Episode 28 - Educating Yourself on Crypto Currency & Knowing You Are Enough with Rj Rajamani

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community that we have. Now, before I get into this conversation, it is a pleasure to introduce who this is with this is with a dear friend of mine RJ who has been in trading his whole life. He's created a tonne of wealth throughout his life. But he really has always stayed heart centred, focused on being in the vibration of what it means to be a good person. And he has an incredible phenomenal story. He's now involved in cryptocurrency and he is absolutely not phenomenal

at it. He's helped a lot of people create wealth, he's helped a lot of people be able to become millionaires. And he is just someone I admire and his way of being at some way I admire his way of thinking and the conversation that will totally blow your mind. So please share it with your friends. If you don't know anything about cryptocurrency this will be an eye opening experience for you and excited for you to tune in to receive the frequency. Everyone I'm super, super, super

excited about this episode. It's episode 28 of the Colleen Gallagher podcast where we are having another conversation episode where I'm bringing on a very dear friend of mine that I've known for almost two and a half years now or something it's been maybe a while, actually and so I'm super excited to bring him on. And for those of you who know the podcast is 100% free. It's where we just have conversations to ignite a new way of thinking in your mind a new way of being in

your heart. And if you want to know more about my work always go to Colleen gallagher.co or reach out to me on social media. But with that, we'd like to welcome RJ everybody what's up beautiful people. So we'd love for people you like Introduce yourself say who you are, where you're at your story how you got and we'll go from there. Okay, so I'm based out in Singapore. I'm third generation Singaporean,

yeah, it goes Singapore. So I have dabbled in multiple different businesses from E commerce, to cryptocurrency to traditional offline businesses, which all been very fruitful for me. In aspects of cryptocurrency, which I believe is the topic for today's podcast. I got into crypto by accident. I think more or less in the year 2012. Towards the end of 2012. A friend of mine came over and said, Hey bro, like, Yo, what's up? He's here and like, Have you heard about this thing called

Bitcoin? I'm like, what is that? It's like, it's kind of money. You could buy that to buy drugs. I'm like, really? We could buy drugs with that. I'm like, fuck yeah, show me the way man like, show me the pot. I'm like, Yes. And then even like, okay, so this is what we do. We have to buy this thing called Bitcoins. Now we can go and buy drugs. Now I found out I could kill people I don't like as well. But I didn't kill anyone just saying you know, just to be sure.

So yeah, so that's what started my whole cryptocurrency adventure. We went out we bought so much so much bitcoins because we just wanted to buy drugs but it just so happened that we didn't smoke so much so we didn't buy too much. So we had all this bitcoins left over which we actually forgot about. And before I could understand what Bitcoin was, another friend of mine said, Hey, bro, have you heard about this thing called Aetherium? Aetherium I think I bought Aetherium it's seven

bucks. I have it somewhere here on let's see if I can find it on Coinbase actually bought in Coinbase wait when Coinbase was still cool. All right, so don't judge me. He was cool back then. Half the people may not know what Coinbase is for everyone listening. Coinbase is an app that you can download on your

phone. And you can directly link your bank account or Paypal or whatever to basically go and buy different crypto currencies bitcoin is one type of cryptocurrency the other one that RJ mentioned Ethereum is the another coin under cryptocurrency. But there's multiple coins just like if you're going to the stock market, multiple companies, same way with crypto and you can buy and sell and trade them for different amounts based on the market. Right? Yes, exactly. So

yeah. My Aetherium for that was your that was really, really important. So I bought like, yeah, scrolling on. Yeah, it's not showing it's not showing on my phone, though. But think it's on the desktop. I'll find it later. So So I went to Aetherium. And I think it was like seven bucks, I think when I went into a TV. So again, we bought a bunch. So we just held on to it. And next thing you know, I'm studying started to learn and understand what cryptocurrency

is. And I understood one aspect of cryptocurrency that captured my attention was, I don't have to be Texas, and they cannot trace my money. I'm so intrigued. I'm like, Okay, so there's this place where I could actually hide my money, not pay taxes, not be caught, and they won't know that the wallet belongs to me. So you see, cryptocurrency wallet, I alphanumeric wallets. That like a string of alpha Alphabets and Numbers. There's

