¶ Intro / Opening
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¶ Why the old idea of hustle needs an update
Hey, welcome to the show. Guess what? Hustle.
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Now. Hold on, you're saying what time out? I was told to hustle. And I had to hustle to make, you know, my dreams come true. And and to be clear, uh you gotta work hard. And maybe in the old definition of hustle, as in work hard, that is true. However, hustle has come to mean a different thing. It has come to mean Perhaps even movement with no progress. So this is a reminder that without the right focus and vision, burning the candle at both ends
is really only gonna leave you burnt out and unable to do what matters most to you. It will not get you what you want. Not really, that is.
¶ The wake-up call: working 20-hour days and finally crashing into real rest
And what I know for sure is that it will make you happy. If you don't believe me I didn't either. I had uh what I would consider to be a wake up call. After habitually sleeping for five to six hours max. and working up to twenty hours a day. I think it's fair to say I was a workaholic. I finally, at some little moment, I took a much needed vacation to Hawaii where I spent the next two weeks with zero things on my schedule, with nothing on my schedule. Now.
For the first few days of that, I would say for the first six days, I slept fourteen hours a night. This changed everything for me. I became aware that after fourteen hours of sleep for six days in a row. Now again, I'm I'm not advocating that you do that all the time, but clearly I was operating at a deficit.
¶ What changed after sleeping 14 hours a night for nearly a week
But getting real sleep for some extended period of time changed everything. I became aware that I was nicer. I was way more creative. way more self-aware, in touch with my own wants and needs. And I simply felt more alive. It's a big statement. I get it. I get it. But what that experience did a number of years ago, it kicked me into a mode where I have since that time tracked my sleep every single night. And I do now everything I can to spend up to eight hours a night in bed.
I target that. I target eight hours between the sheets. Sometimes it can be a little bit more, occasionally it's a little bit less, and sometimes if I'm between the sheets for eight hours, I don't always sleep all eight of those hours. And yet sometimes I'm between the sheets for nine and a half hours and I sleep eight point two five. The point is, is that I actually worked on sleep. I got better at it.
And it was l it was like a it was like a catapult. It shot me forward in so many different areas of my life in the best way.
¶ How sleep became a catapult for creativity, awareness, and aliveness
Now, the secret hack to a long and productive life and to, I will say, work, creative work especially, that you can be proud of is surprisingly not hustle. But it's more rest. It's better awareness around caring for yourself. Again, qualifier, asterisk, all this stuff. This is not to say that if you do not if you want to be the best, that you do not have to work hard. Not saying that.
¶ The secret hack to a long, productive, creative life
I'm saying prioritization of rest and sleep and awareness of those things and your needs there relative to working endlessly. That is a thing that you ought to focus on if you want to be more successful, more happy and Most importantly, fulfilled. Now, I learned firsthand from my own experience and I've seen it s in so many lives, the lives of so many people. Again, hundreds of people that I've either hired or worked alongside.
uh people that are in my peer group, friends that I've talked to on h hosted on the podcast. those who are the most fulfilled are not striving to achieve some impossible standard. Some standard for the standard's sake. They work hard, And they also play hard, but they have intention around their work. They rest also when their bodies and their minds, and I'll even say their spirits, when your soul needs it.
The cool thing about these people, and I have become one of these people and I'm asking you to become one. Is that this posse of people understand that life is long. And to stay in the game, you have to learn to rest rather than quit.
¶ Learning to rest rather than quit
That is my challenge to you this week. So if you're you know, wondering, wow, this seems radically different. Or maybe you're saying, Yeah, I can see this. You've been talking about this for a while, Chase. I just wanted to be very, very clear on today's micro show that rest is the new hustle. That uh awareness of your body's needs nutritionally from sleep, uh mitigating, managing stress, that is what matters.
In order to truly succeed and to truly be fulfilled, you can't just achieve something. And you certainly don't achieve something all at one time, right? Success, fulfillment by extension, these are things that are earned or understood over time. They're cultivated over time. So I ask you again in today's micro show, do you have expectations that you achieve all of this stuff in an instant?
Or is loving the process is moving forward every day? Is that something that you are able to get excited about? These idea th the idea of going viral and having that be the thing that sustains your career or your ego. That is a thing of the past, right? The one hit wonder. If it wasn't done back in the eighties and nineties for music culture, it is done everywhere now. It's over.
