Episode 4 Change Your Language to Change the World

to change the world. So one thing that I really believe, and I can say this, because it's happened through my own life is the way that we actually communicate within our own mind. And then the way that we actually grab that language and then communicate it out into the universe actually creates and designs, every little detail that's around us. So, in this episode, I really want to go deep into how that actually is

proven to be true. And I want to go over some modalities and some tools and examples from my own life of how my language has changed my life and how you can become more aware you can become more compassionate, you can become more loving of other people, when you start to notice the language that you're they're using, because how someone is speaking tells you a lot about how they view themselves and a lot about the language patterns they have going on within their

own head. And so I truly, truly believe that the most powerful thing that we have in this world besides our beautiful mind, is that the way that we communicate with ourselves and with others, that is why it's called spelling because our words literally cast spells. And you can go back in ancient times and study this or

you can do it now. But either way, I mean, when you just look at the makeup of words like the scientific makeup of words, it gives so much to you about what the frequency of that word holds. What's the frequency of the energy behind that word. So for an example, when someone's asking you how was your day and you're going today is Okay, today's great today is awesome. Like each of those words, you can just tell even with the vowels, how they how they come out of your mouth, the vibration

is different. I'm not even just saying it just because it's it but let's say if I have a bad day, it's a bad day. I can't even make it happy. It's a bad day. Like it doesn't it doesn't sound natural, it still has a bad with the be with it goes lower in the vibration. to densify the word were good, it's a good day like it has two vowels next to each other to emphasise the the vibration of moving upward to go it's

awesome. It even starts with the vowels starts with a the first letter like you're doing amazing. Again, another a word, like look at these, these things that are that are communicating and different vibrations out of you. And so when you wake up every day, you know you're gonna talk to yourself in your head. But you kind of have two options I say

to talk to yourself. And I say option one is you wake up and you're telling yourself What a loser you are, how hard this is gonna be how much you don't want to get up how frustrated you are, how much the Coronavirus sucks how much we're all sick of being inside what's gonna happen with the economy. And we have all these worry things that are going on that we're frustrated,

no one understands us. We're angry at the government, we're angry at countries, whatever it is, well, I can tell you just by those simple voices that are going through you that your life probably sucks and you're not happy. Like you're probably not a very happy person, you're probably not feeling like you have much to do in your life, you probably feel like a victim like you don't really feel like you can upgrade your life. It just is what it is. And you're just going through the motions.

Well, that's because you're choosing that, as we went through in the first two episodes, you're not even tapping into that you have an obsessive knowing that you're

meant to do something more. And you're not even really transitioning from my career, my life, my this to impact of others, because everything I just shared was all about me, me, me, and placing blame on others, when in reality, the only thing we can do in this world, whether it's fair or not, is take responsibility for ourselves, our actions, what's happened and choose to move

forward. And so option two, if you wake up and someone tells me you're gonna go, Oh, my God, this is gonna be a great day today is going to be an exciting day had these amazing things to do on my to do list, I'm going to get one step further than I was yesterday. I'm going to request guidance from my angelic team from my light avatar team.

I'm going to request guidance from source universe, just energy, I'm going to do my yoga practice, I'm going to go work out for 10 minutes, I'm going to do a walk, I have all these great things I can do. And I'm also gonna choose to be grateful for what a beautiful day it is. Whether it's raining, it's sunny, it's cloudy, it's so beautiful. The birds are chirping, I hear cars going in the background or just simply nature. And it's just going to be a beautiful day. Regardless

what happens. Mike drop, I can probably tell you you just increase your happiness level and live by at least 1,000,000% just by simply the thoughts that are going on in your head when you first wake up. Now, I mean,

I am an alien. I like to say yeah, I can read mine so I shouldn't say that but I telepathically can communicate with people but I would say you can really tell a lot by someone just by how they're sitting how they're talking and and that language that they first pick up with in the morning like what is that thing Are you first grabbing for your phone to seek validation to see whose message you are you just waking up and feeling into your heart and how

beautiful it is to be here. And these cause a huge difference in your reality, these are going to cause a huge difference in the language that chooses to come through you. And so, language, as I said, is what creates your internal extra reality. That is why it's important to become aware, like, create the space become aware of how you communicate, and how you can upgrade your communication.