no name. You don't have to register your Social Security, don't have to give them your phone number. You don't have to give them anything. You could call yourself a murmur con for all you want. All right, that could be your name. It's like a Swiss bank account, which is inside another Swiss bank account. It's like an Austrian US bank account. Right? Where anyone who holds the keys is the owner of the wallet. So that's what happened. So that intrigued me. And I went in and I learned more

about it. And I started to trade cryptocurrencies by a bunch of different currencies. And as you know, in 2018, it just went parabolic just to the moon. And everybody was no saying, Let's go Lamborghinis, and Ferraris and private jets and strippers and Playboy playmates and stuff like that, right? Yes. Yeah. And that was when I cashed out everything into US dollars, because I kind of figured that I have experienced trading in

forex and gold and silver. So I understood that when everybody's running in, that's when you bloody run out like you don't wait for them to say, Would you like to leave the cryptocurrency space now we're about to crash the fucking market. No, you understand that? When there's greed in the market, you run out as fast as you can. So let's talk about that in a couple of ways. So let's just talk about the market

in general. So let's say a lot of people listening to this or in my audience, they probably know a little bit about the stock market and like a in a in that place, but crypto is like a totally different world to them like this is probably like the first time they maybe even hearing like Bitcoin and Aetherium are two different coins or there's different coins so you don't pay for talk. So let's like break out What do you mean by the market? How Does it even work? And how do you follow

it? Okay, so, so this I explained things to keep it simple for people right? Now look at the forex market or the stock market. Yeah. You have all these like, you know, for example, what's been like the UBS bank standard chartered banks, all those stocks. Now these are names and brands that we are familiar with like Johnson and Johnson right?

But when it comes to crypto, we don't know the name like Bitcoin Aetherium Litecoin this all bunch of different coins is actually works exact same way as the stock market. It's just that this one has a different name. And the brands on the stock market a brand names that we are familiar with. That's all exactly the same. And right now the crypto market is so new so it's like a baby. People's is 10

years old. I say it's only a year old starting to crawl it just now that governments and and you know financial houses are coming in to understand and take over. The thing is when you look at The stock market when it first came out the very first time like years and many, many, many years ago, it had penny stocks, people could do anything with the market and get away with it.

The same concept is now the crypto market, you could abuse the market, you could you could do whatever you wanted to market, you could manipulate the market. And you need you're not going to go to prison. Because the market is still not like, oh, it's still not legalised, controlled by anybody at all. Yes, we can, whatever you want, right? Yeah. And I wanted to go and get to things.

But I want to say one, I want to like point out that you actually created six, like, quote unquote, success pretty early on in your age. So I think a lot of people listening, if you're listening to RJ and you're trying to maybe like understand, or I'm trying to figure out how to do a right path. I one thing that RJ and I talk about a lot is there is no like one right path. And that's one thing I love about RJ is he's taken multiple paths throughout his

journey to get where he is. And if you're listening to this, just remember to not compare like where you're at to someone else's depths that have maybe already lived a little bit more experience more things in you and you your time is always gonna come. I just think that's one thing, my audience is probably thinking right now, like holy shit, there's no way I'm ever going to understand what this guy's talking about. And so I just want to put that

out there. Um, the other thing I wanted to go into, okay, there's no one being able to, like have jurisdiction over it like what you said, like policies and governments. And this is a really interesting topic, I find so there isn't an international court system. But obviously, it doesn't really have a lot of

jurisdiction. And so what do you even see like how it could work with governments getting involved in crypto or policies, or you have no idea like this is just theory, but I have an old theatre that I have on my own, you know, which I think will play out exactly the way I envisioned it. So you see, there's this thing called Bitcoin cryptocurrencies and all kinds of digital currencies around the world, that people have billions and billions of

dollars worth of bitcoins. Now, imagine if the government woke up one day and said, We banning Bitcoin and anyone who has bitcoins goes to prison back in like, like how in the United States back when owning gold was a federal crime and you had to surrender your goal to the US government? Or you're going to prison right, to wait to invoke another nother law like as such that if you hold Bitcoin, we're going to lock you up for 30 years. We're going to take you

away from your kids. We're going to take you away from a grandkid, we're going to put your kids in, you know in foster homes are going to still hold on to your bitcoins or you're going to give up. A lot of people are going to give it up right now. A lot of people think yeah, we can control a Bitcoin in control of cryptocurrency, you have decentralised decentralised exchanges, you have centralised exchanges. We have, you know,

the dark web and everything. But what you fail to understand this, this is basically the government, the people who control the world, actually allowing you to think that you're in control. They could take it away anytime they want. Right now, it is basically a whole media media junket, they're just giving you the type of Kryptos the kind of type of crypto companies you should go with. And it's telling you like, okay, company A is good company

