe in you guys. And Colleen, I'm honoured to be part of this. I'm so grateful that you and I met and I'm so grateful for your journey and all the help you're giving everybody. Yes, no. And I'm super excited when we add video in 2021 you'll definitely have to come over so we have it on the pink couch.

We'll have it so, but we love you guys and have an amazing new year when you were just after this will be the last episode of 2020. So we love you guys and toxin