These two examples I shared with you option one, and option two, you can go back and listen to them are two examples I share that can create two totally different lives that you're loving, and it's gonna be the same person, they could be living one life, just choose to shift their thoughts make a conscious effort and choice to be like I'm going to rewire my thoughts. And this same person can literally live a totally

different life so quickly. And the beautiful things is that you always get to choose to start using different language to live a different life doesn't matter, I'm sure even Jeff Bezos, I'm sure even Nelson Mandela, I'm sure even Muhammad Yunus who's a huge won the Nobel Peace Prize like he's always expanding his language I'm sure people are always learning more expansive ways to communicate. Because how you talk if it's kind of even I versus us, where can I say us

more? Where can I say we more work and I say you more and empower other people to take their power? And ask yourself even how many times you ask people how their day is versus how many times you're being asked just the simple awareness Have you seen how much you are looking within and how much your inwardness is evoking other people to, to come out of being inward come out of being locked in themselves and their mind and

this sadness? And how much are you being observed as being that leader, as I talked about, in Episode, The episode three, but the second of the series? How much are you being that leader, to really initiate someone else to step into their growth, because I truly believe if you're listening to this, you know that you're meant to help other people, you know that you want to help other people, yet you just aren't sure exactly how

it's gonna happen. And so trust the process of not knowing and trust the process of upgrading everything. So I versus us how many times are asking people how their day is? How many times you worry about what other reactions are to you, instead of having a trusting and knowing that everyone around you accepts you? And isn't even thinking about you? How many times are you not speaking your voice, not speaking your truth, because you're so worried of

being rejected and accepted. I know, this is a huge thing that I've had to go through my life. And so many times in dating relationships, and business relationships, and potential client relationships. I haven't said what I really felt or felt like I needed to say, because I didn't want that upset someone I didn't want to rock the boat.

But in reality that was hindering me, because I was so focused on me and the reflection, it would have instead of someone else's growth of what that could provide for them. So when you can just start to change your language in this way and become more aware and become more committed to to communicating what's coming through you in an expansive way to activate initiate others to go deeper into their journey of being who they really are, your

life will absolutely shift. And so a great book that I like to talk about, and I've read this book quite a few times, but it's a book that I really share. It's called neuro holistic neuro linguistic programming, but that's NLP. It's a tool. However, it's a book on Amazon, it's NLP, The Essential Guide. And if you just Amazon, it will

come up. And it's a really great book, to recognise our to invest time into, because it guides you to understand the science behind language and how language is designing, creating and shifting the reality in every moment. And in every moment, you have an opportunity to create a life beyond your wildest imagination. So a few examples, this isn't from the book, but this is something that inspired me they had it laid out this way that

I'd like to share with you. So upgrading language examples, if someone asks you, how is your business going? And everyone when they say, How's your business going? No, I like to say it's going bad. Even if it is everyone's like, Oh, it's going good. It's going good. It's this, you know, you like to focus on the good things. Well, a great way to expand upon this even more as How is your business growing, going, you can

say it's growing. Because whether your business is going in the direction of maybe not doing so with numbers, or maybe it's going great either way you're growing because your greatest lessons in business come from failure. I've learned much more when I went $100,000 in debt then when I've made $100,000. I've what I've learned so much more when I've missed my flight than when I just showed up and went right on my flights.

I've learned so much more when I had a Zoom meeting and the Zoom meeting was scheduled wrong or people weren't showing up or wherever that it was and I showed up anyway and had to figure it out and be resilience and everything going perfectly as it's meant to. Things never really go how they're planned to

yet you're always growing. So someone's asking you how your business is Doing say that it's growing and that simple language of it's going good it's going back to its growing, growing neutralises it a lot more, it doesn't make someone else feel envious or jealous or comparing themselves to you. Because a lot of times, they'll be big Oh, my business is going better than that. And they'll go on about all these things you're like, Okay, now I just feel like I have nothing to talk to you

about. Because I feel like I'm so far behind you. And I just feel awkward. And instead of you just simply say it's growing. You've now just opened a catalyst for a conversation because you can talk about the things that maybe aren't going so well. But you're learning from you know, I just hired a new team member and I'm learning these things and it's growing yet I had to figure out I knew this and you don't have to go necessarily in the good or bad

direction. You just really neutralised it because you're growing. And the true point of being a human being in our evolution is growth is to be growing. If you aren't growing, you're dying. And that is the point of being a human being. And that is the point of incarcerate, like being incarnated in this body at this time is to grow. Another thing that I like to say is, when people say, How are you doing? You say, good verse, awesome, slash fantastic. That alone will

change your life totally. If you can just practice saying, I'm doing awesome. I'm doing fantastic. Instead of saying good. And obviously, this isn't a false thing. Like don't be fake. If you're having a bad day, this big. You know what, today was a day I was challenging, but I'm learning a lot of lessons. Again, totally changing your thing from bad to upward, spiralling into a momentum have that you're going somewhere, you're learning from it, you are going in the right direction.