B sucks. Why? Because they have the money to manipulate the way you think. And they have all these ads, retargeting you playing with a mindset playing with the subconscious mind, because the more you look at something, the more your subconscious mind believes it. So right now what they're doing is they're trying to digitise currencies in order to have a control over the human race.

Because what, what I see is, with a lot of people awakening and you know, a lot of people forming tribes now, online, you go back to the olden days, we had tribes of people living in the forest in the jungles in townships, physical tribe, but today our tribe is digital. We are actually going backwards. But we are digitising our pasts. We're becoming a digitised online tribe of villagers who

live on the internet. Right? So with all this digital currencies coming in, we're going to use that to to barter and buy things within our own tribes. So back to the government and legislation. If they are going to pass the legislation and say, Okay, you can't use Bitcoin, you have to use a coin that say, the US dollar coin, for example, right? Then you have to use that. Otherwise, what are you

going to do? You're going to go to the shop, you're going to go to McDonald's says, Hey, McDonald's, I have bitcoins Can you give me a price? And they'll say no way. We only want the coin that is legal. So Bitcoins, basically worthless. Only thing you can do is probably traded on the ground for illicit or illegal stuff. That's it. You Yeah, and for those of you who are in is we're not saying this as a current state, but for a futuristic state just so everyone listening understands.

Um, the other thing I wanted to ask you about, tell us a little bit about when before you are in crypto, like when you were in gold and summit and E commerce or you're still in E commerce, but tell us a little bit about those as well. And like what you've learned or what you've done with those. So when it comes to e commerce, it was something that I signed up because it was interesting. I started seeing people making money online, somewhere around

2011 20 2011. And I was intrigued because firstly, I really didn't have much indication. I'm like, basically a high school dropout, like even the high school didn't want me kind of shit. So I was like, Okay, I have an option, I could sweep the road, or I could clean the aircon. I mean, these are great jobs. I'm not demeaning anybody's job. But that's not something I wanted for myself. So when I went into E commerce, I sold my first product for $10.

I'm like, Shit, I make $10. And as soon as someone who doesn't know me, it's like, wow, I mean, 30% margin. What if I did this 100 times a day. Of course, I went to try it. And I obviously didn't sell anything at all. After that $10 It took me a while and learning and understanding and you know, going to coaches learning the art and perfecting it and making my own. Because there's no two person who can, can do the same same methods have the same abilities because you could go to, to a coach and

learn right? Now the coach can teach you everything they want. They know about, say, Amazon or selling online, but the only variable that they cannot give you is themselves because the way they think the way the risk, they take the the amount of time they spend the work ethics they put in, that's the only variable that will be different from the methods they're going to teach you. So I took it and made it my own and discover my own part. started selling on Shopify and stuff. And I did try

to train a bunch of people. I did train like a bunch of people who are making like seven figures. But training is not for me. I don't Yeah, okay. So, one thing so if you're listening to this, I think it's a good two way thing. What was your biggest failure in E commerce? And then how did you bounce back? Well, my biggest fear in E commerce is actually thinking that I know every damn thing that I was god of ecommerce, that I was a King Kong of ecommerce, you know? Yeah, it probably down real

fast. It just taught you to respect the space and, and your, and your abilities and understanding, keep on learning. Because when you think that you're done, and this business is going on his own, and you get complacent and you forget to take care of your business, your business no longer take takes

care of you. So that's one thing I learned that no matter how big you grow, or how how know how much you make, you always have to be on on the ball and not drop the ball and ensure that you're taking care of business. Because that's what's going to put food on your table. I mean, nobody cares. If you make money. Nobody cares. If you don't make money. People want to bitch about you anyways, right? So if you don't care about your own business, then who's going to care about you?

