Welcome to The Circle, an on-going conversation about men’s work, men's embodiment practices, and personal growth from the perspective of two queer men. Hosted by Eric Bomyea and men’s embodiment coach, Tim Bish, together, we investigate the purpose of men’s work, how queer men can participate, what value they might receive, and the unique value they add in the pursuit of growth for all. We also explore the challenges, dynamics, and transformative practices that empower men to show up authentically in the world.
Each episode goes all in on themes like masculine and feminine energies, intuition, purpose, integrity, and brotherhood. We offer in-depth discussions on breaking through societal expectations, healing personal wounds, and developing a sense of presence. Drawing from the teachings of Amir Khalighi, David Deida, John Wineland, and our own experiences, we guide listeners through the journey of leading a conscious, integrated, and impactful life.
Join us as we explore what it means to show up powerfully as queer men, navigate the dynamics of men’s spaces, and offer insights that benefit all men—gay, straight, or otherwise. Whether you're redefining your relationship masculinity, connecting with your intuition, or pushing past your edges, The Circle is your space for growth, connection, and transformation.
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In this episode of The Circle , we explore two core approaches in men’s work: masculine embodiment (clear, structured, linear steps) versus feminine embodiment (open-ended, unstructured, fluid exploration) and discover how each can expand your personal growth. Join us as we explore why perfectionism often emerges in structured, linear practices and how letting go of the “right way” through unstructured, flow-based methods can transform your mindset. We also discuss the profound impact these cont...
In this episode of The Circle , we challenge the prevailing notion that a man’s worth is measured by what he does, rather than who he truly is. We examine the cultural pressures that drive men to define themselves by their careers, achievements, and external success markers—and how this often leads to disconnection, stress, and a loss of authentic identity. Drawing from men’s work principles and queer embodiment perspectives, we explore why accomplishments alone can’t sustain real fulfillment. I...
In this episode of The Circle, we tackle the transformative process of letting go of harmful narratives and limiting beliefs that hold us back. Drawing inspiration from a recent embodiment circle, we reflect on common struggles men face—feeling unloved, undeserving of love, or carrying shame, particularly as queer men. What You’ll Learn: * How to identify and confront self-imposed limitations and societal expectations. * Practical tools for detoxing emotional and mental blocks. * The power of cr...
Men’s Work often asks us to meet our edge—the point where we encounter discomfort and resistance. In this episode, we discuss what it means for men to confront their edges and how Men’s Work can help them push through to new levels of personal growth. We share practices for navigating these moments and embracing the transformation that happens on the other side.
In this special episode, hosts Timothy Bish and Eric Bomyea take you behind the mic to share their stories, their connection to men’s work, and why they’re passionate about creating a space for queer men to explore personal growth, embodiment, and spirituality. Discover how Tim’s journey as a professional dancer and acupuncturist intertwined with his passion for embodiment practices, and hear Eric’s powerful story of transformation through sobriety, entrepreneurship, and finding community in Pro...
Join us as we recap our recent men’s embodiment retreat. Tim has attended eight retreats, while this was Eric’s first. We discuss the power of showing up in these spaces, especially as a queer man, and the challenges and opportunities it presents. We cover what happens at a men’s retreat, the growth that unfolds, and how queer men can show up authentically in spaces that challenge traditional masculinity.
Holding space is one of the most powerful gifts men can offer to others. In this episode, we explore the art of holding space, creating space for self and others, and the concept of sacred drala—a spiritual awareness that enhances presence and intention. We dive into how men can develop these skills to foster deeper connections and create environments of safety, trust, and openness.
What role does intuition play in Men’s Work? This episode explores how intuition goes beyond instinct or perception, becoming a key tool in decision-making and personal growth. We discuss how men can develop and trust their intuition, avoid over-analysis, and align with their deeper truths. Through embodiment and mindfulness practices, we explore how intuition can be cultivated to help men live more authentically.
Presence is key to Men’s Work, offering men the ability to ground themselves and develop a heightened awareness of their emotions and actions. In this episode, we discuss what it means to be fully present and the importance of embodiment practices in helping men become more aligned with themselves. Tim shares his experiences leading men’s circles and how presence supports personal growth and relationship dynamics.
In this special episode, we sit down with Colin Stack-Troost, a queer psychotherapist, to explore the unique mental health challenges that men face, especially queer men. We discuss why men’s work and embodiment practices can be transformative tools for all men to heal, grow, and find connection. Colin brings his expertise to highlight how men’s shared cultural expectations and pressures can create obstacles, and why finding spaces where men can mirror and validate each other’s feelings is cruci...
In this episode, we investigate the core needs of men, particularly the search for purpose and how Men’s Work can align men with their intentions and values. We explore how living with integrity and devotion allows men to lead with love, authenticity, and impact, focusing on collective well-being rather than personal gain.
In this episode, we revisit the dynamic interplay between masculine and feminine energies. We explore how these energies manifest in daily life, beyond the confines of gender and sex, and how men—especially queer men—can harness them for deeper self-expression and personal growth. We also discuss Yin and Yang, Alpha and Omega, and how to find balance in a way that feels authentic to who you are.
In this debut episode, we explore the foundations of Men’s Work and embodiment practices, with a focus on how these tools uniquely benefit queer men. We discuss the Provincetown Men’s Embodiment Circle, the purpose of this podcast, and our personal journeys. Topics include the integration of masculine and feminine energies, challenging societal norms, and how Men’s Work helps heal psychological wounds and create deeper connections with ourselves and others