Now, the next thing that I like to share as an example is what is new in your world, a lot of people will come and say that and sometimes it will be same old, same old or that list, like this long list of things, like I said, like this, like, oh my god, I can't even process all

that. So again, the greatest thing to say is what's new in your world is I'm learning, I'm learning that I'm doing this, I've I released this, whatever that it is, and I'm learning a new sport, or I'm part of a book club yet, don't just say same old, same old, have something new that you're always doing, you know, make it a point on your calendar once a month to try something new as a new yoga studio, whether it's a new book, whether it's a new friend that you're meeting up with, like

make it a point to do something that's new for you. Maybe it's dating even like I'm starting to date again. And that's exciting for me and my partner, we just found this cool day we did a dinner date and we dressed up and it was a fascinating time and and have something exciting to look forward to at least once a month that you are excited about and that you're excited to share it with two other people. Um, the other thing that I really wanted to talk about with you guys here is NLP neuro

linguistic programming. So I've done NLP for about three years now I've learned it, I've done some trainings on it. And it really does change your life. However, the thing that I want to share with you is that I do believe that there's a way to use language in a manipulative way. And there's a way to use language in an empowering way. Now, a lot of sales people read NLP books, and they can use it to kind of manoeuvre manipulate

to get what they want. Well, here's the reality of what I know about personal development and personal growth. If someone's really ready to receive what you have to offer, you would never have to manipulate them in a bad way for them to become part of your tribe, you would never have to ask them 200 times pushing them, shoving them making them see the

value. When someone is ready to come into your arena of personal development or education, or really even a sales deal if you have products or if you have whatever, like once you have something that you put out into the world, it's yours, it can never be taken from you. And that's either that's with any company, like I think of the company I worked for was a $23 billion company. I mean, I don't even know how many products they had like, probably 100,000 products seriously, and no one

can take that from them. That doesn't mean that every bill or every bill that we went to go do that we were going to receive but when the right moment was there, I really believe on the right deals there for you. The right people will show up you don't need to push you don't need to struggle you don't need to manipulate someone's mind who's vulnerable who doesn't know these skill sets into believing what it is you believe you don't need to for someone to

be in your world. And an example I like to say with this is you know recently I posted something on Facebook about this Coronavirus, and it was about how I Ron was back in China that the US created this virus and that's a whole nother podcast podcast episode yet. What I realised with this is that the NLP part of me was like, Okay, I don't want to manipulate anyone's thought process. Yeah, I just want to create an opening

here. So I share this article and share like a brief overview of like, Oh, I'm not surprised yet. This is a really beautiful evolution of how multiple governments are going to be involved in understanding where this came from who was impacted and what's shifting in the global economic affairs. And that's again, a whole nother podcast I'll do after this eight part series. Yet on that a man commented on the post and he said, China should be a third

world country. And in my heart, it sank my mind, my mind my heart, like I thought my heart actually came on my body because I was like, Whoa, did someone just comment on my post sharing? They wanted another country, that's a billion people to be a third world country? Well, first of all, I know this, because of my Masters of Science and global technology development, China's actually a developing world, it's not considered a developed nation.

Because it has a billion people, you couldn't actually wish that it would be a third world country because there's innocent children, woman, men who were born into China, much like many Americans have been born into America, people that have been born into the United Kingdom, Brit, British people, and you know, any type of person that has been born into a specific country, Cuba, I've lived there for a while. And Latin America, I mean, all these people who are born into a country doesn't mean

that they're bad. And it doesn't mean that they deserve to suffer. Every human being deserves the opportunity, if they choose to live at their fullest potential, yet, it does come back to a choice. And so when this man said this, I initially went, well, wow, this guy is obviously super angry. He's super lonely. And He clearly doesn't really understand how the world works. And I went into this deep compassion since because change your language change the world.

Why knew this man by his language had a lot of anger and frustration built up in him maybe for many years, because people didn't listen to him. He didn't feel heard. And so I remember that I replied to this message. And I said, you know, you would never wish for someone to be in a third world. Country, that means they don't have water, they don't have food, like they're suffering, you know, you'd never wish that upon

a newborn baby. Or a woman who's giving birth to a baby and has no medical advice to give birth, like, you would never wish that upon someone. And he replied back, you know, will the government's evil and all these people and I'm like, Yeah, but the little baby who was born isn't evil, not everyone, there is evil, the the the guy that's working in China, because he was from China, and he has a big agency there. He is not evil. That's the country he was born into. And he's created a great

business for himself. He's employed other people. He's helped other families like, that's not evil. And their country very much may think that American government is evil. And so you can just tell a lot by someone's language and him saying those things like wishing that half the having the capacity to wish that upon someone else, means that you yourself must understand what it feels like to live that. Because knowing what that means, you can never wish that upon someone else.