So that's one thing I learned. And yeah, it took me like another, like, seven months to bounce back from all that losses I made on my ecommerce, but it was good. It taught me a valuable lesson. Very expensive, though, but valuable. Yeah, one thing that I love, he said there and I think it's, I never really thought about it this way. But I write about it in my third book coming out. It's like, relationships will never feed

you like your business well. And I think one thing especially for probably women and men, but like graduating high school or barely graduating or graduating college and kind of going into maybe more of a basic version say basic but more of them matrix job of a nine to five, you learned this much money every couple years, you get promoted for a small raise, like I think that's fine, but I agree with you like, still what what people in that environment, even entrepreneurs like what makes

people quantumly get results or like get the bigger bonuses or get the big clients is like they really do take care of their business, you know your business in and out. I really believe everyone's kind of an entrepreneur. Even if you're in the matrix, you still have to show up and take care of what you need to take care of. And if you want to really excel like you've got to have goals and drive to do it. Otherwise you're going to kind of live Life, which again, like RJ said,

it's not bad. But if you are listening to this, I know most people want more out of life. So you've kind of got to start looking at like, how do I treat my life? More like, I want to get ahead, like, what are the thoughts that I start thinking? Who are the people that I started surrounding myself with? What are the conversations and even when you fail, okay, no, I remember RJ is one person I called when I did my first $100,000 in debt. And I was like, Oh, my God, it's the worst

thing ever. He's like, you'll be fine. I like was crying. And it was like the horrific world ending and are just like, that's not even that much. Totally fine, you're gonna be fine. And I think for a lot of us, like, you just have to look at like, where are your thoughts going? Are those in alignment with like, actually, where you want to go? Or are you like looping backwards and things that really aren't, I guess, in alignment with where you want to go? That's just what keeps coming

through? I guess. So I don't know. I'd love to hear maybe if you have a story about that, or an example. So I mean, just to just to reiterate on what you just explained, or here's the thing about life, right? There's no fixed time as to when you're supposed to get married. There's no fixed time as to when you're going to get rich. If you don't, you don't even need to have a goal. You really don't have to have a goal. I had no goal. The only goal like I don't think it's a

goal. The only thing I wanted to have is I just want to have money. That's it. I don't get how we came. But as long as illegal. I'm fine with that. So that's the only thing I wanted. I just didn't care. Um, the thing is, a lot of people assume that. Wow, everybody had an easy and you know, stuff like that. Yeah, some of us have it easy. Some of us have it hard. But it is the moments when you sit alone with yourself. Because you could lie

to the whole fucking world. You cannot lie to yourself, because no matter how hard you try, it's like if I say, RJ you have beautiful hair. It's a lie. But I know I am bald. That's a fact of life. Right? So you can lie to everybody except yourself. So when you sit alone, with yourself, always talk to yourself. In a third person, look at yourself from a third person when you can understand and see yourself as a third person, see your flaws accepted. And talk to yourself with love.

Always. Never ask, Why am I broke? Can never ask why am I not going anywhere my career because when you put thoughts like like this, like if you ask the universe Hey universe, why am I broke? The universe will show you exactly why you're broke. You show you all the ways that you're broke, make you feel like shit, not because he hates you. It's because the universe loves you so much, that it's actually answering your question. You ask the universe, why am I broke? So the universe

loves you so much. And it shows you exactly why you're broke. But we being humans, we don't see the science that the universe shows us, we only see the pain and the hurt, because that's how human mind is is is programmed to go to the head because we we have been trained, so called or hired for this. Like, over the years, over the centuries, we have been systematically made to understand that we have to be humble. We have to be polite. We have to be we have to have humility. For

fucksakes I'm not a slave. I'm a human being. Human beings, by nature, are arrogant. They are savage. We are hunters. You take what you want. You ask us to be humility, to be humble. And then when someone comes to tell you, Hey, I love your dress is beautiful. And then you're like, I don't know how to accept the praise and the loving like, yeah, thank you. But you know, this is like an old dress. You don't have to say stuff like that. You should just say thank you. I appreciate it.