What we are moving towards now is way less of a flash in the pan. It's not uh success at all cost and then clawing onto the, you know, that it's like this the fingernails on the blackboard, just hoping to holding on to that little granule of success, right? Back in the old world life was short and you only had one shot. Today, that's normally the case. Life is long.
¶ Why life is long, and why chasing one flash of success is the wrong game
You will, if you cultivate the right aspects of yourself, if you pursue your curiosity, if you allow yourself the time to rest, to refresh, and then to go hard when it's required, if you get to do, if you explore seasons. The seasons of your life not dissimilar to the seasons that you experience. If you think about things in that fashion.
No longer are you chasing 15 seconds of fame, right? You now will have the opportunity to build many things that matter, that matter to you, your peer group, your friends, whatever your core interests are.
¶ Working smarter, not just harder
This is everything about learning to work smarter rather than just harder. Right? W effort over time. As long as that slope is going up to the right, you are becoming better, a better human, smarter, wiser about your own needs and wants. If that slope of the line is going up to the right, it's not to say that there's not going to be, you know, highs and lows along that slope. But as long as the slope is going up and to the right, that should be the goal, the process of getting 1% better.
Now, in order to be a part of this revolution, one that I call the new pattern, the pattern for success and fulfillment, not just success at all costs, success and fulfillment.
¶ The difference between dumb hustle and smart hustle
We all have to learn to distinguish between dumb hustle and smart hustle. Remember, it's not that you can't work hard. You can and you should. It's just that if you don't learn how to do it right, You'll get left behind. Now of course, doing it right, right in whose eyes? This is where you come in. This is where your ability to be self aware.
to do enough repetitions to start to learn what works for you and what does not, an internal reflection rather than an outside look for meaning or rather than a judgment of someone else. How can you do that for yourself? That's what matters a lot in your next chapter. As the writer Anne Lamotte says, sometimes you're not blocked, you're just empty.
¶ "Sometimes you're not blocked. You're just empty."
Finding ways to fill your tank on an ongoing and dependable basis allows us to get reinspired over and over again to create for the next day, month, week, season. Self-care, sleep, not grinding yourself to a pulp ad infinitum. That is a new way of thinking that ought to That you really ought to sit with, that you really ought to think clearly on. Take a long walk in the woods and think about how you are to yourself, toward yourself.
that developing skills in this area are as critical, perhaps, as the skill, the craft that you have worked so hard to hone, whether you're an entrepreneur, uh, a painter, a playwright, Whatever you do, the skill of self-awareness and awareness of what you need in order to be fulfilled and successful on a long-term basis, because in this new world, life is long.
¶ Why harmony beats balance
The ability, the leverage that you can create when you know how to integrate these attributes into your life. are going to be game changing. Remember, it's not just about life balance, it's about harmony. And the difference between balance is you do twenty percent of everything. You have a career that you spend twenty percent on, a family that you spend twenty percent on, your own personal development.
I'm talking about understanding harmony. How can you if if you need to over-index on family, how can you then come back in sort of a wave? to the work that you left behind or into your personal relationships or to your intimate relationships. This is about integrating. It's about developing such an awareness of your own needs, wants.
An understanding that there is a new way of working in the world and applying effort toward integrating those things that work for you. That's what the next chapter is all about.
¶ Short-term urgency, long-term patience
So I wrap up with how I begin. Hustle in its underclothes is stupid. Learning to work long, learning to be patient, short-term urgency, long-term patience. That's what ought to matter most to you. It's risky for me to prescribe this. And I had to think long and hard about it. However, in reviewing all of my notes, all of my friends, the most successful and most importantly, the most fulfilled.
Have at some point come to this realization. That's why I feel very comfortable going on record today and saying this is a should, this is an ought, if not a must. You have more time than you think. Do not let that time, however, undermine the urgency with which you should take this on. I'm excited for you. Maybe you're doing it already. It took me a long time and I have to say, uh, I feel
Um emb a little bit embarrassed that I worked the way I did for as long as I did without some sort of reconciliation. And yet, life is a process. Here we are. We're all in this together. I wanna say thank you so much for listening. All right, hey, before you go, thanks so much for listening.
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