I mean, thinking of it logically, you couldn't from your heart, you couldn't. And so it just tells you how disconnected this man is also from his heart, how he's intellectualised, his whole life, he's been bombarded are torn apart with words, and he's literally has no heart, his heart isn't existing inside of him. Because if his heart was, it wouldn't be possible for him to say those things. So changing your language, it changes the world, I responded in a very, like, thoughtful, mindful way.

And I said, Thank you so much for sharing your voice. It really matters. This is, you know, every opinion is welcome here. And I shared my piece of why I felt what he shared was not really an okay thing to share why, you know, let's broaden our perspective. Let's broaden our lens. Let's look at this from a place of, you know, people that are North Korea, they're not evil, those people just don't know any different. And you don't know what you

don't know. And that's why I'm doing this podcast, because so many know how to be connected maybe with your heart, how to use this expression of language, how to really become free and freedom is really the exploration of the expression of you. And when you do that, with language that guides you into a more expansive state, it guides you into a more willing willingness to be open. I'm feeling like it's like a whole portal that I'm seeing of this white, purple spiral portal

that's coming down. And when you have a willingness to just simply open your mind and open your heart and open just yourself to a new possibility of broadening your lens that no one is against you. Everything is for you. Everything is moving with you. Everything is aligning for you to really create the life that you want to live. And you could have that language be constantly going inside of your

head. Instead of wishing that people were in a third world country, your life will shift massively because there's no way that you can honestly live our suggestion or hope that some a whole billion people are living in a third world country, and that you could also simultaneously be happy with your life, those things just don't go together, those things just don't act as an a vibration

to go. It's like if I was saying, if you want, how was your day, bad, good, amazing, you can have a bad day and also simultaneously have a good day, you can have moments that you learned that they were negative that they were lessons and you turn them into a positive. So it became amazing because you grow you grew, you took the opportunity throughout your life to do that you have the opportunity at your time to do

that. And so the point of sharing that story with you is I wanted to just show you what an important impact your language has. And your language actually goes into something called the quantum field. And we're all existing in the quantum field. It's something It's physics, it's, it's science, you can read about it through many researchers, many scientists, Dr. Joe Dispenza, talks about it

a lot. And every time you put a vibration out of your mouth, because it's all that it is a vibration, which is what I just showed you examples of multiple times throughout this episode. And with that vibration, the world is then going, it's going into this this portal that I kind of described described to you, it's not the exact colours that I shared with you. But it's, you have these vibrations that are going out into the

world. And the world is then capturing that the quantum field is now receiving that they're receiving everything you're saying, because everything is vibration, space is moving through us. And in that in that place of you putting that vibration out, there's a rebound effect of that something comes back to you. Because there's a give and receive cycle, it's like we breathe in and breathe out. And in that cycle of receiving in and receiving out.

That's the same with our language, our language is going into a quantum field that then comes back to us. And whatever we put out every moment, we're seeding something like every moment, we're dropping seeds. We're farmers, we're harvesters, we're putting things out there

and they're sprouting. And so what is it that you want to seed into the world into the quantum physics for those vibrations to rebound back to you because if when you vibrate light, when you share light, when you move in a place that's going forward, that light can only come back to you.

And an example of this for many of you, some of you know don't know, but I speak light language, it sounds a little bit like this shadow today NACA that the quiet they are showing the carrot right corner para guitarra Denia SHA, Ah, shut up. But today I chi up we're gonna get to another red cow. For many of you who have met or been interacted with extraterrestrial beings, this is the language that they speak.

They don't speak in words, since density, this is light, all of that just goes into the light like that a frequency that I'm receiving from something higher than myself from multiple entities or beings that are higher in a frequency that don't have a body, they act in a different plane, that light goes

out into a field. And then there's more light that comes back into me into my channel, which is my body for me to receive from my mind and come out of my beautiful mouth to put language to something if the best things in life you can't really put language to get it starts with shifting your life to change your language to change the world. And that's exactly how you become a heart

centred business leader. And so my suggestion for this is that you start wanting to take ownership of what it is you're saying you start to take responsibility that every single thing in your life down to the smallest detail is because you

chose it. The second thing that I really recommend is that you start to choose differently, you start to see that you can always have a different reality, you can always choose a different reality, you can always be a different person, you can literally start to shift your mindset to create anything you want in this life. It's just a

simple choice. And so I hope that this episode serves you in the Episode Notes, I'm going to leave you a one YouTube meditation that I've done that goes similar into the language of light, and also connecting with your soul. And the second thing I'm going to leave you is a mindset audio that I have that goes through three steps for you to simply start looking at how to shift your mindset into a place of feeling good. I also do a light language activation and that one, so I love you all so

much. If this has served you please leave a review please share with your friends. We want to get this out because surely it's been my honour and my privilege to be a man's best friend and for women out there to really take our power back and realise how to be exactly it is who they want to be.