Why do you need to put yourself down and say it's an old dress? Learn how to accept love and praise into your life. Speak to yourself as a third person accept love. Ask the universe. How do I make a million dollars? How what do I need to do to make a million dollars? Universe? Could you send me people into my life that will help me get to where I want to go? When you ask positive questions, you get positive answers. Now some of you out there may be thinking

yeah, RJ shut the fuck up. I don't know what you're talking I've tried all legit. Yeah, you have tried that shit for three weeks. And then you expect a miracle. Dude, come on. takes you forever to get something Yeah, what I love that you said here there's a there's another friend of mine. Marcus

dreamy. He was on the podcast and he was the number one paint ball or in the world and he said something really fascinating it was or what aligned to what you said is when you ask For when he realised he could make money doing paintballing. And he was like, if this is really like all I wanted was to travel and just mean simple make money he's like, then I realised how much money you could make doing something like paintball. And I realised you could make

money doing anything. And it's interesting, what he said is this new project or dreamy app that he's He's launching, he was like, you know, sometimes you may never get there, it can take a whole lifetime to get where you want. But by you compounding the questions, you start asking like today or tomorrow, like in five years, you won't even realise it. That's like a base minimum question that you're asking yourself. So the questions you're going to continue to ask are more expansive as life goes

on. So like, for an example, one might say, like, how are you and then like, you're gonna stop asking yourself, how are you? Because eventually, it's always just going to be fucking great. And you're like, I'm great. I am

amazing. I am this and you just keep going to that next level, not even realising that like a year ago, or two weeks ago, or a month ago, or 10 years ago, you had to start with the basic question like, how am I today, and that like compounds into a greater infrastructure that you can build in this lifetime. So I really love that you share that too, because I think it's something that is really, really important and crucial when people are just starting any part of their journey. That's true.

Um, what would you say to like looking at everything that you've ever created everything you've ever done? What's been like the most challenging part of it all? Um, the most challenging part of it all, is actually the most challenging part of it all is me learning that there is no right time to start anything, there is no perfect moment to start anything. Because in my journey, as I was going, I thought I was waiting for the right time as I

was a progress procrastinator. I was waiting for the right moment. I was waiting for the right time. And then he hit me. And I learned, you will never, ever be ready for anything, you will not be ready for the long hours you're going to put in, you're never going to be ready for the hard work, you're never going to be ready to lose your friends. You're never going to be ready for your wife to walk out on you. You're never going to be ready to

go bust. You're never, ever going to be ready for any of the things that's going to come if you think you're ready. Trust me, when you start your journey, no matter how big or small or whichever, you know, segment of the business world you want to get into, you will never be ready for anything that's going to come your way. So that was one of the hardest thing I learned. Because it took me a long time to get out of my procrastinating mindset to jump

into this. And then I understood we procrastinate not because we we were waiting for the perfect time we procrastinate. Not because we fear for we procrastinate. Because we're scared to fail. We really scared to fail. Not. We are afraid of people going to laugh at us. So what let them laugh at you. If you fail, and someone says, aha, I told you so you fail. So what? So what unless you try what the hell are they doing? You say not eating potato chips and watching

Netflix. And if you try and yeah, and that was a really important thing. I know that you said to me when I was like 100,000 those $100,000 in debt. And I was like, worst thing ever. It's funny now because our day was so rare. Like I look at my life now. And it's like not ever a big deal. But trust me, I thought I was like literally death. Like I thought it was like the worst deal ever in the world. And I think wherever you're at, in your journey, you do have to be okay, it's not

even really failure. It's kind of dressed up as the way of perceived failure, but you actually learn and grow so much more in the failure and even heartbreaks than you do when everything's going smoothly. Like, I don't, you definitely couldn't name any person who's ever built something or created something that there wasn't an issue or a failure on the journey to get where they are. Um, but that probably perceived failure made it on so much more

worth it. So I think it's a really important part to go go through and like for people to understand, um, the other thing that I really wanted to dive into something that you know, talked about before but failure, I know a big thing you always have worked with people on even yourself as this whole phrase is I am enough and, like, talk to us me to go deeper in it, but a little bit about, um, about that. I mean, I know I know a little bit of it. So I'm for the audience.

Well, you know, I always saw myself I'm enough because I am enough. Like, what else? Do you want me to be like? I am enough. I am perfect. I am in love with myself. So one of the things that I'm going to share with you know, with your audience as well as I think I've shared this with you before See my phone? Yeah, I've all this alarm set throughout the day. Now, it may sound ridiculous and stupid. And finally some people set a bunch of alarms like it says, I'm extraordinary. expect miracles

to happen to me. Now this alarm use your iPhone, you always have your phone with you, right? set alarms like every hourly let when the alarm rings. Yeah, it sounds stupid now, but when you do, and the alarm rings, and you see the smile on your face, no matter how bad your day is, or whatever, it's gonna start to register itself in his subconscious mind because his subconscious mind cannot differentiate between negative and positive information. It absorbs every damn thing, right.

And when you start to have this alarms go off, on and on and on, you start to put in a lot of positive a lot of love insight. And you start to smile more. And when you smile more, and you get happy, what happens? You become a happier person. Yeah, one thing I really got it, we haven't talked at all on this podcast. But I think it's really important. He pointed out earlier, we wouldn't phrase it in this way. asking yourself questions of like negativity, why am I broke? Versus how can I

make a million dollars. Another thing that it's really important when you're speaking in your language, whoever, whatever it is, when you say I can't do this, or I don't want that, like I, you always want to repeat like I do want this, I can do this. And you really want to phrase your words looking how much you're focusing on the negative or the knots, like not even realising you're doing it versus like the more expansive

way. I don't know if you have a few more examples, but I know that's been like a huge game changer in my life the past couple years. Yeah, you know, we talked about failures, I believe in two things. There's no such thing as a bad situation. And there's nothing in life for you to worry about. These are the two things I live by.

Because the reason why I say there's no such thing as a bad situation is because no matter how bad your situation is like Okay, guys, I've I've been to places like the, you know, to Congo, not the democratic Congo, but communist Congo. I've seen child soldiers. I've done, I've seen stuff. So yeah, so this, you know, it's come back here. So no matter how bad your situation is, if you think like, for example, take Colin's you know, $100,000 debt, which is no longer there

anymore. Like, if she thought that having $100,000 debt is bad, you know, there are millions and millions and millions of people who would swap places with her in a heartbeat. In a heartbeat. If you were a person right now, who was, I mean, let's say you had no arms, no legs, and you were like, in a hospital bed, and you are eating food through a tube. I know,

that's horrible. But there's still be millions of people who would swap places with you in a heartbeat because they are situations are a lot worse. Okay? And this is not something I tell you tell yourself, so they feel good. I'm telling you that you are in a position to do something about it. It's not something you tell yourself to soothe yourself. Alright. So there's no such

thing as a bad situation. And the other thing that I said, there's nothing and no such thing as worry, as because if you have a problem, and you can solve it, let's say in a day or a week or a month, or 10 years or 100 years, and you can solve the problem. Why the hell are you worrying about it right now? You're just prolonging your sadness and your worries and all that shit, because it's going to be sold. Anyways, what's that worry about? Nothing to worry.

But if you have a problem, and you cannot solve it, no matter what happens, even if you turn the wall upside down, you cannot solve it. Why do you have to worry? Because you really cannot solve it at all. Why worry? Instead of focusing on the worries, redirect all that energy into finding happiness, even in the darkest of situations in the smallest of situations. I learned this when I was in prison. I was in prison for five and a half years I was in a single solitary confinement

cell for a year and a half. It's a little cell pitch black. It is padded down. You stay alone in itself. There's no light to sit down. And at this point in time, when I was in prison, my kid was born and I never saw my kid in prison. You know, you can bring kids to prison sample, so I never saw her. I always had this imaginary conversation with this

shadow inside. And when you're in solitary for as long as I have been in darkness pitch black darkness, we start speaking to, to figure that not there, you start speaking to lizards and cockroaches. And, you know, you don't know if it's Monday or Tuesday, you know, you feel the sun, but you don't see the sun, you smell the rain, but you don't feel the rain, you hear the wind, but you never feel the wind, touch your skin.

And over time, there were times where I tried to kill myself multiple times. And trust me in a Singaporean prison to kill yourself is impossible, is impossible. Everything's patted down and everything is made out of rubber and plastic that you can't do shit. Um, then there was a point where I just gave up eating. And as I lay down on the ground, I still remember this. So I laid on the ground. I think about a week I didn't

eat. And I said, put my head underneath and you know, the door, they have that little ledge, and they don't look, this light down there. And something just reached out to me and said, RJ in your moment of darkness in your moment of despair. And the worst possible moment in your life. You see that light, you hold on to the light, you grab it, you hold it. And then you make that light as big as you want.

You make it as big as you want, I'm going to give you a drop of light, you take that light, you go make it as big as you want. And that's when I woke up and I was like, I haven't locked inside the cell. But that door is gonna open one day. And a year and a half later, that door open my tiny light, they gave me hope I held on to it. Open the door and had a bigger light. And then when I walked out of prison, I had a bigger light. And then when I saw my daughter for the first time, my light

even became bigger. So from that tiny drop of light that came to me and told me to take it and make my world bigger. I manifested bigger and bigger and bigger and bigger light. So failure is something you should not be afraid of. Failure is something it's part of life, you know, just feel if you have to fail fail, because God will not put you in a situation you cannot handle. However, if it does put you there. Yeah, I think I know 100%. And thank you for sharing that so

much. And I think one thing that I like no I love the most about you is RJ is really someone even though he's created success, he's also had the others RJ what I love about him. And he's just so honest about everything that's happened in his life. And he really has taken like knowledge and really turned into wisdom. Like he really everything he says like he's

actually done it. He's really understood both sides of the spectrum, the light and dark and he has witnessed it and seen it like I think a lot of kind of New Age spirituality or people, they talk about life or they talk about things. They talk about business or tech startups, but you really have really embodied both of them, which I think is so beautiful about you.

And I love that you always really every time I talk to RJ he really focuses on things during rise, like up levelling you to that next level of thought, when like, you're like, Oh, my day was great. And the next thing he's like, you know, your day was brilliant, and you're saying all these other words that you didn't even think about using, um, but it really does every word you create out of your mouth, it really is creating your reality, whether

you like it or not. And I think another thing you said, that's really important, I'm going to add to it, but that God will never put you in a situation that you can't handle. I think the other thing is, God always gives you what you need, not what you want. So you may be asking yourself, why haven't I got a million dollars out? Or why haven't I gotten multiple or 10 million or whatever your goal is for anyone listening or 50

million 100 million. Um, but just know that that's really the wrong questions kind of UI you want to have money goals, but it's like how do I be happy and how do I actually be aligned and how do I actually feel like deeply and from that place of feeling that's really this equilibrium, I guess that we're like, I don't know like moment that we're getting people over like the hunch of they're about to like, be at the top and save lives and like what's gonna have you go down the road?

coaster is like when you really understand the feeling and you really get to the vibration then whatever you want it's ecommerce gold for me, creatures books, online course, whatever else that I create, like that's, that's really how it goes. It doesn't come from like logically, always sitting down and knowing what's going to happen. It's like okay, this thing just happened in my life. How do I tune into the feeling?

How do I flip the feeling of anxiousness of fear failure, procrastination into a positive thing, and I just love that you always go deeper into that for everyone. Yeah, it must be a positivity a lot of people. You know, when they hear this to be like, you know, it's easy for you to say to be positive, because you've really had something like, I'm like, You think I was born with like, like, you know, when I was born, do you think like, God say, Okay, I'll say RG to Earth. Hey,

RJ here's to gold bars. I mean, slotted in your, and I was waiting in close, but it has saved me. Like two gobos Yeah, yeah. And money aside, I know being happy is is something that only you can can design for yourself. So life is designed by you. Not by anyone else. If If being some of us actually be have a very happy being said, it is a fact of life. I'm not know, some people really enjoy being sad. Happy, right. Talk to us a little bit about that. Like what

is that? Like for me when I think of what that looks like, for an example is I think a lot of people don't even realise they're sad. Like they've just normalised feeling empty or feeling numb. Like I've seen it with my own eyes or that are another example of I've seen people that have like bend together and they're talking about their partner that's not

with them. Um, but they've like normalised that's okay, just to settle on a type of relationship or to settle and like somebody's not happy and, and that's actually not normal, what Arjun are talking about, that's actually you being okay with being happy? Yeah, what do I mean? Okay. being sad. I mean, yeah, heavy being said, like, a lot of us settle for stuff, settle for a partner, you know, because we want someone who's gonna make us feel safe, make us

feel good. We always settle, why do you settle and settle and settle for, you know, you're amazing, you're amazing human being. You know, ladies and gentlemen, just understand this.

God, or whoever created the earth, like, you know, if you're a Christian, if you're Buddhist, if you're Hindu, if you're Muslim, whoever you want, however you believe the world was created, or whoever created the world, understand this, the person the entity or the magical powers are created, created amazing, beautiful waterfalls, create a beautiful ravines, mountains, forest flowers, and then they went like, you know what this world needs.

This will need a Colleen this world needs an RG this will need a you and you and you. And they may do because you are special. And they put you here, because you Beautify. And you beautify the world, to special, each of us are different in our own way to special and beautiful. So why settle when you were chosen? To be here. I love that. Mic, drop.

Boom, Mic drop. Um, and that's something I know, I teach a lot a lot I've talked about in the podcast before, but you are always choosing your reality, and you're always choosing whether you're gonna stay stuck.

And I think the other thing that I love about what RJ story and just in general is, it's never too late to choose again, it's never too late to say like I'm choosing another life whether you're 40 Whether you're 50 Whether you're 60 Whether you're 70 Regardless of retirement, there's always a way to make more money, you can still be 70 and make more than enough money to live for the rest of your

life. So yeah, like you really can make money whatever age and you don't have to feel like that just because you're a certain age that your life is over your money's tied to someone like you really can always start it over and choose again and Tenex it so I know we have had it quite a bit so as they are do what anything else you want to leave like information with them on just like a piece of advice of life anything with crypto and then anything where people can find your reach out for

questions if they have any. Well, wait so I'm just talking about two things. So crypto wise guys just go figure out crypto go learn watch YouTube videos go learn because the wall is being digitised and money as we know is changing. Remember salt was currency before chocolate was currency before now I eat chocolate and salt I just put in my car you know? And then some guy use gold and they said no I don't want gold.

Some guy came up piece of paper drew some bunch of stuff on it say Oh, legal tender $10 US dollar Let's use this. And then now they have digital currency. Now we are right now witnessing an evolution, a revolution in the way money is being changed. Money has always been changing over the decades and centuries. If you are not part of this revolution, and evolution of money, you're going to be left behind. You're going to be left behind remember that.

And when you get left behind your future might be bleak. So go learn about cryptocurrencies go understand how it's going to work. Because right now, we all become a digital tribe. And the AI robots are going to take us over trust me, everything is in the movie is true. The AI robots are going to take over us, we're going to be jobless. Like, come on, the dinosaurs died. There must be something before the dinosaurs, right? Yeah, no, no, it was there before the dinosaurs and

dinosaurs that we're here. Now. The people are creating AI are literally creating our doom. Like, to me it is real. Yeah, I would say yeah, so why not everyone? I definitely agree with RJ you want to get in crypto. I know, I invested like a little bit earlier this year, like a little bit in certain trading. Definitely. Like, I think like 10 or 20x, whatever it was, but definitely works. You definitely can do it.

It's not that hard. And I definitely just think go to YouTube start like YouTube in which ones you like, it's a great way even if you just do like a documentary just to get like basic information, but I think everyone should have, you know, if you can anywhere from 500 to at least $10,000 in there as a principle starting. And just go for that you can lose and still sleep like a baby. Yeah. So um, so yeah. And the other thing is, if you have questions for RJ, where should they reach out

to you on Facebook? I guess on Facebook, I guess. Yeah. So I'll tag him and the Facebook and Instagram. And I'll also in the show notes have RJ Facebook. So you guys can always go and ask him questions and check him out. But He's extraordinary. And I'm so grateful that you shared your time with us. Is there anything else that you want to say besides the crypto or do you feel like it's complete? Doing crypto, I think it's complete. You just have to wait and see

what happens. And you know, if you're not in it, you're not in it. If you want to wait, you wait, we can force you to do whatever you want, in whatever you don't want to do. Make your own decisions. And, you know, go be happy and build generational wealth for your kids. Because now's a great time to get in crypto. And we know in the next 1015 years, there's going to be big and if you can build generational wealth for your grandkids for your kids, why the

hell not. Okay. Now, on that note, I just want everybody to be happy sending all of you love and magic. Remember, no matter what your situation is how bad it is. There's always someone who will change places with you in a heartbeat. And just keep fighting for it. Keep going for it and just make sure you get everything that you want. 100% Yeah, no, I thank you so much. RJ. We're super grateful to everyone listening. If you have any questions you can always reach out to me on

Facebook or Instagram. Instagram is I am calling Gallagher and Facebook is the Colleen Gallagher. valeted both in the Senate. So we're super grateful guys and have an amazing day.